₦airaland Forum

Cadexa:
your payment is very small try and review the price

I know it’s small .
Unfortunately that’s what I can afford. Along the way I can tip the person 25$ more depends on how I grab his teaching.

Make una rest abeg.

Tinubu self, why u go Dey do drug wjen u know say you get presidential ambition.


And don’t they dig his past when he was the governor of Lagos ,

Abeg leave am, or make dem give Atiku the runner up the post

jesmond3945:
a woman that is making 800k a month and you still want her to cook everyday or let me say you still want her to give her husband food everyday? Are you normal at all?
Even Op is complaining that she doesnt wash his clothes. Common man in 2023?
You people see women as machine in that shithole country.
Somebody that is still nurturing a baby. Have you child minded or baby sitted before and still add 800 k per month hustle to it. If they born Op well make e divorce the wife na im loose. 800k x12 with 2 kids she would ball hard. She wants a bright future for her kids.

Let both parties work as equal partners. There is no work reserved for any gender.

You’re a very dumb person and you’re not supposed to be putting mouth on matters on here.
So because she’s earning just 800k , she should neglect her wifely duty ? So the money is more important than the family ? Now I know the kind of person you are, you worship money in your family.


You’re just being mischievous because no where from his post did he mention that his wife should be cooking every day . But atleast, she should show concern not I-don’t-care attitude. All this simply means , the money has boosted her ego and she doesn’t seem like a good mother to me. Even the maid dictates what her children eat ! Arrant nonsense!


She even denies him sex which is the height of it.
Op earns about the same amount or more , yet he provides financial and emotional support for his family .

So na the man supposed Dey work like Jackie and sacrificing his comfort while his partner just sit back and relax.


I pity the op, your wife has sized you up, divorce her and marry someone that understands importance of sacrifice for the family.



And mind you, even if she earns billions monthly, she’s still the wife and it’s expected of her to discharge her duty efficiently same as the husband( if one is tired , the other comes in to help, not that one will feel to big to help or sacrifice for the family). If she divorces now, she’s already a single mother and no sensible man created by God will settle for that secondhand good-for-nothing just because of money.

I know a dumb human being like you will settle for that cos u don see sugar mommy earning meager 800k .

Rubbish . No qoute me again abeg. U Dey vex me

Na today I know some nairalanders don’t have sense and most of them use textbook or Hollywood to advice people on marriage . fôolish set of people

jesmond3945:
like i said you are not doing your wife a favour by helping in the house. Your talk of surprising her by helping her in the house is just being naive to say the least. It is your house, it is your food. I am not saying you should not provide or drop finances. However, that you are providing finanaces is commendable. Your wife is doing same. If you divorce your wife now, she would assume responsibility over the house immediately. So is not a big deal bro. If you can help in the house, if not continue to provide for the family.
I am sorry she insulted you for going to the market. However, you are going to the market for you, for your kids, for the kids, for the family. You are not doing your wife any favor by going to the market. If she insults you for doing the right thing call her to order.

Continue ironing, is the right thing to do. If she deliberately leaves your clothes in the basket, then she is unhappy with you. Put yours in the machine, when you see hers, you leave it as well.

I told you, there is nothing like roles. She is earning, you are earning no big deal. This is the modern world. She is ambitious. She is doing it for the kids. If you complain about it too much, she would leave you and she has her own money.

You have to change your orientation about things so that you enjoy your marriage.

well; from this submission, you’re very very wrong and it shows you’ve never been married or coordinated people before. Someone is dropping over 90% of his income which amounts to 98% of financial needs of the house just to give the family the best and you’re here telling him to still do all that ? Are you just dumb or what?

Fine, let’s agree she’s ‘too tired ‘ for sex, is she too tired to cook food too? Or to instruct the maid to cook ?

Why are you so dumb and inconsiderate ? Do u even know how much of emotional pains he’s going through to resort to coming on here?


He said the maid does 90% of house chores to extend of deciding what the kids will eat , I ask you , what exactly is the wife doing ? What is she contributing?

Is the op not going through any stress too? Why must he be the only one sacrificing his money and comfort for the family ? What’s the essence of such marriage?

You’re saying what the op is doing is not a big deed , ohh, can you sacrifice 95% of your money and comfort for your family ?

Hypocrisy of the highest order.



Funnily enough , at old age, their children will still celebrate the the wife more than the op. So what’s the benefit?
If the op is lacking in some aspects, why can’t she call his attention to it or you expect the man to be as perfect as an angel?

She’s an adult, should communication be a problem for her? Why are you justifying bad behavior? You sounding like kobojunkie.

jesmond3945:
she is snapping bro. because she is exhausted and to her wits end. Try and do the assignment I gave you. Stay with the kids for 1 month, cook, add hustle to it, add church to it. Then come back and give report. Her church activites is an avenue for her to let off steam. Finally, women see action more than sitting down to talk. Even if you sit down with woman talk finish na that thing wey dey her mind she go do. Anything wey you know wey good and wey go better the family just do am.

lol. Funny but true

chatinent:
Act like there's another woman somewhere.Be out, don't disturb her for anything. If she doesn't cook, with a smile, go out and return filled. Just do whatever it is that will make her feel you aren't feeling her attitude. Do it for two months.

She'll come tracking and wanting you.

honestly speakimg , this is not the right way to go about it. This is a marriage not some random boyfriend / girlfriend relationship. It’s not as easy as you put it to ignore or pretend to neglect your partner all in the name of trying to win them over.


That being said,


The truth is, when a woman is done with you , bro , she’s done. There’s nothing u can do to bring her back.

This kind of thing happens mostly when a wife earns more than the husband. 60% of time, a woman will respect/obey/submit to you because you have what she doesn’t have .
The moment she has what you own, she’ll mostly see u as someone she can’t respect .


Unfortunately, divorce is the best option. Why? She already said it that if the marriage can’t work , they should dissolve it.






Funnily enough , this doesn’t mean that the op didn’t vet her before marriage , it simply means people change.

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Enyinne:
Binance no go know say 1 person no come market. (Eke oha amaghi na ofu onye abiaghi ahia ) i don help u translate to igbo

Make I help am translate to yoruba



Ojà ìgbò, kò mò pénìkan ò wá.

Pk01:
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thank you my boss .
I just want person wey go teach me from start to finish , I want to be spoon fed, I no fit Dey read page by page I no get time tbh.



Btc trading get level. Normal buying and reselling from offline suppliers don spoil as most people sell directly on exchange and even if you want to be buying from them it’s no so profitable and the risk is high cause most sellers these days na con artists ( you know what I meant).



That being said
If you have capital of let’s say 5m, create ads offer on paxful or binance , set your offer 2.5% below market price( like say .98) , keep buying ( don’t worry, sellers go come themselves) but the moment the market rises above 2.5% please sell. No Dey wait for plenty profit.

You should be making ATLEAST 100-150k with that capital daily .
But you need account with good rep too. Look around people Dey sell. I recommend that capital cos your profit is realized on time unlike trading with small small amount.




But me I no get patience to Dey monitor trade upandan so I deal with buying and selling of gift cards , funds, sending gift abroad, selling gv, vpn , Netflix etc .
Even though I won’t advice you to go into that , make debt no kill u.


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3 years ago, I used to be very active in this community, but now, I’m lost.

I’m willing to pay 50$ btc to whoever can teach me from start to finish ( from beginning to implementation) . The truth is I’m too lazy to start all over so cut me that talk of reading from page one, i have other biz to attend to. I can send the 50$ to any escrow like wese90 , so when I finally set it up , the escrow releases your money .

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Rip. She died for warfront

Referee na part time job

Fscebook and Instagram Dey available for cheap girls.


On Instagram, click on nearby , you’ll see plenty girls .
On fscebook , Join rant headquarters , crush and all those mumu groups,
Shoot your shot.





Better still use tinder or michat .

I know people can make more than that in a week working for themselves with the right skills .

The question is, which company pays 1m per month, what are they into ? How long will it take one to earn that working with such company .


No be to just Dey drop random ngo , or about your friend wey no exist

onadana:
She was a narcissist.Have you ever met someone who actually did wrong and bro...this person will be so sorrowful, crying, catarrh all over her nose...you will start doubting if really you are not the one that offended her and start apologizing,you the victim ooo.Run oooo

you dodged a nuclear bomb . She’ll make you feel like you’re the problem

Lol, comot the cockroach and eat joor .
Dey there Dey do like butty

That guy na beast

Lol

Other tribes have theirs too abeg.

flokii:
@OP Nice one.. first TV station in Nigeria (now NTA) was founded by Yorubas.

Top three Federal Unis in Nigeria, UNILAG, UI & OAU are in Yorubaland.. I intentionally left out the glorified secondary schools called private unis except maybe Afe Babalola University, the rest are nonsense if you ask me.

Top Teaching hospitals are in Yorubaland.. worthy mentions include LUTH, LASUTH, OAUTH, Igbobi orthopedic hospital etc.

Just imagine a Yoruba country without other aliens and noisy troublemakers trying to impose a Chinedu and a beneficiary of corruption he calls wife on Yorubas.. imagine the greatness.

Our yonger generation Yorubas must wake up, we are pace setters not sidon and look like some hateful ethnic groups in Nigeria want to paint us. We have it all; brain, wealth, natural resources, airports, seaports, you name it.

It's threads like this I want to be seeing going forward.

bro , you mentioned top teaching hospital and you failed to mention almighty UCH? ha ? A whole university college hospital? Abeg edit am asap .

onumadu:
The truth is that Anambra state is growing in LEAPS!
Nearly every town there hosts one important business hub or the other.
I nearly lost my way when I visited the building materials market in Ogidi.
In fact, give Anambra about 15 years more, it will rival Lagos. Quote me.
Now, imagine other South East states!
Nna, if we pull this return move off successfully, it will be the most savvy strategic move we Igbo have made in DECADES.
it will change our politics completely, and massively disempower our sworn haters in Nigeria.
Every South east governor should actually commit to providing infrastructural development to support these moves.
Soludo seems to understand this well, but we shall keep his feet in the fire to ensure he never backslides.

you’re very funny. Do you know what Lagos would have become then?
Will Lagos economy remain stagnant? Lol.


Anambra will be doing well like you said , but it can’t come close to Lagos bro.
Infact no state in Nigeria can come close except maybe ogun state

If not that I trade btc daily , I would have be in doubt if people actually make kobo from this shît. Haba now.
I put money , e dip, I comot money , e pump. You short, E long. You long, E short . Crypto sabi make person look like a fôol wey no know wetin him Dey do.











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That being said, I buy all giftcards and funds of any country. Very reliable 💯

That David of a guy be like an opportunist

Nice. Person wey snap am get sense

Broke Men go through a lot but no one is ready for that conversation.

onome2013:
Is there any relationship or marriage without issues? She should apologize with great humility and submission to the fullest
And the man has to put it behind him by forgiving her completely. Is a big lesson that she has learned and that will starred her to seeing other side of life

As if you can take that ..

Lol. If I forgive her then she’s in trouble . It might take 20 years, but I’ll take my pound of flesh ! When I’m ready to do that, I’ll leave her with no option, and ensure she remains miserable and bitter for the rest of her life.

kellyjc:

Making money isn't easy but being broke is the most difficult.
People can only pretend for a while but the moment you stay broke longer than expected then everything good about you disappears in the eyes of your supposed loved ones.
Poverty can also make him to accept her apology depending on his level of poverty.

say no more

I’ll go for apple.

If you don’t want make I swear for u, come and complete this Tori. I keep refreshing this page

Auxigen:
Really? Is crypto all about doubling money?

Ohh , is it about dividing and subtracting money ?

No difference between ffk and some obidients. Dem fit each other