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I don’t do married women. I just don’t like it. I Dey always fear say if the man catch me , him fit kill me besides , the lady in question signed life time commitment to someone , so I won’t be the reason she breaks the vow. Her pussy no worth it.


Girls plenty

Who is the greatest of all time, like for Messi share for Ronaldo

Omo this guy don enter trouble

ruggedtimi:
Na so one lecturer for my PG sch dey carry old sch Benz 190 come uni, omo I was able to stumble upon his daughter's facebk page and she posted her pic in the man's compound omo I could see latest range Rover and 2014 g wagon, Prado jeep with a 2019 Camry. I fear this lecturer. So many of Dem don't fluant their wealth

how was he able to afford those cars you mentioned?
Cos I know 70% lecturers don’t earn up to a million in a month and 90% don’t earn 2m .

So with responsibilities and bills , how was he able to buy those cars ( estimation of those cars go pas 100m naira), it’s either you’re lying or catching cruise.

I know you’ll talk of their articles and grants , let’s analyze it , no lecturer can own that in Nigeria except he’s into big biz.


That being said, the guy in the video is a fool, he’s using a car of 6m , and I can bet my balls say na the only thing wey him get be that compared to person wey get responsibilities.

Anyway

If you didn’t see the woman face to face , na one guy from okokomaiko scammed u.

1Sharon:
You don't even comprehend my post and you want to talk about "distant reasoning mentality"

I'm not responsible for your lack of comprehension.

your comment na balderdash . No Dey put mouth for thing wey u no understand. U hear?
Person scam u, u Dey reason say she go capitalize on the insult ?


Indeed most of y’all have distant reasoning mentality .

Now you have two options ,
Ignore my quote or buy 1 and get 10 for free

[quote author= post=122197189]No be only 500 MILLION,
Na 500 ZILLION.
Comedian 🤣


Dem din give dis one chop.
E chop am like indomie.....rush rush!

Keep believing everything you dey see for social media ehn?
Na over thinking go reset your brain.[/quote]the way these guys throw figures ehn

Invest4growth:
What is bad in being a single mother Sir. If you exited a marriage that was toxic to remain alive? As a single mum, she worked hard on her craft to pay over N100million for her freedom. Bros let us think deeply before we come on line to comment

you’re the one assuming what is not.
I said that doesn’t negate the fact that she’s a single mother. Did I say anything is bad about that?

BloomingDale:
As if she cares about the opinion of a Nairaland nonentity. Yeye dey smell. I just like how Tiwa Savage relegated fools like you to the background after her sex video.

baba re ni foôl. Oponu omo

Igbo people sabi business no be small .
Give an average Igbo guy 500k in two years, he’ll give you back 2m.

Fab21:
Seems some are comparing or don't understand 'living life and surviving'.

Sincerely, like someone have said earlier they're quite different.

why did you delete this post?
I had to screenshot cos there’s so much sense in it

Xxxxtentacion2:
what opportunities are you blabbing about....
Shey you no dey poor as you dey type all this rubbish...
If you were this smart to see opportunities why are you not as rich as Elon Musk...🤣🤣🤣

Keep quiet my friend you don't know anything if you had any atom of knowledge you would have used it for better things instead of arguing senselessly everyday on this forum...

You get time, that guy will get you so frustrated so tey e go be like make u slap am though phone me no Dey reply am

Gerrard59:
It is like compound interest. When the first family is established, invariably, successive generations would become more established and even wealthy. Na part of the reasons some African Americans say the success of Nigerian-Americans should not be used to judge the success of black people in the US because those Nigerians by virtue of going through the US immigration system, are the best and brightest from Nigeria. The same would play out in Canada compared to blacks who have been domiciled there for many generations.

It is usually hard for the first generation and maybe second. A lot of sacrifices and delayed gratification have to be made. One major way is to have few children instead of many children. That way, little resources can be managed for the benefit of everyone. Another is delayed gratification. The first generation should postpone some purchases and expenses so that their offsprings' education can be catered for properly. Education still remains the surest way to a middle class lifestyle in a country where things work and the economy is pretty good. Buhari and his cohorts have severely destroyed the Nigerian economy. Also, insecurity has rendered many people poorer than before.

In developed countries, especially those who got developed and prosperous within a short period of time, parents pay very close attention to their children's education and development. This applies to Singapore, Taiwan, Japan, China, South Korea etc. For instance, Chinese who migrated to the west during the '80s and '90s faced many challenges, but they persevered and were focused. Today, their children are reaping the fruits of their parents' labour and enjoying life. At the same time, it is very important for the first and second generations to discipline themselves not to be wayward. Again, these Asians know it so well, and very few are wayward compared to other races. Waywardness can destroy everything the previous generation built. To build is hard, to destroy is easy.

With the Internet comes easy access to information, however, this means greater and stiffer competition for scarce resources. People from less financially comfortable backgrounds should be properly and timely informed, plan their lives well and play delayed gratification. It is hard at first (nothing good comes easy), but it pays in the long run.

omo, you’re one of the reasons I’m addicted to nairaland. 99% of people will never understand the bolded

sisisioge:
You are one of the lucky ones. And yes, there are some exceptions to the phenomenon who show a lot of zeal and resilience to break out of the chain. I totally agree with the OP.

the guy you quoted doesn’t understand the difference between living life and surviving.

what he’s achieved is still average and has not stood the test of time. For a person who comes from an humble background to create generational wealth, he needs to be extremely lucky and super smart.
Family and environment play vital roles in what we become in life Walai ta lai.
You need to walk extra extra extra miles and be super lucky to defeat those two factors .

It seems people mistake wealth for building 3 bedroom bungalow and using muscle camry. Something wey be say if him get serious health issues, all him property no go solve am.

I’m not underrating his achievements as I’m still struggling too in the grand scheme of thing , but make we Dey tell our selves the reality .

woginid967:
You can make money from NOTHING.... I can tell you many ways i have made money from nothing.... So pls practically your family background has nothing to do with how great you will become. Ask obama who was in kenya and years later became USA president....

See children of the privileged like tinubu, can only use their fathers name.... But those of us from poor or average family generations are the ones breaking through now in tech, social media, etc.

No diabolism, no shortcuts, no mago mago.

So that you dont think I'm marketing anything or anyone, let me tell you how i made money as little as 570k, i was broke and hungry for days, family couldnt help, I am good at making friends and acquaintances, so my WhatsApp status at that time was about 746 views. At that time, i have been on hinger strike for 4 days, drinking water and visiting people hoping they'll give me food... Even bricklayer job was not available yet I'm a graduate, I sent one message to all the 700+ people that I need 500 to 1k for urgent help because i have not eaten and i was sick and need medical checkup and also I will refund the next month, well not all of them replied, some blocked me but i got 570k that week, with some promising foodstuff and others telling me not to refund. I used 100k to take care of myself for two months. Invested the rest in crypto and bale of clothes from Onitsha, which i started selling online ad delivering by myself. To cut this story short, i posted on my status thanking everyone and telling them what I did with the money, guess what, more started giving till i got 970k over the following 2weeks.... by the 4th month, i put my profit plus the donations together and bought a car for uber making 460k monthly, and the rest is history, under 7 months from zero to business man. It is my own story.

See, you cant be broke poor and hostile to friends.... Thats death. If you dont have money, at least be friendly, and with little wise idea you condition will change.


If you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, you'll be successful, period

Bro, from your write up, you’re still average and yet to find your feet. What u managed to achieve can only take care of your mouth and maybe 1or 2 highest .
By the time bills pile up, you’ll realize you’re not far from square 1 and if you manage to chest the bills , when you die, the struggle continues. You’re yet to create a generational wealth with that so you’re still not far from poverty. We’re not talking about surviving here , we’re talking about living life .

Don’t get me wrong, I know your story is motivating by sensitizing people to think out of the box, but I still maintain that creating generation wealth and living extremely affluent life have to do with your family background and environment most time.

Tinubu offsprings have higher chance to be successful than you are even if they’re not THAT hard working and smart , while you on the other hand will need to be extremely lucky and smart to even ‘compete’ not to talk of beating them to wealth-building games.


I’m in no way attacking you , I hope you read this with a balanced perspective.

ahnie:
Get a job and quit this hating.

If you don't mind, there's an opening for a guy that can grill chicken.i would want you to apply
@op

U sabi cook food and human being join
U Dey bring gun to knife 🔪 fight

Congrats ma.


still doesn’t negate the fact that you’re a hôe and single mother

Ok. Tife270

1. Before a woman agrees to come around , ensure you throw sexual talk in between conversation on WhatsApp , doing this would have prepared her ahead . Although , if a mature woman who’s not your fam or business partner agrees to visit you alone, she’s already concluded in her mind to fhuck u, it’s left for you to package yourself well .


2. When she comes, if you’re living in a self con, e don finish , make she sit with you on bed, dont try to impress her and don’t appear desperate before her.
Be bold and touch anywhere apart from coming directly for her breast-this will make her uncomfortable and restless. When you begin to touch her, youself go know weda to proceed or not, if she gives u green light, proceed to touching and fôndling her breast from the outside, afterwards, plant a devilish kiss on her lips and watch her get soaked .


To be sure she’s in the mood and not forced, naturally when she’s soaked, 90% of time , she won’t be able to control herself so she’ll take it up from there by holding your neck and locking her lips with yours, if she’s a hoè she’ll look in to your eyes while doing this, if she’s not, she’s close her eyes. Whichever, continue this forèplay and romance until you notice she’s shaking and sweating.


Take of her gown/skirt/jean, watch her take of her pant by herself. If she does this , it shows she’s damn in the mood and really wants u.
Attack her twins with 4-4-3 formation , stand up and direct her head to your peepee, make she suck u, shift your pillow and take out your condom, well well you know the rest .
don’t worry nature will take its course easily from there .

3. If you’re using a bigger apartment where she sits on a chair , it’s simple , move closer to her, sit beside her and log on to TikTok , catch cruise then refer to no 2 above.


But if she resists after all your effort , then two things dey involved,
1. She no like u
2. She one size u up


whichever it is , don’t fall for it, enter bathroom and soapy with her pic in mind, come back to her and discharge her without mercy. Whatever she says afterward is non of your business, don’t contact her again and let her do the chasing .










Least I forget , please smell nice( use sweet perf), this also works particularly for me, I no fit fhuck women wey no smell nice .

Don’t forget to strap up , good luck my G

Ok

Op, you’re a very wicked person. After you don sleep with her multiple times? After u don make her cum and lick her tow tow wifh your useless mouth ?

Una go Dey complain say good women scarce , God kon sugar your tea, he dash you complete package with 2 extra goodies , yet you’re complaining .
From her behavior can’t you see she’s a very good woman , can’t you see it’s her ex fault?. U better man up and do the needful and don’t forget to take good care of her two kids, you can even will your properties to them. .






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Didirin agba. Ob’efon labata, oyobe ti..

U go learn

Zonefree:
Stop patronising mediocrity. University in 21st century producing bread to generate funds is a big low. It's a university for crying out loud! They should go into inventories like Biogas waste management and collaborate with government if they truly want to generate funds. Producing ordinary bread that our dearest daughter Ahnie can produce inside her 2 by 2 kitchen is laughable.

wetin Ahnie buy for your market?

Nsogbu001:
I go abroad shaa since 2019.
Omo I worked like Jacky. I investee reasonably.
Na long tory ooo Manny

Worked where? Invested on what ?
Share your story

No. But I mistakenly transferred btc to wrong wallet before . Also I mistakenly recharged someone 5k mtn,
The last two digits of my number is 73, The person’s own is 74.

2 billion? Murasi o

If the rx 350 is not from 2010 upward I no too like am .

The es Toks go make sense in this case.

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

and if the her Mom comes to live with them , who is going to bear the medical bills and other financial costs ? The expectation is that the husband will bear it. Now ask yourself , is that fair?

Klass99:
. This is one of the reasons I smile and shake my head when people want to kill themselves over the fact that they don't have children or they haven't given birth yet after a few years of marriage.

These parents you say should not stay with their married children beyond 3 days for a visit and should not stay beyond 1 week in case of a health challenge are the same people who were there when you had nothing, when you were a baby and helpless, they could have crushed you or mistreated you, but no, they did their duty by you and they did it well too.

While I think I understand your view, these sort of rules only make sense for extremely troublesome parents or in-laws who like to cause tension or drive a wedge between couples with their blood is thicker than water mantra, a toxic attitude etc. Not all parents are problematic or bad, neither do most deserve this sort of treatment from their own offspring. Like seriously, what the hell?

Some of you married folks on this forum leave me in shock and awe with your take on issues and it amuses me to no end when you guys turn around again to ask others if they are married or even call them kids because of a difference in opinions.

may God bless you beyond your expectations

frozen70:
I understand how you feel about her treatment to your mum and eventually she passed on because she didn't get the care you have planned for her due to your wife refusal to cooperate with her

Now it's her mums turn, just allow her to come the one let her provide her needs while you focus on the family needs as usual

What she denied you off is what she is requesting your approval to get, such is life

Your refusal may react to another thing

Women and manipulation .

EriMma1:
I would have told you to do what is in your mind but then, it wasn't the mother who offended you but your wife. Besides you had the choice to let your mother stay with you but you succumbed to her will and let her will prevail. So don't treat the old woman badly because of her daughters sins.

Forgive and let the old woman come. After all she would be the one to do all the care job, not you.

see manipulation as its peak