Phones › Re: Say Hello To My New Baby - Sammy S23 Ultra by seanwilliam(m): 8:19pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
The phone really really makes sense tbh, Contemplating between 14 pro max and s23 ultra.
But the downside is , my phone is still serving me 😢 |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by seanwilliam(m): 6:16pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Bullish99: ARB is currently on an uptrend mode after kissing it's temporary solid support . U might see Yellowblack post=122308844: Shut up... Na so una go det talk... Na you dey control market.... I bet you 2maro... E no go reach $2... at $2+ tomorrow. |
Phones › Re: Friends Among This Three Phone Which One I Will Go For by seanwilliam(m): 9:36am On Apr 05, 2023 |
ForestHill: Google pixel too; everything doesn't end with Sammy and Apple lol yes you’re correct |
Music/Radio › Re: Davido - Timeless Album (Full Tracklist) Audio by seanwilliam(m): 7:43am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Bullrun: Boring album something is probably wrong with your eardrum |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Won’t Marry Virgin – Comedian, Nedu (Picture) by seanwilliam(m): 8:31pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
This guy talks too much tbh |
Music/Radio › Re: Which Is Your Favourite Online Music Streaming App And Why? A General Review by seanwilliam(m): 8:29pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Like for Apple Music share for Spotify |
Career › Re: If You Are In Your Early 20's, You Need To READ This. by seanwilliam(m): 7:56pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
SonOfHercules: Pls pansophist, I have a problem. I started living with my siblings since October and I got a job by December that pays 30k per month and ever since then, they want me to foot the whole bills. Mind you, the three gals I'm living with don't wanna work. They are into hookup and want me to pay for everything thinking I'm hiding cash. The first month, I got 15k for half month and I gave them 8k for food, they went and bought cosmetics for themselves. I pretended as if I was dumb. Then after dat day they didn't give me food anymore. I hard to feed myself that month with the 7k.
The next month I got 30k and I gave them 14k for food, they went and bought cosmetics and food for themselves. After that week, there was no more food for the month.
It seemed as if they were using my head.. Then the third month, I got the 30k again and I bought foodstuffs worth 8k for the house and some clothes cos they didn't want me touching their stuffs and they got angry and went to tell my neighbors that I don't wanna give them money. After they have fed themselves and their cousins with the foodstuffs they still want me to be bringing 2k every time before they cook at home and house rent is expiring next month which we will pay same quota
PS: I'm a housekeeper for one hospital. Pls I need advice cos this stuff is driving me crazy I know this is not directed to me , but if you don’t mind, I can advise you . 1. Rule no.1 Learn how to survive alone 2. Think out of the box on how to multiply your source of income. Nobody is going to sit you down and feed you with what to do . 3. If you’re a man, please go and rent apartment of your own even if it’s a single room. If you have to borrow, please do, if you have to sell your belongings to raise money , please do it , trust me , you’ll survive . Sit down and think deeply, trust me, you’ll come up with something. |
Romance › Re: How Do People Make It In Nigeria?? by seanwilliam(m): 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Lol.it’s well |
Family › Re: How Children With Responsible Parents Suddenly Becoming Bad by seanwilliam(m): 7:06pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Environment and peer group |
Romance › Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by seanwilliam(m): 6:23pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
headbasher96: pulling my legs na yoûr hobbiy na i know baba williams Make I pull your legs make you bash my head?  |
Romance › Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by seanwilliam(m): 6:10pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
headbasher96: do u know how it feel when u are working your ass off in the sun moving from here and there to provide for someone u love all that i wanted was appreciation nothing more And the same people is collecting dick from everybody like even my own friends started visiting me for no reason because i no the dey house and u know where i the work but u go come dey house from morning say u the wait for me for no reason and i will ask this stupid girl if she is uncomfortable with them always visiting she will say no but still offering them kpekus like loafs of bread anyway this my said friend opened up to me and even mentioned other he was the who mediated over the whole matter.
Dude called a meeting with every one he knows that has tasted the kpekus and some women that dont get along with this girl in the area it took him an hour of sermon for everyone to come clean i was dumbfounded with what i heard sha when he was done with our circle.
My said friend had already done a little charity in the area in anticipation of the whole drama he sprinkled some gifts like salt and oil here and there won all the women over.
So the area took it upon themselves to expel this my girl i was very high the day of the whole encounter i sat like a lost kid guy imaging what i have been living with the only words i was able to mutter was pls she should not enter my room again and nobody should touch her because my friends gift did magic all the area went berserk fuel by some women she had issues with i dont seem to know how a single lady will have issues with married women but all the women were baying for her blood she should be stripped and beaten others wanted to attack her physically all i wanted was for her to go and nobody should drag and spoil my home appliances she later left what later ensured between me and her family is something else because they sent her back to me see guts o girl wey i never marry them the call family meeting the invite me i sha sent my elder brother when him start to smome cigarrate for their palour meeting finish because he went there to pepper them too well i on my own learnt a thing or two from the who qagmire
Dont ever show a lady u love her to an extent even my mama now i the pepper her from time to time but my mum seems to enjoy it she will say its how she raised me i no longer take any woman serious again thats life sha and guys should be careful of how they look at girls some just indecentstars hidin in plain sight how will a lady not be lacking anything and cant have self control its really a mistery honestly speaking , while reading this post of yours, I have this deja vu feelings . I felt like I’ve come accross this your post before word for word, same time , same moniker , same me quoting you , same response . lol |
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Crime › Re: Two Nigerian Men Arrested In India For Duping 50 People By Posing As Americans by seanwilliam(m): 2:35pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Chai |
Travel › Re: Two Die As Car Plunges Into Edo River (Photo) by seanwilliam(m): 1:57pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Omo. Rip |
Phones › Re: Friends Among This Three Phone Which One I Will Go For by seanwilliam(m): 1:31pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Save more and get Samsung or iPhone . Trust , those two devices worth every penny |
Romance › Re: How Do You Dispatch A Girl You Are No Longer Interested In by seanwilliam(m): 1:26pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Some guys on here are certified simps.
Something 99% of girls won’t even think twice to put it straight to you that they’re no more interested. Op is even being nice by looking for a less painful means of dispatching the girl.
Did he put gun to her head while sleeping with her? Won’t the said girl dump op if she finds better offer?
Una too mumu on here. |
Autos › Re: Abuja Big Boys Storm Venue As Skyewise Group Unveils New Automobile Showroom by seanwilliam(m): 12:55pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Abuja doings |
Crime › Re: 25 Cars Destroyed As Youths Clash Over Girlfriend In Kwara by seanwilliam(m): 12:55pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Foolish human beings |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Says He Has Learnt His Lessons, Stopped by Friend From Talking by seanwilliam(m): 10:07am On Apr 04, 2023 |
I no like this guy wey Dey run comment at the start of the video . No Dey talk abeg |
Business › Re: FG Approves 173 Loan Apps, Bars Illegal Online Banks by seanwilliam(m): 8:01am On Apr 04, 2023 |
Sha no ban opay and palmpay |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Get's Caught With Another Woman In Cameroon by seanwilliam(m): 4:50am On Apr 04, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: imagine  imagine what? He has money and can be with any woman! He owes no woman commitment! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What A Fellow Job Seeker Did To Me This Afternoon by seanwilliam(m): 4:30am On Apr 04, 2023 |
You’re nice but not smart |
Celebrities › Re: "Chioma And I Didn't Deserve That" - Davido Speaks On Losing His Son, Ifeanyi by seanwilliam(m): 2:38pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
No one deserves that actually. It’s traumatizing |
Music/Radio › Re: Davido ‘Timeless’ Breaks First, Second Day Stream Record On Spotify, Boomplay by seanwilliam(m): 1:28pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Nice. OBO |
Romance › Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by seanwilliam(m): 8:25am On Apr 03, 2023 |
SenecaTheYonger: So your GF is chatting with no man? Safe to conclude your brain works like that of woman . |
Family › Re: My Husband And His Family Has Turned Against Me by seanwilliam(m): 7:54am On Apr 03, 2023 |
Mindlog: If the OP happens to be Caucasian, will you offer this same advice? This is Africa , Nigeria specifically. I’ll advice her based on the reality of my environment. A Caucasian married to a Nigeria here will get same advice from me. |
Nairaland General › Re: Done by seanwilliam(m): 7:49am On Apr 03, 2023*. Modified: 8:45am On Apr 03, 2023 |
Goztino: I use to have this mindset until I traveled to Germany for my masters. Then I realized the following . 1. Most nigerians are very selfishand waiting like vultures to start billing you but can't contribute for your success when you need their help, so they don't actually deserve any shit from you. When I wanted 4.5million to complete my block account money, I met almost all the rich guys in my place for loan but none of them gave me one kobo, they were all giving flimsy excuses. Some of them even made mockery of me and told me to learn to cut my coat according to my size. Most of my classmates also faced the same shit when they tried to ask for help. Only my immediate family members actually showed concern. My parents emptied their little bank account, my siblings didn't have money but they showed concern and supported me spiritually. But all the outsiders were giving excuses and watching from a distance. Now, how do you think the person will quickly give a damn about anyone outside his immediate family members when nobody outside his immediate family gave him a damn when he needed their help? [/b] 2. The bills abroad is much and many people after paying them don't feel like getting billed from outsiders who don't really give a damn about them and who would turn their back on them when you need any slightest help from them . 3. Those abroad don't actually owe you nothing. As brutal as this might sound, but that's the fact. People usually harvest what they sow. Now ask yourself how much you have sowed in the life of that person you are billing? 1. If I were to be your friend when you needed money to complete your block account, I’ll do it provided I have it ( I recently did something similar for a friend , not block acct money specifically, but I came through for him in my little way ) so you’re very wrong for saying most Nigerians, some is more appropriate . 2. The bills abroad is much and many people after paying them I think this is a valid reason , this rest of your point no.2 doesn’t add up. You can’t tell me you were able to stand on your feet yourself or with the help of your family alone the moment you got to Germany . I believe at some point, outsider helped you , if they had the mentality of ’ me and my family’ , chances are that you might still be struggling till now. People don’t have to be useful to you before u help them if it’s comfortable for you . You were once like them and someone came through for u too. You can deny that to feel good as much as you want . 3. Those abroad don't actually owe you nothing. As brutal as this might sound, but that's the fact.
maybe to those that didn’t contribute to their life during the time they were in Nigeria , but if they did, You owe them a lot of thank you except you’re ingrate! You need to extend your goodness beyond your family and people that helped u alone . All these you’ve said, you just took me out of context. I was not talking about people living abroad in general , I was specific, I said uk people I know people in USA and Canada and they don’t behave the same way. Most uk people I know behave like that to their families too. So what’s the justification here? I’ll only agree if you say the bills over there are too much on them. You asked how much did I contribute to those I’m talking about. I did for one of them. I will be damn honest with you, I came through for her when she was struggling in Nigeria ( in all honesty ,although she has family over there, I didn’t know she was processing uk then, so I was not directly involved in the process) but I did help her out to sort out little little things back then . Now she don sojunu
, maybe the bills is too much on her, I won’t blame her . But virtually all uk people I know that’s how they behave. Finally, not having entitlement mentality doesn’t mean I won’t know who’s is stingy o. I’m doing very well for myself , so financially I don’t think I can need their help. Most people I help on here in my little way, I don’t owe them anything o, and I pay bills too. Most that have helped me on here don’t owe me anything too and they pay bills You can see I personalized it. It’s based on my experience. If it’s comfortable for you, it’s good to be nice to people in general . God bless u sir. @ oknm if you’re reading this thread . Shout out to you o , na brother u be |
Family › Re: My Husband And His Family Has Turned Against Me by seanwilliam(m): 3:04am On Apr 03, 2023*. Modified: 3:44am On Apr 03, 2023 |
Lots of inconsistencies in your story but I will not talk nor take side. You women mostly talk bad about your hubby and Inlaw, una no Dey ever gree say una wrong. You keep on hammering on “ my husband always support his family “ , this alone shows the kind of person you are, you sha want to paint him bad so that we go condemn him for u, Abi? Truth is when everyone complains about you, then you’re the problem.. Anyway, Talk to your lovely husband, deflate your ego and kneel before him ( if you like say lai lai u no fit kneel down  !), don’t make it seem like you hate his family , make him understand the importance of privacy in una marriage .. trust me , he’ll listen to you , he loves you . He should be man enough to take charge of his home . he’s in the right position to do that not you. Even though you people need privacy, still be less domineering , be more accommodating especially when it involves your in law.
except the marriage don tire you o, Forget social media, our expectations don’t always match the reality and most people that go through worst will come here to massage your ego by saying “ don’t take shit from anybody ” . Don’t always use what you read on social media as a standard for your marriage. As a smart woman, use the situation to your advantage, please there is nothing outside o. May God bless your home and give you wisdom . That being said, my advice to single ladies out there, always ensure the family you’re marrying to loves you ( even though they can’t hate you for no reason ) |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Help Me Thank God...i Got The Job!!! by seanwilliam(m): 2:48am On Apr 03, 2023 |
I love news like this |
Romance › Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by seanwilliam(m): 2:47am On Apr 03, 2023 |
SenecaTheYonger: Most people here saying that she shouldn’t have replied are people that take social media screenshot as real fact.
An example is the image below, probably written by some masturbator but people with one-brain cell will read it and take it as fact just because Future’s face is on it.
There are many truths in this word, one truth cannot apply to 3 billion women. Engaging the guy in a chat doesn’t mean her mind is there. And it’s not every chat that leads to sex, unless you’re saying you’ve fvcked every woman you chat with.
Please guys start thinking for yourselves, don’t allow whatsapp screenshots to think for you. you’re right. But a woman’s brain doesn’t work like that . Trust me. |
Romance › Re: Reasons I'm Afraid Of Ever Getting Married. by seanwilliam(m): 2:37am On Apr 03, 2023 |
80% of time , marriage doesn’t worth the stress.
The only reason I want to marry is because I don’t want my kids to be raised by single parent. |