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NewDelhi:
Who can relate ?

lmao.
Maybe he think say nepa fit take the light by the time he go off the gen.
It’s been awhile bro,
from Ashewo thread

This ops needs to be arrested, you didn’t post the complete video

Lol. And guys Dey die for that same pussy.

Fhucked one girl last year , I had to tell her that I’m not satisfied with sex and that she oozed. Her countenance changed throughout that day.

The next time we met, I fingered her and stylishly put the finger in her mouth. She sucked it. I did it for like 4 times and she gladly licked it


I was satisfied and we got down to biz. After we finished I jokingly commended her Pussy and she was like I embarrassed her the last time and she cried when she reached home. She said she asked her mom on what to do and she was told to squat on warm water mixed with salt.


I laugh tire.


So as a guy, if a lady smells bad during sex, embarrass her. If she values you, she’ll amend.

narite:
Sometimes in life great things appears right in front of us, something so great that could forever change the lives of those around us. The sad thing is that Emotions cause us from seeing this great things when they appear. Blessings always come in disguise, mostly in the form of loss. it will happen to every one of us. A time will come in our life when there will be something wicked we have to do to transform our live; only you will know when the time as come and what the wicked thing is, every human will experience this thing probably once in their lifetime. This wickedness will come in different form, I tell you doing it won’t appear as doing something noble at first but down the line years later you will look back and you will be filled with tears, glad that you did because if you had not, your life would be completely different from the one you are currently living. it takes wisdom to sail through this powerful moment. This moment can ruin your life or can profoundly make it beautiful.

The people insulting you have let their emotions over taken their logical reasons, they are talking from an angle of sympathy they have for the first guy, it could have happen to them to, they are angry and felt exploited. If only humans could get rid of their emotions, having no deep attachment towards anything and doing things just for the sake of doing it and not because they feel there is something waiting for them, they will avoid going through some needlessly suffering in life. @op The situation your sister as found herself could be, no no. Not “could be” but a blessing for her, the first lover and the new man. I hope she does not fall to the den of emotions and make a right decision.

hmmm.
You’re completely right sha.
However , I’ll advise every man out there to build their own life first.
And when you make it to the top , settle with someone in your class( taste) , don’t be clouded my love and emotions.

UnusualEmissary:
EDITED!

Who is the better man amongst the two of them?

I'm talking on the basis of who your sister should make her husband. Getting married to someone shouldn't be a matter of favour or reward. A person has to be fit, qualified and show enough potential and promise before he can become a husband.

The first guy has contributed to your sister's life, no doubt. And she can always show gratitude towards his efforts and repay him back, maybe not in the same way he helped her but in other ways that can equally benefit him. But not with marriage as there are certain requirements to consider in a man before we can agree that he becomes a husband to a woman

So aside financial capacity, considering all the other qualities necessary for a husband and father to possess, who is the better man between the two?

I don't know everything about both of them but at least, I know this.

The first guy impregnated your sister and they have a child out of wedlock (your sister has her share of blame too). The second guy is taking a more honourable step by declaring his interest in marriage to your sister and seems serious about it.

In this regard, the second scores quite higher as he seems more responsible and upright.

That's definitely not the only thing to consider but it's part of it.

So don't attach emotions to the matter. There are certain criteria and requirements to look into before accepting that a person should play a certain role. So simply consider/assess both men and choose which one is more suitable to become a good husband and father to her children.

If the first man happen not to be the suitable one, considering how much he has contributed into her life, your sister can consider making up for that and everybody moves on.

only an ingrate will make this kind of statement .
Na your type Dey make person fear women.

Greatblackpimp:
I rented my first apartment at 21 and didnt become sexually active till 24. I also bought a car early in life and I hardly drove it or carried ladies in it. I am not religious by the way. I am 36 now. Get rid of your myopic way of thinking. Some people value their privacy and peace of mind alot.
I dont see why a grown man of 23 will be living with his parents ...in a sane economy people get married at 23

there’s difference between reading to understand and reading to argue.

We’re saying the same thing in different ways. Re read what I posted.

whichway007:
i made the greatest mistake in life,i married a financial disaster

how

Societies blame men for this kind thing and I don’t like it. This is a decision of two adults

EriMma1:
That's their cup of tea. Abstinence still remains the best.

A man should be forced to marry any woman he impregnates first to teach him a lesson. So that in his next life he'll learn to control himself.

Some men don't like to listen to advice when you try to caution them to lead a decent life until they fall into a ditch. Then you see them trying to get off the hook. Na lie. Make e hook them there.

My ex thought he was doing me. We had a little misunderstanding. Not really a misunderstanding like that. We just stopped communicating for a while. You know this issue of "he didn't call me, I won't call. She didn't call, I won't call. It lingered for a while and me as a fine girl wen I be, I just blanked him. No be woman dey find man abeg.

Do you know this zombie started sleeping with anything sexable? To the point of sleeping with an old lady that sells palm oil, Maggie, crayfish and those kinda stuff haha... For someone who claims he's a fine boy with his Americana lifestyle. ** men don't have class when it comes to konji**.

The next thing, nwanyi crayfish don carry belle. Hahahaha...
The mugu wanted to play smart. E hook am. For two good years he didn't go and do anything on the womans head.when the baby boy arrived, he looked so much like my ex. As in.... Chai! I don laugh Taya. Even after the baby was born, aboki still dey zuzu. He didn't want to marry iya elepo.

He now remember fine girl. He came to my place. I was just laughing at him. He was still trying to form Americana. I just dey laugh say see this nwanyi crayfish husband. He was now discussing marriage with me. I just shook my head. Men!!!

After one year of not returning his calls much following his visit to my house ( in fact I told him I moved so he'll stop coming around), uncle finally succumbed and married the woman. Now, he's making life miserable for the woman.

Every time, the lady is posting one sorrowful text or the other about relationship on her Facebook status. The guy is taking out his frustrations on her. The last time I checked my nwunye dim, she was looking two times older than my guys mother. No jokes. Just that I can't post her pics here. Chai...

I'm happy he ended that way. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for his lack of control.

Many men have lost their happiness this way and many will still lose if they continue sleeping around like untamed dogs.

why are you monitoring the their lives?

Ahnie, I’m still wondering where the scam is .

This is a man begging you for money and you could have told you don’t have instead of wasting his time and giving him hope.

However, from the way you responded , I can see some loopholes a correct scammer can capitalize on.
You don’t seem smart to me. You just have not met your match..








That being said, this goes to show that most women are wicked and don’t joke with their money. You can simple make a video call to confirm who he is then send him what you’re comfortable to let go or simple discard him,

I can’t count numbers of ‘homeless’ girls that have sent me pm asking for financial help, I don’t see it as big deed, trying to catch cruise with someone’s condition doesn’t sit right with me.

SUPERPACK:
Why live in a rented house when I have mine. The thing is that country get as I'm be, if anything happens to any of those visitors in his house na landlord them go hold first before tenant. Just get another apartment but this time make sure the landlord doesn't live in same compound with you. That would be better

You’re on point 100%. God bless u.

@ForG, Besides at that your age, I don’t think it’s that bad being policed by an elderly woman. Me and you know say na because of pussy exploration na why u go rent that house , take this from me, there’s no big deed there. Carrying girl or girls while you’re still finding your feet is you stabbing yourself on the back .

This is coming from a guy who’s fhucked nothing less down 100 girls in my career
You’re still young my brother , don’t take decision they’ll mar your future.





However , if you still insist on exploring , disguising with “ wanting privacy “ then next time don’t rent apartment where the landlord/landlady lives. Also dress and speak in a very mature manner ( no be by speaking grammar) but trust me the way you carry yourself is the way you’ll be addressed.
Be respectful , be ready to unlearn and relearn, don’t be too forward because you get small change for acct, trust me, na change. If you’re rich you’ll get your own house


This is Africa, kill that ‘woke’ mentality, it’ll do you no good.




And finally , try to create physical - offline business and attribute your money to it. You know why ? This is Nigeria , you still have to conform in some ways with society ‘standard ‘.


You can attack me that I’m a local bush man, trust me, I woke pass u

I wish you success brotherly

Blupen969:
At age 23 you already have your own apartment?? wow congrat op it is not easy

it’s no big deed actually , living and renting house alone as a single young guy is extremely easy . Wait until he’s married with wife and kids at that age, that’s when I’ll believe he’s man enough

bukatyne:
Education is the easiest way of out poverty. Might not make everyone rich, however, it is the most common way poor people leave the cycle of poverty.

Time & Chance matters; however you must be prepared. It is said that luck is preparedness meeting opportunity. There is also the place of favour & grace which doesn't still negate handwork that provides value: God said He will bless the works of our hands. There must be a channel for the blessing.

Your background also matters a lot: a fluent background gives you a solid edge. Someone who grew up rich is already exposed to any things the poor has not heard of. He/she knows places, opportunities, trainings, investment, people etc that can elevate him/her why the poor is still struggling to survive.

Your background also helps you understand that working hard is different from working smart or providing value. Hard work which doesn't provide value would not make one rich.

Also poverty makes someone make stupid decisions as regards children. Deciding to have a lot of kids (some people can only can for one & have five,) when you cannot successfully give them the platform to succeed is wickedness. Having kids you cannot comfortably give good education is insane in today's world. An intentional poor man with a kid would go wonders than an average man with four children.

Also poverty can make people seek instant gratification. Instead of buying that extra Okada or repairing the spoilt shock absorbers of your car, you think a second wife or the owanbe lace is the next thing.

hmmmm. Can you elaborate more on this ?? I can’t connect with the example you gave afterwards . I’ll appreciate if you can . Thank you .

Hudson777:
I got the advice from a mad man .....dyor

Make we see where 10$ go carry me reach

Drdreyy:
See the picture I attached. I took the screenshot when I placed an order. You can see the cost in USD as 112 and also the naira equivalent.

I also used Google to convert and it gave me that exact value. I believe Google should be upto date with the current exchange rate. 460 is what Google is still using. See screenshots below.

If I use 750 that is still about 84K. And we all know redmi 8 Pro costs way more than that

How do u ship directly to Nigeria ? Also what percentage of the product price is the shipping cost?

Sapeleomi:
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Guy, we men have to be honest with yourselves. Speaking from experience never marry your other half if she or he is not self sufficient.. Being a religious person or weak gender should not be the only deciding factor in sustaining a marriage.
As a man, you will loose your job, income or become incapable due to illness or temporary loss of employment. You need a spouse that can help, stay calm and provide an anchor or support during this testing period.
Unfortunately, most of our modern women are not prigramme or willing to provide for their spouse when things get tough.
Kudos to those that do. I know plenty women that are secured and have provided for their family degrading the man. Is understand and believes the man will bounce back. Loyalty from a woman is paramount...
For the few that disrespect or walk away from their relationship.. It creates mistrust, betrayal and feelings of exploitation...
There are good women. Choose carefully l partner that can work and collaborate with you.
Marriage or relationship should not be a poverty elevation programme..

omo. This is a shocking reality

Sapeleomi:
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My chairman, i sense from what you saying. The marriage is not the problem but perhaps the lack of suuport, morally, financial and trust from your other half. Two hands is better than one..
Our spouse/other half also need to support and assist one another and not leave all responsibilities to the men. This whole religious doctrine about gender role is not applicable to modern challenges. Jesus, virgin mary and mohammed never had a formal education..
Training and providing education for children and living in a comfortable house costs a lot of financial burden..
The challenges are modern and it requires joint working or else marriage becomes a burden.. Men need support. My bro, keep doing your best and ensure you protect your mental strength.
It is well.. We grow together when we all support each other husband, wife, sidechicks and side cock.

Wish I could like this a billion times

kkins25:
Its you who's tuned into social media 247 and have been trapped in some pseudo-reality. 500k per month? Do you know how much the president's salary is? Do you need me to tap you to wake you up?

leave dem make dem Dey throw numbers
95% of the workforce don’t earn 500k monthly

VeeVeeMyLuv:
That is the exact phrase that she always use to nag her husband

Please don't mind her

with no responsibilities, to be successful as a single guy from average background is super extremely hard.

When I say successful, I mean all around success and being financially stable not to talk of married men with loads of responsibilities and expectations.

Robnectar:
Sure gifts Voucher

Unfortunately no offer for that at the moment

Robnectar:
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Mehn how can I redeem sure gifts Voucher to cash or crypto please put me through

What’s the name? Send pm abeg

Hardcore11:
Jesus I'm scared

I’m equally scared just as you . As a single young man, anytime I spend , I always think of how to replenish.. sometime I’ll calculate and calculate and calculate before I spend on myself even though “ I have enough in my acc”. Fear of going broke, fear of inability to cater for my present and prospective family , fear of not meeting up with the standard the society sets for a man, fear of marrying the Wolf in sheep skin , all these things fear me pass death

Allisgud:
u supposed write small book on marriage

mehn I see all these happening to my brothers and men around me.


Funnily enough I’m not married, even though THEY DON’T FORCE ME, I know how much I spend weekly on my parents and family , got to stage where I felt like relocating and changing my number but I realize that it’s an opportunity for me to prepare myself for the incoming bazooka ( prospective family) and somehow somehow , I kinda feel happy when I know people smile as a result of my support and sacrifice.

I doff my hat for responsible married men.

Khayceeofficial:
CC: Seanwillia

thank you my boss

Robnectar:
thanks mehn, Sean nah Niqqah, wtf are u Sean

present 😎

LikeAking:
If you have watched the iron monkey..

Let analyse this election with this movie.

Lets assume Asiwaju Jagaban is the bad boss in the Iron Monkey movie. That powerful martial arts guy with many deadly moves and powerful warriors in his gang. This man is very powerful and also posses the strength of two powerful men or even more. Note: two powerful men, not two child's men.

One man can't defeat him combat, n matter how hard that man may try. Never! He is battle tested. He is not aclled the leader of warriors for nothing.

Asiwaju, no be Ju

On the other hand Atiku is the Iron monkey, while PO is the skilled martial arts guy with a son in the movie.

Buhari is the tyrant governor in the movie, the cabal are the his adviser's.

Both the Iron Monkey and the skilled martial arts master fought with the powerful bad boss in the movie individually and they were defeated. They almost died from their battle wounds. This will be the outcome of Saturdays election.

Both when the Iron monkey and the martial arts master teamed up to fight the powerful boss, they deafated him After a hectic battle. This would have been the result of this Saturday's election.

Since the iron monkey and the skilled martial arts master have patted ways. There will be no one to save us from the Jagaban and his APC army.

Nigeria is doomed.

you’re a prophet!

Paulyaweh:
Lucrative if you have a very wide variety of goods and in a mid- high income location and your can do a nice store with good ambience..
Your profit also depends a lot on the spread you can make on goods you buy.
So you have to know wholesalers with the lowest prices and build the relationship so you can even begin to get spontaneous finance.
You wont even need to pay for goods, they supply you and your recoup funds from sales, remove your profit and they pay them after an agreed time, say 2 weeks to one month

Then a lot depends on good accounting and Inventor keeping and good staff, very important if not if your inventory keeping and staff are bad, it'll ruin your business.
If you'll manage it yourself you have to be very hands on and give close marking.
If not employ a very sound accountant/ bookkeeper.

Very important;
Location
Variety of goods
Procurement/ good relationship with the wholesalers
Inventory keeping and accounting
Good staff
Store ambience

Hmmm, what do you think of drink business ?
How lucrative it is?

I mean in large quantities with budget of 1.5-3m.

Can you break it down ?

Soft drinks per pack specifically

Kobojunkie:
1. So because one person complained about high class women, you decided by that it makes sense to marry a financially unstable women --- a complete adult with brain and ability to work --- as a dependent , on top of that add children, only to then come online to complain that marriage did it to you?

2. If you really believe that, then why are you here complaining at all? Why not accept your lot rather than come here to try to blame it all on marriage?.

Una no dey learn at all, that na the problem.

Hmmm. Even though you’re always off point, I think the bolded seems reasonable. You’re subtly suggesting equal ( or significant) financial contributions from both sides?
Honestly speaking this will be helpful , however , this is MOSTLY not obtainable in reality especially in Nigerian settings.
Now I put it to you , what if the wife refuses to contribute but rather sees the man as the sole provider? Like she only wants to play her ‘traditional’ role ?
Again , I know your argument will fault the man’s inability to vet her properly in course of their courtship. ( his inability to know if she’s the type that supports ) but do you know that the kind of bills you both incurred while dating is quite different from when you’re married and starting making babies ? What if the woman ‘changes’ due to some reason best known to her ? Or what if they both or one of them loses the job or business in marriage and the financial burden is too much to bear on the other party ? What if they exhaust their back up ( emergency savings) while trying to salvage the situation ?


Money is extremely important in marriage but then there are raining and dry seasons, and if one of the parties chooses not to be of help and support , do you now expect the other not to complain ? Or do you suggest they both dissolve the marriage ?

TheFreshVanilla:
There are men like you who are successful with many wives and children.

what’s the percentage compared to the unsuccessful ones

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it better to be single and have peace of mind?

God bless you . This shows that you’re a responsible man
Not all men are lucky to have women that ‘support’ financially, even if she does, you should not rely on that 100% .
Hmm. . But ehn 100k in two months as a married man is very fair o.


It’s far more easier to save as a single man.

How? When you’re single, you only spend what you want , you can ignore billings you’re not comfortable with , no one can compel u except you’re generous or a simp. infact you can decide to be extremely thrifty , and it’s more easier to adjust and adapt to any situation. You can decide to suspend morning and afternoon food, you can decide not to sub to cable, you can decide to even sleep if you have little change in your account. It’s easier to take risk and you’re open to different opportunities.

But when you’re married, it’s impossible to do all that. No matter how wicked you are , you can’t watch your own wife and kids go hungry , 90% of time , you’ll have to consider your family before taking any decisions.
Except you’re financial buoyant , you can’t just buy any cloths, shoes, for yourself. You can’t go to expensive restaurant without thinking about what to give your family the next day .


If you have money in your acct, you’ll still be scared , 70% of time you’ll be experiencing heart palpitations, you’ll not want them to lack.

Technically as a man, when you marry, you’ve given up your freedom and comfort for others.









That’s why , a man needs to be smart and ‘prayerful’ while choosing life partner , not all women worth these sacrifices.