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Ahnie, I’m still wondering where the scam is .

This is a man begging you for money and you could have told you don’t have instead of wasting his time and giving him hope.

However, from the way you responded , I can see some loopholes a correct scammer can capitalize on.
You don’t seem smart to me. You just have not met your match..








That being said, this goes to show that most women are wicked and don’t joke with their money. You can simple make a video call to confirm who he is then send him what you’re comfortable to let go or simple discard him,

I can’t count numbers of ‘homeless’ girls that have sent me pm asking for financial help, I don’t see it as big deed, trying to catch cruise with someone’s condition doesn’t sit right with me.

SUPERPACK:
Why live in a rented house when I have mine. The thing is that country get as I'm be, if anything happens to any of those visitors in his house na landlord them go hold first before tenant. Just get another apartment but this time make sure the landlord doesn't live in same compound with you. That would be better

You’re on point 100%. God bless u.

@ForG, Besides at that your age, I don’t think it’s that bad being policed by an elderly woman. Me and you know say na because of pussy exploration na why u go rent that house , take this from me, there’s no big deed there. Carrying girl or girls while you’re still finding your feet is you stabbing yourself on the back .

This is coming from a guy who’s fhucked nothing less down 100 girls in my career
You’re still young my brother , don’t take decision they’ll mar your future.





However , if you still insist on exploring , disguising with “ wanting privacy “ then next time don’t rent apartment where the landlord/landlady lives. Also dress and speak in a very mature manner ( no be by speaking grammar) but trust me the way you carry yourself is the way you’ll be addressed.
Be respectful , be ready to unlearn and relearn, don’t be too forward because you get small change for acct, trust me, na change. If you’re rich you’ll get your own house


This is Africa, kill that ‘woke’ mentality, it’ll do you no good.




And finally , try to create physical - offline business and attribute your money to it. You know why ? This is Nigeria , you still have to conform in some ways with society ‘standard ‘.


You can attack me that I’m a local bush man, trust me, I woke pass u

I wish you success brotherly

Blupen969:
At age 23 you already have your own apartment?? wow congrat op it is not easy

it’s no big deed actually , living and renting house alone as a single young guy is extremely easy . Wait until he’s married with wife and kids at that age, that’s when I’ll believe he’s man enough

bukatyne:
Education is the easiest way of out poverty. Might not make everyone rich, however, it is the most common way poor people leave the cycle of poverty.

Time & Chance matters; however you must be prepared. It is said that luck is preparedness meeting opportunity. There is also the place of favour & grace which doesn't still negate handwork that provides value: God said He will bless the works of our hands. There must be a channel for the blessing.

Your background also matters a lot: a fluent background gives you a solid edge. Someone who grew up rich is already exposed to any things the poor has not heard of. He/she knows places, opportunities, trainings, investment, people etc that can elevate him/her why the poor is still struggling to survive.

Your background also helps you understand that working hard is different from working smart or providing value. Hard work which doesn't provide value would not make one rich.

Also poverty makes someone make stupid decisions as regards children. Deciding to have a lot of kids (some people can only can for one & have five,) when you cannot successfully give them the platform to succeed is wickedness. Having kids you cannot comfortably give good education is insane in today's world. An intentional poor man with a kid would go wonders than an average man with four children.

Also poverty can make people seek instant gratification. Instead of buying that extra Okada or repairing the spoilt shock absorbers of your car, you think a second wife or the owanbe lace is the next thing.

hmmmm. Can you elaborate more on this ?? I can’t connect with the example you gave afterwards . I’ll appreciate if you can . Thank you .

Hudson777:
I got the advice from a mad man .....dyor

Make we see where 10$ go carry me reach

Drdreyy:
See the picture I attached. I took the screenshot when I placed an order. You can see the cost in USD as 112 and also the naira equivalent.

I also used Google to convert and it gave me that exact value. I believe Google should be upto date with the current exchange rate. 460 is what Google is still using. See screenshots below.

If I use 750 that is still about 84K. And we all know redmi 8 Pro costs way more than that

How do u ship directly to Nigeria ? Also what percentage of the product price is the shipping cost?

Sapeleomi:
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Guy, we men have to be honest with yourselves. Speaking from experience never marry your other half if she or he is not self sufficient.. Being a religious person or weak gender should not be the only deciding factor in sustaining a marriage.
As a man, you will loose your job, income or become incapable due to illness or temporary loss of employment. You need a spouse that can help, stay calm and provide an anchor or support during this testing period.
Unfortunately, most of our modern women are not prigramme or willing to provide for their spouse when things get tough.
Kudos to those that do. I know plenty women that are secured and have provided for their family degrading the man. Is understand and believes the man will bounce back. Loyalty from a woman is paramount...
For the few that disrespect or walk away from their relationship.. It creates mistrust, betrayal and feelings of exploitation...
There are good women. Choose carefully l partner that can work and collaborate with you.
Marriage or relationship should not be a poverty elevation programme..

omo. This is a shocking reality

Sapeleomi:
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My chairman, i sense from what you saying. The marriage is not the problem but perhaps the lack of suuport, morally, financial and trust from your other half. Two hands is better than one..
Our spouse/other half also need to support and assist one another and not leave all responsibilities to the men. This whole religious doctrine about gender role is not applicable to modern challenges. Jesus, virgin mary and mohammed never had a formal education..
Training and providing education for children and living in a comfortable house costs a lot of financial burden..
The challenges are modern and it requires joint working or else marriage becomes a burden.. Men need support. My bro, keep doing your best and ensure you protect your mental strength.
It is well.. We grow together when we all support each other husband, wife, sidechicks and side cock.

Wish I could like this a billion times

kkins25:
Its you who's tuned into social media 247 and have been trapped in some pseudo-reality. 500k per month? Do you know how much the president's salary is? Do you need me to tap you to wake you up?

leave dem make dem Dey throw numbers
95% of the workforce don’t earn 500k monthly

VeeVeeMyLuv:
That is the exact phrase that she always use to nag her husband

Please don't mind her

with no responsibilities, to be successful as a single guy from average background is super extremely hard.

When I say successful, I mean all around success and being financially stable not to talk of married men with loads of responsibilities and expectations.

Robnectar:
Sure gifts Voucher

Unfortunately no offer for that at the moment

Robnectar:
Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mehn how can I redeem sure gifts Voucher to cash or crypto please put me through

What’s the name? Send pm abeg

Hardcore11:
Jesus I'm scared

I’m equally scared just as you . As a single young man, anytime I spend , I always think of how to replenish.. sometime I’ll calculate and calculate and calculate before I spend on myself even though “ I have enough in my acc”. Fear of going broke, fear of inability to cater for my present and prospective family , fear of not meeting up with the standard the society sets for a man, fear of marrying the Wolf in sheep skin , all these things fear me pass death

Allisgud:
u supposed write small book on marriage

mehn I see all these happening to my brothers and men around me.


Funnily enough I’m not married, even though THEY DON’T FORCE ME, I know how much I spend weekly on my parents and family , got to stage where I felt like relocating and changing my number but I realize that it’s an opportunity for me to prepare myself for the incoming bazooka ( prospective family) and somehow somehow , I kinda feel happy when I know people smile as a result of my support and sacrifice.

I doff my hat for responsible married men.

Khayceeofficial:
CC: Seanwillia

thank you my boss

Robnectar:
thanks mehn, Sean nah Niqqah, wtf are u Sean

present 😎

LikeAking:
If you have watched the iron monkey..

Let analyse this election with this movie.

Lets assume Asiwaju Jagaban is the bad boss in the Iron Monkey movie. That powerful martial arts guy with many deadly moves and powerful warriors in his gang. This man is very powerful and also posses the strength of two powerful men or even more. Note: two powerful men, not two child's men.

One man can't defeat him combat, n matter how hard that man may try. Never! He is battle tested. He is not aclled the leader of warriors for nothing.

Asiwaju, no be Ju

On the other hand Atiku is the Iron monkey, while PO is the skilled martial arts guy with a son in the movie.

Buhari is the tyrant governor in the movie, the cabal are the his adviser's.

Both the Iron Monkey and the skilled martial arts master fought with the powerful bad boss in the movie individually and they were defeated. They almost died from their battle wounds. This will be the outcome of Saturdays election.

Both when the Iron monkey and the martial arts master teamed up to fight the powerful boss, they deafated him After a hectic battle. This would have been the result of this Saturday's election.

Since the iron monkey and the skilled martial arts master have patted ways. There will be no one to save us from the Jagaban and his APC army.

Nigeria is doomed.

you’re a prophet!

Paulyaweh:
Lucrative if you have a very wide variety of goods and in a mid- high income location and your can do a nice store with good ambience..
Your profit also depends a lot on the spread you can make on goods you buy.
So you have to know wholesalers with the lowest prices and build the relationship so you can even begin to get spontaneous finance.
You wont even need to pay for goods, they supply you and your recoup funds from sales, remove your profit and they pay them after an agreed time, say 2 weeks to one month

Then a lot depends on good accounting and Inventor keeping and good staff, very important if not if your inventory keeping and staff are bad, it'll ruin your business.
If you'll manage it yourself you have to be very hands on and give close marking.
If not employ a very sound accountant/ bookkeeper.

Very important;
Location
Variety of goods
Procurement/ good relationship with the wholesalers
Inventory keeping and accounting
Good staff
Store ambience

Hmmm, what do you think of drink business ?
How lucrative it is?

I mean in large quantities with budget of 1.5-3m.

Can you break it down ?

Soft drinks per pack specifically

Kobojunkie:
1. So because one person complained about high class women, you decided by that it makes sense to marry a financially unstable women --- a complete adult with brain and ability to work --- as a dependent , on top of that add children, only to then come online to complain that marriage did it to you?

2. If you really believe that, then why are you here complaining at all? Why not accept your lot rather than come here to try to blame it all on marriage?.

Una no dey learn at all, that na the problem.

Hmmm. Even though you’re always off point, I think the bolded seems reasonable. You’re subtly suggesting equal ( or significant) financial contributions from both sides?
Honestly speaking this will be helpful , however , this is MOSTLY not obtainable in reality especially in Nigerian settings.
Now I put it to you , what if the wife refuses to contribute but rather sees the man as the sole provider? Like she only wants to play her ‘traditional’ role ?
Again , I know your argument will fault the man’s inability to vet her properly in course of their courtship. ( his inability to know if she’s the type that supports ) but do you know that the kind of bills you both incurred while dating is quite different from when you’re married and starting making babies ? What if the woman ‘changes’ due to some reason best known to her ? Or what if they both or one of them loses the job or business in marriage and the financial burden is too much to bear on the other party ? What if they exhaust their back up ( emergency savings) while trying to salvage the situation ?


Money is extremely important in marriage but then there are raining and dry seasons, and if one of the parties chooses not to be of help and support , do you now expect the other not to complain ? Or do you suggest they both dissolve the marriage ?

TheFreshVanilla:
There are men like you who are successful with many wives and children.

what’s the percentage compared to the unsuccessful ones

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it better to be single and have peace of mind?

God bless you . This shows that you’re a responsible man
Not all men are lucky to have women that ‘support’ financially, even if she does, you should not rely on that 100% .
Hmm. . But ehn 100k in two months as a married man is very fair o.


It’s far more easier to save as a single man.

How? When you’re single, you only spend what you want , you can ignore billings you’re not comfortable with , no one can compel u except you’re generous or a simp. infact you can decide to be extremely thrifty , and it’s more easier to adjust and adapt to any situation. You can decide to suspend morning and afternoon food, you can decide not to sub to cable, you can decide to even sleep if you have little change in your account. It’s easier to take risk and you’re open to different opportunities.

But when you’re married, it’s impossible to do all that. No matter how wicked you are , you can’t watch your own wife and kids go hungry , 90% of time , you’ll have to consider your family before taking any decisions.
Except you’re financial buoyant , you can’t just buy any cloths, shoes, for yourself. You can’t go to expensive restaurant without thinking about what to give your family the next day .


If you have money in your acct, you’ll still be scared , 70% of time you’ll be experiencing heart palpitations, you’ll not want them to lack.

Technically as a man, when you marry, you’ve given up your freedom and comfort for others.









That’s why , a man needs to be smart and ‘prayerful’ while choosing life partner , not all women worth these sacrifices.

JASONjnr:
Marriage is more than responsibilities...


Marriage is far from how you view and understand it.

Responsibilities is just a task. Marriage is a command from God.


I didn't understand marriage untill I planted a tomato at the backyard and I was always going every morning to observe and check for changes an watering it.

My friend thought it was all about watering it. But in real sense, it used to bring joy to me seeing that I was able to grow something and it was wonderful...

Need I say that I was stocking alot of it on the fridge and dashed some out? Later I also included pepper to the family and with eggs at home, I was always sure of a good breakfast....

The beautiful seeds the produced.

You’re beginning to sound like kobojunkie.
What you read on google is different from reality!

Tell her to put salt inside bowl of hot water, then make she put it in between the v then squat

So dem give the lady to yankee guy?.
Say no more

Cutehector:
deeper what? Jehovah gini?

Abeg if na play, stop.

I’m not saying all of them are saint , but I’ve rolled with too many GIRLS to come to this conclusion .

Religion settings are still the best place to see good girls even though the wolves 🐺 have mixed with the sheep🐑 .

Hudson777:
Buy bnbtiger for long term hold,don’t fade

Hmm. Why you say so if I may ask pls ?

The reality is it can never be easy.
Find a way !
No one is coming to save you . We can all cry, speak big grammars and post intelligent comments all days , when you go offline, the reality will still bite u harder .


Think brother, think .

Congrats to mark .

Please in the court of law, did the guy commit any crime? Can they charge him?

Deeper life,
Jehovah witness
Remotest part of your village

I’m happy for him .
E be like this comedy husle dey pay o

How much per night ?
And note that I’m not paying upfront . I will pay u after three rounds and that’s if I’m satisfied and impressed . I will just lie on the bed while u fire me. If you’re ok by that , send me a pm.