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Family › Re: What Will You Do With N4million? by SeaTrade(m): 11:16am On Jul 10, 2021
NwaEnugwuukwu:
Just as you said it all depends on personal experiences.

If I have 4 million, I will go into importation of Electrical accessories, I will just choose one item import and distribute it to non-importers wholesalers at Electrical market Onitsha.

Just as you said, it all depends on personal experiences.
How do you compete with the barons that bring similar products 10 containers at a blow? undecided
I'm curious to know.
It's like you want make them use debt finish that your money grin
Onitsha of all places is no place for a beginner unless you are bringing an entirely new product people don't have.
Same with Aba and also lagos island with trade fair market,Avoid those places at all cost if your brain dey work,novice.
Travel › Re: Which Country Has The Most Nigerian Immigrants by SeaTrade(m): 10:46am On Jul 10, 2021
Cameroun
Car Talk › Re: Mercedes Benz Thread by SeaTrade(m): 10:45am On Jul 10, 2021
cessna150:
Please how can I connect my phone to my 2011 C300 to play music ? Abeg help
I don't think that year came with inbuilt Bluetooth.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 9:33am On Jul 10, 2021
pocohantas:
I am not talking about money, I intentionally didn’t type the things he did because some people fit start to shout SIMP. So I very much understood his pains when he decided he had had enough. He kept hammering on the stinginess and then there were complaints of her dad trying to use her to milk him. Everybody wanted to chop, even relatives. I guess you are right, it was accumulated fuckups.
Exactly,na now you don hit the nail on the head.
You stingy yet you and your family want dey milk another person,very bad and irritable.
That is one thing I can't take and a lot of men as well,exploitation!That is why I advise guys not to marry just women but also their families,and I'm glad people are doing so these days.
I hate am die!!!
Where a person comes from always play a major role of who that person is or will become.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 9:19am On Jul 10, 2021
pocohantas:
I don’t believe he was managing her because a man won’t do all the things he did, if he is managing her. It is really not about dependency, it is about knowing your partner would have your back if the need arises. How do you open eyes and enter marriage with a woman that will squeeze face before giving you N500? N500 that you only collected from her because you don’t have low bills. It is bad mehn.
Well I understand, her own is really bad.
These are the type of women that make men wonder if they are with them for love or because of what they see or can get.
But love is a strong feeling,it is not just something you CUT-OFF like rope,especially when the excuse is that petty.
Most people that are finding it easy to cut people off weren't in love I the first place,if you've felt love before, you will understand. But I know it is hard to find or do so in this country for many reasons.
And please,never judge how much a man loves a woman by the "things he did for her" ,no no no that's a big mistake!
When a man's purchasing power increases,you'd be shocked at what he can do/buy for people he is just barely tolerating.
That is one mistake people always make!
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 8:49am On Jul 10, 2021
pocohantas:
Oh it makes lots of sense to call off the wedding. A partner who can’t spare little for you is a ticking time bomb. Not everyone has the time to start returning stinginess to you because it is not their person, they’ll rather cut you off. Especially when they have complained of that attitude of yours many times.

Stinginess is the foundation of a lack of sense of responsibility. You that is talking, you took your “LOML” for dinner. I know you well enough to know what you can do. She also gave you a gift and you were happy. So why will you be here defending stingy men/women?! Stinginess is a bad trait. Love gives!
I am not saying stinginess is a good behaviour and sometimes wonder why people ought to be that way.
However,what I am saying is if you love somebody dearly and you don't need any support whatsoever from the person in the long run,
Then stinginess will be so trivial to use as an excuse to call off a WEDDING .
Maybe your friend was managing the girl all along,then stinginess was what broke the camel's back.
That's my point of view.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 8:16am On Jul 10, 2021
pocohantas:
You don’t need to be entitled or wretched to know your partner is stingy. This argument only comes up when it is a lady complaining of a guy being stingy. I know a well-to-do guy that called off an engagement because his fiancée is STINGY. He isn’t entitled, he isn’t wretched, but he observed it was VERY HARD/IMPOSSIBLE for her to make the tiniest financial sacrifice for him or others!

There are male versions of her and they are all dangerous. That is how women form non-entitlement and enter into marriages with men who have low sense of responsibility, only to cry later that they are the ones doing everything alone. By then people will say, “didn’t you notice it before marriage, you were desperate, carry your cross.”

Once again, you mustn’t be entitled to notice you have a stingy partner!
Sense of responsibility and stingy are two very different things.
Also,I don't see how a well balanced,well stable man should call of an engagement because the fiancee is stingy.
It makes no logical sense when you know you can earn your keep,take care of your own and then be worried about a woman's tight fist(most of them are anyways) unless yhe person didn't love her like that and was just tolerating and marrying out of pity.
All a man will do in that situation is return the same stiniginess pattern back to her.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 2:33am On Jul 10, 2021
HoneyBadgerr:
On the contrary, I would assume that someone who thinks it's okay to leach off another person's sweat has definitely got a problem.

Such a shame!
Its very funny really.
Like how do you even notice a person is stingy in the first place if not for entitlement mentality and/or you aren't wretched yourself?
Like I just don't get.
Family › Re: Have You Done A Business That Didn't Work Out As You Expected? Coman Gist Us. by SeaTrade(m): 2:00am On Jul 10, 2021
Equipment sales want kill me and my then bestfriend back in uni oo.
We sold engines then,succeeded at some sales but one particular sales crash the business.
We sold a faulty engine to a lawyer lipsrsealed
When them start am,black smoke everywhere, na that time I know say e don be for us ooo,connecting rod don bend inside cylinder dey want burst engine block sef and na our school fees money be that and life savings grin grin
Was a big engine sha for Caterpillar,CAT 3306 for D6 machine.
When his mechanic ask for bribe to wave the fault off,we no gree(we were just being children cos the logical thing to do was to bribe the mechanic and have it fixed before the owner noticed but we no gree and called the mechanic's bluff and see me dey threaten the mechanic on phone how we go beat am like nkapi when we see am cos we thought he wanted to extort us grin ) grin
Na so wetin start like play turn fight,so we had to give back their money and took the engine which was a huge loss for two young university students.
So from there,we went somewhere to relax,what we saw there gave us another idea on what business to do,we started it with our school fees and rent money,it was difficult at first but later became easy.
As a matter of fact,it is what I still do till date and can't complain mehn,can't complain.
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by SeaTrade(m): 1:44am On Jul 10, 2021
pansophist:
don't you think you are focusing on the symptoms and not the disease?

If Nigeria was created after hot sex between Lord Luggard and his prostitute wife, then isn't it the duty of the MEN, who have been ruling since independence to correct the historical wrong? You can only blame the women if they make up almost all the political leaders but as far as I can tell, there have never been one female governor, president, VP, and such position in Nigeria history.

Can you also tell me the correlation between unfaithfulness and building a functioning society? bear in mind that New Zealander women are the world's most promiscuous, but it's also a highly developed country.
It is nobody's job to make a society economically friendly for women and give them softlandings in a capitalist society.
Go and read more on capitalism to know how it works,
As a matter of fact,you have to stiffle any rising competition irrespective of gender.
Going by your logic,if a man ans a woman are in thesame business fighting for market share or job fighting for promotion,then i guess the man is suppose to take his legs of the throttle so women in his society can thrive lol grin
If women can't struggle for their own survival,I am on the opinion that they should be used for things less than food and shelter sef,maybe bleeped for firewood.
Rubbish.
Family › Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by SeaTrade(m): 1:32am On Jul 10, 2021
I've always known you were incoherent and very empty from travel threads but never for once did I think you were stupid as well.
So in the US were everything is supposed to be working,aren't there women who sell their bodies as well for food and shelter?
I guess their men failed too right?
He even said it is the job of men to make or build a society for women to thrive in lol.
When people fail in life,they try to drag down everyone around them to the ground and ridicule their efforts.
Nigerian men are doing very well,I mean very well.You are not just able to meet up with the productive ones because they wouldn't roll with a nonentity like you,hence you use your unproductive circle(your likes) to judge Nigerian men.
Romance › Re: Should I Let Him In On How Much I Really Earn? by SeaTrade(m): 1:20am On Jul 10, 2021
2buffagain:
Earn up to his financial expectations.

We don't like broke girls who subtract instead of add.
Exactly.
They can call it gold digging or whatever,but it is a reality.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 1:09am On Jul 10, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
She didn't even think he was serious when he mentioned that they should be sold.

He gave them to her as though they were gifts, and the idea of selling was just him making a random suggestion.

Only for the babe to distribute them and oga was shockingly furious. He made such a big deal out of the situation.
Then she shouldn't have accepted it from him for sales purposes.
If you give me teacups and make a suggestion like I should sell them,I won't accept it cos I know it is something that will be hard for me to sell.
I won't accept them from you and later share to my friends all in the name of "petty items".
Your friend is not a good person,I will be weary of her if I were you.
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by SeaTrade(m): 1:03am On Jul 10, 2021
Raalsalghul:
Did she object in the first place that they were too petty to sell? Or she agreed and did a different thing altogether?

Help me rationalize this please.
Baba me sef see qetin the girl talk and was shocked.
You agree with person say you go sell him stuff and give him the money,you later took it to yourself and share amongst friends and somehow expect the guy to be cool with it?
The way some people think baffles me sometimes.
Autos › Re: Was Bought February, 2012 ES350 Accidentally For Sale 2.2m by SeaTrade(m): 12:50am On Jul 10, 2021
nedekid:
Nna, which kind moto de your profile so? shocked
What make pls..
The new Audi R8.
Autos › Re: Was Bought February, 2012 ES350 Accidentally For Sale 2.2m by SeaTrade(m): 2:38pm On Jul 09, 2021
This is a 2008,not anywhere close to 2012.
See the mirrors na grin
Career › Re: Where Do You See Yourself 5 Years From Today? by SeaTrade(m): 2:20pm On Jul 09, 2021
iwaeda:
I live in Ikate around Whitesand sir, so picture it.
Lol so where you live equals the numbers you can make available from your account?
I'm sorry but I don't see how that correlates though.
Besides,gatemen,tenants,etc also live in the same ikate.
Liquidity and assets(which I'm sure you don't own) are two different things.
I was expecting to hear the kind of business/job you do and turnover only to hear a novice equating liquidity to where he claims to live.
Spoke like someone with so little to nothing tied to his name though,even though I might be wrong but that's what you portrayed.
Career › Re: What Is Your Backup Plan Incase You Lose Your Job? by SeaTrade(m): 5:10pm On Jul 08, 2021
cybertyrant:
Go to big man residence tell them you offer home services, from laundry to housekeeping and tell them your price, either daily pay or by counting, thank me later
So you go just enter big man house like that?
Very ambitious of you though grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 9:37pm On Jul 04, 2021
cococandy:
Now that’s nice
You think so?
Haha thanks a lot.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 8:07pm On Jul 04, 2021
Date night with the loml.. cheesy
1) Champagne (veuve clicquot ponsardin brut)
2) small chops for her...
3)Mashed potatoes ,steak and honey sauce for me.

Travel › Re: Deplorable State Of Calabar Itu Road!!! by SeaTrade(m): 6:59pm On Jul 02, 2021
NewDawn2O21:
they beheaded the both driver and killed one passenger last month at the same river
Leave the guy to dey talk wetin e no know.
Travel › Re: Deplorable State Of Calabar Itu Road!!! by SeaTrade(m): 1:35pm On Jul 02, 2021
Tannhauser:
shocked

Omo that year na speed boat things o! Oron to Cali straight!

grin
Till militant catch you for that water,then you go know.
You think people don't know that? undecided
Travel › Re: Deplorable State Of Calabar Itu Road!!! by SeaTrade(m): 1:24pm On Jul 02, 2021
My brother that is the worst road in this country in my opinion,especially that power plant area.
I was held up there like you for over four hours the day before yesterday until I got angry and went offroad beating my truck in the process.
And had to sleep at the rivers state border overnight just because I couldn't get there before 6pm(curfew things) all because of the delays on that stretch of that bloody road!!
And upon all the delays people face at that odukpani,they still have the guts to put curfew in Calabar metropolis at 10pm giving room for the fucking police and army to extort motorists that have already been through a lot of their money.
If you don't pay,you sleep at their checkpoint till the next morning 6am.
Sad situation I tell you.

Autos › Re: 2013 Mercedes-benz C250 @ N6.2M - Foreign Used by SeaTrade(m): 7:46am On Jul 02, 2021
This must be one crazy joke.
First,this is an 08 C300.
Hence it is overpriced by a whole lot.
Autos › Re: Price Slash!!! 2014 Mercedes Benz E350 In Abuja by SeaTrade(m): 7:45am On Jul 02, 2021
Who would buy a 2014 car for 12.5m when the 2017 W213 goes for 17m? lipsrsealed
Makes absolutely no sense.
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Arrested, Extradited To Nigeria, Arrived Nigeria On Sunday by SeaTrade(m): 6:51am On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:
My point exactly…

Whatever they haven’t addressed is because they don’t want to. Good morning.
Yeah very obvious they are giving their aboki end of Nigerian trouble soft landings.
Rehabilitating terrorists instead of killing them point blank,all sorts of things.
I think the solution to ending insurgency is simple,I know they know it but they look at the effect it will have on the terrorists which some of them might be related to,one way or the other and ignore.
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Arrested, Extradited To Nigeria, Arrived Nigeria On Sunday by SeaTrade(m): 12:24am On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:
News like this should always serve as a reminder that the Nigerian Police and security outfits as a whole, are not as clueless and incompetent as we think they are.

It is all about priorities. Anything they are not addressing or tackling is because they do not want to. Gracias.
Very naive of you to think this was done by the Nigeria police.
One word,INTERPOL.
How?
Your president made a deal with the powers that be of the host country on Kanu,
What he exchanged for kanu is what we are yet to find out,however it will unveil subsequently,
In a few weeks I guess.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 7:24pm On Jun 29, 2021
KanuSE:
But you should know that smoking & EtOH wouldn't help your condition either.
Tobacco has no business with that,
As a matter of fact,Tobacco is even a digestive aid sef.
I know the things to avoid and have been doing so successfully for a very long time.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 6:00pm On Jun 29, 2021
KanuSE:
Hope it's not serious & you're lot better now?
You know these things have no Cure,you just manage them.
Have been doing so since I was a child.
Family › Re: 5star Hotel For Sale In Portharcourt by SeaTrade(m): 7:56am On Jun 29, 2021
kaptaintintin:
Since when wey them put up bevilihills hotels for sale?! Guys check well o b4 u enter one chance o
Me sef don look am,the thing tire me.
Hotel weh dey centre of GRA,why would they wanna sell?
I just dey observe sha.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 9:09pm On Jun 27, 2021
Volkswagen90:
pls i want to ask can i store my bama in refrigerator? I usually put on the dinner
Yes,refrigerate always after seal is broken.
I think you can read up more on storage on the label.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SeaTrade(m): 11:58am On Jun 27, 2021
Mvena:
Na Sapa hold appetite ni�
Not really,
Tobacco,alcohol,overstress and gastrointestinal complications.

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