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KidsNEXTdoor:
What else do you want her to be asked... People know the agenda of terrorists made in Nigeria

Nigeria exporting terrorists since 1582

too shallow.

Kendumazy:
Still available

where are you base in Lagos?

................ this is rather criminal.
someone should do the needful to stop all this institution from taking us for a free ride.
a law suit by individuals or joint suit would not be too bad.
they do all this because they know nothing would happen, nobi Nigerians the usual thought.
Lalasticlala is even confirming he's also a victim of this privacy breach and unsolicited service. I want to believe the banks are making profit on those accounts either it is funded or not (I stand to be corrected on that assertion).

Kingpee2:
You just called it trash,when Nigerians were killed by sars you forgot about Karma then,was I the one that shot them? trash or no trash ,I’ve dropped this here and it’s our public dustbin.

you said sars. so you mean to say for some unreasonable ones that choose to be evil you mean they are all bad.
most you see in police are people like you and I, our neighbors, our friends, they are no aliens but Nigerians.
it isn't the police that is killing but Nigerians killing Nigerians. they joined from the same society that you and I live in but chose to be evil.

Cantonese:
That's why some people will take stupid salaries, just because they sat at home. End up with slave salaries, wicked job conditions and die in those jobs. Employers take advantage of foolish job seekers and try to disrespect employees and so on. Please if you are tired of sitting at home try self employment and have your peace of mind.

I thought I was the only one that saw that dumb reasoning.
I work with a school paying me 15k even that I my cosmetic and pharmaceutical business thriving gradually been managed by my wife.
I leave home 6am return 5pm at the earliest, no room to seat through the period at the I return home nagging my wife. I did this to add to my stream of income, mind before I left the teaching job the business collapsed. not as a result of mismanagement from my wife but the job I picked.
the woman new I was into such things other than encourage me by demanding for supply to the school she demand we teach her how produce for school use very stingy fellow I may say.
out of frustration I left the job but today I earn twice and half at the least right at my door step teaching kids for two hours daily just 4-6 pm everyday against 13hours without appreciation.
mind you I have the rest hours of the day to make use for other profitable things, controlling my time and all. that man should keep waiting for ready made job that would enslave him - from personal experience.

Davoneskay:
E be like job no deh hungry u. To say u don rust for house after graduation, u for know wetin deh do u.

not everyone is desperate beside that question is for people that are opting from one job to the other for better upgrade not those that are still seeking or seeking employment for the first time.
mind you job interview are always technical the question might be to know how desperate you are, of which you might end up shooting yourself on the leg believing you're being smart. take note nterviewers don't expecting you to divulge discrete info even if they ask you, they believe you will always beat your way round the question.

Davash222:
The pictures are NURSED.

and not DOCTORED.

themosthigh:
Lol. This man is far better than Jehovah who said this in Deuteronomy 20:10


When you march up to attack a city, make its people an offer of peace. If they accept and open their gates, all the people in it shall be subject to forced labor and shall work for you. If they refuse to make peace and they engage you in battle, lay siege to that city. When the Lord your God delivers it into your hand, put to the sword all the men in it. As for the women, the children, the livestock and everything else in the city, you may take these as plunder for yourselves. And you may use the plunder the Lord your God gives you from your enemies. This is how you are to treat all the cities that are at a distance from you and do not belong to the nations nearby.

However, in the cities of the nations the Lord your God is giving you as an inheritance, do not leave alive anything that breathes. Completely destroy a them—the Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites—as the Lord your God has commanded you.

it is obvious you lack the understanding of what you are quoting.
religion and religious book are like hard drugs be careful the way you handle them for resultant effect.

ibkgab001:
Koni gba bire


Meaning that food will pass a wrong way, when many people are trying to innovate good things that will betterment the people of this country, you are shoiwning is food that looks like fowl shits

èwo ní èpé.

Sanromeo:
This is a State Governor humbling himself before an Elder but one youth could not stand up for Professor Soyinka to sit down. Inside Life!

this is the second governor I see doing this in Nigeria.

qualityovenbake:
This kind of occurrence doesn't happen in Nigeria. The day armored truck in Nigeria will mistakenly open its door, I know for sure the police men on duty will use Nigerians as target practice. They will even detain the corpse and their relatives will have to pay money for bail.

even if e happen you go fit pick with those stingy banks wey dey use armored bullion van still put gun men follow the machine.
those idiots dark men of blackness in black wey never use him rifle before go shoot then declare say na you break the van after him same some cash.

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so the fake news is about you knowing if there are still people on the bus with you.
were did the fake news emanated from?

where is the remaining 9?

Mortiple:
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You can twist and misinterpret my post, for all I care.

Also, your attempt to whip up sentiment in your favour is childish. What has my remark got to do with "political correctness" and "complex challenge"... you iediot?

I am shell shocked that the one who claim to "live in Ohio" where ethnocentrism, tribalism and racism is totally discouraged is here supporting the same. I am not in doubt that you are one of those embarrassing Nigeria and Africa over there.

FYI, I do not only speak Igbo fluently, I write same too. Needless to add that I am a community leader who occupy various leadership positions in my town union, village meeting, clan and kindred meetings, Obviously, I am not your type.

Since you want to take a bullet for another... May the combined force of Agwu and Amadioha visit you!!!

please avoid the curse, you did well on point but curse.
this is what I keep saying and you said it. we see each other to be lesser of human than the other.
I say if Yoruba's, Hausa's or Igbo's should stand alone there would still be war.
the question is do we really love each other? even in the east some claim to be superior Igbo's to the extent they detest marriage to fellow Igbo's it so disheartening.
the more reason every community clamours for state creation is lack of love and greed, same is destroying us.
you have done well but please don't curse him, I beg of you..

adadike:
bia nwokem, why you dey quote me, Wetin I do?

bia nwoye just because seun forgot to remove the quote bottom.

majamajic:
during car registration in Nigeria , they will collect money for insurance ,


do u know why 2 drivers always fight when one bash the other one , the insurance u paid for can't take care of your car .

not funny at all, very frustrating fight.

she called herself dimplenipple, what else do you expect.
her brand her logo.
though it is weird and lacking in dignity, she knows what she is selling.

majamajic:
insurance will take care of everyone of them

the driver's insurance terms in his new agreement will rise

that's after enough black points , more if achohol was involved


millionaire car owner - thanks no one was hurt

the police - we can't arrest cos the driver is receiving treatment

conclusion - Life First !!!!

I thought I was the only one reading that!?
I even read loud to my Wiffee, "rich man and oyinbo life" I concluded to her.
as so as read that last my first thought was our localized police that has turn the job to their personal entity.

not a good one, the way forward is the incumbent doing the needful. we can't continue to duel at a point let's forge ahead.

she's writing out of pain only to console herself.

NaijaRoyalty:
Not so intelligent comment like yours should be in the trashcan.

And say "NO" to hydraulic soup when next it's served .

but the loom you are could not avoid the '"not so intelligent comment" so feeble and frail.
I'm not here on the cyber space out of pain and hate but how you and I, likewise fellow mankind could be happy.
spewing hate don't change our situation but add more heat.

NaijaRoyalty:
Trash trash trash

Fifth class and Zero in Nigerian politics , but not as poor and unfortunate as the North that has hold on to power for years .

Which Yoruba state is doing well economically apart from Lagos that's obviously a "No man's land"?

how do you measure the economy of an area?
by mere hateful speeches I believe. the western state is poor but still people like you still go ahead to infiltrate every poor village therein.
come to abeokuta, see your love ones under every traffic lights and busy junction, every available market space yet they are vibrant and enjoying the amiable atmosphere likewise it people.
jealousy is the only thing that make a man conceive evil and refusal to spit the truth.

Dangote don't deal in or with cash.
he doesn't flaunt metals in the name of jewelry is investment does speaks and flaunt itself.

still searching for my google to read better.

Nigeria with winch craft
oyinbo with man craft and science craft.

Blue3k:
It's strange very few people mention the IMN links with Iran. I didnt know his history until omohayek actually mentioned it. The dude did try start Iranian style revolution so, it's no surprise the FG is wary of him. From what I was told Iran doesn't have muxh sway in Africa unless Turkey helps out. If they're able to move 10k for charity I do think they can do same for other clandestine activities.

I just dont understand why if they have all this information available about him the court would give him bail. The prosecution must be bad at their jobs. They can release him, put him on house arrest, have him wear ankle moniter and ban social media use.

thank God I'm no lawyer.
I watched on OGTV last week during one of their current affairs program a lawyer defending trash and wanting to use logic and philosophical reason in handling high-level political crime intelligence issues.
when fact about imn by an individual was presented by someone that knew it's genesis he gave up but not without a flimsy fight. all a lawyer would tell you is human right even when a man is caught murdering or beheading 10 people. no one is here supporting jungle justice but everywhere in the world a high level criminal would be taken out of circulation, kept off somewhere to cool off or for eternity if considered a threat to the system.
how are we so sure sadam and osama were referenced by us government as televised to the world as against being kept away?
judicial system has their purpose but in some instances they should just advice human right to lay low for pure politics to advance it's course. a man being financed to destroy our nation need be reference accordingly.

Ruggedniggaone:
200 vehicles!!!!! ritual money don't ask me how I know

the only reason you know is that Nigerians are not pure, both in thought, believe, act and pursuit.

Neddyogu:
U no read say he has top politicians and movie stars as clients?
Moreover Thirty years of hustle no be here. Since '89.

my bro if them ask you say 'why are Nigerians not making it?' those comments are the reason. an average Nigerian only believe in sudden wealth not had work.

blizard44:
Don't know why he's sounding vague like our Nigerian Sudden Wealth rich men.


The only difference is that he didn't add : my brother, na God o.

Barbing or Car-rental cannot readily yield all that luxury.

1989 till date with hard work, the more reason they say Nigerian youth are lazy.
mental laziness is they refer to so many on the street claiming hustle are not hustling with their head or the right mentality.
a business of thirty year that is still crawling is no business or the owner is living without purpose, even in Nigeria.

............... hard work and diligence pays off.

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

no advice could be better the ones already offered here.
sum it all up and decide which really does answer your plight.
marriage is a life time transportation that the only stop destination is death.
come to think of it along the line some invisible exit does exist only for those with foresight and insight.
at some point some flight (marriage) would crashland, there might be a ship wreck, a train gotten derailed or a road accident.
all this aforementioned transportations are marriages, it all ends either ways but some have a definite answer ..............
........... we have and heard of a number of early marriages ending disastrous in the country of recent this might have been their genesis.
first and foremost a walk is needed, you mentioned she demanding it at some point but love and fear of not loosing her made denied that opportunity.
take a walk away, it might end up a long walk but don't be scared of the first step cos it could help make things work but you are scared of it not turning a long walk thing would only get worse.
it is time to be bold a take the bull by the horn. both parties need some time out to figure out things cos you will only die trying to satisfy her while she is not being satisfied. the more you try to please her the more offensive you become and the more aggressive and defensive she will become.
there was this saying when I was much younger that says 'let go of whatever you have at hand if truly they are yours they would find their way back to you.'
try stay away for a while, no amount of begging is bringing you back until proving to be genuine. afterwards no loosing of guard cos leopard hardly change their clothing. like has being advised run a paternity check on your child.
all advice on this thread are handy "a word is enough for the wise."

traihit:
I clearly understand your logic and that's what I used to follow but there's no sign the country will change for the better. The only sign is Fulani people taking lands all over Nigeria (I've seen firsthand cases of this in my own state).
If we keep having these set of leaders where a region is above every region even though the said region is still backward, then there is no hope for our soaring population.
As for your first paragraph, I typed everything in anger that's why my post even sounded that way. I don't insult people only for any reason especially proving my points.

instability and insecurity is world over, just last week I read a published statistic rating united state and one other country to be the most unsecured place to live in, south afruca remain Africa's number one.
I clearly understand our case is a peculiar case which makes it not comparable to the earlier mentioned ones and non-defendable, still chaos won't take us further but backward.
I believe we have a better option of getting rid of the lunatic style of government we are having than allow the west lead us into anarchy. the best revolution we can bring on is for sowore and everyone of us to lead a campaign of voting right during the election.
all we need now is electoral revolution not a state of chaos and anarchy that will take us through a journey of demotion.