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PoliticsRe: Senator Ovie Omo-Agege Seized The Mace With Hoodlums - Senate Releases Statement by selfemployed(m): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2018
cashlurd:
Imagine!!!!!! What nonsense!!!! So the mace was Successfully taken out from NIGERIA's Senate[b]?[/b]huh?? And now, watching NTA live, all our useless senators are busy smiling and laughing while the DSP Ekwerenmadu is saying he is giving the security agencies 7days[/b] To [b]retrieve the Mace !!! And due to shouts emanating from members of the Senate, he shamefully reduced it to 24hours!!!

Why did he put it at 7days beforehuh Because he knows our security agencies are NOT capable of retrieving it in a lesser time frame.
And what happens to the Security personnel attached to the NASShuh? They couldn't even stop the "stealing" of the macehuh?

Nigeria is a big joke!!!
Yesterday someone threatened to shut down the nass, today he carried out the threat
FamilyRe: What Is Wrong With My Mom? by selfemployed(m): 1:38am On Apr 17, 2018
Ezkid:
Well as an African I believe it's disrespectful and rude to diss or called out my mom for her unhealthy attitudes but I think its high time I make it public so people who has witnessed or experience such can give to me a valuable advice.

My mom was once a successful hair dresser and she was the breadwinner of our family until she became born again, she abruptly stopped plating hair for her customers based on what she tagged "unbiblical" She basically affirmed that she'll never touch attachments and synthetic hair again in her life and ever since then things hasn't been going smoothly again.

My Dad now has got a Rick Ross fatlike woman as a second wife and I think the whole situations has taken its toll on my mom's mental health, she's literally cut herself off from the outside world and everything always mean something extra terrestrial to her.

My Mom would see a gecko on the wall and believe it was sent from hell to drag her to the underground, We always packed from one apartment to the other thanks to her intolerance toward other people. Omg! She'll always find faults with her co tenants, everybody is either a witch or a spy from the underworld.

There's one thing she did that convinced me she's struggling from mental instability, we packed out from one house to a flat like apartment, do u believe my mom went back there and packed the huge rocks we used to make fire? She tagged them as her property which can never be left behind, she'll play with u today only to become unresponsive when u greet her tomorrow, she stopped her work almost 20 years ago and ever since then has become a liability on my dad and a burden on us the children, it disgusts me to feed her with my hard earned money when she's hale and healthy, she's the reason my dad was unable to send me to the university because the burden is too much on him.

What I find ridiculous about her is her mindset, her mind was wired to believe we owed her a living when in reality it's the opposite, when my dad is unable to send money she'll become so tensed and angry, its so annoying how she find it difficult to realize she is the PROBLEM of the family.

Pls I need good advice on what kind of help we the children can seek on her behalf cos its obvious she needs help. Thanks all.
Why complain when you refused to fight the matter 20 years ago?:if her mentality changes now, will you go back to the university?

Many people are living in illusion because of church doctrines.

It takes counseling to help them get back their vision
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky Wears Gown As A Bridesmaid At A Wedding (Photos) by selfemployed(m): 11:02am On Apr 16, 2018
fourhayz:
Bobrisky and fake life
He's making more money like that

Its called branding

Many people are going to ask for his bleaching cream and the dress style
CrimeRe: Bitcoin Company Shocks Customers, Disappears With Millions by selfemployed(m): 7:51am On Apr 14, 2018
Pavore9:
Nigerians will never learn.
They should start teaching common sense in our schools. How can corpers be so gullible too
PoliticsRe: Senator Abaribe Accused Buhari Of Incompetence Over Muammar Gaddafi - Herdsmen by selfemployed(m): 5:49pm On Apr 12, 2018
freeze001:
They don't like to hear the truth. Is it not the height of incompetence that the commander-in-chief and his security chiefs keep giving diverse excuses and reasons for the fulani herdsmen menace? Apart from the fact that they are all of fulani extraction, the President is on record telling victims to learn to accommodate the neighbours. Suddenly those neighbours are Ghadaffi-trained foreign mercenaries.

Who accepts such nonsense lying low? Only APC zombies clearly, particularly the northern islamic apologists.
Impeaching buhari at this point could be a just cause.

Imagine Trump blaming Putin or Osama for insecurity, instead of taking a proactive action
PoliticsRe: Saraki Disbands President Buhari's Support Group In Senate.. by selfemployed(m): 5:44pm On Apr 12, 2018
Chiefpriest1:
Politics don start. What I know is that apart from the baggage Bukola carries as the son of the late baba Saraki, the unilateral kingmaker, he has a thousand more capacity than Muhammadu Buhari.

Sentiments apart, he would make a better President than this man without direction.


Not campaigning for him, but I also know he's a very detribalised Muslim. He no dey carry religion or tribe for head.

He disobeyed his father by insisting that the next governor after him must come from outside his family and outside his place, Ilorin.
Saraki Bukola for President 2019

Saraki is smarter than Tinubu and Buhari combined.
RomanceRe: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by selfemployed(m): 10:36pm On Apr 10, 2018
SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not
been working and i just don't know what to do.

IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.

But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.


But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.
Simply tell your dad and mum everything that happened. Don't hide anything. Trust me, they'll do their best to help you get solution.
Don't self-medicate. You'll compound the problem and regret it later.
HealthRe: Woman's Goiter Of 10 Years Removed Via Surgery (Photos) by selfemployed(m): 9:59pm On Apr 10, 2018
dainformant:
A woman has been overwhelmed with joy after undergoing a successful surgery to to remove the goiter she carried for 10 years.. The woman who revealed how the growth had been a burden to her - reportedly said after the surgery; “I am so comfortable now, I feel free to move and eat and breathe with no problems!”

According to reports, her family has even started calling her ‘the resurrected one,’ believing she has come from the brink of death back into a full life

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/woman-all-smiles-after-undergoing-surgery-to-remove-huge-goiter-of-10-years-photos.html
Wow
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Jacob Mackenzie's Shoes & Feet Worshipped By Church Members by selfemployed(m): 9:56pm On Apr 10, 2018
Who is at fault now?

Is it the pastor or the worshipers who refused to have sense.

Does it mean there are no pastors like this in USA and Europe? But nobody will get deceived by them
Christianity EtcRe: Daddy Freeze: Illuminati Is Better Than Most Nigerian Pastors by selfemployed(m): 6:22pm On Apr 07, 2018
Could that be the reason China is banning Bible?
CelebritiesRe: Checkout Bobrisky's New Hairstyle by selfemployed(m): 3:18pm On Apr 07, 2018
I guess he's just a stylist looking for new customers

Nice concept
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 8:23am On Apr 07, 2018
ochukwuma15:
The dude is gradually destroying a family his late father labored to build and you're urging him to keep it up.

Years back, when I was a kid, my dad told me that to make a good family, all members of the family must be in that family with one eye.

Secondly, whatever consigns your sisters comes first. Maybe his own father didn't tell him that.

But let us not help the dude destroy his family okay . He said that he was wayward before which necessitated the elders going on with the marriage initially without consulting him, now that he's coming around, help him to come around 360 degrees and not 180 degrees.

Now that he's coming around, let him be there for everyone especially his sister, so that if things changes for him tomorrow, his sister will be there for him in return.

The family is the smallest particle of our society, if his family is stable, my own will be stable and yours will equally be stable and the Nigerian society will be stable and all of us will be happy.

I wish his sister strength in this trying times, with or without his support, she will come out victorious.
Great understanding you have.
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 8:20am On Apr 07, 2018
MrMoney007:
kids don't talk where elders are talking
And who are the kids here and who are the elders.

My friend, you're entitled to your opinion as much as others are entitled to theirs.
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 12:06am On Apr 07, 2018
elektra:
If his sister’s marriage crashes, it is his sister and her husband’s fault for not working on their marriage. You now want to put the sister’s marriage crash on top of OP’s head, manipulation at its finest.
Why are they looking for him to mediate if he has nothing to offer.

The adults involved in marriage are fully responsible for the outcome. But if they ask you for help in any form, don't deny them for any reason if it's in your power to do so.
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 11:43pm On Apr 06, 2018
DukeNija:
Which stupid sister? Does he look like someone that has a sister? You think sister is just a title you are given? Oga Abeg shift cos as far as I’m concerned he does not have a family.
You don't have to pay people back with their own coin.

The only thing he can gain there is to satisfy his ego.

There are things you cannot change. Your sister is your sister. Her children are her children. What has happened has happened. Everyone must live. Forget all the talk about tradition that adds no real value to a person's life.

If there's any thing he can do to save his sister's marriage, he should do it. The sister will thank him later.

Unless if the marriage is not redeemable. Then everyone should go his separate ways.
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 11:23pm On Apr 06, 2018
DukeNija:
It’s like your eyes are covered with cobwebs abi? Couldn’t you read where he said he pays for them to have a life? He foots all their bills? Is that a sign of unforgivenes? Pls if you don’t have something reasonable to contribute just go and do something else.
So what will he gain if the sister's marriage crashes just because he refused to mediate?
FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 11:15pm On Apr 06, 2018
Op you are right in your decision.

But just count the cost before you conclude.

What will you gain if your sisters marriage crashes?

Unhappiness, She may become a liability, She may become wayward and fall into wrong hands. Etc.


What will you gain if you bury your ego and make peace between them?

More blessings... especially for their children

Blessed are the peacemakers....

Life is not worth living in pains. Everyone will still end up six feet below where there's no ego


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FamilyRe: My Sister Got Married Without My Knowledge -- Now They Need Me To Mediate by selfemployed(m): 11:13pm On Apr 06, 2018
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HealthRe: Woman Who Underwent Surgery To Remove Huge Tumour, Shows Off Her Arm. Photos by selfemployed(m): 10:13pm On Apr 03, 2018
Thank God
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija: Daddy Freeze "What Bambam Has To Explain To Her Parents & Church" by selfemployed(m): 5:18am On Apr 02, 2018
Abjay97:
Sorry to say this; Daddy Freeze is not like the Christ he preaches.. Shows No love to haters as Jesus did.. Shows no compassion for sinners and hypocrites like Jesus did.. He is interested in bringing controversies and he insults when insulted.. No atom of Christian character.. He even divorced his wife....

God show him mercy and teach him the way of Christ.. Which is bringing the lost to Jesus.. And fostering peace among brethren..

Don't quote me; cause I am not here to argue or read your quote grin
The same Christ that chased away traders from the Temple.

Many pastors have turned the church to a business centre and nobody has the boldness of Christ to chase them away but freeze.

Mind you Christ was controversial with the Pharisees
RomanceRe: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by selfemployed(m): 1:42am On Apr 01, 2018
Newboss:
You obviously are out of touch with reality! angry

You better learn how to keep yourself company... Women no send o. angry Look around and you will see it! angry

Those teenage fantasy of yours na big load of trash! angry You will only wake up when you finally get married amd see that you didn't actually marry a robot, but a human being as "terrible and complicated" as a human being! angry

I hope you don't get used and dumped like trash at the end of the day angry
Seems you didn't see the word need there.

There are times you urgently need a loyal human being around you, maybe in time of sickness. You think those girl friends would have time for you?
RomanceRe: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by selfemployed(m): 1:27am On Apr 01, 2018
Shugarlord213:
My brother forget woman and do your own best. If you can’t cope walk out simple. Marriage benefits this h.oes anyways. Your hustle and sweat goes for her comfort. Personally to me only ass-lickers get married.

Motherless babies home day for me to adopt fine baby. if I wan nacck woman, my car day attract a lot of ladies both in church, streets, restaurants etc


My story....

I abstained from women for 4 months and hustled... ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else
The purpose of getting married is beyond child bearing.

Two are better than one. Marriage makes you stronger.

Who will keep you company in time of loneliness and need. You think people have time for you always?

You seems too confident of your lifestyle. You don't know what is called std? One day you'll speak from experience
PoliticsRe: How A Customer Stood His Ground Against Outrageous NEPA Bill. by selfemployed(m): 8:37pm On Mar 29, 2018
I guess Nigeria is the way it is today because we the citizens don't stand up to our rights.

We don't even know our rights, hence we get intimidated and submit to our oppressors
HealthRe: Woman All Smiles After Undergoing Surgery To Remove Huge Facial Tumour. Photos by selfemployed(m): 1:30am On Mar 27, 2018
Where can this surgery be done and how much does it cost. I know some one being threatened by this kind of facial tumor
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Blames Powerful Individuals For Herders And Farmers Clashes by selfemployed(m): 9:04am On Mar 23, 2018
Luukasz:
How come those individuals are more powerful than the president.. I used to think GEJ was a sissy but nay GEJ still had control over his government than this dolt.
Its crystal clear this dotard doesn't have control of his government and yet some folks have the intention of voting for this thing again.. anybody that have such intention will die before 2019. The God of Thunder & the God of Iron will strike such person dead.. Aseee!!
Buhari is becoming a shame.

Does he even know that he is a president?
PhonesRe: What Do You Think Will Be The Next Big Trend In Smartphones? by selfemployed(m): 7:48am On Mar 17, 2018
Medical phones that can check blood pressure, and run tests like pregnancy, HIV, malaria etc and prescribe drugs

Also be able to scan the body and perform xray scans etc
PoliticsRe: Stop Comparing Level Of Incompetence, Leave Jonathan Alone – Aisha Tells Buhari by selfemployed(m): 12:29pm On Mar 15, 2018
Aisha buhari did not write those words. Her account was hacked by PDP. cry
RomanceRe: My Twin Brother Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation. Help! by selfemployed(m): 10:44pm On Mar 09, 2018
Is a graduate already?

Does he have a skill?

Encourage him to get busy
Christianity EtcRe: Charley Boy Testifies Of His Salvation At Christ Embassy Abuja Today(Photos) by selfemployed(m): 10:24pm On Mar 04, 2018
Next is for him to be baptized in the holy spirit, and speak in other tongues
PoliticsRe: President Buhari At Idris Ajimobi And Fatima Ganduje's Wedding Ceremony In Kano by selfemployed(m): 2:35pm On Mar 03, 2018
Is he left handed?

Why is he shaking hands with some one with left hands in the picture?
PoliticsRe: Hate Speech Offenders To Die By Hanging In Senate’s New Bill by selfemployed(m): 5:02pm On Mar 01, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:
undecided




How heavy or light will the speech be before the hanging.

This bill will only work on people they hate, because nobody have been found guilty of the 2017 October 1st katakata
Such heavy punishment should also be given for corruption
Christianity EtcRe: Daddy Freeze Calls Bishop Oyedepo "Bald Headed Fowl". Nigerians React by selfemployed(m): 11:44am On Feb 28, 2018
I'm bold to say that freeze is a man of God anointed by God with an important assignment.

People have become so blind that they don't wonder why Nigeria is so corrupt inspite of the great number churches and so called pastors

Is it not these churches that encourage the politicians to steal public money and bring the tithes for blessings?

Who is more wicked? The thief or the receiver of stolen money?

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