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Granted!

I'm a miss nice girl.

Now that I can see what being overly nice can result to, it's time to restrategize.

Some people are just there to take you for a ride.

If I'm in your situation, I will plan carefully how to move out and not repeat my mistake in my new location.

You need to know how to work on yourself and learn how to say know NO to matters you are not comfortable with.

I strongly feel you don't know how to say No!

To tell you the honest truth:

Either ways you guys will still end up being enemies.

It's time to escape.

Move out!

frozen70:
I am still wondering how he gets to know about things you give to your direct mother inlaw

Because she talks about it. Op needs to sit down with her to learn how to stay quiet after he changes his gifting format.

otomatic:
Don't be buying things for your mother inlaw again. Just send/give her the money. Also let her know the reason is that other people are now monitoring the gifts so she should be quiet about it.

Exactly!

No gifts again.

Send monetarily but not during Christmas. Earlier and later.

Let her know your reasons, she will understand.

I know it's my Edo people.

Isokoboy:
Tell your uncle in law u are sorry....u will do beta next tym.... As tins hard in d country... Go home block his line. Likewise Ur wife should.... Avoid his house for years....don't go home to present gift to Ur mother inlaw..send someone ...case close

I endorse this!

Wicked man with something up on his sleeves.

@Op
I understand your fear and it is real.

When you deal with certain people always trust your instincts.

I had dealings with an in-law like that. Made my husband do stuffs.

Guess what! It ended in premium tears.

Don't Start what you won't be able to control or finish.

Stand on your feet and be strong. Seems you are far and that's a good thing.

I repeat do not send a thing to anyone.

Henceforth, avoid him like a plague, if you don't know how to tell frustrating stories or come up with excuses.

Cut him off.

Restrategize and change gifting format. I know how to handle someone like that.

You'll, your wife and MIL all need to gang up on that uncle.

He's eyes are fixed on Christmas Abi.

In this case,
Sit with your mother-in-law, let her know you don't want mentions about your activities to any relative. Times has changed.

You might have to stop all the gifting in Christmas and send cash and gifts earlier.

So your MIL can send a convincing message that you didn't send anything during Christmas. Which is true because you sent it earlier.

She didn't know what happened. That they should pray for you.

When this happens consistently in every Christmas, his cravings for End of the year gifts will end.

Leaving him in wondering mode.

If you don't have strength for such strategies, form aloof and cut him off.

Peace.

8 hours after upload on YouTube, it hits 2nd Trending.

After 16 hours, it tops #1.

Can't stop listening to it.

Been on the lookout for this collaboration since Ed announced his interest in singing the song.


It turned out well.

Lesson learnt:

Ed saw potential in this song and came looking for Fireboy. Whatever it is you do. Keep grinding. Favor will find you.

orgylover:
u know say all these oyibo no dey get sense and them no dey sabi who be their mate. The guy fall my hand. The only person benefiting here is fireboy. If he colabo with person like asa, it will have been understandable

He's currently working on a collabo with ASA.

Go Girl

hush15:
Whitemoney is a strong candidate for the win but that Liquor gal is pushing all the right buttons in the right places so far. She has the highest followings on social media so far within how many days, she vibes well, even more with the guys and her with fellow dancers like khaffi behind her, whitemoney will require a beta strategy to win.

Even before she came to BBN, she has a large following. I have known her on TikTok for a long time.

I don't follow BBN
I clicked on this thread because I saw her Social Media Name.

Was shocked when I saw her name.

Watch out for her. She's hot

Explorers:
14

I think Baby Days Out

Explorers:
13.

Home alone! I love this scene �

diportivo:
15k for the ac

Can you send the picture of wardrobe?

uboma:
Please do not consider the words in bold as an option.

Hahaha

folake4u:
It's not been easy, Sis.
All the online vendors on my WhatsApp post "show me your brezz, thighs, backside" outfits that are trendy for yoppy girls, I usually check IG handles for decent clothes and the prices cost a fortune.

Really surprised, my store sell affordable clothing and I don't stock such clothing. I sort clothes alot, ranging from stock clothing to first grade chiffon tops.

I can't sell what I cannot wear.

The car was delivered to my residence.

He suggested taking the car to his workshop for a full check. During the checkup, we discovered minor faults that were fixed and replaced in no time.

I recommend owobloww anytime to anyone.

He is a real gentleman and nothing like a scam or anything.

Feel free to deal with him with calmness of mind.
I am happy with my ride.
I will be doing bodywork, painting, and interior later, but I wish to rock my ride first.
Thanks, Labie.
Keep flying.

Wow!
I followed this thread to the end and decided to test run the services of Mr Labie.

There are still good people in nairaland.

I got this car yesterday from a nairalander.

Mr Labie offered the best professional inspection service ever. He came along with one of his engineers to the meet up point of the car seller.

The car was scanned for faults and it was inspected in and out at a very affordable fee.

Ofemmanu1:
Nah..
I will sell as soon as I get an upgrade.
perhaps next January.

Let me know please

Ofemmanu1:
Meds means a Medical staff.

I searched for it on Jiji.com, and later met the former owner who is a Medical Doctor relocating out of the country.

Are you ready to sell? I am so ready to buy!

Oga.
You don't reply messages on WhatsApp.
It is taking you one week to reply my message sir

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Hello everyone. I have been following this thread. You all are great. I am 38 weeks gone. Is there anyone who has battled with hemorrhoids? What did you use? The pain is out of this world.

thelish:
hahahahaha, funny u.
My hubby is kind of scared of his mum. And if we both keep quiet, we might lose the baby. The navel got an infection. He exposes me to d wrath of his mum by keeping quiet. The battle is still on close to 2yrs now. Her children n relatives don't talk to me. She told them all kinds of lies. Some came to fight, why some were just threatening their lives on phone.
My dear, marriage tough ooo.

My Sister no be small.

thelish:
I thank God for u ooo.
My mil is d controlling type. what she says is final. U dare not challenge. And hubby is kinda scared of her. After bearing so many, I had to speak up. And she got angry n left. Telling everyone I insulted n challenged her. But only God knows best.

You are describing my MIL. I am due soon and I am not even thinking of calling anyone to bathe my baby after my experience with her on my first child. I don't have strength to argue. You are expected to saying yes and Nod in agreement with everything she says. Awa o to omo ri. Meaning We have not taken of children before. OP let them stop that MIL before something terrible happens to those kids. When it does, the parents bear the cost of hospital bills and the same MIL will say the parents are careless in taking care of the children. I am speaking from experience. May God save us.

shawnfamous:
Dnt tell her to get lost o so wen spiritual problems start.. U wont associate it to her
END time mother inlaws

I have gotten to the point I told mine to get lost and I having problems already which I have associated with her. Real end time in laws

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ekaromail:
The guy is simply irresponsible. The second pix is a pix of a woman who just put to bed. Does he think going through labour is a cozy experience made to maintain a woman's beauty?




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Thank you o. No matter how beautiful you are as a lady, go through labour and send your before and after picture let's compare. She will have to look horrible because of the experience she just had. Have u seen a woman who has up to 3 colours on her face after childbirth? Childish comments everywhere. He got scared after seeing her after labour.

HML to this lovely couple. There's nothing like marrying your childhood friend.

In this case of Genetic Mutation, how will this handled?

carinmom:
How could you say only 40%? Do you mean that up to 60% of mothers don't have this kind of love for their children? You must be a joker.

If you have a good and caring mother just count yourself lucky. Some of us are not fortunate enough to have good ones.

It is more interesting if one goes as a group. In my last visit 2 weeks ago, we were 100 in number. For two people the place is a bore. Forget the zoo: Only a baboon. Swimming pool okay. Water side cool. Boat riding is like 2k for four people (no one wanted a ride because we were not sure of the boats). Museum deserted. There are faciliies for activities such as badminton, volley ball and football. There's is a bar too.