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sisisioge:You ehhnnn. I fell while laughing. |
No iota of respect. Materialistic. This is exactly what my mother-in-law would do. I wont be surprised if she will starts the comparison game with your wife. She sent a latent message. @Op turn in Silent mode. Don't say anything and pretend nothing happened. Just work harder and be the best father and husband you can be. |
BATified2023:Agreed. Jim Iyke anyday. |
Mindlog:As in, She should not give in. In the same vein... I overheard a video call between two friends advising each the other on how to abort their girl friends' pregnancies. My cousin, who ended the call, was shocked I heard everything. I warned him very harshly then. This was 8 years ago. He married that lady and the child they had together has been their only child. Meanwhile his friend's girlfriend had the abortion done. She got married to a very wealthy man who adores her alot. Guess what, she can't have kids. It's been 5years now. I was at her wedding. A simple advice or chat can make one bloodguilty. My cousin's friend married someone else who bore him three kids. Na the ex lose last last. @Op don't mind your husband. Let him clean his mess himself. He's home to see who well you'll take his mess and when he feels things are fine. He's gone again |
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mypaddle:I tire. If you have a family that watches each other's back. It's the most beautiful thing. That relationship grows and extends to the next generation. It's usually very interesting. Too bad a lot of people don't get to experience it. So if my three girls get married tomorrow, their husbands should cut me off? Tell me something... |
Mide70:What's the meaning of marriage? Na wao |
Candidlady:Go back to page 1 and read the original thread |
Zonefree:You are not far from the truth... My thoughts exactly. Out of her 3 children, why is he the only one sent to this man? We might be wrong though but the OP needs to dig further. I wish you are done with school and buoyant enough to take your sister out of that house. God will give you the wisdom to cope in handling this case. |
Thanks to her parents for giving her an enabling environment |
This is just the beginning of a good start. Know you are doing the right thing. If he stays in your room, kick him out. Don't care about what anyone says. Could you continue to give us updates? I'll like to know how this case ends. Just below is a story like yours. Please read it, and learn a thing or two from the comments. https://www.nairaland.com/7373913/cousin-mum-brought-house-destroyed |
Naijatask:I wish like you were more like me. As a first born, I dared my dad and turned things alot at home. A decade later... My dad was happy I took the actions I did. I got what I wanted and we are all happy. If you don't set things straight now... You will remember today and weep. |
Tzar91:Thank you ooo. Please Op, Take his things outside and tell his mom that she has 24 hours to take her son. Be firm... If this embarrassment they want, give it to them. Gather whoever you can call to end this madness. |
Comradepreneur:It's time to make that house hot. What nonsense. Something similar happened to my cousin years ago. We no look face. The idiot was sent out of the house. If you don't do anything now, you'll take the blame for it. |
mariahAngel:Never thought of this.... |
voiceoftruthNG:We have different kind of families. She might not tell us some details. In 2016, I chose to buy land with my husband. We started building together. I don't know how his mom got to know. She called that she knows about the land. That we are building her burial ground. That's where she'll be buried and its hers. His brother called to say it's their brother's land . I abandoned the project. Till now it's there, unfinished. I am not going to go into details the horrible things I have gone through. Will you say I have trust issues? Will you advise me to continue with such a project? The fact that one is married does not mean you need to co-build with your partner. For instance, when I first bought I wrote Mrs my Husband surname. But I was told my husband's family, Mrs could be another future woman. Even if you plan to build with your partner, if you sense greed on his/her side (from the individual or family side) abandon ship. Choosing to buy in your name alone has its future benefits. What if that partner leaves you or the family claims it from you. We should stop blaming OP and look at this situation from all perspectives. Only her knows her situation, God will direct her to make the wise decision. |
When I see the comments so far, I shake my head. This is why the likes of Osinachi never came out to tell people what she went through. People will still give her reasons to go back. When you are married, those with horrible traits start showing theirs gradually. If left unchecked it becomes worse. This man is just getting started, watch him he'll do much worse. Op knows her man better. For behaving the way she did, she has alerted the world. Even she goes back, he'll be careful with such acts in the future. For those saying they see nothing wrong in what they man did, watch it. That means you find nothing wrong in defrauding your fellow man, be it your spouse or someone else. The world has lost it. Dishonest people everywhere. |
SKIBiNSKI:The YouTube channels (he had more than 1) which he made those money were shut down |
Mindlog:My gender, they'll surprise you. I've seen this playout several times. She will marry the man whenever she can |
datola:Very True, Akola, Iwata axis is so prone to this. No notice on where to turn. |
OfficialGaGa:Now, it's punishable by law to engage in such acts provided there is evidence to proof using voodoo, charms or witchcraft. |
Just listened to the video. That intonation is Edo. It's normal for them. She said it her self. She's not ashamed |
Beremx: It's the Whatever for me |
When you think you've seen it all... |
When I say not all mothers are worth it, some persons will start preaching no one like mother. Forgive and forget.... There some parents who are so toxic you just need to get away from them to stay alive. |
Queed:Please listen to this advice. Use this two. The tube cream use it for two weeks and stop. Combine it with vitamin E and a daily dose of 500g Vitamin C. The Vitamin C is 1 tab but 500mg. Also look for Nizoral shampoo. Though I heard it's now scarce This is what the dermatologist prescribed when someone close to me had this. This is tinea psoriasis. Also, stop using medicated soaps like detol and co to bathe. Use Dove original soap. Thanks |
Happiness in Europe. |
Tokskob2008:Yeah. I think in 2011 |
Benki003:This is a good sign. Let her try reading her favorite books (storybooks, novels, the Bible) while lying on bed. Or watch a movie on bed. Get on YouTube, find dreamy sleeping music. She can play this while trying to sleep. I Battled sleeplessness for years. These tips helped me overtime. Now I sleep on my own for long hours. |
Whatever you do... Makes sure you have video evidence. Don't forget!!! Don't get carried away. You will need all evidence on video when the time comes. |
TheFacelessMan:You're right, it is very annoying. They do that because it is like stealing another person's content. So to make it original or theirs they include their voice. YouTube is going to pull this video down soon because this YouTuber took the video from Sabbaatical. This video was shot last year. The Whiteman there is Jossy and he owns the YouTube channel,Sabbatical In his Vlog, he explores various countries to show his viewers the true conditions of every country he visit. He loves Nigeria except the sunlight affect his eyes most times. He collaborates with other Nigerian Vlogers like Tayo and one female African Vloger to visit Nigeria. I find his own videos more fun to watch than other foreign Vlogers. |