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The Girl clearly isn't into you, I'll say cut your losses and move on mate,

majikboi:
how do i tell my gurl that im tired of the relationship and that i want to back out

How about being honest with her, by telling her what you just wrote, what's wrong with that, dont play games, just be honest,

***Yawns****

I think you need to talk to him about his anger and find out why he gets angry quickly and easily. I know this is his only fault but it is also a very big issue and if doesn't get resolved could lead to a disastrous marraige.

perhaps you can ask him to seek help by getting counseling either spiritual or maybe attending anger management classes.

I for one dont agree with the whole motion of you leaving him because he has anger isssues, what happened to the human spirit and helping one another to overcome our demons. you should not abandon him because of this.

if you love him like you said you do, help him work out his issues,

You must be going through a hard time at the moment, situations like yours are very difficult to deal with.

I wish you the very best.

AIDS, STD

Yes I have cried over a girl once, to cut the long story short, it was a long time ago, after we both graduated from uni, she had an apportunity to work in the states which was fantastic for her career, and i had no intention of leaving England,

It was out of the question for both of us to embark on a long distance relationship, for me in particular, So i cried my little eyes in private of course,

But as destiny would have things she came back to England after 3 years and we've been together since and as they say the rest is history  

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am in, name the time and place, and i'll be there!

John Terry sacked as england captain, because he slept with his team mate ex-girlfriend, absolutely shocking what has that got to do with playing footbal,

correct me if am wrong, but 14th Feb comes every year right? so if you dont celebrate this year, celebrate it the following year. no need to stress yourself,

Its absolutely nonsense, thats what i think, dont engage yourself in such barbaric activity.

wow dude, your English is atrocious, , anyway from what i could gather, you love someone but they dont love you back, its simple, get a grip and move on

birds of the same feather flock together.

@ Topic

Source? or are we just taking your word for it?

http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/feb/02/soyinka-england-cesspit-islamists

England is a "cesspit" and breeding ground for fundamentalist Muslims, the Nobel laureate and political activist Wole Soyinka has said in an interview in which he also accused Britain of allowing the existence of "indoctrination schools".

His extraordinary attack on what he views as Britain's part in fuelling Islamist terrorism was published on the US news and opinion website The Daily Beast. It was coupled with his assertion that the 1989 fatwa issued by Ayatollah Khomeini against Salman Rushdie meant that the assumption of power over life and death had passed "to every ­inconsequential Muslim in the world".

Soyinka, the first African to win the Nobel prize for literature in 1986, made his claims in response to a question about his homeland of Nigeria being added to the watchlist of countries deemed to be incubating terrorists, after the failed attempts of Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab to bring an airliner down over the US on Christmas Day.

"That was an irrational, knee-jerk reaction by the Americans," the writer said. "The man did not get radicalised in Nigeria. It happened in England, where he went to university.

"England is a cesspit. England is the breeding ground of fundamentalist ­Muslims. Its social logic is to allow all religions to preach openly. But this is illogic, because none of the other religions preach apocalyptic violence.

"And yet England allows it. Remember, that country was the breeding ground for communism, too. Karl Marx did all his work in libraries there …"

Soyinka added: "This is part of the character of Great Britain. Colonialism bred an innate arrogance, but when you undertake that sort of imperial adventure, that arrogance gives way to a feeling of accommodativeness. You take pride in your openness."

The attempted Christmas Day bombing has helped to raise fears that some British universities are becoming places in which young Muslims are radicalised – ­Abdulmutallab attended University College, London. But Soyinka, who splits his time between the US and Nigeria, suggested that British Muslims were being radicalised earlier in their lives.

"I doubt you can have the kind of indoctrination schools in America as you do in the UK," he said. "Besides, there's a large body of American Muslims in the US – the Nation of Islam – which has created a kind of mainstream Muslim institution. The Muslims there are open Muslims, whereas in Europe they tend to go into ghetto schools. "The Nation of Islam provides an antidote in the United States to fundamentalist Islam – which is why individuals from America have to go abroad to find radical teachings."

And , speaking about the fatwa issued by Khomeini against Rushdie, he said: "It all began when he assumed the power of life and death over the life of a writer. This was a watershed between doctrinaire aggression and physical aggression. There was an escalation. The assumption of power over life and death then passed to every single inconsequential Muslim in the world – as if someone had given them a new stature.

"Al-Qaida is the descendant of this phenomenon. The proselytisation of Islam became vigorous after this. People went to Saudi Arabia. Madrasas were established everywhere."

d bigrod:
[size=16pt][color=#000099]guys/babe,

am really confused.my immediate boss who is a female is being too friendly.she travelled to d uk last december and bought me chelsea branded items - jug and shirts. she always want to discuss with me.

perhaps she wants you to become a chelsea fan

perhaps the lesbian in question spotted a potential lesbian characteristic in you and decided to take her chances

f*ck4fun:
i hope u aint treated with disdain well,seriously i do like my woman to be big, what do u think? dont just laugh, lol

as they say "Different strokes for different folks."

Women do give compliements, the ones i know certainly do, might just be the ones you hang out with,

US Secretary of State Hilary Clinton has blamed failings by Nigerian leaders for increasing "radicalisation" among young Nigerians.

She pointed to poor living standards and "unbelievable" corruption.

Mrs Clinton was speaking after a young Nigerian man from a wealthy family was accused of trying to blow up a plane over the US on Christmas Day.

She said she believed that bombing suspect Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab was "disturbed by his father's wealth".

The Nigerian government has not responded to Mrs Clinton's criticism.

Anti-state uprisings

Nigeria is one of the world's biggest oil exporters but most of its people live in poverty.

With its large impoverished Muslim population and oil industry, Western diplomats have long feared that Nigeria could be a prime target for al-Qaeda.


But there have been no known al-Qaeda attacks in the country.

However, there have been several violent uprisings against the state by local radical Muslim sects.

Mrs Clinton was speaking at a "town hall" meeting with state department officials.

"I do think that Nigeria faces a threat from increasing radicalisation that needs to be addressed, and not just by military means," she said.

"There has to be a recognition that, in the last 10 years, a lot of the indicators about quality of life in Nigeria have gone the wrong direction.

"The information we have on the Christmas Day bomber so far seems to suggest that he was disturbed by his father's wealth and the kind of living conditions that he viewed as being not Islamic enough."

Following the alleged plot, security screening for Nigerians travelling to the US has been tightened.

Nigeria's government has condemned the measures, saying 150 million Nigerians should not be blamed for the actions of one man.

Nigerian officials have also sought to distance their country from the alleged bomber - stressing that he left the country 10 years ago.

Mr Abdulmutallab has reportedly admitted undergoing military training with al-Qaeda operatives in Yemen.



Source http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/8482420.stm

I see a Zambian goal coming up in a minute,

I see a Zambian goal coming up in a minute,

why can't we use a bloody 4-4-2 formation, why 4-5-1, yakubu is so isolated up front, infact they should take him off, and bring in martins, yakubu head is too BIG for his body so he can't bloody move

i hate drinking tea

, is it a matter of life and death to start a Topic,

typing on the what are you doing rite now forum on nairaland

thats a tough one, it depends,

if she slept with my friend while she was going out with me, then thats cheating, and once a cheater always a cheater,

if this happened before we were going out, so i suppose there is nothing i can do about it, i expect her to have a past, i probably will forgive and forget.

my sincere advice isnt this obvious, ok let me not state in the obvious, i will marry her with all my heart and love her so much more for sleeping with my best friend ,

and as for my best friend, i will buy him a car and a house