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missclasssy:
I don't actually think the guy you quoted was wrong in using the introvert/ extrovert analogy.
I believe we heterosexuals see homosexuals the same way extroverts see introverts.

Being gay is not something you can just wake up one morning and decide to change.
It's something that has been wired into the core of your neuro-sexual construction and any form of sexual arousal or fantasy, will always be fully based on it.
You have zero attraction towards the opposite sex and no matter how hard you try to go against who you have grown up to become, you just find out that you can't change.

Heterosexuals don't just get it. We believe these people are wrong and therefore should decide to be "right" like us, not bearing in mind that it would be impossible for us to change or deviate from our sexuality if asked to.

No matter how hard a gay person tries to force himself into having a kind of sexual based attraction towards the opposite sex, that homosexuality or sexual attraction to the same sex will always remain a dominant part of the person.
I believe it's insensitive as well as wicked, for you to demand "change" from a gay person.

Its like having a fetish or a paraphilia for instance.
When you are suffering from a paraphilia or when you have a fetish, your whole sexuality is wired towards that fetish and you can't experience any form of sexual arousal except that particular fetish is involved. You might try other means to attain sexual gratification, but that fetish or paraphilia will ever remain a core part of your sexuality.
That's exactly how it is for homosexuals

Although I am not in support of homosexuality, I am definitely not of the school of thought that homosexuals need to "change"

In your words then people wiv paraphilia, sexual masochism, exhibitionist, murderers, cleptomaniacs, bestiality, incest etc don't need to change. Where do we draw the line on what is normal and abnormal? Do u realise that in d distance future, people wiv other disorders will begin to come out. Ask for recognition and weep up sentiments. This will ultimately destroy our very fabric of human existence. U cannot classify one as normal why others are abnormal. U cannot say others can change their behaviour while one cannot change.

You either stand for the truth or otherwise.

I came late to this thread. I am a psychologist. Although homosexuality has been declassified as an abnormal behaviour in some quarters but it is still very much abnormal if u look at it logically. Now a behaviour is very difficult to modify. Especially something u grew up wiv. In suppressing a behaviour, it is highly likely it gets eradicated wiv continous acts used to counter a bad behaviour. For instance, gays are thought the act of imagination. As psychologist, we know that the mind is strong and complex. An imagination can turn to a reality. When people get fixated at something, human beings can turn that fixation into reality. I mean people act out their fantasies, how much less their imaginations.
In other words, start by always imagining yourself sleeping wiv a woman. If u masturbate and imagine urself doing it wiv a man, change that imagination to a woman. Develop a disgusting feeling doing it wiv a man. When u are cuming, invision the sight or the thought of a woman. What this method does is that, it might turn u to a chronic womaniser if u are not specific wiv the woman u imagine doing it wiv but wiv continous practise, it will become a part of u. Don't give up. This advise is a psychological advise.


Now as a christian, please please please, do not watch porn!. Flee from anything that can bring that thought back into your system. The problem we humans have is we are not patient in dealing wiv difficult situations. We just want it to be over. I don't see u as abnormal, we all have certain disorders we battle everyday. The best way is to dissociate yourself from anything that will trigger that behaviour. If possible, don't talk about it until u feel strong enough to check your thoughts and imagination. As a christian, fill your heart and your thoughts wiv the bible. The awesomeness of God. The wonders of everything around u. Gradually, it will go and u my friend will become a testimony. I admire u a lot for coming out. I pray God will seek u out and help u.

bisous:
I went through a depressive state a few months back and went through what some people will call the dark night of the soul.......this made me question a lot of things and also had me digging deep for answers.....
I came across AMORC online and on the surface it seemed like it was ok ......but then anyone who has an understanding of symbolism in spirituality will agree that an upside down I.e inverted triangle points to something else and not to God......they have a symbol of an inverted triangle with a rose in it .......I'll advice that you do a deep soul search,the way to God resonates within every man because we have a bit of HIM in us and that is why it is said that "ye are gods"........also do your personal study,google search make comparisons.
Fast and pray and ask for the truth to be revealed to you

Very true. I have read a lot of books on spiritism and the occult. Name them.i have knowledge of it. I will not disclose what reading such books did to me. But it made me understand that except u are strong in christ, what u read, hear, see, etc has an impact in our lives. Infact what reading those books did to me was that it opened a portal. Like a demonic pathway! I could not explain certain things that was happening because I was not even a strong christian then. I read those things out of boredom, to me it was storybook but my spirit dwelt a lot on those things. I wouldn't want to say much. The more I read the more I look for new things. The only good path of all this is, u will see that the bible is written in symbols. Almost everything is symbolic. Secondly the black man is the most powerful human being on earth. The black skin is divine. Thirdly, it made me know that there is more to mankind and the there is God indeed.

I had a dream. I saw a northerner watching TV and crying. He was gnashing his teeth and wailing seriously. On the TV, they showed breaking news. Muhammed Ali is dead.

All is well that ends well............

This is where apc is fabricating lies so when the final result comes out and they loose. They will shout that it was rigged. Stop causing confusion.

Hmmm. Although they say don't judge a book by its cover. But wiv some pictures am seeing here, Hmmmmn.

Towards the end was when she started digging it. Very short video but nice.

Hahhahahhahahhahhahahhha.

This girl is just to beautiful for all this baggage. Why would she end up as a baby mama to a guy that already has another baby mama. I can imagine how many good guys that would love to be wiv her and take care of her.


I just hope chidimma no go be number 3. Seems any woman this guy comes in contact wiv is in trouble. Tiwa savage escaped because of her husband. The guy for rupture flavour waist if in try nonsense

dwilliams:
prior to that "one week" can u say dis same?

It was terrible o. Very bad. We don't no what is happening and why light is becoming constant

Omo for the past one week. Light has been so good in ikotun.

But she has big bones. She still looks thick Like Serena. She ultimately looks better now. Except she reduces her boobs she would still look massive sha.

olisa4:
it makes me wonder your definition of handsome

Keep wondering.

This guy is handsome. He has a nice smile. Is it because he isn't light skinned or because of his beards. That's his style but to say he isn't handsome, makes me wonder people's definition of handsome.

oakson:
@ the bolded, i wouldn't want to dwell more on this topic of Karma but I would only advise u to make a robust research on JUSTIFICATION in Christ. Then u will understand better that such occurrence(s) has long been crushed on the cross!

So does that mean people should keep sinning because of justification in christ. Please this argument holds no water. This is why people take the grace for granted because u can continue living in sin and one day cry to God and believe everything is ok. The world was not designed that way my dear. Karma is one thing the pastors and preachers have failed to preach. Karma is real. Jesus can wipe your sins away but will not wipe your karma away. You must reap what u sew. That is how God designed it so don't be thinking God has forgotten. Infact what u and that lady is saying is like saying God is unfair. My God is not unfair and he is just. If u kill, u must feel d impact one way or the other? No man born of a woman will go scot free. What the blood of jesus will do to u is to help u overcome when karma takes its course. Period.

My elder brother said more than 50 soldiers marched pass his area this morning. That it seemed they were going for war. He said they were not in any vehicle. Just matching pass. This happened in ilasamaja Mushin lga this morning. He said people were running and cars had to park.

19naia:
That may be an Ocelot, Its a rare type of dwarf leopard..But its coat pattern is more like a Civet... I could be a rare african Civet.. They never get very big, so that one in the photo may be almost an adult... They are not dangerous to people and should not be killed because of fear...We Need Education of people to know that they are not deadly and that they are the ones in danger of extinction because of people...

Oyan is the name of a type of west african Civet.. This may be the Oyan or related, it has a banded tail and spots somewhat like this one..
They extract musk from them to use in perfume.. Its also known as African Linsang Civet..

Who says education and enlightenment is not important. I am convinced that this is Africa's greatest problem. Feel so bad that the harmless animal was killed for nothing. Omase ooo

Thanks for the info

Jesus.......

Wow . Nice pictures

Honestly the black skin is beautiful.

They have been using it in the middle east years back. Its not new. Heard about it a long long time ago.

Who are this people deceiving. Shey una think say na dunce we be!How do u travel wiv your family all the way to go and vote. Is GEJ your relation or have u been given contract. Go to international airports and see how the rich and their families are running. Maybe they are going abroad to go and vote to. Tsheeeeeeeew.

sukkot:
I AM HERE SWEERIE. wagwan ? lmao at topic

yay....... sukky!. Sai Buhari but amma vote jonathan

lrguru:
who is talkin about pleasure here. A case was brought to this court and the defendant said that her hubby did not believe he was the one that broke the seal of authenticity, meanwhile, the same defendant claim that she has been using her own hand to break the said seal. What seems glaring here is that the lady has sold a fairly usedd good to the Respondent/plantiff as a new one, and that is scamming by all standards.

Hahahahahahahhahahaha. Abeg limmme ooo

Now I no a lot of guys are very clueless. U seem to believe women only get pleasure through penetration. U people should read. Understand women and stop being selfish. See all the nonsense am reading sha.



Op, try and read too. From a very young age I was told that women can brake their hymen through various ways wivout the actual act taking place. Number one, when a woman engages in sporting activities a lot, rigorous exercises, accidents, etc. It is possible ur own don break long long time ago. Doesn't mean u are not a virgin.