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Romance › Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Setaje(f): 1:41pm On Mar 03, 2015

GodMode:
Denying a guy sex is a very childish act...

I'm beginning to think bellamafia == setaje..

If her p**** was tight she wouldn't be complaining... From her write up its easy to know she is promiscuous...

Promiscuous guys are the same as promiscuous women...

It's very wrong to assume that her pvssy is not tight.

Romance › Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Setaje(f): 1:11pm On Mar 03, 2015

bellamafia:
Thanks for contributing, ive told him severally, he never learns. It sometimes feels like my pleasure is not a priority, which makes matters worse.

Chaiiiiiiiiiiii that's not to good o. So that means when he cums, he doesn't care about u. That's so wrong. That to me is being selfish. Might be wrong but maybe u should deny him sex when he is really in the mood. Once or twice and remind him that this is exactly how u feel when he doesn't make any effort to satisfy u. Just maybe he will get the picture.

By the way, Nigerians Ehhhhn! Hypocritical lot. Because it's a woman complaining of not being satisfied. U guys are already calling her names and telling her to stay but when men complain that their wives are not satisfying them enough and they go outside. There is no problem ba. Why don't u advise the men to manage too or be patient enough to teach the wife?. I expect people to tell her to be patient or teach him but instead she is being insulted. Sex is not food yet people cheat!

Op it seems to me your guy is selfish. Very typical for Nigerian men as I have heard. tongue

. Very impatient. Want to go straight to the point. Feel like it is only them that should enjoy it. If u open your mouth and say u want it this way. It means u are a HOE.

Try deny him sex. See his reaction. If he feels hurt then u can have a honest talk wiv him. If he acts non challant. Am sorry, ur guy is not sexually inclined after all. The problem now is wiv u. Can u cope?. Don't cause pain for that guy o by marrying him and then cheat. Its up to you. Just have it at the back of your mind. Nobody is perfect.

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Romance › Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Setaje(f): 12:36pm On Mar 03, 2015

What is marriage about if I cannot tell my man what and how I want it. I don't think you have talked this through wiv him. This is a man u plan to spend your life wiv and u are coming to nairaland to complain.

Op u have no problem. If u say u guys think alike and have the same view about life then telling him or helping him out won't be a problem. The only problem is if he is willing to learn or if he is a man that doesn't see sex as something to be enjoyed but for procreation. Tell him what u want my dear. His response would tell u all u need to know. If he is willing to satisfy u and himself please stay.

Business › Re: Forbes 2015 Billionaires List Released. 5 Nigerians Made The List by Setaje(f): 11:22am On Mar 03, 2015

ChristyG:
can u pls stop with d id1otic whinning and stop playing d victim card,so it is because of the 1966 civil war that u ibos brought upon urselfs,dat is why dere is no ibo person on d list?'doing business' is not about setting up 2by2 shops and selling fake and stolen spare parts,its way above dat,u guys are just small scale business people,so stop blaming other tribes for ibos ineffiencies.u ibos were d first to align with d north,so which status quo are u talking about?just loudmouths and chestbeaters.

na u dey mind am.......

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Celebrities › Re: Those Stars Who Bleach Their Skin(is White The New Black?) by Setaje(f): 10:12am On Mar 02, 2015

Besides the only bleached people in those pictures are vybes, dawn Richard, Michael jackson, lil Kim, Sammy sosa, the two trinas, nick minaj and Beyonce. The rest is due to good living. Definitely their body and skin will change

Celebrities › Re: Those Stars Who Bleach Their Skin(is White The New Black?) by Setaje(f): 9:25am On Mar 02, 2015*

See all them guys... Hypocrites. none of you would be caught dead wiv a dark skinned girl. Abeg let them bleach. Just wonder how d world will look like in 10-20 years. There would probably be no dark skinned person. Although am dark skinned I no wetin my eye don see. Nobody should come here telling me that am self hating. My experience as a dark girl hasn't been so good and I am not even lupita kinda dark. Tsheeeeeeeew!

Abeg Let them bleach. It makes them happy and boost their self esteem. I can't count how many of my friends I grew up wiv who were dark skinned. Almost all of them are light now. I no d kind of favours they get. Was told to bleach a little so I can get favours too. I no of a woman who her husband was always ashamed to take her out for any occasion. Met her in the saloon so she was telling her story. She said her husband was the one that encouraged her to bleach and since then her husband is always proud to carry her out. Not everybody has a thick skin to absolve discrimination.

So quit the hypocrisy. Let them bleach angry

Family › Re: In Fact, I Don't Know What To Call This(a Must Read)! by Setaje(f): 8:38pm On Mar 01, 2015

..... modu......... Oga o cry

Family › Re: Some "Lies" Our Parents Used To Tell Us by Setaje(f): 9:53pm On Feb 28, 2015

My mum and dad said they had no shoes. They always seem to walk from village to village wiv out shoes. My mum said she been dey beat guys wey mess up anyhow in her village that am a weakling. Meanwhile she was very skinny in the picture I saw of her when she was a kid. I don't no how she was beating men huh

? I thought my mum never talked to any man in life except my dad until when she and my dad quarrels. That's when the truth came out of how she would have married someone else. grin

Had to modify. They've been married 38 yrs now.

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Travel › Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Setaje(f): 9:10pm On Feb 28, 2015

lorRhyMeZ:
Russia and ukraine? N u think uv seen d worst?
We have Nigerians in poverty infested countries like cambodia,vietnam n yemen...N I believe if North Korea wud allow,u wud find Nigerians there...N when u ask them what they r doing in these countries,especially the young men amongst them,they wud either say they r international business men or playing professional football overseas...so stoooopid!

I no of two guys in Pakistan. Best believe that.......

Fashion › Re: Weird Things Some Nigerian Ladies Do Just To Have Big & Firm Boobs by Setaje(f): 9:06pm On Feb 28, 2015

All I know is that big breast is no fun for the carrier. angry

Fashion › Re: Weird Things Some Nigerian Ladies Do Just To Have Big & Firm Boobs by Setaje(f): 8:59pm On Feb 28, 2015

Mhizkel:
The one of iced water is so true..It makes d boobs firm n pointing

Events › Re: How Much Should An AVERAGE Nigerian Male Budget For Marraige by Setaje(f): 8:16pm On Feb 28, 2015*

My best friend got married last year.

Health › Re: Why Are Nigerian Nurses Always Rude And Mean? by Setaje(f): 7:26pm On Feb 28, 2015

AGgal:
OP, not all nurses are rude so don't generalize.

Some patients and their relatives too can be very annoying and rude. And you don't expect the nurse not to react negatively sometimes.

I'm not trying to justify the rude attitude of 'some' nurses. But some mannerless patients deserves some tongue-lashing from the rude nurses.

On no condition whatsoever should a nurse or any other health worker be rude to a patient or relative to a patient . Do u think they are happy being there.Not only nurses but some doctors are outright rude. They don't have patience Infact I just started hating doctors too when a relative of mine was admitted. I don't no if it's a Nigerian thing not to act professional. They talk to u anyhow. I think it's a Nigerian thing. The moment they are in a position to be in charge of something. They just become demonic.

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Sports › Re: What is your Most Boring Sport Ever? by Setaje(f): 1:51pm On Feb 28, 2015

Cricket

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Travel › Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Setaje(f): 9:23am On Feb 28, 2015

sukkot:
oh yes i will share them. awwww missed you too. i still aint come yet. am thinking it will be april.

Really, was about to ask if u were here. I even thought u have moved that's why u weren't regular here again. Thought u were tryna settle in. Ok. Can't wait for u to come o...... dont shift the date again o angry

Travel › Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Setaje(f): 9:08am On Feb 28, 2015

sukkot:
hey hun how are ya ? lmao. i kinda dipped out for a lil bit. being getting into some celestial enlightenement lately lol. how are ya ?

Am coo. Missed u a bit. I hope u will share some of those new celestial enlightenment. Can't wait.

Travel › Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Setaje(f): 9:02am On Feb 28, 2015

sukkot:
i am a very peculiar fellow. i dont lust after material goods and as such will never settle in a place i dont like because of comfort of life. i seek places where my spirit feels at peace. and i will never ever ever step into dubai or the middle-east or anywhere there are many arab types. i dont feel comfortable around arab types or their culture. even if you offer me a million dollars i would not step into the middle-east. i dont make the most of anything. anywhere i am, if i am not happy there - i try my best to get out of the place. thats just who i am. a strange fellow lol

Welcome back

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Romance › Re: Guys, Silly Things You Should Stop Doing When Your Are 25yrs& Above by Setaje(f): 10:11pm On Feb 27, 2015

Using stupid abbreviations like jawe. Instead of jare. Using silly smileys too when chatting. Its so childish. angry

Romance › Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Setaje(f): 4:46pm On Feb 27, 2015

Nigerian men grew up to always take charge. The moment they fall short they start acting aggressive towards the woman who is the bread winner so they won't loose their authority. That african man mentality is still engraved in a lot of them. Many of them see man and wife as master and slave. A woman who becomes the bread winner should be accorded due respect but many african men don't feel so.

Nevertheless, I do not pray for any man not to be able to cater for his family. Its a terrible thing o. Your once lovely wife might turn against u. I see this thing happen. The moment she begins to pay the house rent, the day u people fight is the day the whole house will no she is the bread winner. Women don't do a good job hiding it at all. Trust me I know! Infact it takes a very humble woman to cater for the family and not turn proud. My mum told me while they were younger and things were so tough. She was working while dad was looking for a job. She said she always dropped her salary under the pillow. She says this days we youths don't have native mentality and men are so irresponsible that they collect the womans money anyhow and even fight her when she doesn't drop. She said she new my dad felt somehow to ask so she did what a good wife should until when my dad got a very good job.

Personally I feel that women in general are not wired to cater. They are wired to nuture. Likewise when a man began to cook, clean and do stuffs generally done by women, he might just start to loose self esteem and his ego will be deflated which is understandable.

Lastly a good woman whether dependent or independent won't make u loose your respect. Its just quite difficulty to see an independent lady who is humble and it's hard to see a dependent man who appreciates his wife

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Health › Re: 22 Side Effect Of Masturbation by Setaje(f): 5:27pm On Feb 26, 2015

Hahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahah. Infact this thread is just too funny. Kilode!!!!!!. I think the best thing for people to do is to get a wife or husband.

Celebrities › Re: Elle Magazine Lists Zuriel Oduwole Among The Most Powerful Women In 2014 by Setaje(f): 11:48am On Feb 26, 2015

Psalmwise:
American Presidency wow...am marvelled on how she wanna achieve dat...,with her yoruba surname...
Y not nigerian presidency...,contesting beside buhari and jonathan

Yoruba surname huh

??. Does barrack Obama sound English to you.

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Jokes Etc › Re: GEJ And GMB Photoshopped As Women (Photo) by Setaje(f): 11:08am On Feb 26, 2015

Buhari seems finer because he is lighter. Jonathan actually looks good.

Culture › Re: Oruko Amutorunwa (generic Names In Yoruba Culture) by Setaje(f): 4:17pm On Feb 25, 2015

phocuyelu:
Aina isn't the female verson of Ojo. Ijebus don't bear the name "Ojo" but name a male child with his umblical cord round his neck Aina; I don't know why though. My name is Aina and I am a man.....hahahahaha. Heard Ainas/Ojos are very stubborn. What is the relationship?

Really. All the aina's I know are females including me! So strange for a man to bear aina undecided

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgent Vacancy For Personal Assistant by Setaje(f): 1:42pm On Feb 25, 2015

No name of company. angry

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: International Admissions Recruitment Officer Needed (Closed) by Setaje(f): 1:40pm On Feb 25, 2015

Is this for real? sad

Romance › Re: What Do You Think About Girls With Piercings And Tattoos? by Setaje(f): 12:07am On Feb 25, 2015

Had to stop wearing my nose ring. It was attracting the wrong kinds of people to me.

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Phones › Re: OAU Student Purchases Iphone6 That Uses Nokia Battery by Setaje(f): 9:20pm On Feb 24, 2015

I don't understand where a student gets hundred grand from. Ok she saved and sold her old phone so she can buy this phone. I wouldn't want to conclude but for a girl to save up to buy such phone means her parents cannot afford to buy her the phone. Why buy it? What am I saying. When girls buy human hair of 100k how much more a phone. Everybody living above their means and when they get scammed they cry foul. I dont know what a student is doing wiv a phone of more than 100 k!

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Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by Setaje(f): 12:36pm On Feb 24, 2015

ferdimako:
Are you married? Wait until you do. Women's latest efforts overshadow husbands' previous efforts. Men too get tired...abeg na for grave him go enjoy? You want the men to work till they die? See why many don't live long. Only widows full everywhere!

Hahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahah. Its true oooo. At the end of the day. Na the woman go do omugwo anywhere in the world and come back wiv loads of gifts and money. Maybe men should start doing omugwo too. This is what gender equality is all about. Lmaoooo.

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Romance › Re: Imo Village Head Dies After Marathon Sex With 2 Teenage Girls Aged 14 And 16 by Setaje(f): 10:48am On Feb 24, 2015

waternogetemeny:
THERE IS A WAY THAT SEEMS RIGHT FOR A MAN BUT THAT WAY LEADS TO DEATH. THIS IS THE GOSPEL TRUTH LITERALLY. CHANGE FOR UR OWN GOOD. MUMU!

See who is telling me to change. Do u even no me? This is coming from a known tribal bigot in this forum. Why don't u practise what you preach and grow the f*ck up. You cannot comment wiv out throwing insults. If I were to stoop to your level I would also throw some insults back. I am even making u feel important by replying u.

Politics › Re: Buhari's London Meeting Was In Transcorp Abuja - Fayose Claims (Pictures) by Setaje(f): 10:41am On Feb 24, 2015

There is just one thing I have noticed. This is for you people always insulting yorubas because of pdp. Am sure u people haven't noticed that the most vocal people against Buhari are also the yorubas. Fayose, Fani, Gani Adams. It was the same during obasanjo time. They also supported jonathan whole heartedly at the beginning but other regions won't see that o. Now they are called funny names for daring to change.

This is one reason I love yorubas and I must marry from that tribe. To me they are the true Nigerians. They are the true Democrats. Nobody should be made to love a candidate because u are from the same tribe or because u have the same religion. If it was so for the remaining tribes in Nigeria, this country would have moved forward more than this. The only reason a lot of people still support jonathan is because he is from south. Disregarding every other thing. Yorubas always vote individuals, if not jonathan shouldn't have gotten votes the first time.

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Romance › Re: Imo Village Head Dies After Marathon Sex With 2 Teenage Girls Aged 14 And 16 by Setaje(f): 10:25am On Feb 24, 2015

waternogetemeny:
SHATTAP UR MOUTH. IT IS OK TO LIE TO URSELF BUT DONT LIE TO OTHERS.

STAY ON UR LANE AND DO THE RIGHT THING, WITHOUT DRAGING PEOPLE THAT PLAY FAIR INTO UR MADNESS.

IN THE LAST MONTH, NO CRIME HAVE BEEN COMMITTED ANY WHERE ELSE IN NIGERIA ON NAIRALAND.

ALOT OF PEOPLE LEFT SAHARA REPORTERS BECOS OF THE ONE SIDED MEDIA. TRY TO PLAY BALANCE.

WE MADE NAIRALAND AND SHOULD BE ABLE TO DIRECT NAIRALAND, WEN IT IS GOING OFF TRACK FOR SUSTENANCE.

If you are not happy wiv it. Go and kill yourself. Why are u hyper venting on me. Or better still open your own blog or forum. Its that simple.

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Romance › Re: Imo Village Head Dies After Marathon Sex With 2 Teenage Girls Aged 14 And 16 by Setaje(f): 10:06am On Feb 24, 2015

waternogetemeny:
MODS AND SEUN PLEASE TRY TO REGULATE THINGS U PUT IN TH FP. YORUBAS AND HAUSAS EVEN CENTAL AND MIDDLE BELT GROUP SHOULD GET THEIR FAIR SHARE.

THAT IS BETTER FOR YOUR BUSINESS AND NAIRALAND. NOBODY LIKES A BIGGOT

I heard linda ikeji does the same thing. Purposely put crimes done by only yorubas. I guess seun and linda are tribal bigots then grin

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