ILuvBreasts:
I'm 22 and in the university for 4 years. I'm thinking of having a girlfriend,my guys have been teasing me a lot with it. I don't just have the motivation to toast in school...I don't know why.
Maybe because it's capital intensive
I'm tired of trying and I hope it's not an issue

You just need an hole to be dig .. don't put yourself in relationship wahala omoboy

Map1:
you be yeye Man, a real man don't fight for woman,if the guy kill you after your death another man will still bang her, Don't ever fight some one you don't know,he might come back for you

WISEWORDS OF THE DAY , DON'T EVER FIGHT SOMEONE YOU DONT KNOW HE MIGHT COME BACK FOR YOU

NearDeath:
Hi. Am a citizen of south-south delta state, one of the most worthless state in nigeria. Have been tortured heavily by a deity(juju) for 3years and i cant bear it anymore. I've lost contact with humanity. Pls go ahead and suggest a potent liquid for a quick and short painless death (apart from sniper).

I beg no kill yourself sef oooo buahari go miss you

menabae:
Op this not a big deal,there are lot of girls that do even more than that for their poor bf....good girls like us do exist ok :-

if person broke no me say poor boyfriend this your words mean another things only wise can relate ... Nigeria girl mentality can't never change I swear see this one too

Woman are pretender and hypocrites in nature

englishmart:
My ex invited me for her wedding. I knew it was to spite me. But whatever be the case, I'm not attending even for $200,000 voucher.

What about you?

i no get time , am a introvert

Warrgidanairala:
News reaching me about Nairaland guys goes thus: 1:That they don't respect and value women. 2:That they are hustlers,no much big boys here. 3:That most of them live a reckless lifestyle I.e smoke and drink. 4:That they are for the streets. 5:That they have some self acclaimed redpillers who have nothing to offer aside big prick and always rant about how they will shift a woman's womb,they mostly spend their time at the gym trying to prey on successful women. As a new guy here I just want to clarify if all these things are true because that's what the lady that introduced me to Nairaland told me.

the girl that's introduce you to NAIRALAND saying all this about us is a werey ... All guys here are hardworking and we are into professional works

What Is The Best Thing A Girl Can Give To His Bf To Prove Her Love For Him ?

OBO

reccy:
Hello, this write up is solely from my own assumption and certainly from the general view of the "MEN" outside there. This is not a case of redpill or simp whatsoever..... This is however, a case of, "the right thing must be done".

Oya, lets roll........

1) Never put yourself at disadvantage to please her,: They don't worth it. Believe me, you first, your mother, father. Infact, your extend family before her.

2) Don't allow her to come in during financial crisis: to all my new 18 years old guys who, in the interest of the society, want to have a girlfriend, please never allow them to help you during your difficulties except if your want your issue to be talk of the town if things go south.... except if you are also ready to double it in future for her in CASH and not never in kind. They don't understand 'kind'.

3)Never tell her everything about you. Make a reservation and let her finds out on her own if she is curious about it, with that, you gain respects.....

4) Do not explain things to her when she is angry: Kindly give her space to calm down, kindly tell her the logic behind the whole issue and throw away that explanation.... We don't need it here!

5) *[b][/b]Never teach a girlfriend in a room with only both of you at home*: you and i know there is no discipline you want to show by wanting to teach on her visit. Uncle, are you a man at all?there is a greater chances that she will not learn anything unlike in a casual environment. Please save that and do the needful!....wink.....

6) Your parent should be the last place she should know while " girlfriending" and "boyfriending" each other. However, this can change a little when you are serious to marry her.
.......nobody should go and display fake responsibilities to my innocent mother before she would be on my neck when things get south...

7) Never allow her move in with you before marriage. It is a sin before jesus and Allah. They hate it.....
Kindly save the feeling and respect for marriage sake. It helps....

Do not show her your weak point: Ladies are good in capitalizing in such area. They have A1 in such area of concentration from the university above.

9) Never make the mistakes of showing or revealing your financial worth. You do that, you are doom.... Mine is to write, yours is to add meaning to it!

10) Never make mistakes of telling her you can do anything for her. Just let her know that you can do the right things for her. Make no satan incarnate make you go slap cultist on her behalf. Nah "on the run you go dy" till thy kingdom come.

11) add yours......

To read is yours, to understand is divine.....

Bravo ..... that's how Starz Do

tosaino95:
I was in the company where i work when i overhead one guy telling the guy on the other side exactly where i am,that the girl he told him about have break up with him.
And without letting the girl finishing her break up line, he told her he expect the break up because he knew when she return to school,she will change.
Why do these most especially to guys not in school
more of the reason i ghost my ex even though she is my type of woman.
And that same shit happen when a guy takes his girlfriend or wife abroad to be living there,after some months the lady will start changing behaviour.
I think guys are actually right for calling Nigeria girls useless.
Peace Out

VERY VERY USELESS

chatinent:
Assume this scenario: you and your wife have a lil issue, and she refused cooking for you.

Your sister came by, and decided to prepare sth for you so far your wife wouldn't. Your wife then slapped your sister for entering “her kitchen without her consent” after a little war of words.


Honestly, what will you do?

which kind question be this Nitori olorun

[quote author=Escabado post=100358856]If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .



PUSSY

SolutionsMed:
Anthony Agbonlahor Esq practices law in Nigeria, and has taught law at the University of Abuja. In this interview during the International Women’s Day, he says marital rape does not exist under the Nigerian laws. He also speaks on property, and gender affirmative action. Excerpts:

What is your position on the moves to reintroduce marital rape in the Violence Against Persons Prohibition (VAPP Act)?

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No, a man cannot rape his wife. Once a man is legally married to a woman – that is there is mutual matrimonial contract between husband and wife, it implies consent and it is irrevocable. Therefore, you cannot bring the issue of rape.

But in the UK since the 1990s, marital rape may be established where there is no consent at the material time and with proof of violence?

Why should the man resort to force and violence if he is not possessed? Outside marriage, where consent is gotten by deception or where the person is stupefied by injection or alcoholic beverage or force, it is rape; but a man cannot rape his wife. If there is a marriage certificate from the Registry, it means that a man and his wife are one. If they are one, then no one rapes himself or herself. This applies to even church marriage under the Act and Islamic marriage under Islamic Law. Those who marry underaged commit statutory rape since a girl below 16 cannot give consent, but have you heard them taken to court? This is Nigeria; under Nigerian jurisprudence today, a man cannot rape his wife.

Is this from a religious or cultural interpretation?

Even in law, a man and his wife are one. That is why it is difficult for a wife to testify against her husband in court, unless it has to do with an offence relating to property or sexual assault or rape of a minor. A man cannot even be charged for the destruction of the wife’s property unless it was acquired before the marriage. While they are together, her things belong to the man.

Several civil society organisations are fighting against such paternalistic practices?

This is about the law. They can only make noise in the social media. Why don’t they test it in court first? Let there be a judicial pronouncement on these.

The Supreme Court has pronounced in favour of female property inheritance, for instance. Do you still insist that a man can claim the wife’s property?

In law, there is individual responsibility, or proprietary rights. That is a man and woman can own their respective properties. But where there is joint ownership, how then do you distinguish which part belongs to the man and which to the woman? It is a legal logjam. You do not buy joint property with Mr and Mrs because the Registrar at the Land Registry will not accept names with such joint titles of Mr and Mrs; it is either in the husband’s or wife’s name or if they don’t trust each other, they may use that of any of the children. This is because assuming the man dies before the woman or vice versa, and the family wants to inherit what was left, what happens to the woman? It creates difficult problems. If they have a registered company where both have shares, they can buy the property in the name of the company and have the property registered under the company, it gives them security.

Assuming the man dies and the woman remarries, or they don’t have a child, how do they share their properties? It creates problems. But I still repeat that if a man is angry and destroys his wife’s property like gold, jewelleries and trinkets, it is still his own, so when his anger calms down, he will pay.

What is your take on the growing cases of rape of young girls?

How can you kidnap for the purpose of sexual gratification? That is why I like what the NDLEA is saying that without drugs, there can be no crime. Some people can do anything under the influence of drugs. Nowadays, some young boys sleep with their mothers to make money, or the men sleeping with their daughters. In those days, people who commit these offences blamed the devil, but not anymore, the devil has been acquitted; drugs are responsible.

Woman are agitating for more positions in government. What is your take?

Women are their own greatest problem. Do you know that the highest number of voters in any country are women? The day women in this country unite, go under the umbrella of women like Aisha Yesufu or Oby Ezekwesili, they will take power. But I support that some positions should be conceded to women as an affirmation. They are good administrators and are less likely to be involved in corruption.

Do you agree with some people who say women are not essentially weak, so we should be talking about equal opportunity, not affirmative action?

The fact that women are clamouring for equal rights, they need unity more than affirmative action. If a woman becomes the president of this country today, the National Assembly will pass some of these laws. First of all, make all political nomination forms free and let the candidates go and campaign on their popularity.

The government said it is empowering women in the rural areas. What is your take?

When you set up cottage industries in rural areas where the households can benefit, if you have a grinding or milling machine bought for a community either for casava, millet, sorghum etc and people go and use it for free, it will be more beneficial to rural women than sharing the cash to them. In the present economic situation in this country, how many women have actually been empowered?

https://dailytrust.com/why-marital-rape-is-not-recognized-in-nigerian-laws-agbonlahor

you can put it in the law nah

fati2001:

photo shop

tee59:
I don't know why some men are feeling shy or ashamed to buy condoms from stores or any where around. I read a story of a married woman who's pregnant, and her baby is just 3 months old. She said, it was her husband's fault. Cus the man will not use condom because of shyness and being ashamed buying it from stores. And my question now is, can a woman/lady buys the condom for her man cus of this or it's only man's business.

why the man they shy to buy condoms nah ! I remember I dey even buy gift like pants , bra , sneakers and all for my ex when we are together sef Man need to be romantic to our wife and girlfriend

tee59:
A lady friend of mine share a real life experience of her friend to me now.This women left her husband with two kids last four months CU's he was not taking care of them.Whereas, she was already in a relationship with another man who had been married for eleven years without a child before packing out of her husband's house.She lied to the man she was pregnant, which made him to get a flat and a jeep for her and also taking care of her children. Now, she wants to end the relationship with the man having gotten what she wanted.

So you know yourself that Nigeria girl are all useless

clevvermind:
A Lady should not ask a guy out, cos it will make the lady look cheap people will say.

A Lady should not ask a guy of sex because it will make the lady look cheap people will say.

A lady should not woo a guy cos it will make the lady look cheap people will also say.

But what about begging a guy money? Would it not make the lady cheap also?

When it comes to begging a guy money, ladies dnt see it as making themselves cheap.
Let me ask. ladies, are you not making yourself cheap when you beg boys money? Why should you beg a boy money when you want to protect your dignity? Ladies are really funny. So, begging money from guys doesn't affact the dignity abi? Funny tins.

There was one lady i added on facebook and she accepted and we became friends. We use to chat often. After 3weeks, she told me that i should help her with the sum of 3k that her parent is broke now and that she is passing through tough times. I told her to send me her bank account details and the next day i pay 4k into her account. She said thank you.
After 2weeks, she told me again to help her with 7k telling me all sought of story as before. I pitied her and payed it into her account. In a month's time, she came demanding for 7k again, i then get annoyed and told her that she is making herself cheap by begging me money every time, that i'm not her boyfriend nor a central bank. I told her that i just felt pity for her that was why i gave her those money, that i now know the kind of a worthless beggar she is. Trying to use me. I then quickly deleted her from my friends' list.

Know this as a lady, that when you beg boys money, you are also making youself cheap and reducing your worth. Real ladies don't beg money like beggar. If you cannot ask a guy out or tell a guy that you want sex, don't also beg him money at all. You are also making yourself cheap by doing that. So, ladies don't beg guys money again.

URGENTLY 2K

Toks2008:
This is a sequel to the thread .. https://www.nairaland.com/6478860/fun-thread-ladies-choose-poison

As we already know, no lady is perfect and almost everyone of them have a character defect they need to work on so guys tell us, which one of these ladies will you settle for provided that she is excellent in every other aspect. You must choose one.

1. Smokes excessively.
2. Takes too much alcohol.
3. Very Arrogant/Non-submissive
4. Promiscuous.
5. Very financially demanding.
6. Very Lazy.
7. Very Dirty
8. Sexually unattractive.
9. Stark illiterate.
10. Hates sex/ Sexually boring
11. Hates cooking.(Yes some ladies hate cooking and will never cook)
12. Social media addict.(Always on social media)
13. Artificial/Cosmetics body.
14. Being dishonest and lying regularly.
15. Violent/Destructive anger.
16. Devilishly Stubborn.
17. Very Controlling.
18. Diabolic
19. Very Rude and Condescending.
20. Hateful/Malicious/Unforgiving.
21. Dangerously Jealous and Possessive.

As you can see, the list is so long and that is because of the very intricate nature of women but the truth is that if we guys consider the faults of every lady we come across, we will never ever have a woman to call our own so tolerance and understanding remain the best options so just pick your headache and use your paracetamol as at when due or just forget about having a lady in your life and enrol yourself in a seminary

too much alcohol still dey manageable , I would be nacking her every night when she's is drunk noni .. just like dream come through

athenswonders:
The invention of simping came from Lord Lugard, he dared told his girl friend flora shaw to name this country as a romantic toast....

then she named it Nigeria...

Gentle men and ladies, na there problem start ooo

na simpto Gin dey affect NIGERIAN

Ruben225571:
What's happening in this photo? What’s your Stake on this?

Love or foolishness?

that black girl na glutton

Prettyangelng:
Most physical abuse from men is caused by mental abuse by women.

A man's desire is not sex, he can get it from anywhere. A man's desire is not food, he can get that from the best restaurant. A man's desire is not dressing, he sees women even better dressed than you every day. A man's desire is his respect. If you take that from him, you will cause the beast in him to be activated. He needs respect. He needs you as a woman to massage his ego. Act like a queen then he will be your king.

ONE OF THE WISE LADY ON NAIRALAND

Fazemood:
If you find yourself in this service how focused can you be

church of Satan

orohbiro:
There is a guy I met last week at a keke who paid my tfair and beg me to have my number he send me money to subscribe that same day at night when he called, he has barbing saloon for males and females, he took me out for shopping 3days ago which cost him almost 50k, bug I don't like him I have a fiancée already and I pity him cause he us just a saloon owner I want to get rid if him cause dey call me miss expensive in school, I don't think he can cope with me cause I will wreck him. pls advise me on how do dump this guy is ugliness is out of this world.

The guy is foolish ! poor guy for that matter

chrismorg00101:
I'm 21 years I've dated my boyfriend for 2 years 8 months. He is my first, i visited him to spend Easter with him. I met his dad there and that's my first time of meeting his family. On Saturday, we were making love in his room he locked the door from inside and removed the key from the door. While we were making love, his dad opened the door with a spare key and entered wearing only boxers and was fully erected. I rushed my clothes and covered myself immediately but my boyfriend didn't shake instead he started begging me to allow his dad join us in a party, the dad to join the in begging and I later allowed them. Didn't know what came over me throughout Saturday and Sunday, it was more like a sex carnival they were just taking their turns on me funny enough, I enjoyed his dad more than my boyfriend. His dad gave me 250,000 and my boyfriend gave me 20,000. I came home this morning and I started reflecting on what happened. How could I allow them to use me as a sex slave. It was as if I was jazzed because ordinarily, I would not have allowed it. I feel used and dirty I can't even tell my friends what happened. I'm thinking of punishing my boyfriend by breaking up with my boyfriend or by dating only his dad. His dad is a single dad his mum is late. So it is not as if I'm sleeping with someone's husband it's obvious my boyfriend has no atom of respect for me

saka maje

redsalsac9:
A married lady has narrated her terrifying experience with husband who behaves like a real life snake.


The lady who pleaded anonymity while sharing her story via “LifeMatters” wrote;

“I was married to a man for 2 years without knowing that he was a snake. I have heard of countless of stories that sound very mysterious to my ears, but I never knew that I would be sharing mine someday.

I got married to my husband who I met in a supermarket, he was very cool. We met while we were shopping in the same section, I wanted to select from the various brands of detergents on the shelf, and he came close and pointed at one of the detergents there.

He said it had a very nice scent and was nice in making clothes very clean, so I picked it up, and we started talking and that was how we met.

He asked for my number and we started talking on phone and going on dates. I didn’t really get to meet any of his family members, but he was lovely. We fell in love and started planning our wedding. I asked to meet his people but he avoided the question, because I loved him, I didn’t think much about it.

On our wedding day, he came with his parents and some of his family members, and I was so happy. We moved in together and it was fun all the way. He bought me a car and made me feel very comfortable with him. He even went and opened for me a shop where I could sell variety of goods.

However, there was something about him that I didn’t really understand. He built a very small structure downstairs where he said he used for prayers late at night. I didn’t seem to understand why he wanted to pray in somewhere other than in the room, and when I asked him, he said he didn’t want to disturb me.

Then one day he was out, I searched the whole house for the keys to that small room and finally saw it. I went downstairs and opened the room and to my greatest surprise what I saw really baffled me. I saw a snake’s skin that looked like it recently shed its skin. I was scared but composed myself and played cool. I thought of asking him but I didn’t want to cause any form of awkward situation so I acted asleep when he was about to go for his normal prayers.

Then when he moved to go I opened my eyes, and started following him without him knowing.

He didn’t....

Read Full story here: https:///lady-narrates-her-experience-with-husband-who-acts-like-a-snake

la click na bend

1Anonymous1:
I know what am talking about oh please, currently now it a danger zone.. don't fall for there seduction or manipulation... In Mr Mosdi Voice.. (Nigeria Girls......)..

No girls loyal oh. all are bitch want money and you get the pussy..

The Worst Part Of It Now Is Female Born In 2003/2004 80 percent are receiving dick back too back yes.. I know what am talking about...I can proof it...

The one that claim that they have boyfriend... 87 percent have been frolicking up and down and some when you ask them out.. and they see you are big boy with nice ride ... you smell nice... the will still fuvk you... ha there boyfriend don suffer...

The Married Ones. Oh god am so fucking tired of what I see and confirm always.. they also fuvk like hell too...

The Fact Is That Non Of Them Are Loyal Don't Be Fools.

In Naira Marley Voice Is Not Your Girlfriend is Just Your Turn.. She Has Been Passing It Round.. Till It Get Too The Last Bidder . Who Will Put The Salvage Home.. Bleep that Shit....


Abuja, Benin, Lagos, These are the place i know
That Prostitution (Ashewo) Is Now A Big Lucrative Business... Nothing Too Feel Shy About.. Cos They Get The Big Luxurious Ride And Lifestyle... It A Norm Now... Pussy Is Really Working Hard....

Now One Hoe.. Will Start Saying Guys Ain't Loyal.. He Cheated On Me Blah blah... Not Your Mate Sharing pussy too tempt them...

After You Are off the service.. you will be looking for a rich good looking, good fearing husband.. kai kai.

Girls Now Are Days Ain't worth Shit. ...

Guys Please Stay Safe.. Don't Let One intimacy gadget Too Hold u down in the name of marriage... girls are damages... now....

If You Need Kids Guys I Also Support The Idea of a Baby Mama Style.. And A Contract... Stuff..

No Carry Ogbanje Put For House Biko..

Few Years From Now... Only Virgin We will have in This Country That Will Be On The High Side Will Be Children Of 5 years Old Downward. .

No Offense Please. . No Foul Language.... Just Sharing... The Survey I Had Made For The Past 3 years Ago.. ..

Thanks.

but if you prayer and follow the will of God you are gonna see the woman of your dream ... everyman on Earth is already have woman attached to him so calm down bro .. everything is gonna be good for you

Nodeydopass:
Good evening nlders, I need your input on this situation I'm in and I'll appreciate if you can help with your honest opinion.

There's this girl In my street that I like and will want her to be my girlfriend. I met with her about a month ago and I told her I wanted to see her and discuss properly with her and since then, I've been trying to get to know her on WhatsApp (she gave me her contact) but this girl is very boring on WhatsApp. I literally had to bring up ways to make the conversation going but it always end with some awkward silence as she usually reply with short answer or even abbreviation.

So I decided to have a proper date with her and I scheduled a day and time. I picked her up at her place and we went out on a "date". Throughout the date, it was me just bringing things up and she was also making attempt to flow along and the conversation was going smoothly, tho I was the one bringing up topics et al. The date was cool, interesting and even whenever she had to do something outside that we had to go together, she held my arm all through and the physical contact was unhindered.

Then we came back from date and she asked for my picture and I told her I don't have any but I'll take one the following day but she said I shouldn't bother. However, since that day we went out, she hasn't even called me or even message me on Whatsapp even though she's online.

Tho I like this girl but I believe the feeling and the communication should be mutual and shouldn't be always me chatting her up all the time, so I let her be. I'm really thinking about her but I don't want to contact her. I feel she has to make an effort too. or am I being too unreasonable?

Buy her Gift and you see her following you like monkey

You are making some sense

mmadu4:
i never had this happened to me before . what could she possible see in me? though im handsome and very easy going hmmm i just dont know what to do . i dont want to hurt her too she cried today because i was absent .

werey

I can't even hold guy hand only my blood brothers

God bless you Op na wetin my ex used scam be dat ,, he told me is not dating anyone only me and this stupid girl is even having boyfriend wey she like gan and rosko wey dey fuvk give her money but cuz na me dey give her money pass na me she give format pass , I bought phone , paid house rent and alot more shaa but now I can't do anything for woman wey I never marry put for house again ..I don wise

Kyrestas:
There is a lady that use to Starred at me, any time i went to her Shop to buy somethings, she will kept asking me some questions, like what have you Cook ? Who is your best friend? Why are you still single? And so on , please expert explain to me , because i am Tired whit her Distobancing.

if you like her let us know stop palatia for us here joor