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sunshineV:
walai u go sufer on earth and in heaven

Polynek:
Experience is the best teacher :PExperience is the best teacher

chatinent:
Stupidity is a choice but you abuse the privilege.

HaBaE:

ArrewaDrugGang:
Simple. Call those people you bought beer for to divide your daily feeding among themselves

Kriss216:
You really need a bottle of Beer now to calm down.

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....

One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.

A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me.

PrimeWatermark:
Send your CV to the email address in my signature.

Chummynoni:
This is the reason why you have to be careful when choosing username. Your username might be turnoff for some people, to entrust their kids especially females in your hands. Goodluck to u

Drella:
Bachelor of Social Sciences!!

Does that even exist

obembet:
The only way to get justice is to go for tradition.

Vinojamesbb:
As long as its called good luck soap, there's no need for you to work harder,,this stupid man want to confuse me with his scam stuff and besides a babalawo can't tell you the secret behind how this soap is being prepared, so don't fool us ok

TheWealthiest:
so you're the lady that works in Mobil??

come and help or link me nau. I'll treat you right. Lovethaa got to know you through fetish means, and he still believes that's what worked for him.

Leave him ASAP. he won't stop.

@Thewealthiest this is no dey work for mobil ..you better run from liability ... Na that his boy argue wey dey abisvee they send 100k to her sometime foolish girl


Once again, i can be your man. i'll treat you right .

imagine your boyfriend slapping you now, if you marry him na to dey punch you right, left and center.

Sundrus:
Rapist formula

secretkeeper219:
Hello nairalanders Christmas is here again , I wish us all a merry xmas celebration.

I'm an old member I created this account to stay anonymous

Back to the matter of the day
I'm 22 and a student in one university in the eastern part of Nigeria, I have been in school even during the lockdown I refused to go back home because of some of the business am doing in school and some personal Issues.

So my parents pressure me to come home and I came back on 22 Dec, and what I discovered in my home didn't go well with me .

My mum is a devoted Christian, this kind of churchy churchy kinda person and she don't want her children to be wayward but I have cross boundaries so mum am sorry.

When I get home I find out that my cousins are back from Lagos where they all base and they came home with house appliances like GENERATOR, TV, Dstv,home theater etc .

I am the youngest among them all and I came back home like a commoner, I came home with just my cloths and I didn't buy anything as little as bread or anything, so people in my neighborhood sees me like someone who went to the city to hustle and came back empty handed, my cousins has been Using that advantage to turn me into an errand boy,, they send me to the bank, always ask me to wash his bike and all that lol,, am always humble because of my mum oo. I don't really want to disclose who I am and when am done with the task they will tip me with #200 lol. So last night I went to charge my phone in his room and my cousin was telling me how life was in lagos.
So he told me he was enjoying life and all that, he was saying all this in a mockery way and I was just paying attention to him, I don't want to make it look like I was jealous of his wealth and all that...

So this morning he ask me to me deliver his clothes to a dry cleaner you some how the cloths got stained, this guy was furious and he asked me if I knew how much he got that clothes and that he can't wear a stain white shirt he was talking too much and this man was creating a scene and me I'm an introvert I got angry and told him that he has a poor man mentality, so he came out plain and he was explaining all his achievement in the presence of everyone. I felt embarrassed and I left to my room what this guys and my family don't know is am not who I claim to be.


I know what I babe acquired even as a student in Enugu, I know how I hustle in school and all that, I can place him and his entire house hold on monthly salary and will never run broke, I have a car, 4 plot of land, a phone outlet, a boutique etc ...

All this I acquired it via ill gotten money (yahoo yahoo) don't judge me you won't believe what I went through in school and I can't come out plain because my mum will reject me , my dad will disown me, and she will report me to the police immediately she find out I have a car to my name I know what am saying This woman has made me to live like slave to this brothers of mine .

THE QUESTION NOW IS HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY MUM THAT I GOT ALL MY WEALTH THROUGH A LEGIT WAY AND NOT IN A FRAUDULENT WAY. AND ALSO GET HER TO ACCEPT MY MONEY OR EVEN ALLOW ME TO USE IT TO BUILD EVEN A BUNGALOW FOR OUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY??


I want to show my cousin that he is a poor man, I know how much I use in buying cloths,, what is a bike I have plans of errecting a 5 bedroom bungalow in my compound, my mother has been the issue here if I tell you how I suffer to make this money una go pity me,, make YOU no allow any motivational speaker make you go start university without any financially stable parents or source of income ooo,, they were the once that push me and now they are here to mock me...

I want to bring my car home and let my mum do her worst but my other mind is telling me no because I know how much mum suffer with us when we were kids.....

Sorry for my typos errors am a lazy writer.

wisdomiskey:
In a leaked chat, a group of white girls can be seen making derogatory remarks and gloating on how black guys are happy to go above and beyond to please them.

One of them even said a black guy will happily allow her pee in his mouth

Source: Snapchat
Screenshots:

iLegendd:
There is an atom of truth to what you said. Since this year, I haven't made up to 10k. Life no balance at all. Even money to buy onion in this Christmas, no way.

I'm considering suicide. All thanks to "being broke."

Disappointed:
Nairaland men are always broke, they never stop fvcking around and begging here, and they are not intelligent and brilliant at all ...
Finally, Nairaland is a failed site and Nigeria is a failed country!!!
Also, before I forget— the women here are all dumb and b*tches!!!

NewDelhi:
Just finger a 9ja girl and use style to scent your hand. 8/10 will definitely smell. Very pathetic.

jidamsel43:
Good friends always make the best partners.
There is no gainsaying in the fact that your platonic girlfriend wants more than just a friend from you. Yoruba adage says' Silence is the beginning of man's misfortune '

I know that your mind still desires this girlfriend over your new-found heartthrob. Since no one was courageous enough to express your feelings at the right time. It means that she needs to be told her position as just a friend and not a future partner. It would end in catastrophe if the idea of taking the two friends out at the same time comes to reality. I will suggest you give your future partner the best treat on a special day. This is very important before you decide the fate of her friend. Caution must be taken so as not to lose both friends. To kill two birds at a time in this situation is dicey.

Tread softly

RealGboy:
Guys pls so I have been talking with this babe on Facebook for a while .. she stays at ojota while I stay at jakande ajah.
I asked her to come spend Christmas with me and she told me to send money,
Yesterday I send 3k for her transport to come and she told me she would start coming early this morning, I have been calling her since morning and her phone is switched off..

I hope there is no accident recorded today ?.. cos I'm really worried for her ..

Modified
I just saw her calls from a strange number , she was crying saying she' was obbed and want me to send another 2k to her so she can start coming , .
I have sent it .. Hopefully she will soon come ... Shame on smellysperm and hashtagged

Modified
I hate women from now on.... How can you scam me of my hard earned money .. na now my eye don clear. ......

GayPontiff:
Pull clothe dey run towards d sign. Something must kill a man

Lovethaa:
It's saddens my heart when people call men that treat a lady nicely as Simps .
"A Good woman's heart is Like a trophy and only the best player wins "...
An average pretty lady today have over 5k Facebook friends and thousands of followers Not to talk of Men at her area or work place,

With lots of Men chasing her ,you would have to prove that you are worthy if you really want her to choose you over the rest ,

The world is so messed up,That "wrong" Is Now the New "Right "
How did we arrive at this point.?.

People Now see silly men who smoke all day,sleep with different women and make money fraudulently as "Alpha Males'..
While the church goers and responsible men are "Simps"

Men now see women as piece of boxers that can be easily replaced.

In the Bible it says "For God so Loved the world that he gave his only Begotten son"..
This by far is the greatest Love ever Recorded, Followed by a Mother's Love .

Do we now call God a simp For giving out his only Child to an adulterous and wicked world, or should we call our lovely mothers simps for putting thier children's needs before thier own.

NO!! True love does not expect returns .

"A Good woman is like Gold , he who finds her finds a Good thing "

I went the extra mile to get my wife because I saw qualities I admire in her ..
And being the Good woman she is , she gave me hard time , .
Nobody will ever value something they got freely..

My babe looks up to me for Everything,
. I correct her like a Father and treat her Like my baby..
I put her through when she makes mistakes, I understand she's not perfect.,
I provide the best food and life for her ,
If All this makes me a simp .. Then I'm proud to be a Simp..