₦airaland Forum

MirJay:
Man Of God I haven't eaten since morning.. Pls help me

Bar1941:
It's hightime the FBI, INTERPOL and DUBAI POLICE come after ex senator Dino Melaye as well, he and Hushpuppi have a lot in common and it seems they are business associates.

Righteousness89:
A whole lot of the folks you see flaunting themselves are not personally happy!

Many are tied down in one entanglement or the other that is draining them Physically and Spiritually ..

They look for any avenue to get some joy!

that Show off gives some temporary joy!

That's why you see a person, who you see has all the money, fame, mansions and all that! Only to hear that he jumped from 27 story building or he/she committed suicide..

Don't soil your hands in any format! The consequence is always greater than the Joy!

Fear Baba GOD!

Do Honest work!

Baba GOD Blesses!His Own may not come at the time you want but it will arrive at the Right time..

Righteousness89:
Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity.

For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb.


All the Shows, the noise and big boys here and there ends in this..

Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.

boookworm:
Edo is not Lagos.

Obaseki is not ambode.


Cowardice is not wisdom

bigseank:
Honor you father and your mother so that your days maybe long Det 5:16

Cursed is anyone who dishonors their father or mother Det 27:16

Whoever strikes his father or his mother shall be put to death Ex 21:17

and Noah said cursed be canaan a servant of servants shall he be to his brothers Gen 9:25

This is the height of it all. nothing nothing should result to you exchanging blows with your father no matter the situation.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Tripitaka:
Have you dated a girl who is a product of incest?
Have you dated a girl whose brother raped the mother for ritual purposes?
Have you dated a girl who grew up to find out that her actual dad is the family driver, but the pregnancy was passed on to the "willing dad"?
Have you dated a girl whose own father has been sexually abusing?
Have you dated a girl whose mother's nude pictures are all over the internet because she was caught shoplifting?

I believe your answer would be "No", as you would have included these in your narrative.

The families in your narrative can hardly be classed as "troubled" as I would like to think that your experiences are the peculiarities of your average Nigerian family. The average Nigerian family where diabolism and fetishism is real; where cohabitation is in vogue because the government outlaws abortion and your parents would insist on you living with the man who impregnated you even if he has no interest in marrying you; where young widows are still oppressed by their late husband's relatives; where poverty and unemployment is the norm hence a 40yr old unemployed man is nothing out of the ordinary.

The women you have been with are not from troubled families, at least in my opinion. They are simply from Nigerian families.

Jaynom:
I like when Christians talk about "GIVING". Give to who? How do you give to God? You think GIVING your Pastor money is giving to God? Do you people study the Bible at all? If u want to give to God directly then Give to the NEEDY! There's no verse in the entire Bible that says give money to your Pastor who are already comfortable/Rich but there are over 12 scriptures that link giving to The needy as giving to GOD DIRECTLY! you people should study scripture ooo!

Karmaisme:
Honestly, I don't have any secret I'm hiding because I can't date two girls at the same time. Whenever I meet a lady and she agree to start a relationship with me, I tell her everything she needs to know about me.

I treat any girl I'm dating as a potential wife.

kestolove95:
Nd jos news no dey pass man die day of his wedding, man say no on the altar, as men dey do dia own now nobody don talk o, wen we start now... Hmmmn

anointedak:
Leviticus 27:30-33 ESV

“Every tithe of the land, whether of the seed of the land or of the fruit of the trees, is the Lord's; it is holy to the Lord. If a man wishes to redeem some of his tithe, he shall add a fifth to it. And every tithe of herds and flocks, every tenth animal of all that pass under the herdsman's staff, shall be holy to the Lord. One shall not differentiate between good or bad, neither shall he make a substitute for it; and if he does substitute for it, then both it and the substitute shall be holy; it shall not be redeemed.”

You can check other versions.

A fifth should be 5/100 * Your Tithe. So if your Tithe is supposed to be 10,000 for Instance, your new Tithe will be (5/100 * 10,000) + 10000 = 10,500. 500 additional

IF on the other hand it is cumulative or a high amount, the rule remains unchanged.Lets take 1M for Instance, your new tithe will become (5/100*1,000,000) + 1,000,000 = 1,050,000. 50k additional

I hope this will help.

echibuogwu:
So what happened to Lazarus

kay29000:
True. If people see you go from nothing to something, your story will motivate and inspire them to be great themselves. Also, when you are rich, you can help more people than if you are just one of the poor. Even Pastors respect the rich more than the poor, regardless of how the rich got his/her money. That's just how life is.

Schwartz:
Thanks for the mentions. The major deciding factor is the after results post op. I say this because i know that some clinics do this surgery yet the patient becomes worse afterwards.
Anyone with very good vision post op?

Daboomb:
There is nothing l love more than to help people who are not priviledged like me!
Infact, when l pray for blessings, l do so on the condition that l can use it to bless others.
I help as many as l can afford to, but l NEVER pay Tithe and will never pay it.
Pastor's being swearing and invoking spirits at me for over 20yrs now yet l have just got richer and richer.

"Seek the Truth..and the truth will set you free".
Like Freeze, l have been 'set free' from all this greed-induced Pastors.

Let the Pastor's Devil come and eat my money naah and see if l wil not eat him as well..l don dey wait since.

zombieHUNTER:
Religion is a scam


Give your tithe to the poor

planetx13:
Forgiving a cheat is not a problem....(Anybody can be tempted) ... the problem is forgiving a serial and an unrepentant cheat ...trust me it's not worth it... You only get waves of heartbreak.

If my woman cheats and she is remorseful about it, why not?? .. I will forgive her and even forget it ever happened..... after all, the bible says - to sin is human and to forgive is divine...

Ciao

greenmonk:
See as una just de do amebo and shying away from telling the guy the truth.
Op! Op! Op!
How many times did I call you.
The woman is 45! She is cruising to mono pause. How many children do you have or you have already arranged for child adoption or surrogacy or ivf and all the other things o. Not to just come to nairaland dey look for advice from small children. You have to also do your own thinking and take your own decisions.

Mankosi:
Similar thing happened to my aunt who's also in US with her hubby. And the woman is a nurse too. They came home for Xmas one certain year and immediately they got to my aunt's father's house(they will pass her father's house before they get to the husband's house) the man told their driver to stop and he came down and brought down my aunt's luggage and told her to go back to her father's house without prior notice which was strange to my aunt because she said they had a normal conversation when they were inside airplane and even when they got to lagos and from lagos to the village and she never suspecting anything until they got home. The woman's kids are grown expect the last child who should be in secondary now. Two of her kids are in the university now in the US and the man is no longer living with them cos every thing our family did to reconcile them back then didn't yield positive result. The man went back to US without his family that year, it was later that my aunt travelled back with her children and they are presently living without their father. The man even got a divorce papers from US last year and brought it home to the parish priest in our parish in the village to dissolve their marriage but the Rev father refused on the basis that he didn't contact his wife before filing for divorce and also the reason for the divorce is not tangible enough.
Their problem started when he heard that the woman's mother(my grandma ) was telling people that it was her child(my aunt) that was taking care of their family in US and that she was the person that built their duplex in the village, so when the man heard the rumour he became angry and didn't say anything about it until they got home for Xmas that year.

Note: my grandma said she knew about all these when she went to US for omugwo.
Right now the husband have gotten married to another woman from mbaise in Imo state last year after the Rev fr refused his plea for divorce, he went ahead to marry another woman without even informing my aunt but he didn't travel back to US with the new wife cos he's afraid the new wife may get to US and wise up or open eye like other women.
My aunt have moved on with her life long time and she even got a better job in a big hospital there in the US. Right now she's not even bothered about the husband again.

englishmart:
So those 4 children are not enough for you?

ivandragon:
open & shut case.


arrange them quickly let them meet their mentors in hell.