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madone:
This is what I try to make men understand on this forum but most of them can't spot it.
Some weeks ago a very successful woman wanted to jump into the lagoon cos of man. That is just one out of many who have gone beyond just thinking suicide to attempting it. This is another successful lady thinking about settling down. My point still remains that being successful will not make a woman forget or kill her need of a man. Am not talking about the perverts who claim feminist online but are craving for a man's touch. My advice is this guys look beyond social media groom yourself, work hard and be ready for the future. 7 women will still say let us bear your name we don't need your money. Please guys don't die now stay alive for the future.

Angelfrost:
Sportswomen don't have big boobs... That's literally commonplace na.

If big boobs are your spec, then sports shouldn't be your area of search.

seunmsg:
Bad belle as usual. That picture is the most popular picture on Twitter yesterday. It has been used by almost every global media outlet reporting the ongoing female World Cup. It’s on FIFA handle, Goal.com, ESPN, BBC etc. It will remain an iconic picture forever and you will keep wailing as usual.

When you’re big, you’re big. Agba Baller is not your mate.

immortalcrown:
Your question is very necessary but should not have been directed to only the female gender. Brothers also need to say what they will offer their wives.

chatinent:
This mentality is common among poor men, and the educated illiterates. Even the male children you dey find, which name e wan live up to? You wey no get nothing! You wey even the land you get na still the one your great-grandfather leave. House na family house. Upon every every, na still you wey bi complete zero alpha dey cause fuss about male child.

Bringing boys to this life to suffer and become men even before they become men! The way children suffer these days...sometimes, I cannot totally blame hookers and those who take to anything to survive. Their parenthood is nothing to write home about. They've always been penury-stricken and could only do what they had to do to survive. These days, children now feed parents whilst still kids. And you'll see the fed father going to answer the morning roll-call in Nwanyi Ngwo shop, requesting for his fav kaikai and ice fish...only to return home to turn the house into WW3.

Why won't Angela do ashawo? Why Emeka no go push drugs? Why Gbenga no go defraud? Just to make the family proud? My foot!

I'm not supporting shady business but most fathers have failed!

At other times, the pressure that comes from members of the family and the emphasis that is put on the male child is the cause. It's not that wanting a son is inherently wrong, but that shouldn't be a reason to inflict suffering on someone else by expelling them. The vows of marriage are to be kept no matter what, even in the face of challenges until adultery or death do apart.

Last last, e fit bi say na you no fertile.

Any man who'd throw out his wife for not bearing a male child does not deserve to be fed by the female children.


That man, in fact, deserves to be abandoned forever.

If you throw out mum, even I as a male child will abandon you!


What rubbish.

Antoeni:
Oshio Can malt

Harkinsoji:
"Time heals, time is everything"

Remember this in everything you do

Drops mic!

waywardpikin:
I dunno why you bother. Sèx and food from an ex? I am disgusted.

Even if it's for worthy connections, who she epp?

You don't go about accepting help from anyone and even if you do you have to gauge and measure if it's worth accepting, it is usually not worth the hassle in the end.

How have you been living your life that it is only your ex that has the key to your destiny in your hands? This level of thinking is absurd.

Sometimes even, it may come to a choice between choosing your ego or accepting her useless help, bearing in mind that any so-called help from a female species come with strings attached. Deny it if you will. For someone like me, I'll choose my ego if necessary. I don't live my life hoping to be at the mercy of anyone for anything.

I had a married ex who came out of the blues trying to rekindle past memories and whatnot. She has always been a boss lady doing well for herself. Back in school, I nearly got married to her due to pressure from her and her family to settle down. Bear in mind that I was a broke aśs final year student. Nevertheless, they assured me that they would sponsor the wedding and set me up for life. However, they refused to get me anything to do while mounting pressure on me to get married to their daughter. Who does that?

I analysed the situation and saw it wasn't good for me and so I jakpaed for my life. This is despite the fact that they rented a two bedroom apartment for I and their daughter, and were even offering me a job in her (single) mother's company. It struck me as a tale similar to the story of Esau who sold his birthright for a pot of porridge.

I broke up, collected all the curses and swears they had to throw at me and kept it moving. Babe resurfaced in 2019 with tales of love and repentance. She's even bigger than she was before financially, running a branch of her mother's outfit in Lagos with two personal cars for her to do as she pleased. At that time I'd bought and sold my first car. Bought from the proceeds of pure hustle and sold in order to meet up with demands from family. If u be first son u go know say e no easy.

I asked about her husband, she told me they were divorced. My birthday came around and I threw a small party at the beach, she saw proceedings on WhatsApp, complained she was bored and I didn't invite her. I told her to come if she wanted to. She came around in record time... from Ikorodu o!

We got wasted, ended up having sèx in the back of her car, she took me home, we had sex the morning after, a leg of my sneakers got missing and I had to go back home with a pair of bathroom slippers. My missing sneaker turned up "miraculously" weeks later which she offered to bring back to my place. She brought it along with my birthday gift. All the while, she was down for whatever, friends with benefits, relationship, friendship. All she wanted was to have me in her life. But ultimately it must have been for a purpose, one which I may not be favorable towards.

We had sèx that final time, and afterwards I ghosted her. She's richer than me and better off. I don't feel like I missed anything ghosting her, because eventually when it becomes clear that I'm not able to give her what she desperately wants, I might not be able to predict what she would do in retaliation. The easiest way to harm a man is either through food and sex. If you go about accepting favours, that would be the quickest way to receiving some disrespect.

I guess I'm in the minority on this, but I don't live my life believing that any one person holds the key to my ultimate breakthrough. Not family, not friends, talk less of an ex. And statistically speaking, the people in the first two categories are more likely to offer life-changing help to you before a useless ex. Let's just be real for a second. Unless your family and friends are nothing to write home about.


Food and sex from an ex? I laugh!


That's how I 'rented' a relationship for a little over a month. It featured intense penising and all the works. When she started showing red and indigo lights, I cut my losses and ran. No stress, no quarrel, nothing. I no get time.

That's how she messaged me out of nowhere that she was around my area and she wanted to see me. See me? Me wey chop you run? What if she wanted to come and pour me battery acid? What if she was on a revenge mission?

You see, where most men would think about sex and food and other fringe benefits, I think about SAFETY FIRST! Women are not so nice and if you give them the chance they will fùck you up totally.

In fact, sometimes it is better to toast a new girl afresh and turn her into what you want her to be (even if it's for a short time), than going back to an EX. An ex ain't no fuçking unicorn. You fùcking left her for a reason!

Most times, you will find that the juice is not worth the squeeze. No one man/woman has the key to your destiny. Copy that!


XOXO.

EngrHumble:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rxrpr_ClbRs

In a viral video shows the moment a young girl was seen crying un controllably after her boyfriend of 5 years break up with her.

Ilekokonit:
Women's motto is :- Your money is our money but my money is my money.

When a man is doing much better than the wife financially, the wife will happily open his bank statements (to keep a track on his accumulated savings) but once that same wife has been financially assisted and empowered by the husband and she starts earning the same amount as or more than what the man earns, the same woman will NEVER allow her erstwhile benefactor to open her bank statements or know how much she has in her account but she used to open his own bank statements when he was doing much better than her and he was enabling her financially.

God forbid that the same once buoyant husband loses his source of income, she will so frustrate him that if he doesn't find his square root and QUICKLY move out of the house (to regroup) , he will lose all his self confidence due to the daily barrage of insults from the woman he once raised up from the mud. She will start by insulting him to his face in front of their kids.

ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS.

A man can marry an unemployed woman and lift up her financial destiny without batting an eyelid but there isn't any black woman under the sun that can date let alone marry a temporarily unemployed man. The only exception is a Black cougar who is being paid in kind and will dump him once the thrill dissipates which it surely will.

pansophist:
I don't think these men are not redpilled. I can tell you they are. These are men that understand the game and are playing it right. What's the point being outspokenly redpilled in an industry that thrives on the blue pill? Celebrity culture is driven by women, money, fame, and red pill truth is like a pin punching a balloon, it would blow up, and they will be thrown to the wolves. You can't listen to their musical lyrics, and call them beta. Really? The proof is in the details.

One rule in business is to never talk against the point of view of your customer/base. You expect dominos to tell you that their pizza is junk and will make you fat? Or coca cola to tell you that the sugar in coke caused diabetes and obesity? Come on. They won't. It is not your responsibility to save anyone. Save yourself, reap bountifully and move on. Also, people do not want to be saved. Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome? Suffering is addictive, and becomes bittersweet ultimately.

I run my own business and I'm as blue pill as it gets in relation with my customer. I appeal to their emotions, to patronize impulsively, and customer retention techniques, but at the core of my business philosophy, it is as red pill as it gets, that's how the world works. A man should control his emotions, and stuffing in redpill in everything is lack of emotional control. In simple terms, navigate the world with a red pill mindset, but relate with people in a blue pill one.

Blue pill = big money �

Pootle:
never i repeat never allow your woman earn more than you

Wallade:
Well, naturally money has pride and that applies to both men and women. Do you wonder why you behave differently when you have no money compared to when you have money. There is a confidence and arrogance that overrides your normal reasoning when you have money. Same happens to women.

However, it is not enough reason to stop your wife from working or earning more than you. You only have to find the best possible ways to manage her excesses and shortcomings.

However, if the disrespect, arrogance and pride becomes persistent and unbearable. Get help from marriage counselors, family or religious leaders; better still get a separation or divorce before you beat somebody.

TWLifestyle:
See all of them advising him to leave a married woman but if it was a married man chasing a single girl the general advice will be more fire bro , go on and cheat men are naturally polygamous. Oga pls go and try your luck - she might be naturally polygamous . Worst she will tell you is No - she didnt bring husbamd from heaven she might just dump him for you .

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
What da fuckkkkkkkkkk. ...rest in peace young niggarrrr


Probably he be azaman coming up with stories saying blah blah........blah
As in them don kill the aza........boys nor want hear that word......
Even me as a real niggarrr i dey fear that work......very dangerous work
The funny thing be say them dey real kill the aza.....nor be all the time azaman dey fake the story....most times na true say them kill the aza....but boys nor dey want hear am at all
Very risky job......

GerogeI:
Your confusion is the miraculous agreement btw the two prophets. Seems like truth to you.

Have you heard of monitoring spirits?
Spiritualist use imprisoned spirits to gather information about you, and even carry out actions. That's why they often do human or animal sacrifice. Also most african shrines are built on burial spots of a human, often buried alive to serve as messenger or the god.


My point is that when you went to your prophet, you already had these thoughts about your girlfriend. Is it possible that someone can spiritually gather up all your thoughts and fears and use them as prophecy for you?

Have you ever wondered why most times you visit a so called Seer, they tell you exactly what you want to hear or what you fear to hear. The Bible tells us repeatedly that no one knows the future for certain, except God.

But people or spirits can make projections based on what they see or know about you spiritually.


What can you do?
It is true that there are principles and principalities (Heads or beings that are commanders or leaders) ruling all kinds of places. But the Bible tells us that Christ is the Head of all such leaders, He out ranks all of them. That's the essence of us saying that His name is above all names.

So thinking about it, assuming the whole claim is true, that there is a certain spiritual entity, laying claim over a girl. A prophet of Christ, would not ask you to cast her away or deny her, but will rather cast that spirit that is minor to Christ Jesus Away.


Since they have not done so, can you? Or can you stop the interference with your life. Is it easy? Yes, because the bible tells us to resist the devil and he will flee from you.

However, let me tell a bit more about will and destiny

Your own will is the greatest factor in determining your outcomes, because that is what God listens to, not your cry or sacrifices. That's why Christ asked us to call the things that are not as if they are, and kept talking of us being in him as He is in the father. Our success in charting the course of our life depends on us being able to participate in that fusion of will ( God, Christ and Us). This is why Faith is key to prayers, am sure you heard that before. But what you might not have heard is that your own will is important in the outcome.

Because we sinners, We cannot align our will with Gods will directly. He is so Righteous He cannot come in contact with sin. But we can go, through Christ, the get to Him, and fuse our will with His. Going through Christ involves, 1 sharing in the body of Christ, which 2. enables us to access a key force or power, a power which God used to raise Christ from the dead, and left for our use as we follow Christ.

With Gods will (your will), and power in your hands, you are the determinant of your own destiny. But the process of acquiring these two things, already disciplines you that you cannot apply them to unrighteousness. So a true Christian that understands does not fear that spirits will determine his life, rather you use your words of faith in Christ to create the world you want. And yes, spirits or evil whether from your ancestors, your girl friend, your rivals etc, will try to prevent you. But resist them and they will flee from you.

If you see a man that the devil is not fighting but allows all his successes easily, that man is already dead ( ie. the chance of him following God is an impossibility, so Devil is pretty sure he will be destroyed along with the fallen Angel's at the last Judgement) and almost irredeemable.
Do not seek a life where their is no difficulty or barriers, but seek the life if Christ, where the fight is certain, but victory is also certain.

I do not think you should leave a girl because of prophets, if you do not like her, then that's a good reason to walk away.
Be careful of Nigerian Pastors and Prophets. The truth is that all persons that we would normally call Native Doctors, have rebranded as pastors and Prophets. You will know them by their outputs, results or fruits.

This post is getting too long.

EVILFOREST:
After all, All POWERS BELONG TO GOD

Omihanifa:
This one don almost sacrifice his family members finish

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seunmsg:
Donald is part of those that dehumanized and ruined the future of our youths. He was the governor of Cross River state for 8 years and contributed significantly to whatever problems the youths in the state are facing today.

shadeyinka:
This man said nothing of value

Righteousness89:
Nonsense and ingredients!

devil has nothing good to give! he puts before you, what is in you and grabs it all with all his might!


As Usual, devil, the Father of all liars has deceived him and left him to his fate ..

If anyway you know you got the so called goodies from this young man and those with him, I Admonish and advice to look for a Genuine Bible believing Servant of God for Deliverance...
it's never ever possible for devil to do good..

If you are honest with yourself, you will tell how far!

Go for your Deliverance and remove all you got from him.. devil has nothing good to give..

GOD hath Spoken once!Twice have I heard this;
ALL POWERS BELONGS TO GOD