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@Op congratulations for helping your friend.

You had so much praise for your friend from the beginning of your write up and the opposite for his girl friend, which I assume you never liked her.
You wanted to prove a point and struck a convo with her using a different sim card which she declined.
You were not satisfied but because of your conclusion about your suspicions and proving your point to show you are a better person, you pushed further, hmmm.....

I cant tell much about the character of this lady but something isn't right here. Did you catch her in the act or are these stories you heard about her?

Have you considered she might have discussed this convo with a friend who had opted to join and play along to ask where you will meet in order to play a fast one on you also?

I feel sorry for your friend cause it is not easy getting over a broken heart. I hope he gets over it with a clear head and right mind set.

Sometimes we write what we don't mean and keep silent at the things we really need to say.

Yeah, I got same message.

have you been truthful to her? how do you know she is lying?
Just asking though, I wasn't there when the relationship started.

What to do?
Talk to her about it.
Give her one more opportunity to come clean

End it if your instinct can't take it

E never try nigerian detergent liquid. Body go tell am. E go straight one hand.

they deserve each other

Geography

Jcob:
There is nothing wrong with your child. I guess he started school late hence keeping to him self in school this period. At age 4, he should be in Nursery 1. Truth is everything taught in school his sticking to his brain and can reproduce in a warm environment (Teacher and co pupils).

Visit the school and see how the teacher relates with them. At that stage, teaching should be individual based and not general. What is the age range of those in the class and well does he relate with his mates.

The teacher in school can be of help by using incentives and motivation methods to make him crawl out of his shell. HE is just being shy!

You can also involve the proprietor or proprietress of the school.

This is the right thing to do and the first step to take. Also note the child's attitude when dropping him off at school. Some schools admit more than they can handle in a class and teachers ( in some cases with only one minder) tend to be a bit impatient with children of this age. Please if the proprietor or proprietress of the school does not do much to help your son's situation kindly change to another as this could affect him as they grow older.

Have they been married for twenty years? Is she a psycho?... just wondering.

If the answer to the first question is yes, then it was his choice to marry her the way she is, she should be happy to be the one who helped him overcome his difficulties in life and still alive to remain married to her twenty years and still counting.

Tell your sis to cook a very delicious meal and celebrate her husband.

It takes a psycho to know a psycho, married to one and overcome life difficulties for twenty years.

E no easy!!!!!

I understand your need to give your child the best as parents, having done all you can the next step is to pray. Take time to present this matter before God, children are gift from God and His gift makes rich/brings joy and adds no sorrow.

Don't try to make him be like you or his father, find time alone to talk with him, start by finding out what he'll like to be and take the discussion from there. He will soon become a teenager and that's where the major challenge comes. He has a gift/talent or something that is inside that needs to be developed. Spend quality time to know him and what he needs.

Find time to also pray together and search the purpose of God for his life.

Get a lesson teacher for him and supervise this too.

Also see a doctor, he could be lacking some form of vitamins that helps the brain, doctors in the house know this.

My son, plays too much too, I got involve with his playing one day and when it was time to eat dinner there was no food, he cried and I started preparing dinner late, I just told him that's what happens when you spend time playing instead of planning. Now he plans his time and plays less.

All the best dear.

We spend at least two hours reading story books and sharing the lesson in it and yes, we pray too.

I do all I can to spend time with my son.

Hope this helps.
Prayer works.

Don't be scared you are not making a wrong choice.

It is a wise thing to have parents and love them and long life for those who honour them.

You have a second chance to show love your parents, grab it with both hands.
Let the neighbors judge all they want, but don't let God judge you for this.
If it bothers you a lot, you can move them to your apartment, if its big enough for you all.

Please forgive your parents and ask for their forgiveness in return.
Their blessings on your life goes a long way.

I have friends who wish their parents were alive to show love for a day, hold their hands, hear their voice etc.

My dear, do all you can for them, you will be glad you did when you finally become a parent yourself.

Wish you the best, its not going to be easy, the Grace of God is sufficient for you. Ask God for Grace and help.

@ OP Thumbs up. Good one.

skywalker001:
Where was London mentioned in the post ?
I'm sure u got all dos likes frm d pple dat flirt wit u cuz ur comment dosnt relate to the thread

thanks for the update, didn't know pple could flirt on NL. wasn't expecting any likes though.
You can have the likes if it means so much to you.
thanks for the correction. wasn't with my glasses

Marpol:
Milan is in Italy not London.

thanks for the correction. wasn't with my glasses at the time

Category1:
who's the boy on your profile? He's to handsome...nice one

my son

She posted it for her friends I'm not one of them. She did so for whatever reasons.

Five years from now she will look at these same pics and wonder what-in-the-world she did it for.

Her life, our world

I'm sure he prefers the London prison to going back to his country

Soooo sad, thank God he didn't die in prison. Thank God he has a second chance at life. Thank God he can see his family again. Thank God for the lawyers who stumbled on his case when no one remembered him. I'm sure he had given up hope.
As for the prosecutors and such.... just don't know what to say.... screwed legal system?

May God remember and send help to others unjustly locked up.

archstyle:
oh great n true.... happy Birthday dear,,,, wishing u d best in ur endeavor...

Thank you. Never thought anyone noticed.

Joshkid:
Birthday girl

Thank you. I'm touched. You are one of the few.

Bible - nothing compare to the prints and the feel of it in my palms.
Try reading or studying your bible on your smartphone and just when your are catching the rhema one call come in... only to pick it up and its from your network, your guess is as good as mine. Also I don't have to bother with the issue of battery running and charging it.

My good print bible any day is the best.

New militant group, the Niger Delta Avenger, Thursday, destroyed the main pipeline supplying gas that provides electricity to the Escravos tank farm in Delta state owned by Chevron. In a tweet sent via its Twitter handle,  @Niger Delta Avengers, the armed militant group, said the latest action was carried out after Chevron ignored its May 12 warning not to fix a major crude pipeline blown up by the group early in the month. Details later…

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/05/breaking-avengers-bomb-chevrons-escravos-tank-farm-in-delta/

Sad...

And she is a National Diploma holder from a polytechnic in Lagos State being treated of ulcer by a traditional herbalist or doctor

hmmm....
Quite sensitive situation.

To the lady
It is quite sad. After crying and the pity party, pull yourself together and move on. You have no choice but to forgive him, not because of him but for yourself cause when you don't forgive people who hurt you they tend to have power over you and it keeps you down. You cant hold on to a relationship that does not want you. Five years on, you will look back and wonder what in the world you saw in him in the first place and will thank him for leaving you. like I said, it hurts very bad, trust me it will take a while (cause of all what you and your family went through to support him, memories of the good and bad times you shared and such) but you have one life and it is not tied to this guy. Be glad you didn't lost your life, some who had worse situations never lived to curse the man. Let go and let God.

To the guy
You should have done something to appreciate the parents of your now ex-gf before moving ahead of yourself. Don't know how you intend to breach this, but you have to do all you can to make peace with them. They are more like your parents.
Congratulations on your new found love. I hope you don't grow weary of her after marriage.
I hope you followed your instinct rather than your heart. Please do all you can to be at peace with her parents first, then their daughter.
I pray your pastor guides you in the right path.

Think carefully before you take your next step.

My thoughts though...

Nothing

RIP

Must have been an old story, date written is June 13 and we are in April, 2016.
Just saying...

MONEY (LIFE - stands between) MARRIAGE

thinking....

No fuel. He was trekking and got tired so he decided to rest, hence the picture

Oya show evidence that he was drunk from the pics.

Op, update please.

Abuja – A Grade 1 Area Court in Karu, Abuja, on Monday granted bail to Jacob Odeh in the sum of N100, 000 for alleged theft. Odeh of Gwandara, Nyanyan, was arraigned for theft contrary Sections 288 of the Penal Code. The presiding officer, Mr Hassan Ishaq, ordered the defendant to produce one reliable and reasonable surety in like sum. Ishaq said that the address of the surety must be verified by the officer of the court and the surety must submit his drivers’ licence or national identity card with the court registrar. He adjourned the case till June 29 for hearing. The Prosecutor, Mr Habilah Jonathan, had earlier told the court that the case was reported at Nyanyan Police Station by Grace Saleh on March 31. “ The complainants reported that she and the defendant were in a relationship but the relationship suffered a setback toward the end of last year. The complainant reported that the defendant had called on the said date for a peace talk between them in her house. “The complainant told the Police that the defendant came over to her house for the peace talk and in the process stole her Diamond bank ATM card,’’ he said. Jonathan said the complainant said that the defendant used the stolen ATM card to make a withdrawal of N100, 000 from her account. He told the court that the complainant admitted committing the crime during police investigations.

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/04/boyfriend-gets-n100-000-bail-alleged-theft-girlfriend/

miqos02:
pictures or video to confirm

My dear, I'm not good at taking pictures, I hope this will help.

The CR at the side of the amount explains it. This happened in PH

Yes we can. I got same from PHCN that I over paid my electricity bills last year from the month of August and was not to pay any more bills till the end of the year. Also this year same thing happened from the month of February.

I thought it was a joke and visited their office and it was confirmed.

Nigeria will get beter. God Bless us all.

Scam every where even in this wonderful economic situation. Op thanks for the info. They don't get tired. I'm sure they don't sleep at night.