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have you been truthful to her? how do you know she is lying?
Just asking though, I wasn't there when the relationship started.

What to do?
Talk to her about it.
Give her one more opportunity to come clean

End it if your instinct can't take it

E never try nigerian detergent liquid. Body go tell am. E go straight one hand.

they deserve each other

Geography

Jcob:
There is nothing wrong with your child. I guess he started school late hence keeping to him self in school this period. At age 4, he should be in Nursery 1. Truth is everything taught in school his sticking to his brain and can reproduce in a warm environment (Teacher and co pupils).

Visit the school and see how the teacher relates with them. At that stage, teaching should be individual based and not general. What is the age range of those in the class and well does he relate with his mates.

The teacher in school can be of help by using incentives and motivation methods to make him crawl out of his shell. HE is just being shy!

You can also involve the proprietor or proprietress of the school.

This is the right thing to do and the first step to take. Also note the child's attitude when dropping him off at school. Some schools admit more than they can handle in a class and teachers ( in some cases with only one minder) tend to be a bit impatient with children of this age. Please if the proprietor or proprietress of the school does not do much to help your son's situation kindly change to another as this could affect him as they grow older.

Have they been married for twenty years? Is she a psycho?... just wondering.

If the answer to the first question is yes, then it was his choice to marry her the way she is, she should be happy to be the one who helped him overcome his difficulties in life and still alive to remain married to her twenty years and still counting.

Tell your sis to cook a very delicious meal and celebrate her husband.

It takes a psycho to know a psycho, married to one and overcome life difficulties for twenty years.

E no easy!!!!!

I understand your need to give your child the best as parents, having done all you can the next step is to pray. Take time to present this matter before God, children are gift from God and His gift makes rich/brings joy and adds no sorrow.

Don't try to make him be like you or his father, find time alone to talk with him, start by finding out what he'll like to be and take the discussion from there. He will soon become a teenager and that's where the major challenge comes. He has a gift/talent or something that is inside that needs to be developed. Spend quality time to know him and what he needs.

Find time to also pray together and search the purpose of God for his life.

Get a lesson teacher for him and supervise this too.

Also see a doctor, he could be lacking some form of vitamins that helps the brain, doctors in the house know this.

My son, plays too much too, I got involve with his playing one day and when it was time to eat dinner there was no food, he cried and I started preparing dinner late, I just told him that's what happens when you spend time playing instead of planning. Now he plans his time and plays less.

All the best dear.

We spend at least two hours reading story books and sharing the lesson in it and yes, we pray too.

I do all I can to spend time with my son.

Hope this helps.
Prayer works.

Don't be scared you are not making a wrong choice.

It is a wise thing to have parents and love them and long life for those who honour them.

You have a second chance to show love your parents, grab it with both hands.
Let the neighbors judge all they want, but don't let God judge you for this.
If it bothers you a lot, you can move them to your apartment, if its big enough for you all.

Please forgive your parents and ask for their forgiveness in return.
Their blessings on your life goes a long way.

I have friends who wish their parents were alive to show love for a day, hold their hands, hear their voice etc.

My dear, do all you can for them, you will be glad you did when you finally become a parent yourself.

Wish you the best, its not going to be easy, the Grace of God is sufficient for you. Ask God for Grace and help.

@ OP Thumbs up. Good one.

skywalker001:
Where was London mentioned in the post ?
I'm sure u got all dos likes frm d pple dat flirt wit u cuz ur comment dosnt relate to the thread

thanks for the update, didn't know pple could flirt on NL. wasn't expecting any likes though.
You can have the likes if it means so much to you.
thanks for the correction. wasn't with my glasses

Marpol:
Milan is in Italy not London.

thanks for the correction. wasn't with my glasses at the time

Category1:
who's the boy on your profile? He's to handsome...nice one

my son

She posted it for her friends I'm not one of them. She did so for whatever reasons.

Five years from now she will look at these same pics and wonder what-in-the-world she did it for.

Her life, our world

I'm sure he prefers the London prison to going back to his country

Soooo sad, thank God he didn't die in prison. Thank God he has a second chance at life. Thank God he can see his family again. Thank God for the lawyers who stumbled on his case when no one remembered him. I'm sure he had given up hope.
As for the prosecutors and such.... just don't know what to say.... screwed legal system?

May God remember and send help to others unjustly locked up.

archstyle:
oh great n true.... happy Birthday dear,,,, wishing u d best in ur endeavor...

Thank you. Never thought anyone noticed.

Joshkid:
Birthday girl

Thank you. I'm touched. You are one of the few.

Bible - nothing compare to the prints and the feel of it in my palms.
Try reading or studying your bible on your smartphone and just when your are catching the rhema one call come in... only to pick it up and its from your network, your guess is as good as mine. Also I don't have to bother with the issue of battery running and charging it.

My good print bible any day is the best.

New militant group, the Niger Delta Avenger, Thursday, destroyed the main pipeline supplying gas that provides electricity to the Escravos tank farm in Delta state owned by Chevron. In a tweet sent via its Twitter handle,  @Niger Delta Avengers, the armed militant group, said the latest action was carried out after Chevron ignored its May 12 warning not to fix a major crude pipeline blown up by the group early in the month. Details later…

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/05/breaking-avengers-bomb-chevrons-escravos-tank-farm-in-delta/

Sad...

And she is a National Diploma holder from a polytechnic in Lagos State being treated of ulcer by a traditional herbalist or doctor

hmmm....
Quite sensitive situation.

To the lady
It is quite sad. After crying and the pity party, pull yourself together and move on. You have no choice but to forgive him, not because of him but for yourself cause when you don't forgive people who hurt you they tend to have power over you and it keeps you down. You cant hold on to a relationship that does not want you. Five years on, you will look back and wonder what in the world you saw in him in the first place and will thank him for leaving you. like I said, it hurts very bad, trust me it will take a while (cause of all what you and your family went through to support him, memories of the good and bad times you shared and such) but you have one life and it is not tied to this guy. Be glad you didn't lost your life, some who had worse situations never lived to curse the man. Let go and let God.

To the guy
You should have done something to appreciate the parents of your now ex-gf before moving ahead of yourself. Don't know how you intend to breach this, but you have to do all you can to make peace with them. They are more like your parents.
Congratulations on your new found love. I hope you don't grow weary of her after marriage.
I hope you followed your instinct rather than your heart. Please do all you can to be at peace with her parents first, then their daughter.
I pray your pastor guides you in the right path.

Think carefully before you take your next step.

My thoughts though...

Nothing

RIP

Must have been an old story, date written is June 13 and we are in April, 2016.
Just saying...

MONEY (LIFE - stands between) MARRIAGE

thinking....

No fuel. He was trekking and got tired so he decided to rest, hence the picture

Oya show evidence that he was drunk from the pics.

Op, update please.

Abuja – A Grade 1 Area Court in Karu, Abuja, on Monday granted bail to Jacob Odeh in the sum of N100, 000 for alleged theft. Odeh of Gwandara, Nyanyan, was arraigned for theft contrary Sections 288 of the Penal Code. The presiding officer, Mr Hassan Ishaq, ordered the defendant to produce one reliable and reasonable surety in like sum. Ishaq said that the address of the surety must be verified by the officer of the court and the surety must submit his drivers’ licence or national identity card with the court registrar. He adjourned the case till June 29 for hearing. The Prosecutor, Mr Habilah Jonathan, had earlier told the court that the case was reported at Nyanyan Police Station by Grace Saleh on March 31. “ The complainants reported that she and the defendant were in a relationship but the relationship suffered a setback toward the end of last year. The complainant reported that the defendant had called on the said date for a peace talk between them in her house. “The complainant told the Police that the defendant came over to her house for the peace talk and in the process stole her Diamond bank ATM card,’’ he said. Jonathan said the complainant said that the defendant used the stolen ATM card to make a withdrawal of N100, 000 from her account. He told the court that the complainant admitted committing the crime during police investigations.

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/04/boyfriend-gets-n100-000-bail-alleged-theft-girlfriend/

miqos02:
pictures or video to confirm

My dear, I'm not good at taking pictures, I hope this will help.

The CR at the side of the amount explains it. This happened in PH

Yes we can. I got same from PHCN that I over paid my electricity bills last year from the month of August and was not to pay any more bills till the end of the year. Also this year same thing happened from the month of February.

I thought it was a joke and visited their office and it was confirmed.

Nigeria will get beter. God Bless us all.

Scam every where even in this wonderful economic situation. Op thanks for the info. They don't get tired. I'm sure they don't sleep at night.

Got this and thought to share.


Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US
An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota.

The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.”
The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl.

In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children.
Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement.
The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores.

He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight.

Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace.
Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education.

Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head.
Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious.

Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife.
Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed.

If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them.
Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her.
He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and leave early with impunity.”

Mr. Nwodo endured so many embarrassing moments from his wife and her mother until he could take it no more. One day, he bought himself a shotgun and killed both his wife and her mother.

Caleb Onwudike’s wife, Chinyere Onwudike, 36, became a RN and no longer saw the need to be controlled by her husband. Mr. Onwudike, 41, worked two jobs to send his wife to her dream school upon bringing her to the US from Nigeria. After four years, she qualified as an RN. Once she started to make more money than her husband, she began to “call the shots” at home. She “overruled” her husband on the size and cost of the house they purchased in Burtonsville, Maryland. She began to build a house solely in her name in their native Umuahia town of Abia State, Nigeria, without her husband’s input whatsoever.

Mrs. Onwudike came and went “as she liked,” within the US and outside the US. In fact, she once travelled to Nigeria for three weeks “without her husband’s permission” to lavishly bury her father, despite her husband’s protestations that they had better things to do with the money.
Mrs. Onwudike let her husband know that this was mostly her money and she would spend it however she wanted. Through her hard work, she had risen to a managerial position at the medical center where she worked.
Upon her return from burying her father, her husband got one of her kitchen knives and carved her up like a Thanksgiving turkey inside their home on New Year’s Day.

Death is death, no matter how it comes. But the goriest of these maniacal killings is probably the one that happened here in Los Angeles, California.
Joseph Mbu, 50, was tired of his RN wife’s “serial disrespect” of him. The disrespect began as soon as she became a RN. Gloria Mbu, 40, had once told her husband he must be “smoking crack cocaine” if he thought he could tell her what to do with her money now that she made more money than him.

Before she became a RN, Mr. Mbu had been very strict with family finances and was borderline dictatorial in his dealings with Mrs. Mbu. However, Mrs. Mbu learned the American system and would no longer allow any man to “put her down.” When Joseph Mbu could not take it anymore, he subdued his wife one day, tied her to his vehicle and dragged her on paved roads all around Los Angeles until her head split in many pieces.

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Ibadan—FORMER Secretary-General of the Commonwealth, Chief Emeka Anyaoku has advised President Muhammadu Buhari not to shift on his stance against devaluation of the Naira, noting that he should seek the expertise of a team economic analysts on the nation’s economic crisis. Anyaoku This came just as he lamented that the government always expended more than half of its budget on a non-productive sector of the economy. He said these in Ibadan yesterday at the presentation of the  memoir of Ambassador Olu Sanusi. The memoir which was entitled, “Audacity on the bound; a diplomatic odyssey” was well attended by eminent Nigerians. Anyaokwu, who was the chairman of the occasion said, “A case has not been convincingly made that the devaluation of our naira in our present circumstance will truly serve Nigeria’s national interest. President Muhammadu Buhari should, in my view, stick to his anti-devaluation position but he should also urgently appoint a team of knowledgeable expert economists to advise him on how to approach Nigeria’s current economic crisis” . Among those who attended an epoch-making event include a former head of state, Gen. Yakubu Gown, Gen Oluwole Rotimi (rtd), Dr Omololu Olunloyo, former Governor of Oyo State, Bashorun Kola Daisi, an industrialist, Chief Bayo Akande, Chief Nike Akande and Pastor Olubi Johnson . Also in attendance were a renowned economist, Philip Asiodu, Dr Lekan Are, Ambassador Akporode Clark, Dr. Kase Lawal and traditional rulers including the Olubadan of Ibadan land, Oba Saliu Adetunji, Alake of Egbaland, Oba Adedotun Gbadebo, Emir of Kano, Muhammadu Sanusi, who was represented by Alhaji Aliyu Mohammed among others. Chief Anyaoku said the parliamentary system that Nigeria’s nationalists designed did not allow corruption as such. He maintained that politicians had capitalised on the presidential system to engage in massive corruption. On the memoir, he said; “ This memoir is an instructive material for the coming and future generations of Nigeria which is good for institutional development.” “This memoir is not all about his diplomatic service but gives a glimpse about a legacy of devotion that in every man and woman’s life rare success comes from hardwork and integrity.” His brilliance was not unexpected because he had educational background in two f the world’s best institutions. His intellectual background was certainly one of the reasons for the outstanding success of his diplomatic policies. In his remarks, the author of the book, Ambassador Saanu said, “I must thank Gen. Gowon for giving me the platform to serve my country as an ambassador to Ethopia during the civil war. We owe Gen. Gowon a lot as a country who, during his tenure, many nations believed in him and then partnered with us.” Former Head of State Gen. Yakubu Gowon in his address, said he believed that the book would help the nation in building strong diplomatic standard and also help upcoming diplomats. The highpoint of the event was the formal book launch by the chief launcher, Dr Kase Lawal who launched the book with a reasonable amount of money.

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/03/dont-devalue-naira-anyaoku-tells-buhari/