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fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

litaninja:
Lol. You know more about god than where you got the concept of god from?

leofab:
their hard work and handiworks blesses them not god!.

bepositive11:
Even if same sex marriage was not legal, gay men will still go and have sex with gay men and gay women will still go and have sex with gay women. So what difference does it make? The only difference is that gay men and women no longer have to hide their true colors in the West.

Let's think about Nigeria. How many men are secretly having sex with other men and how many women are secretly having sex with other women? Isn't it better to know who and who is gay instead of them hiding themselves? Some Nigerians are married to gays but they don't know.

I would rather see a man and woman marry but I would also rather know who is gay so that I don't end up getting married to them.

AfonjaPriest:
Tinubu's sources of wealth are not just questionable or mysterious, they are just too scandalous.
And to think BATstard miscreant urchins revel in his deception and dishonesty indicates that their stupidities will forever be making mockery of them and their generations.
They should be enjoying their diaper-poopoo to their shame and disgrace; the curses awaiting them and their generations will be too much for them to speak of.

sarrki:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0VNrowjG57fwLXr4nGMitK6VpfxuooyQdePay3gZ5KBkCDjojSPr3PZJ8VsH8k8Qbl&id=663725258&mibextid=Nif5oz

mocochannel:
‘Soulmates,’ DJ Cuppy gushes over photos with fiancé

Celebrity disc jockey Florence Otedola, popularly known as DJ Cuppy, has shared photos of herself and fiancé, Ryan Taylor

Cuppy, who got engaged to the British boxer a few days after celebrating her 30th birthday, shared photos and a video via her Instagram page on Monday.

She captioned the photos,


https://www.instagram.com/p/ClyEfhupV-W/?igshid=YzdkMWQ2MWU=

Naijalarry:
Source- https://gazettengr.com/2023-muslim-muslim-ticket-will-set-tone-for-future-politics-says-remi-tinubu/

Naijalarry:
Source- https://gazettengr.com/in-new-story-tinubu-claims-he-made-his-wealth-from-inheritance/

KEVIND:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/12/06/apc-has-failed-northerners-muslim-muslim-ticket-wont-work-shagari/

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/bua-chairman-abdulsamad-rabiu-bags-nigerian-army-recognition-award-photos/

Malcolmprinzx:
A Twitter user identified as SirFreshSemi has taken to his page to announce that his girlfriend whom he sponsored through school has ditched him for another man.

According to him, he even bought a car for her last year. He added that he has been crying since he found out and doesn't think he can live anymore.

SirFreshSemi wrote:



https://twitter.com/Sirfreshsemi/status/1599655788309463045?s=20&t=o9qDzYpzCYZT9BHAe0gjgA[/quote]Come and tell me, who should now suffer for YOUR foolishness, ME?
With the lewdness of today's girls , smart men have long learnt to be noncommittal and here you are, after rejecting all advice...
Bro, it's your funeral...

Thortp:
There is a lifestyle you live before you attract such women now.
You can't expect Ngozi Okonjo Iweala to attract MC Oluomo

Islie:
…Just as jealous hubby sets man ablaze after mistaking him to be wife’s lover




https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/12/lady-kills-lover-for-refusal-to-marry-her/

fergie001:
Indonesia, the world’s third-largest democracy, cleared a sweeping overhaul of its criminal code on Tuesday, outlawing sex outside of marriage, defamation of the president and sharply expanding its laws against blasphemy.

The new rules, which also apply to foreigners in the country, have drawn criticism from human rights activists, businesspeople and students who warned of the risks posed to the L.G.B.T. community and religious minorities. Opponents also said that the rules threatened the global reputation that Indonesia, which has the world’s largest Muslim population, has built as a tolerant, widely secular nation.

Indonesian officials say upgrading the existing criminal code, which dates back to 1918 when Indonesia was a Dutch colony, was long overdue. Among the raft of new laws, penalties around consensual sex outside marriage have drawn the most criticism.
According to the new law, unmarried couples who “live together as a husband and wife” could be jailed for six months or face a maximum fine of 10 million rupiah ($710).




SOURCE

Maxymilliano:
https://thenationonlineng.net/why-i-delegated-el-rufai-ayade-others-to-answer-questions-at-chatham-house-tinubu/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1670262252

miniziter:
Our last born of age of 18 has been staying with me and my wife since she was 12 years of age. Ever since she started staying with us, it has been one issue or the other. As we speak, the girl is temporarily not sleeping under thesame roof with us as I asked to move into an empty room in the other building (our Dad) beside my own house where my younger brother and his wife stays.

Some 3 years ago, her younger brother visited us and he was rushed to the hospital and was diagnosed of food poisoning (according to her) and because another issue came up of recent, she claimed my parents hated her to the extent of sending my younger sister to come and scatter her marriage and even poisoned her food of then so she can die during pregnancy.

I have been feeling so unrest since yesterday. Imagine if this kind of statement should get to my parent.

Islandlady:
Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!

It's very awkward and annoying...

Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!

BadRadio:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-shn61ehHI

mediclife1987:
#600 dogfood.

Lagos!

Candidlady:
Then men should be called the EVENING NEWS PAPER

Dead genders

Wizmj4real:
Military police aka MP

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://salemgists.com/ex-benue-council-chairman-asawa-joe-beaten-to-stupor-for-wearing-atikus-shirt-at-ortoms-pdp-rally-photos/

HarlequinLekex:
Is juju real?

FireUpNow:
It's really pathetic to know how crazy some people are because of sex

ijustdey:
BOY, 17, SINGLED OUT FOR IMPREGNATING GIRL, 16, AFTER SHE ENGAGED 6 PERSONS IN SEX ROMP



SOURCE

Candidlady:
Did iever said she was FORCED
isaid they took advantage of her.. •••and it could mean many things•••
We know itoro's age to be 17 what bout the remaining 5 iaM sure they are in their twenties...

Keep supporting rubbish. .. again you should be locked up in a confine space where you only get to see the ray of sun when it rise(s) and set(s)

Imagine you calling her ashewo

I'd go into midwifery so any boy child that comes through me is definitely going back to hell that he came from

lhordspy:
A Qatari journalist blow hot on social media after an Australian pitch invader Marco Ferri, ran into the sadium during portugal win over uruguay on monday with a rainbow flag associated with the LGBT group. This is due to the fact that Homosexuality is illegal in Qatar

* Mohammed Al Kaabi on twitter threatened in a tweet which reads : ''You come to our country , you know what makes us angry and you do it.
https://twitter.com/Qatari/status/1597323062743293955?t=LC1I9IdB3I2hAPCc_0JNiQ&s=19


https://www.pulse.ng/sports/football/reactions-as-qatar-journalist-slams-pitch-invader-who-protested-with-rainbow-flag/fd8wf6h.amp