Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

I don't blame your husband for using the word "extort", you would have stood with him and defended him. Many parents have failed to be cognisant that giving out their daughters in marriage is a thing of joy and not an avenue to make uncessary demads from the groom.

And yes your dad pushed him to get a loan in order to fund an unecessary elaborate wedding ceremony,although he should have stood his ground and rejected such frivolous demands.

A wedding ceremony is just for a day and marriage is for life. Your father is in his house while you're here sulking and in a loveless marriage.

You're left with apologising to your husband on your fathers behalf, get busy and help me financially, pray and hope he eventually comes along, men don't easily forget .

Pay4MeApp:
WES stands for World Education Services, a non-profit organization that provides credential evaluation services for international students and immigrants. Established in 1974, it has evaluated millions of foreign academic credentials.

This thread provides a comprehensive guide on WES evaluation, whether you need it for immigration, how to choose the right evaluation type, requirements, fees, and tips for a successful evaluation.

Hello,

Do i need to include IRCC in my WES evaluation?The initial charge for Educational Credential Assessment Package is - $240.00.
But with IRCC included the charges for Recipient 2: Immigration, Refugees and Citizenship Canada(IRCC)
Department: Centralized Intake Office
Number of Reports: 1
Delivery Method: eDelivery - Delivered electronically
Total Price: $329.00

Please i need clarifiication.
I am evaluating a masters degree in the UK.

Good evening all,

I need your inputs and advise on below

ME:41yrs I currently possess two Masters one in Nigeria and one in U.K , i previously worked in shipping and logistics firm for 12years.
Wife:32yrs she also holds a BSC , and she has experience in healthcare, she has paid for her WES and she is presently studying for IELTS.

What are our chances for PNP? And who would you advise to be the main applicant?

Olushola.

He is immesurable, we can't phantom how mighty he is, we can't comprehend him.

Omooba77:
How Mighty is the Almighty God?

Hi Anita,

I'm presently on a student Visa in the UK, and i have been living here for a year now. But i plant to visit the Amsterdam this summer , can you be a guide on what ,and how to go aabout this?I will apreciate your response in this regard.

Shola.

AnitaofEurope:
Hello my fellow nairalanders i’m Anita I have lived practically all my life in Europe
I would love to share some tips about this wonderful continent and for those who are planing in traveling to Europe
PS: i’m Not an Agent
➖Immigrants Friendly (in terms of getting your documents on time.
1.Greece
2.Italy
3.France
4.Spain

➖Non Immigrants Friendly(these countries do not give documents on time)
1.Switzerland
2.Austria
3.Denmark
4.Netherlands

➖Best to Raise Family
1.Sweden (yes the hidden Canada ) Lol
2. Switzerland
3.Germany
4.Norway

➖Expensive
1.Switzerland
2.Norway
3.UK
4.Finland

➖Cheap
1.Spain
2.Italy
3.Belgium
4.Greece

➖Party Animal
1.France
2.UK
3.Netherlands
4.Germany

➖Rich
1.Germany
2.Norway
3.Switzerland
4.Austria

➖Poor (not advisable you go there)
1.Moldova
2.Albania
3.Bulgaria
4.Romania

➖Jobs
1.Germany
2.Denmark
3.Netherlands
4.Austria

➖Easiest To get their visa (if you’re a first timer I will advise you avoid the schengen zone,try smaller countries,then you can cross into the EU
1.Serbia
2.Bulgaria
3.Slovenia
4.Lithuania

I hope this helps..
Europe is great land of many opportunities if you have the right documents to work
I always advise people especially if you’re young try to come to Europe and hustle..you won’t regret.

Good Morning all, where can i urgently order a day two test kit in Glasgow and get it the same day.

cdieli:
Coming to Scotland (Glasgow or Paisley), to be exact. I arrived with my family 23rd of September. It was not easy settling down, thanks to a beautiful Nigerian family I met here on Nairaland. They have never met me. However, they took the risk to stand as a guarantor for a three-bedroom flat. It's been God all the way. Please feel free to ask me a question of gratitude to this forum in my own little way.

Pls how much can one rent an accomodation of a room and parlor apartment in Glasgow?

Mayamo:
Good evening Nairalanders
How una dey ?
Does any one know the current exchange rate used by the British embassy ? I'm trying to apply for my wife so I want to be sure of the exact amount so I don't present a lower amount for the statement of account. Thank you.

They use Oanda FX rate.

Phatkings:
Good afternoon has anyone use gt bank form a for tuition deposit?
Current rate and days of processing

I have! They charged 578 as at first week in September.

phadriz:
Do we have anyone that did Form A with Fidelity, I submitted on Tuesday but yet to be debited till now and GTB insist on current. Is current account a universal standard?

Please share your experience

Current account shouldn't be a standard, they (Gtbank)deducted money from my savings account when I applied to pay with form A but it took them 2weeks to send me Telex release for the payment.

jigga123:
Good morning to everyone in the house,

Please can someone give me the break down cost for tier4 visa application for a family of three. My wife is the principal applicant (2 years course in UK), I and my 2years plus old son are dependants.

Thank you.

Go to page 1 for the required info.

FTO2019:
Same here. I haven’t

Please do you know anyone going to GCU who has gotten his or her CAS?

FTO2019:
Good evening. pls have u gotten ur CAS am also in for January intake

No have you?

Princessdidi:



Hello goodmorning,I would like to know if anyone has gotten their admission letter from Glasgow Caledonian university for January intake…
I submitted all my documents since 20th of September and I’ve still not gotten any offer from them.thanks

I received my Unconditional letter of admission August 24 from GCU Scotland and I'm for January intake.
I

festusme2:


Hello @shola0505 , please can u send your email , I would need to ask you some questions about Glasgow Caledonian University. I also got an offer for January intake

sholasavage@gmail.com

kofoworolad2:


Both
No school will ask you for balance of tuition fee alone
And you will be using it for your visa application too so??

If it's for the balance of tuition fees I have that in my account,If I am to use it for my visa application I would need to transfer funds from my other accounts to meet up, but in the interim can I submit my present account balance for my CAS?And would it be 28days account statement?

teeboi77:
Good Evening All,please can one submit GTB online generated statement account and submit as POF without an issue?considering it now comes with signature and stamp

Yes.

Aikayval:

Yes, GCU demands POF before they issue CAS

For the balance of payment of tuition fee alone or with the upkeep of nine months?

Aikayval:

Yes, GCU demands POF before they issue CAS

Thanks for the info.

@justwise, do I need to show my POF before I can get my CAS from GCU Scotland.

Newwoman:
God has made us to dance and praise him.
Good news
Biometric 17th
Collection mail 6th and 7th
Visa 7th

Congratulations, I shall also testify.Amen!

Baysbabe:
It’s raining visas o!!!

Visa collected for family of five (5) today.
*Biometrics: 22 September Ikeja TLS (Priority for all 5 of us)
*Sent to DMC same day and received by DMC... Then it decided to hang there.
*Declared previous travels to US and UK as well as previous refusals (one refusal for US last year and one for UK 11 years ago).
*No non-straightforward mail, but I was so anxious when the 5-working day priority period elapsed. Sent a mail to UK Visa and Immigration last week Tuesday and got a response to provide more details for investigation (GWF number, passport number, date of birth, place of application, date of biometrics. reason for escalation etc.). Nothing heard from them again till now.
*Got collection mail for all 5 of us yesterday between 2:44pm and 3:06pm.
*Picked up today after waiting on a long queue for almost two hours.
Next plan- Travel.

Although I had already submitted our visa application before joining this thread, I enjoyed following the conversations and got one or two learnings from here.

Thanks to all who support others here and congrats in advance to all waiting to collect their visas.

God is great!!!

Congratulations.

@Justwise/All
Please do you have an idea when GCU Scotland would starting issuing CAS for January intakes?Initial deposit for tuition fee has been confirmed by the school also.

mohtunrahyor:
Hello Gurus in the house

Titan Trust Bank is presently out of Form A , please which bank process Form A within 48-72hrs

Please help

UBA.

Has anyone received CAS for Glasgow Caledonian University for January intakes ?

samadajet833:
Good evening
I'm applying to Glasgow Caledonian university, the tuition fee is 13,500pounds but I can pay it instalments by spreading it for 8 months, but the first fee to be paid is 3,500pounds.
My question is are there jobs I could do 20hours per week and in order to pay off the 10k debt within 8 months in Glasgow
Please reply me

I doubt the 20hrs job per week can make up for that, although one can work unhindered during holidays.

Peacecharles:


You have to be patient.GCU does not give admission and cas on time

But I have gotten an admission in GCU Scotland though, waiting for my CAS as it can't be issued, not untill three months to resumption.

Exoticmm:
Guys please does IOM stick to set appointment times or anytime you go, you’re attended to?

Yes, they do and try to get there early if your appointment time in your mail is between 8-9am and make sure you look for a paid car park to park your car if you're going there with it as LASTMA officials come there at intervals to tow vehicles.

Funky88:
Please how many weeks did it take them to send it?am also waiting for my offer.Congratulations.

Yes, i received my unconditional offer for Glasgow Caledonian University 24/8/2021

Please how many weeks did it take them to send it?am also waiting for my offer.Congratulations. what information is that?

baseg25:
Wow, Nice. When did you apply?

I applied June ending.

Funky88:


Yes, i received my unconditional offer for Glasgow Caledonian University 24/8/2021



Please how long does it take Glasgow Caledonian University to give offer?am also waiting for them for January intake.Thanks

I'm also for January intake and I have paid the first installment of my Tution fee via Gtbank.