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anslem04:
only a LovePeddler would have sex with a man she is not married to, if your parent will disown you for cooking for a man, then they should assasinate you for sleeping with a man you're not married to see you in hell sweetheart

You're also a whóre for sleeping with a woman you're not married to.

anslem04:
i can see these are the things you make up in your head to make you sleep better @ nite, do you know a virgin lady will also consider you desperate & a pick me sha for having sex with a man that is yet to pay your dowry or marry you.
the same way you don't see big deal in pre marital sex is the same way some ladies don't see big deal in premarital house chores.
A woman that knows what she want will go all the way for what she wants even it is means to violate her own principles n code, people around might call it desperation buh someone with an high esteem won't give a fvck.
What a man needs a woman for is care, God created only male angels to worship him, kings of earth only employ male to sing there praises even in clubs big boiz are praise by hypemen. the ability of a man to provide & the care he gets in return is what massages a man's ego. i never knew you prefer hell, ladies 1st

I don't have strength to read your gibberish Mr. Only someone that doesn't know her worth will pack her things and go and live with someone she's not married to. Washing his clothes and cooking for him. So despicable.

Even my parents will disown me if they hear that one.

Keep crying.

Lol men SMH. they'll all see these women that won't offer them only sex. But because they won't be able to control them, or force their standards on them, they'll go for "I give you sex, you give me money" type of ladies. Yet they'll be whining and crying, and I wonder why? Lol.

Y'all should just understand that no independent woman has time for babies like y'all. Just continue managing these chewing gum girls y'all are managing. And stop complaining else konji kills y'all.

LMAO.

anslem04:
Ofcus darling you're entitled to your principles & choices buh remember only people with low esteem do so much to keep it bloating, same way gurls with small boobs av to keep up with pushup bra & mouka foam bras high esteem is when you go really down low n still keep ur headup not feeling intimidated.
some gurls are naturally homely, doing house chores is more of an hobby than a duty, they are not fools and its not a bad idea if you decide to impress your man.
Maybe not every single lady is sad, buh show me a single lady in her 30's without a suitor that is happy then i go burst ur bubble.
Maybe marriage is not an achievement, buh remember achievement could be anything you term it.
i don't know what defines your better, buh believe me when i say there is nothing better than having it all, she has it all. kids, money, career, fame & a husband. why have some when you can have it all sweetie

You're just making baseless points. Low self-esteem women always want to be accepted by men. Women with no self respect, or self confidence. They do anything for them just to be accepted and picked. At the end of the day they'll still either leave them, cheat on them, or both.

A woman that knows what she wants won't waste her time washing or cooking for any man in the name of boyfriend just to be accepted.

Y'all just want women to be worshipping you so as to massage your bloated ego. To hell with y'all.

anslem04:
Don't just pity these women, tell us how your life take better pass these single gurls that cook and move in with men.
class no be by doing shakara, when your family background doez not even meet middle class.
Esteem is confidence seen in how you co exist with people not by keeping to yourself or hiding in your closet, having a blaze of fire on your head everytime a man comes around you should not be mistaken for esteem.
Emotionally weak is when you live in self denial, stuck in your past .. fear of heartbreak.
One look into your life, i think you need the pity more. look around those gurls you look down on & consider foolish are the ones getting married.
There was a time genieve, tonto ,ini edo & co. thot there lives were better than mercy johnson .. buh today who have it all. linda ikeji with all her brain ended up as an ordinary baby mama.

Bruh i ain't cooking no washing clothes for anyone that I'm not married to. Only low self-esteem and pick me women do that.

The fact that y'all assume every unmarried lady is unhappy baffles me lmao. You're so misinformed.

Marriage is not and will never be an achievement. Mercy Johnson's life isn't better than any unmarried woman's life. Trust me sweetheart.

Nashoji:
you can't cook for him cuz you are not his wife right? Let me ask you, on what condition do you sleep with him? Maybe you become his wife when it gets to sex abi?

Sex is a mutual thing lmao. We have sex, you go your way, I go by way. Chikena.

Nashoji:
you can't cook for him cuz you are not his wife right? Let me ask you, on what condition do you sleep with him? Maybe you become his wife when it gets to sex abi?

And who says I'm sleeping with anyone?

eyizlive:
Okay o, I hear u. Men are not important but my GF told me I'm important this morning and guess who I believe?

Btw shey dat ur link dey gain traction sha? U should work on that o.

Lol when I say men are not important, I mean men who treat women like trash. And if you treat her like trash and she still sees you as important, then it's either she's psychologically not ok or she just have low self esteem.

obiekunie2:
CHAI!

NAIJA GIRLS!

NA UNA DEY REALLY MAKE THIS SMALL BOYS DEY INSULT UNA ANYHOW!

NOW SEE HOW THY ARE ALL TAKING OVERDOSE OF RED PILLS UP AND DOWN!

A gift isn't a bad thing. Why is it wrong gifting a woman something? Why do y'all hate women so much?

eyizlive:
Lolzzzz see diswan. We pass two? or is there another gender u rating nii?
Ur obsession with male-centered threads always betrays this ur fallacy of men being unimportant. Goan sleep

Because men won't stay a day without making thousands of female threads. I'm not that afraid to put y'all in your places.

You have a temper problem. Enroll in anger management class before you kill somebody's wife someday. Temperamental men are a turn off for me.

Nice gesture. Men like this are rare these days.

Nairaland alpha ediots won't like this.

Lol. I believe in equality, my sister Bring, I bring too. That's how it should be.

How can you marry someone and then place all the financial responsibility on his head?

Some women sef.

This is what breeds disrespect when he's the only one making the financial contribution at home.

All I was just reading was the bf, the gf..

Well op, better try and make him pay that money. You introduced that investor to him, any problem that comes out from this, will fall on your head. Better use your wisdom.

Who knows, he might not be able to pay that debt again, and you'll end up being the one to pay it.
Forget bf and gf matter o. Make him pay that niggar.

You see that begging of a thing ehn! And cooking for him, someone you're not married to? Jeez. And moving in with him like some Desperado!

I always feel pity for women who do these.
They have no class, no esteem and they're emotionally weak.

LMAO

Red pill is toxic masculinity.

You're blaming your unable to control your third leg on a woman's dressing.

Psalmy2cute:
Then why you a man hater??

Lmao. I don't hate men. But I hate toxic masculinity. The post up there depicts toxic masculinity, and women need to be aware and avoid them.

Psalmy2cute:
are you a lesbian?

No I'm not.

Their:
Thank God they were not leading you to a trap.

Feminism is not good. I keep on saying this to our young generation. We can't do without dic.k , the earlier we accept this the better for us.

Thank you for helping them.

Shut up bro.

Women, I hope y'all are seeing the true color of men? An average Nigerian man is very toxic. Avoid them.

Bizideas25:
It's your brain that's made of garri. Of course racism didn't start now, but the reason it started in the first place is due to the perception of blacks as lesser. And the main attributes that made blacks to be perceived as lesser such as the disparities in standard of living and development, still persists and that's what my post is addressing.

You think if the whites thought us better than them that racism would even have begun?

If a group of people successfully take millions of your people as slaves to their land and enslaves them for years, what perception would their posterity have of you?

Black people were enslaved in their millions because they were underveloped, technologically period! And up till today, the same underdevelopment persists.

Next time, go to quora or Reddit and post your views. Na kids full here o

OP, this place is filled with children. You made very valid points, but only intellectuals will comprehend.

Dpsychologist:
The arguments you made does not hold water.

Not caring about their origins or going back to africa is not an audacity for whiteman to be racist towards them.


Who told you is only black man that suffered racism? Racism doesn't only involves blacks, chinese, indians, etc were also segregated.

I can bet on your balls that you didn't read the whole thread, you just jumped to comment.

He said if black people can sit up and make themselves great, like China and the rest, and stop whining like babies, they won't be looked down on.

Bizideas25:
As a black man myself, I'm against racism and I'm no supporter of racism of any form. But this doesn't stop me from saying the truth. And the truth is that black people are responsible for the racial discrimination that they are getting.

First let me start with the black people abroad, specifically those that call themselves African Americans. These people don't know anything about African, the place they claim their ancestors originated from and most of them don't care to know. They don't even want to be associated with Africa. Ask these fools to name an artiste, city or language spoken in Sub Saharan Africa and they can't answer. They actually think themselves as being smarter, more informed and better individuals in general than people living in sub-saharan Africa. Anyone who doesn't value his place of origin deserves to be discriminated by people from places that he regards above his.

Secondly, let's talk about black people in general, home and abroad. I honestly don't give a Bleep about how many adverts you make trying to push the notion that Africa is great and black is beautiful into the ears of everyone. I don't give a Bleep about how many music videos you make to celebrate blackness or brown skin, all this is utter bullshit. The only way black people will be celebrated is if black people actually become great. And greatness isn't by making stupid noise, it's by actually working hard to become people others admire. It's by making your countries centers of attraction. It's by making strides scientifically and technologically. No one can be racist towards someone that they respect. How often do you hear that white people are racist towards the Chinese or other east Asians? It's because these people have attained greatness, the kind that inspires fear and respect.

Beyonce, LeBron James, Aliko Dangote. No white person can racially discriminate these people. Rather the reverse is the case. White people admire them. They have posters of them in their rooms and they follow them on social media. If black people around the world can try to attain greatness and stop crying like children about everything and blaming white people for their problems and get their shit together, as individuals and as a nation, then there will be a global change in perception of blacks and then we will gain respect as a race and racism will end.

Very nice points. Thumbs up.

SmartMen:
Madam, point of correction: Say Nigerian woman and not Woman. I say so because 99% of Nigerian brand of feminism is rubbish emanating from heartbreaks, which precipitate hate and disgust towards men. The worse is that many of you lead lots of girls astray as if you don't need a man while cuddling veiny black mamba. We saw Linda Ikeji do this, we saw it a few weeks ago on Twitter too.

You are still placing yourself high. No one has that time hating on you. It's all in your head.

Y'all really believe that a woman who demands for respect, equal right, and opportunity, is hating on you.
No one hates any of you. You are just losing your control and grip on some enlightened few, you conclude it's hate. No honey, it's not hate. Y'all aren't that important to be hated on.