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Romance › Re: Apart From Religion, Why Do You Hate Gay Folks??? by Shugavee(f): 7:56am On Mar 14, 2018
HannahHitler:
you commit sins, and you know they are not right but yet you do themhuhhuh What kind of pervasive sinner are you? Why do you lie? You know its a sin but you keep doing it and you will till you die.

You have a boyfriend that continually sleeps with you and it is clear that it is a sin but yet you lie there in your filth and you call yourself a christian. You are worst than i am.

You know why? I think what i am doing is right and you are just pure wicked because you know what is right and you will never do it. I mean never because you will always be a sinner. You will die as one because i put it to you that nobody holy pass!
see that's called Godly sorrow!!! When u lie u hv the holy spirit telling u that ur abt to do something wrong! But do u belive being gay is right? n the holyspirit hasn't told ur inner conscience that its wrong!! but u still do it n say it's right in the sight of God!!! No one comes out sayin lying, fornication, or stealing is right!!! Cause we know it's not!!! Do u belive being gay is righthuh? If u do then Sorry dear u hv no spiritual whatever with God
Romance › Re: Nairalanders Stop Messaging Me by Shugavee(f): 6:44am On Mar 14, 2018
Finestbae1:
I get tones of messages everyday. I'm sure some married me are among. Please I'm too young for such disturbances, my email gets full everyday.

Please don't message me, I'm Miss Independent and don't need any assistance.

I want you all guys to know that, Absurdity is the compulsion to go looking for meaning that simply isn't there.

I am a university graduate of Hertfordshire University, and I have a good job here in Nigeria. So those thinking every girl wants money; y'all wrong!

Thanks!
are u sure?
Romance › Re: Apart From Religion, Why Do You Hate Gay Folks??? by Shugavee(f): 6:36am On Mar 14, 2018
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Romance › Re: Apart From Religion, Why Do You Hate Gay Folks??? by Shugavee(f): 6:35am On Mar 14, 2018
HannahHitler:
according to you, being gay is a sin and a sinner cannot serve God. Going by this asumption,

Liars cannot be liars and be christians

Fornicators cannot fornicate and be christians

Corrupt, thieving people cannot be christians

Frauds cannot be christians

If you are even a first born son and your mother did not take you to the temple then you cannot be a christian.

Oga boss!! Collect sense..

As though you are the Jesus that died for me.
you can't call urself gay n be a Christian, its not possible!!! We do alot of sinful act!! All hiden but we could ask 4 4giveness at anytym, but continuously calling urself gay n say ur Christian is a complete fallacy!!!! We r all sinners!! God came 4 the sinners, 4 them to be made whole, in all essence it's expected that in ur continuous devotion to Christ u will change ur ways!! Sanctification is not a day job! No Christian is completely holy, but u coming out n saying u are gay n won't change cause that's who u r n say ur a Christian is blasphemy on its own!!! All u hv just mentioned are sinful act we do n most times we know they aint right but gay people think they r right, n should be accepted while the word of God says otherwise!! If ur are gay, u can't be a Christian!! Jesus didn't die 4 u am sorry!!
Romance › Re: Apart From Religion, Why Do You Hate Gay Folks??? by Shugavee(f): 6:14am On Mar 14, 2018
Klinee:
Are you better understand than God Almighty who ask us to kill the gays? The Bible made it clear that we should kill the gays that they are evil and that their blood will be upon their head. So killing a gay you commit no sin.
Maybe check uselu left if you are in Benin or yabaleft if you are in Lagos for supporting barbaric evil act called gay.
what verse please, want to read it up
Romance › Re: Apart From Religion, Why Do You Hate Gay Folks??? by Shugavee(f): 6:13am On Mar 14, 2018
I don't even need religion to know it's not right, as far they are not related to me in anyway, i hv no issue with them, won't promote it either
Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Strike Again In Oyo, Behead Elderly Farmer by Shugavee(f): 6:08am On Mar 14, 2018
Am tired of complaining abt this government!! cry
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Stopped Me From Going Out Today - Photos by Shugavee(f): 5:37am On Mar 14, 2018
donstan18:
Lol, Ma Nigga cheesy

That's the truth nh.....Nobody NOSE tomorrow, how I wish a Nlander NOSE the parents of this lady so that they'll come and see for themselves.

But, it's obvious nobody NOSE her parents. cheesy
grin grin grin ;Cu don't hv sense lol
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 5:26am On Mar 14, 2018
TheUpsetGirl:
poverty mentality
how pleasehuh? So tell me how the rich man mentality ishuh
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Do Jehovah's Witnesses Not Believe In Miracles? by Shugavee(f): 11:31pm On Mar 13, 2018
SenselessIdiot:
If you believe in miracle then you can believe anything
yes i believe in miracles!!! I know the God I serve!!! Yes I c believe God can do anything n every thing!!!! I am a living example portraying the miracles of God!!!
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Opinion On Tithing Is Not From God by Shugavee(f): 11:02pm On Mar 13, 2018
chikachuks1:
For some time now, the popular radio presenter Ifedayo Olarinde popularly called OAP Daddy Freeze has been trending with his freethesheeple movement. In this movement, he advocates that members should stop paying tithe and offerings to the church. This is because the pastors use the money realized through this means to enrich themselves. With this his campaign, he has successfully gained more popularity and followers. Yet, we must not be deceived with his philosophies on tithing. The truth remains that there is a Bible passage to back up almost everything we do and because of this fact, many people end up misusing and misinterpreting the Bible just to suit their selfish philosophies and ideologies.

We see that Daddy Freeze backs up his ideologies with certain Bible passages, yet we must not be deceived. As Christians, we must know that the fact that the Bible is been quoted does not make it the word of God. We must also look at the kind of people that quotes it to ascertain if or not it God’s word. For example, the devil came to Jesus to say “it is written”. And truly, if we search the Bible well, we will see all the passages the devil quoted. Does that then mean that it is the word of GOD? So we must look deeply if we must avoid been deceived by empty fables.

With this ideology of Daddy Freeze on tithe and offering, the devil has gained more ground in the Nigerian Church as people are been deceived that the new testament church is not supposed to pay tithe. Many people say that tithing is an Old Testament commandment. Permit me to say that more than 60% of the recorded promises in the Bible are found in the Old Testament. If we consider tithing to be an Old Testament something, then we should also consider those blessings to be Old Testament stuffs. The church has now successfully divided into 2 parts and some ungrounded ministers has come up to defend tithing without strong convictions.

The scripture says that we should not be deceived. Therefore, we must make sure that we stand on the Word of God been deeply rooted and built up in Christ. The Bible commands that we should bring in all the tithes into the store house. Our main concern should be to obey the Word of God. It is left for God to judge those who misuse the fund. Once we give the tithe, it is no longer our money but God’s. Therefore, what it is been used for is God’s business and not ours. On the day of account presentation, God will request for account from these men. Oh, may we not be too concerned with what our pastors use our tithe to do that we forget our focus.


Daddy freeze simply goes about reading his own mind into the scripture. God is not an author of confusion, neither is He and author of division. Men of old paid tithe and reaped the benefit. Some men of our days also paid tithe and reaped the benefit. Then why should we not pay tithe. The devil knows pretty well that there are lots of things to be benefited from tithing faithfully and he never wants us to partake of them.

I strongly stand to say that the message and teaching of Daddy Freeze is not from God at all. These are my few reasons.

1) Daddy Freeze has no respect for God’s anointed
Daddy Freeze has no respect for anointed men of God. He has spoken severally against Pastor Adeboye, Bishop Oyedepo, Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo and many others. Daddy Freeze once referred to Bishop Oyedepo as a bald headed man. The messengers God uses to carry out His purpose on earth are not men who lack respect for God’s anointed. The reformers of old were not disobedient to God’s anointed. Hate speech was not so much found in their mouth. Therefore, if Daddy Freeze was sent by God, he should have at least respected authorities. Yet Michael the archangel, when contending with the devil he disputed about the body of Moses, durst not bring against him a railing accusation, but said, The Lord rebuke thee (Jude:9). We must understand that God is very careful and meticulous on the kind of vessels He uses.

2) He is a divorcee
I gathered on the media that Daddy Freeze divorced his first wife and is currently engaged, set to get married to another. If he divorced his first wife and remains single, he will not be faulted. But for the fact that despite been divorce, he is in a bid to get married to another. For more understanding on divorce and remarriage, may I refer us all to 1 Corinthians chapter 7.

3) Daddy Freeze has no record of any strong spiritual life
Did God actually raise him up? How do we believe that God raised him up when we cannot see any record of his spiritual history? There are series of training processes which the men God uses must undergo. Some of these training processes are private and personal, while others are public and can be seen. Let us believe that we cannot see that which is personal. Yet, what of the public ones? Why are there no records of them? I refused to join the crew of those who has fallen into this strong sedition raised by Daddy Freeze.

At the end time like this, we must prepare to hear anything, yet we must not obey and adhere foolishly. We must examine every message we hear. We must taste every spirit. We must use the truth of God’s word to weigh every message we hear.
In conclusion, Daddy Freeze and his message are not sent from God. Therefore, I advice everyone of us to keep paying tithe. By the way, all that we have is given to us by God. Is it a big thing for God to ask only 10% ofwhat his has given us?
http://www.christianityupdate.com/blog/daddy-freeze-opinion-is-not-from-god/
am so sorry but i see no sense in this!!!! I hate when fanatic Christians make Christainity seem too scary, salvation is personal, dont speak abt his spiritual life, u know nothing abt it!! Pay ur tithe if thats what ur bible hv told u to do!! If i interpret my own differently n choose not to pay thats non of ur bussiness, if he advocate 4 people not to pay n u dont agree with his veiws, continue paying!!! As far as i am concerned paying tithe expired as christ died n brought us closer to God almighty!!! Jesus never paid tithe to no one neither did his disciples(but paid tax)!! So daddyfreeze life has nothing to do with this, the bible is there at ur disposal!!! No man is holy, pastors can still lie, steal n be selfish, they r human beings!!! U as a member can be spiritually stronger than they are!! I see alot of pastors already agreeing with him , not all pastors r greedy afterall!!!
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 10:16pm On Mar 13, 2018
wristbangle:
The purpose of courtship/dating had long been defeated whilst people do it for selfish reasons.

Agreed a man needs to spend for his girlfriend which must be in a prudent and purposeful way.

If a woman thinks all she could offer is her body and domestic duties, then she doesn't really know her role. Being a woman requires supporting your man who respects, loves and cherish you.

In relationship and marriage, we need to help each other, share responsibilities to achieve a common goal for the future.
please there are so much that both spouse can do to keep things together, but i said physically!!! Read my post with an openmind
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:56pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
physically? we offer them the joy of motherhood.
n who offer men the joy of fatherhoodhuh
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:55pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
our love isn't it enough?
is more than enough baby grin
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:14pm On Mar 13, 2018
UDUJ:
cheesy grin You have started again O cheesy
grin grin grin not my fault he wasnt around when the dicussion began!!! I believe he might hv something to say!! So am willing to hear him out
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:10pm On Mar 13, 2018
xpressng:
feminists be wanting equality. but still scream their ass out when they see cockroaches. and call the male to come help lol
we are equal but not the same!!!
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 4:09pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
no we can.... infact we should...... i wasn't aware and don't know what you posted on ur previous thread but i think its 70-30 to the males if you want to rate who needs who. :->
lol what d0 a man physically offer a woman!!! Please dont start all the talks "love sercurity blah blah, i mean physical
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 3:39pm On Mar 13, 2018
FluidQueen:
Lol. grin


But I had no idea the bible said the role of the Woman is strictly Chore duty. grin that book tho!

I still think That Men and Women shouldn't have to conform to the Societal definition of Gender roles if they don't want to. If the Woman Wants to be the provider, She could. If they both Want to. Then, No problem.

House chores could also be shared. Shouldn't even be debatable for Christ sake! I do the dishes, You sweep the house. I cook, You wash the plates. I feed the kids, You bathe them. C'est fini!
Chores n housework is their definition of the bible's submission!!
Romance › Re: Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 3:35pm On Mar 13, 2018
Cadec007:
ok i agree with others but this?. I dunno y my instincts tells me otherwise.
please lets not go back to this cheesy
Romance › Men Stop Complaining N Take Pride Spending 4 Women by Shugavee(op): 3:19pm On Mar 13, 2018
So you see a lot of guys nowadays when a woman comes out and says a man is supposed to take care of me, supposed to suit my bills and all that and you see men all over the comment section saying" can't you make your money and be independent?? and don't be a liability" and so many other things but when the table changes and women are like I'm not your slave so you guys learn how to do chores so you can help in the home and you can assist your wife, they will start complaining n say the bible say this n that,,, but they 4get the bible said they are the ones to till the soil, so my previous thread was to make men remember their usefulness is just finacial n they should take pride in it n stop complaining cause the more women become independent the more men's usefulness to women depreciates, e.g linda ikeji apart from the fact we want love n companionship, she pysically needs nothing from a man than sex!! Most men think because they spend money on a woman, they hv the privilege to ask stupid questions!!! See if we all start making money 4 ourselves, u see more lesbians cause most women won't take the nonsense u men do,,,,,i want women to become independent, nothing as joyful to me than that!!! But a friendly reminder to men,

1. If u want an independent woman hv something better to offer than money be useful at home

2. Stop complaining!!!! U need us more than we need u guys!!!

3. If u believe a woman has no entitlement to ur money,(ur gf or wife)fine! put in mind u hv no entitlement to her submission, her cooking or her doing chores in ur house!!

I believe we all do our roles with love not it being forced!! If u love her u provide, n she loves u she will make u happy,
No entitlement whatsoever!! If its forced then its not meant to be!!!

#unapologeticfeminist
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 12:12pm On Mar 13, 2018
lefulefu:
let me tell u something grin
a dude whose main aim in owning a car is cos he wants women to look his way is certainly up to no good.
those guys wey go siddon for the bonnet of their car dey whistle at any passing babe the way u whistle at bingo u think they are up to any good?
na to use d car impress d babe so they can easily sleep wit her cheesy.
can u please stop that n say other reasons to hv a means to transport!! U dont want it cause u dont see the need 4 it or just dont want it!!!
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 11:55am On Mar 13, 2018
lefulefu:
i am just saying if you use a car as a parameter in being with a man you could get decieved and used.of course a man who wants to settle down one of things he thinks about his owning a car for his young family..hmmm and how will u know if a guy that woos you u on the street is really the owner of the car he"s riding.u think he will tell u he borrowed it? grin.its like u never meet gboro guys grin.
i know naw!! Lets forget those n be literal
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 11:54am On Mar 13, 2018
norris123:
what is there in having a car? I don't know why girls can't learn from other girls that supported their men when they didn't have anything. I might worte 6m naira but because of nature of business I wil not consider owing a ride that moment beacuase I can't buy a car worth 2m when I can still use that same amount for an investment that can yield at 100,000 every month,the should wait while I invest for the future. Let me tell you story, my elder brother worth at least 30m but he doesn't have private car not even one although he has two buses that he use to distribute his goods, so when a girl sees him will she say he's broke, how much is the car? Its all about what you want at that particular time, everyone wants a good life including him but there are things u consider first, to him his businesses first. As a business man, I can not buy car when I have my business hasn't gotten to the stage I want, there are ccompetition everywhere in business so the right thing to do is try as much as u can to be the best in your business first before any other things. How much is car self?
because that suffer with boy no dey pay!!u don't know what we ladies hv seen!!! I no dey suffer with any body!! Still remains one of the best desicions i hv made!!! Stay in ur lane while i hustle my hustle n u hustle urs b4 we meet!! N now hopely things r the way i want them to be
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 11:39am On Mar 13, 2018
. Where is that beautiful comment from an igbo brother
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 11:32am On Mar 13, 2018
lefulefu:
those ones who borrow their friends car to impress a girl so as to get into her pants..are they comfortable? cheesy
we r not talking abt deceitful people, we talking abt people who actually own the cars!! N i said most!!!
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 10:58am On Mar 13, 2018
lefulefu:
biko u ladies overseas should try and educate some of our ladies who think owning a car means the guy must be rich grin grin grin grin grin
oh please is not even abt being rich but being comfortable enough to add me to ur life!! Not everyguy with a car is rich but at Least we know most of them r comfortable
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 10:56am On Mar 13, 2018
Coldfeets:
But the underlying question is what stops you from getting your own car?

Could it be possible that the same thing that is stopping him from getting his own car is exactly the same thing that is preventing you from getting your own car?

Yes, you are right.

Who no like better thing.

But why must "that better thing" you like always come from another person?

Are you that so handicapped physically and mentally that you cannot get that better thing you like for yourself?
offcourse i hope as well to hv my car but i will always want my man to hv his own car!!! Whether i hv a car or not
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Love Guys Who Have Cars by Shugavee(f): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Who has time to be trekking with a guy upandan not in a country like Nigeria

I'm kinda attracted to guys that drive,i rarely date carless guys...I like to be comfortable at all times

**Poverty will not kill some men in Nigeria,what's the big deal about owning a car and they are just ranting all over the thread because they can't afford a bicycle**

No lady should ever date a broke guy especially those that have degree in trekking and jumping okada...It's an error,they will frustrate your life with the kind of mentality they have
please dont say that, no one plans to hv a degree n still not hv a good job!!

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