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donstan18:
Like, we shouldn't have best friends?, we should be our own best friend to avoid emotional drama.

Nice one brO, you recently got snithced? you can guide us with your experience, if you don't mind

not sntiched tho but hurt!! Its a long story but cant really say it all in writing but it hurts hving a friend not worth all the stress u hv gone through with that person!! Funny enough my friends told me their own experiences with their close friends but i thought it would never happen to me!!! I had this thought "what can even make us stop being best friends" i thought nothing will ever change till it did!! N am like wow!!! Had no fight wth this friend of mine o but i didnt need to

HOLYDICK:
Lol did any 1 betray u lately? ?
Withstanding wat u wrote up there am still with my day 1 niggas ...always got each others back before, now and always

not betray really but u just get some funny reactions from people u could absolutely do anything 4!! N ur amazed!! His ur no 1 nigga till u become a competition!!

donstan18:
I asked a harmless question with no harm intended, i'm not art endowned, I like it brief with full of point.

So I ask again, what's the point?

sorry 4 the reaction!! My point is the subject!! Thanks

donstan18:
What's your point?

my dear if u dont get the point fine!!! Read till u do!! Or move along!! I dont expect everyone to understand the point!!

Life hit me hard recently n i hv come to the realisation!!! That there is a big, huge difference between friendship n loyality!! Close friendships are enjoyable when young n growing but when we r in a mature state!! When u hv less time 4 gisting n talking n ur focused on ur dreams,, whats more valuable is loyality!! U think people who know ur life n ur whole secrets are the ones who are gonna stand with you in difficult situations or support u when its needed but they dont, because they get new friends n their loyality shifts!! This is because they feel ur already there n there is no need to please u!! But their new friends, they hardly know, are the ones they do eye service to!! N belittle u to them just because they hv 'see u finish' but someone who is ur friend but aint that close to you or know ur secrets, are the first set of individuals to show themselves, suppose u n help u[right][/right] when in need!! Funny enough those close friends are laughing at ur down fall n watching ur next move so they will try to move higher than u, innocent you thinking we are cool n best friends!! No ur not!!! Ur their no1 competition!! I found out late!! There is nothing like best friend,close friend n all that!! Just loyal friends!!! they might not be too close to you or know much abt ur shortcoming, but they are ones rooting 4 you!! Trust me

UltraMax:
For once a girl has approached the topic of finances in relationships sensibly and maturely. I agree 100% and may I add getting her occasional gifts (no matter how small). These basic expenditures aren't her motivation for dating you, they're just a way of showing you care and everybody enjoys the knowledge that someone cares about you.
I also agree that guys that truly can't afford any of these shouldn't make getting a girl their priority, however if they somehow find themselves in love with someone that feels the same way, its fine. Most 'broke' guys can do all these but feel their money is not enough for one person, talk less of two. Well there's nothing wrong with making sacrifices for someone you love, that's why the focus here is your 'main chick' not random girls.

thanks 4 reading my post to understand n not condemn!! Exactly my point!!

Jamariwolf4:
So I decided to look up pics of the male sex dolls and bliv me, I was blown away.
i mean:

Look at those arm lengths, the abs, pecs, strong hands.

One has to wonder, how many naija men can keep a body like this? Do they even know equipments inside a basic gym?

Further,
We can choose from a variety of handsome face, the hot sun has made most male faces from this part of the world really repulsive.
I heard they've got bionic peenises (they are described as unstoppable, and better than the real thing and most vibrators)




Ladies have now got a man who will never leave us or slut shame us frequently.
Rejoice!

exactly!! Am even hor ny looking at them!! They r sure gonna be hawt!!

Okoh1:
Ashawooooooo..come make I smuggle u to Italy. U go make money die

like ur shouting is going to change anything in real life!! Smh

makydebbie:
You read English? Please go and tell my one year old nephew and carry your wasted education out of my mention.

like i care!! Mtcheww

makydebbie:
Jesus! Tell him it's urgent.

darling i read english n literary studies n if ur trying to imply that ones wasnt used correctly in that context den i think u need a dictionary!! Ones n once are different!! U should probably go back to school

Jamariwolf4:
so sad, and the worst is that these broke guys can be soooooooooo handsome ehn (with good swag and sexual power) but one must learn how to control herself ooo. They can mess your life and your body beyond repair.


When a man walks up to me, I no dey even look him face again oo (am I mad) - extremely ugly people are rare, so just tell me what you can bring to the table chikina.

exactly!! My dear!!

makydebbie:
Also persuade your boyfriend to get an English tutor for you.

i dont read my posts more than ones!! People like you dont deserve that!! If u cant read it!! Move on!! Its not by force!!

Cuteamigo1:
my post isnt emotional as you think and a girl with an attitude and mindset like yours, trust me i dont give a rat asss what happens to you. i wish you a happy parasitic and leeching life.

oh really thanks but no thanks!!! U aint worth shit n ur opinion abt me dont count!!! Find the nearest lagoon n jump into it!! I really dont care abt ur broke ass self

Jamariwolf4:
naija guys know how to sexualize women and later slut shame them especially these broke ass boys who'd come in the name of relationships when I it's only sex that's in their mind.

If I keep opening for every Tom, DICK, and Harry that comes my way for a 'relationship'(even chauffeurs and laborers) , what would be left of me?

That's exactly why I set my standards to sieve away the fvckboys from the serious men.


@bold,thats why I focused on Uni girls, they sabi do mumu atimes (especially freshers)

We've seen it countless times on Nairaland front page how she cooked for the broke idiot with her foodstuffs, loved him, housed him, took care of him and almost sacrificed herself for him, yet he dumped her or termed her a prostitute in front of his friends.

If you can't take care of me or bring more than I bring into our relationship, then wait for those oyinbo them sex dolls so you can buy one.


Love gbakwo okwu!

my sister me too o!! When i was in school 100l i dated one guy in final year fine cute boy!!! I will carry money n cook 4 him in his house, he will come to my house i will cook 4 him n he wont drop chi chi!! Told him to give me money 4 my hair!! 4 where! Buy me one top i like? I pray o!! But anuty(.me) was still carrying her money to cook soup n even carry my foodstuff to his lodge! One day i just get sense n broke up with the fool!!!
Abi na the time i dated one broke guy with no money but recharge card, he went to gh we were still dating when he came back started sexing everywhere from there that one end!!! Suffer with boy is an error!! I care less abt these foolish people's opinions!!! Ladies shine ur eye

Cuteamigo1:
this thread is wrong that it makes me feel like women are meant to only be used and dumped. seriously who date this women and even end up marrying them?

funny enough we arent meant to be used n dumped but guys do it anyways!! I was once innocent n naive!! So quit those emotional talks!! Someone will marry them dont bother urself abt that!!!

gabinogem:
Funny... With such mentality, guys should always see it as a commodity that needs to be bought... Encouraging guys to work hard & girls to slumber...A win win situation for guys then

i love ur comment!! Now this is how it works 4 me i am a feminist i believe every woman should hv a source of income n work hard!! But above that i was blessed with a man n does well 4 me!! But some ladies are so against feminism n believe they need to survive on a man!! Fine but not a broke guy!! Ur dating a guy that cant feed himself!! Thats rubbish!! Nonsense!! Yeye!! U call commodity right Then go ahead n marry a prostitute!!!

HausaOverlord:
cook clean pussy that's all but y'all want a man to :
1 give u monthly or weekend stipends
2 buy u an iPhone
3 take care of ur siblings
4 take u shopping
5 take u on vacations
6 and last 2 hours on bed

i didnt add that to my list, i stated the basics n if u do more thats cause u hv the money n she is worth it!!! N remember if you love her enough she could be the mother of ur unborn children

Jamariwolf4:
I just ignore all their stupid mentions.

One said I'm prostituting another even insulted my breast shape.


Naija men are very stupid, you take money from them after sex and they call you ashawo - OK, you now decide to not take any money from them, and they go about telling their friends hw they 'slayed' you for free.


I've had my own share of these broke but swaggaful guys (especially in my Uni days), and they can sweet talk for Africa ehn, but I tell you girl, never again!!!!


I'm now wiser!

My own definition of broke (yet managing) is 100 - 150k salary per month.


I can't fit suffer with any man again, na handsome or swag I wan chop?

Loud it girl!!!! Girls dey suffer 4 this life!! The ones forming lover girls i just dey look them!! Women gat open their eyes cause guys aint smiling!!! Form decent n manager, them go still dump u when them ready!!! So u just hv to play ur cards right n use ur brain

fuckerstard:
Chaii, you try atleast you told us your mindset.

It's just that i was hoping you'd add where the babe go spend on the man sometimes.

if the girl is funded she could sponsor his meal once in a while like a surprise dinner or lunch!! Added with good mind blowing sex!!!

HausaOverlord:
Chai, that's why I luv broke girls honestly na hair and small shopping be dia problem, since dem dey jobless dem no get say for the relationship only to bend down and take that D

n bro am not broke n i hv got a man!!!

HausaOverlord:
true, but what does she bring to the relationship other than pussy

a woman sacrifices herself 4 a man!!! Cooks, cleans, n yes her pussy!!! U think its easy right How i wish we could switch positions!! N then u know how hard it is to be a woman!!!

Jamariwolf4:
I laugh when I see University guys on 15k per month feeding from daddy want to enter into 'relationships'. I laugh really hard.



Young Ladies don't fall for their antics,

They want to chop you freely and when they graduate and make it, they forget you.


Follow matured men (from lecturers to guys around your school) with a nice ride (it doesn't have to be a Mercedes, just any nice ride) so they can take care of you and do all op listed.


University love Issa scam

PS : I didn't say married men ooooooo, edakun my hands is out from dah one ooo

all these useless boys are here screaming but they know the truth!!! Funny enough what i listed is just so little but the broke boys are still complaining thats to tell u how unfortunate their gf are, thats if they hv one

Only broke niggas thats gonna take this personal! Cus this is the damn truth!!! Kill urselves!!

Now this is an issue that i think i really need to share!! 4 u all information, yeah puci is not 4 sale!! But puci has value!!!! Unlike u guys cassava thats 4 the public ,,,, since u all hv claimed cheating as ur a way of life

So there was this guy asking my friend out, very ugly looking, broke guy, very broke, uneducated n so on!! She said No!! She no gree!!
So uncle went to ghana n came back with money, "Good 4 him" so me n my friends were gisting abt the issue n someone said maybe she would hv accepted the guy!!! N am like 4 what naw!! Guy wey never chop belle full nai my friend go open leg give all in the name of puci is not 4 sale n suffer with boy!!! One ode came up saying she wasnt there wen he was broke blah blah blah!!! Weyti concern her!! Broke get stage o abeg!!!
Ur boyfriend should be able to do the following, thats if he is a managing guy o(broke)!!:
1, a lady makes her hair twice a month, atleast he should give u 3 to 5k every two weeks 4 ur hajr

2, everymonth ur Boy friend should atleast take u to a beauty store to get ur soap, cream n toiletries!

3, every festive season ur boyfriend should atleast buy u one top n trouser or gown.

4, wen ever u are with him u are not obligated to spend ur money except by freewill, meaning u should be comfortable when with him, well feed

5, lastly he should hv a place, big or small!!!

If ur Boy friend doesnt do all these 4 you my dear ur are very much single!!!! Over single dey worry u self!!!! N if ur doing this will the allusion "things go better" then my sister i pity u!!! All the average n poor couple u see around, thats the same way they told the woman "i go blow i go blow make u manage", anuty is still managing till today!!! How are u sure he wont dump u after e blow?? Funny part is they will be cheating on top n looking 4 loyality!! U try!!
Guys get a source of income b4 u start looking 4 girl friend!!! Dont come out with ur empty pocket n be looking 4 girl that will "suffer with you" who like suffer? Puci is not 4 sale neither is it 4 free!! Love, sex n money goes together!!!

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dollyjoy:
What about the girl you dumped for her? How is she?

thank you my sister!!! He wants to pretend like he was faithful just because the girl switched to a better guy!!! Now he is forming lover boy!!!

luwabrooklyn:
it could be true after watching that video it took about 20 secs after the guy left before she screamed No took anoda 10 secs and screamed No(its only means she was trying to process what the guy had told her while expressing her shock screaming No (it cant be) pause again for 10 secs and be like could it be true in her mind No she screamed again

the way she screamed it was obvious there is something wrong!!! Normally she would hv just walked out n saved herself from the shame but the way she screamed showed he really said something that terrified her!!

Stay single till the right man comes along n if he doesnt, live ur life to the fullest!!! Marriage is not an achievement

stanliwise:
Take a look at ya self

u mind am�

Beautiful

So some people are here trying to prove experts in life n bussines, i cant go back to my father blah blah blah like its some sort of talk to get glorification, i am building a legacy 4 my children so they always hv to where to fall back on, no matter the situation, because u hv non of those u feel entitled to bully the ones who do, claiming ur father has a bussiness when u know very well he doesn't hv enough!!! Davido is someone i admire, he has created a future himself with no attachment with his fathers name!! Davido is an African superstar!! This is simply a rant n We all know that!!