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kimbraa:
You don't owe me or anyone an explanation, and you made a thread? Way to go!.

i made a thread n had a problem with it u hv to state it not expect me to give u a lecture just because we came in contact on narialand!! When google can do that 4 u!!! I never made a thread with ur name on it!! So yes i owe u nothinh till u make a good n valid explanation abt ur misconception n what the feminism u know abt fights 4!!

kimbraa:
If you can't defend your write-up or what you claim to stand for then I assume you're a charlatan. There's no point in referring me to Google, it's obvious you're one of the misinformed social media feminist. SHM!.

really? Ur the one that called my post a misconception!! N hv nt told me how n why n u think i owe u an explanation abt anything No maam i dont!!!

kimbraa:
I never told you I was a feminist. You were throwing the feminist word around on a topic feminism shouldn't come in, that is, if you truly knew what feminism means and that was my reason for asking you to define the term. I reteirate, define feminism then social feminism let me see how it relates to your topic.

ask Google darling!! If u hv a problems with my write up give me reasons n lets hv a productive agruement if not!! I hv no business with you

kimbraa:
First off, define 'feminism' then relate the definition to the load of crap you wrote. Most of you misinformed so-called feminist assume feminism is all about equality when you barely know what equality feminist seek for.

i am a socialist feminist i know exactly what social feminism seeks 4!! Ask google!! Now what does ur own feminism seeks 4 Two questions asked!!! First whats the misconception n 2ndly what does ur feminism seek 4!!! If u dont want to answer these questions, please i see no reason u r here!! U can school me to understand ur school of thought!!! N please indicate the particular feminism u idenify with while making ir point n let it be flow with ur points

ubunja:
lol just see how these cheap broke selfish females are pretending not to understand the post its hillarious to death.
what is not clear kimbraa, chikita66 and safiaabuthole?
its clear as daylight dont dodge.if you claim equality to men then shoulder your responsiblities also.thats the reason even Feminism is not taken seriously in South Africa.a woman goes on a long speech about women deserving equal pay for equal work and demanding men pull their weight in the kitchen; that woman is asked Are you ready to pay your own bride price as an Empowered Woman?then she starts yapping on about african tradition and how its the role of men to pay! one Feminist on radio was straight up told by a caller 'Fvck You!!'

fact is, nigerian feminist only talk abt feminism when it favours them!!! But thats not real feminism!!! They never fight 4 it, but they alll talk abt it when it comes to domestic violence,and rape!!! Why will a real feminist see a problem with this write up Thats because they aint one!!!! Alot of them are not!! Some claim not to be feminists, but they find themselves talking abt gender issues!!! But end it with am not a feminist!! If u were told to go back to 50 years when women were nothing, will u ? they say no!! But the enjoyment n privileges u hv today were made by feminist!!! Give a vaild contribution if u hv anything to say, they won't, but wanna pretend to be smart!!

safiaaBUTTHOLE:
"but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there"

"this is africa not london!!"

Do you even think before typing?

no am waiting 4 u!! Satisfied?

kimbraa:
What do you mean by from a feminist POV and how did feminism come in here? Don't tell me you're one of the few girls dragging feminism in the mud due to your misconception of what true feminist/feminism stands for.

what misconception please!! Explain!! Cause if u see a man paying a womans bride price as equality in any way!!!! I will like to know ur reasons!!

In one of my threads someone said who said only men can propose? so I tried to look at it from a feminist point of view, and it makes sense but then let's be realistic if we want to follow the white man and their way of life, over there, they dont pay dairy or bride price, they just go to the court and get married or go to the church and get married, but it's not that way in africa, here, they pay your bride price, they do all the traditional stuffs first before even doing any other thing, so as a feminist I feel the first thing we should do is to focus on eradicating stuffs like that, "bride price" and all..but do you know the funny thing? those same women that said oh who said only a man can propose, are going to counter my statement!! and facts is if we r talking about women proposing in africa we should first follow that step, if not, a woman proposing in africa is the most stupid thing to do(worked 4 you? Hallelujah) because you're not the one paying his groom price!! spare me that jargon about proposing to a guy!!! we can't climb the ladder from the last step but from the first, this is africa not london!! Or better still let women start paying groom prices!! Haha haha

MIKOLOWISKA:
feminists are married yet you follow their nonsense talk. What does that make you.? Unintelligent

hahahhah this is me laughing at ur foolishness when u actually think i care abt ur damn opinion!! I see u in all my threads causing nuisance!! Stalker!!! This is the last piece of my time i will give u on narialand!! Ur so worthless that i feel this is a complete waste!! Talk to me when u hv developed real brain cells if not!! U can go ahead n kill urself over my posts!!! Its a free world!! Display ur stupidity!!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Who made the law that only men should propose?

no one o but why else

[quote author=nov19 post=64726864]SO A WOMAN CAN GET ANGRY AT WILL AND EXPECTS A MAN TO TOLERATE HER, BUT A WOMAN SHOULD NOT TOLERATE A MAN THAT DOES SAME.

SO....UNBELIEVABLE THE WAY PEOPLE THINK.[/quotel] thats why ur in "A Man" men get angry too but women get pissed at little things!!! I get pissed at my man 4 talking to people when we r together but i do it n he hardly cares but he dares not!! If not am frowning the whole day!!! Other women n their own!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is not out of desperation that women propose to men so I don't buy that story but I agree do what makes you happy and stop trying to live on people's standard.

why else do women propose to men?

This one dey my area!! Sons of the prophet network!

Sierusvirus:
Check next door for your little standard because we ain't of the same pedigree.

see this one? Mtchewe

Sierusvirus:
Nice one.
Girls that has standard don't talk but broke, wasted, used and scum girls seeking for attention like this keeps talking

one of the abaya boys!!

Belafonte:
You're going to make me cûm if you keep the name calling up. Do you swallow? It's not going to clean itself up after all.

smh!! Where is the lie tho!! Scummm

Belafonte:
Eyah. Sorry, but it is what it is. Men cannot be called ashawo because cannot be ashawo. How many men have you heard asked out by their wives for cheating. Even when the wives are with not tolerate cheating, they leave, not the man.

But of course, we know women cheat on the low so we ain't bothered by your public cries. A woman who will not comport herself is free to try her luck elsewhere. It is not by force to be with anybody.

sssscccccccuuuuuummmmmmm

Belafonte:
There's a place I think you could the shaking to better use. If you know what I mean!

hahahahah nut is loosing somewhere in ur brain

Belafonte:
That would be your opinion. I think both sexes are scum. Or are you saying women are angels who shît roses?

way better than men!! If it be a woman thst posted this thread !!! U see women concemning her 4 the act of thinking cheating n men posting ashawo everywhere but just imagine ur comment!! Like it's nothin!!

Belafonte:
I feel the same way for ya.

smh!!!!!

Belafonte:
If you really wanted what was best for your sisters you wouldn't endorse lies that could put them in jeopardy. Women may not like being overlooked when they cross 30 but a thread like this dies nothing to help them accept reality.

You don't see men forcing women to marry them when they are broke or short or ugly. We know what women want in a spouse and we try to meet up. We don't feel entitled to a woman's love. We don't demand that they marry us no matter what.

If you like propagate this trash OP has written, you know who will regret eventually. As women approach 30 more are just reaching 20, 21, 22, etc. Wake up and help your sisters.

smh!!!!!

efesodje:
Shugavee you don come?

Welcome

;Dthank you

Belafonte:
Well, she's only trying to keep up to date with your shenanigans and not lose you to some other female. At this point, you realise she's a stalker and you cannot, as a matter of principle have a long-term relationship with her.

I suggest you ignore her moves and do what you want to do. If she catches you trying dating someone else or even trying to date some other female, do not give a hoot. You should be thinking of how to replace her by now.

but if i say men are scums u all be lamenting!! Smh

BigBashiru:
Enough of this sexist nonsense - women over 30 are this, women over 30 are that. This bs is rooted in objectification instead of seeing a woman as a full human being. Man no be God.

Marriage is rooted partriarchy. Today in most developed countries, husband and wife are co bread winners. Partriarchy is dying thr world over... the women above 30 nonsense is rooted in partriarchy. If God gave Esther or Ruth or so a man in old age then who is man?

A woman's youth belongs to her boyfriend or husband; she chooses her style. You cannot dictate to a woman how to use her youth just as she did not dictate urs to you. You are pressing for a woman to get married fast to satisfy the lust of ur own eyes.

Many women are happy to be single even in their 30s. Men need women more than women need men in their 30s. That's the truth because the Bible records that woman was created for man because God thought man would be responsible thru the ages.

If a woman told u she won't date u because u r over 30 how would u feel?

Summary is pls stop railing on the women over 30 are thus or that nonsense as it's not cool.

Thank you.

bless you

jimfarayola:
My girlfriend keep befriending any girl she sees around me online and offline, if I talk to a girl for long maybe trying to make her a sidechick I will later find out she is my babe's friend, it has happened more than 10 occasion and I am kind of guy that play very tight and decent game ,she's just everywhere that I don't understand her kind of networking. please what is she up to?

n whats wrong about that!!! Protecting ur pocession!!! Stop thinking of hving side chicks n be a good boyfriend!! She has probably had a lot of unfaithful boys in her life!!!

I wont say i agree 100% but then its logical, when men has placed themselves as dogs with no repentance spirit!! If only we just met the right person first nt all these dodo boys!! U would never come with such conclusions!!!

Tell that to ur children ur decieving

So if a lady chooses not to get married as a personal choice she has spiritual husband!! What of men Smh all ye belivers of nonsense!! If ur a lady reading this!! U hv no spiritual husband!! U can dream abt anything based on ur subconscious!!!! People publish such nonesense to make it seem u hv a problem when u come across any challenge in ur life!! Ur very okay!! Its just life!! If u want to mention me with all ur spiritual jagon!! Thanks but no thanks!!

creative11:
15 Signs that you are under the attack of a spirit husband and wife

One major area that is affecting many people without knowing is the issue of spirit husband and wife.
Is it possible for someone to be under the attack of a spirit husband/wife without knowing? Yes!
Then, what are the signs that one is under the yoke of a spirit husband or wife? Read below:

Stretch marks: Spirit husband and wife can be inflicting injuries on the body of their victim while sleeping. So, when you notice that whenever you wake up from sleep in the morning, there are lots of stretch marks on your back, tummy, arm or any other part of your body, you may be under the attack of a spirit husband.

Hatred towards your spouse: When you suddenly develop hatred towards your spouse without a cause to the point of nursing murderous thought towards him or her. Such hatred will make you hate his/her touching and you also hate having sexual intercourse with your spouse, it may be a sign that you are under the influence of a spirit spouse.

Hatred Towards Opposite Sex: Another sign of being under the attack of a spirit husband/wife is that when you have an aversion towards the opposite, not that you have been molested at any stage of your life by people of the opposite sex and yet you don’t want to have anything to do with them. This is not normal; the spirit spouse may be at work here

Constant destruction of things: Spirit husband/Wife can be so jealous of the physical spouse thereby causing damage on the things like car, generator, phones and other gadgets owned by the earthly spouse. This case is so mysterious that if those items are sold or given out to some else, it will function well. Many at times, it is the fellow who married a spouse with a spirit husband/wife is the one that bears the burden more.

Spiritual Sexual Molestation: When you dream of constant Sexual Intercourse while sleeping, it is a major sign that you are under the attack of a spirit spouse. If you usually have sex in the dream, you need to seek for spiritual help through deliverance

Experiencing Lost Of Items: Another common sign of a life under spirit husband/wife is when you keep on experiencing loss of money and valuable items. Even if you are the only one living in a house and you discovered that you can’t find your money where you kept it, and your belongings are getting missing, you need serious prayer to be free.

Constant Miscarriages/Barrenness: The wickedness in the heart of the spirit husband who doesn’t want his ‘wife’ to have earthly children can make him suck the pregnancy whenever the wife is pregnant. Cases like this are beyond medical attention and if not arrested early enough, it may lead to barrenness.

Sudden Death of A Spouse: The hostility and jealous lifestyle of a spirit spouse can make him kill the earthly spouse. Some people have been having this issue that whosoever married them will die suddenly without prior sickness or health issues without knowing that it could be a spirit spouse at work.

Failed Business/Financial problem: When you noticed your business keep failing and you keep recording losses in all your business attempts even when you obey all business principles. Yet, you can’t explain how the whole investment crumbles. Some can be so worse that even if they join a thriving business, the business it will nosedive at their inclusion. This is a punishment from a spirit spouse meted out to you for marrying his spouse.

Breast Feeding In The Dream: If you have been dreaming that you are nursing a baby in the dream, it may be a sign that you are already married in the spirit world. The spirit husband may prevent you from having earthly Children or killed your earthly Children.

Serial Broken Relationships: Broken relationship should not be a regular occurrence in life. Once you noticed that people you love keep walking out of your life without any quarrel or misunderstanding, then there is more to it than ordinary. The spirit spouse may be responsible for chasing potential suitor from you.

Going For Shopping With An Opposite Sex In The Dream: If in your dream, you keep seeing yourself going for shopping with an opposite sex, it may be a pointer to you having a spirit spouse.

Seeing Yourself Pregnant In The Dream: If you constantly see yourself in the dream with pregnancy, this may be that you are about to give birth to a spiritual baby especially if you are yet to have a Child in real life or you are not even married

Getting Married In The Dream: One sign that is common to people under the attack of spirit spouse is to have a dream regularly that they are getting wedded. Most times, dreams like this prevent many singles of marriageable age from being married physically.

Late Marriage: If you noticed that you are non-challant about wedding or marriage. Even, all your friends are getting married, you are not perturbed. You don’t just have the urge to quit singlehood; you may be under the yoke of a spirit spouse. This spirit will keep all potential spouse from you until you experience a late marriage or no marriage at all


https://dailyfamily.ng/15-signs-attack-spirit-husband-wife/

hmmm i dont belive all these tho!! I see it as absolute RUBBISH!! But then some people do!! I hope this serves as a solution to them

Wow nice write up

Belafonte:
Learn to argue within context. Below is what I responded to.

[bmost feminist are married n doing fine!!! U all just too scared of strong women!! Fact!![/b]

Both statements can be correct. Unless you just like chatting with me, of course, then feel free to say anything you like

oh please what she said relates perfectly!! Just say u dont hv any other thing to say

Queen!! But thats a fulani braid!! Dont change our shit!! Its africian!!