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Belafonte:
Most married feminists hate their marriages or their husbands hate them or they wished they married manky men. Fact!!!

fact Tell that to Beyonce and Michelle obama!!!

Belafonte:
This is sophistry. Most men want a family but feminism is making more and more guys reconsider. There is a reason why divorce is on the rise worldwide not just in Naija. Western men are boycotting marriage in droves.

Marriage today isn't worth the stress for most men. If women go back to being feminine perhaps marriage has a future, but as things stand, expect single parenting to become the norm by choice.

u all talk abt feminism alot but most feminist are married n doing fine!!! U all just too scared of strong women!! Fact!!

Dark guys gang!!!! Tougues out

frosbel2:
"I know the otobo resent recent statement was a big lie tho!"

lol!! Ok thanks!! Nairaland n their English counterparts!! Like u really didnt understand what i said

frosbel2:
I don't understand

what part?

Amakavula:
I so agree with you. After all when they can't deal with the problem they leave ansd we are stock with the children and responsiblity. Find a man who wants a future not just with you but for himself in a family. Most just want Children and sex.

exactly n i feel so much pity 4 women that put themselves in such compromising situation!! except ofcourse u just want to make babies!! But its hardly that way with us women!!

Safiaa:
not everyone will find the love of their life.

very true!! Agreed!! We all just pray 4 Gods plan to be done!!

Senseless fowls are every easy to trace!! No need wasting ur mb on them!!

ShyCypher:
You must you using glo data for you not to know male sex dolls are already here.

We beg you ladies to please go get it and stop makin' our lives miserable.

You'll prolly see this comment next month.

Till then, #WeStandWithSexDolls

ooh please u dont hv girlfriend in the first place!! So stop whinning like anybody cares

Belafonte:
Agreed. Relationship is mainly for raising a family. Men and women want different things in a relationship so it's usually not worth the hassle. If not for raising children, mean and women really shouldn't be together for long.

dont give on love dear!!! So many women out there looking 4 a guy like u to spend their lives with!!

I know the otobo resent statement was a big lie tho!! Like madam koo koo case!!! These so called men of God feeling like gods nowadays!!!

sekxyqueen:
no boyfee no wahala


relationship is over rated. ..

not necessarily!!! But i get you!

Yankee442:
Eyah!
I understand how it feels like bn used & dumbed like a sanitary pad used for menses..
But who did dat 2 u Na?

yeah it hurts!!! But when i say men r scums u would be crying like a child!!! Calling mummy n dadddy but with this ur short comment its obvious ur one of them!!! The strange part is the fact ur braini actually processed ur comment n felt it made sense!!! Ur brain need retouching buy mega growth!!

efesodje:
Relationships that have an expiration date are those where all the lady brings to the table is pussy and nothing else (not emotional support, poor communication skills, not really money as most of us don't need your money), but you have to bring something else to the relationship for it to lead somewhere. A guy can get pussy anywhere so if that's the only hold you have on him then sorry

see ehn go n meet ur girlfriend!! Dont come here n be crying!! Only the generous part ur dwelling on!! Dont let me call u broke o cause u seem too too emotional when such issues r raised!! My man knows what he got!! dont need to blab it 4 u so u can find me appeasing

efesodje:
I see you are one of them (broke ass bitches)

so if am not broke i will bbe praying 4 a broke boy abi!! Hey everyone this is the sense am talking abt!!!!

efesodje:
This post is for the womenfolk. If you like bash and abuse me, I no send.

I have noticed the way you guys have been attacking and condemning the sexdoll thingy since it came out and it's very irritating.

It just smirks of hypocrisy. All these years they were tormenting guys with their multicolored dildos and other intimacy gadgets, we never complained. Now for the first time we have our own, they are talking all manner of gibberish.

I never knew the womenfolk could be this jealous

I find it shameful the way the ladies have been condemning the stuff since the news got widespread in the country. I don't support sexdolls but if you ask me I will say it's not in the ladies lane to discuss this. It's non of their business. Let the guys discuss, praise and complain about the dolls, not the women.

It sparks of inferiority complex and believe me when I say this: the women have nothing to be scared of. Stop comparing yourselves to lifeless dolls, have some dignity

I am out. Peace

see ur self is sex doll u guys wanna start following!! Nothing like God made pussy!! U know it , i know it!!!! The end

efesodje:
I knew you will say generous

Women, very predictable

b4 nko!! Who wants a broke stingy boy b4!!

Letzdothething:
this is interesting piece.

I'd like to know if you don't mind, on what basis do you gauge your standard?

generous, cute,.sense n someone who genuinely loves me

Shayneward1:
You attract what you are

If you are attracting sh!t that means you are sh!t, so you need to work on yourself.

so everyone that talks abt single life!! Is single to you Smh

Shayneward1:
Go through her topics, b!tch lonely as fvck.

ohh i wish

Shayneward1:
Single ladies have certain undesirable qualities that make them single, work on yourself maybe a guy would look your way.

not all the time!! From personal experience single ladies go 4 any guy thats not up to their standards b4 they finally build a wall around their hearts n stick to their rules!! That worked 4 me!! Stop thinking abt being in a relationship just 4 relationship sake!! Work on urself n keep ur standards!!!

So this is for the single ladies out there, please don't reduce your standards for any reason I was single for a while and i understand the fact that you just want to date anybody, like anyone who you feel cares or who shows you some kind of attention even if he aint ur type!! Funny enough those are the people that will use you n dump you, when you reduce your standard you open yourself to so many rubbish, so always keep your standard and if he doesn't possess the qualities you like not only physical qualities but mental too n u just go with it because "let me manage, let me just go into the relationship n stop being single and see how it goes", it's always bad most times!!(not always) its when you fix your mind on a particular goal that's when n how you meet a better person but when you're more focused on just dating for dating sake ur eye go open!! it's better you go for a guy that's your spec and your type and he dumps you, not you go for a riff raff, someone not worth it and he dumps you too put that on a scale!! No guy is perfect thats the lie we tell ourselves!! A guy has to be perfect 4 you, maybe not 100% but atleast 70%!!

Grabing popcorn!!!

efesodje:
At the words in bold. I disagree. I have seen very calm women (my younger sister for example who is happily married by the way ) that keep a cool demeanor no matter the situation. Please don't give excuses for those women that are constantly angry 24 hours of the day. It's those type of women that makes some men get scared of marriage.

I am not saying the men are innocent either. Both parties are to blame for the high divorce rate in the society.

nope its a hormonal thing!!! Everywoman has it!! Soft emotions!! We all hv it!!!! N ur her brother i dont expect u to speak of her excesses!!! Not like she is a noise maker or a fighter!!! Just try n digest that sentence somemore!! N she is still married cause her husband has tolerated her at a point!!!! N if u read what i wrote well!! I blamed women's desparation n not men!! Othervises has caused more divorces in this country but i focused on womens desperation based on women proposing to men nowadays!!

Belafonte:
Bros, may happiness always reside in your heart. The women outside right now aren't worth the stress.

obviously u aint worth the stress either!!

efesodje:
Marriage is not compulsory my brother. I am not even thinking about it neither am I bothered. I am close to 35 and very happy being single. I see my married colleagues in the office always looking miserable.

Some get so scared of going home at close of work that they stay in the office or hangout somewhere till 10pm daily.

Please marriage is not by force

its not., ur right!!! But try talking to the once in a happy marriage!! Men who cant wait to go home to their wives n children!!!! U would love it!! There is a big difference between being in a marriage n being in a happy marriage!!

Belafonte:
Happiness should be your number one priority, not trying to meet up with people's standards! so what if your 40 years and not married, so what if ur hv been searching for ten years and you haven't found a worthy woman!! Are you happy? that's the first thing you should ask yourself!! if you're not happy because your not married or you don't have a woman then my nigga you have no problem in your life!!

I agree

was of no use

Belafonte:
so its expected that a man tolerates a woman not a woman tolerating a man if your man doesn't tolerate you then that man doesn't love you!!

Guys, please disregard this piece of trash. If the woman you give your name, and provide for and protect cannot you bin her like rotten food. Don't let a idiot tell you otherwise, not even your parents. The divorce rate is so high because women are becoming increasingly foolish.

irresponsiblity at its peak!! This piece is 4 people with sense!! If u dont hv one!! Move along!! Thanks

Ahmed0336:
Some of us that are inside are looking for a way out while those outside wants to get in by all means that's life for us. As for me I don't see myself quitting till death do us part. 12 years in d game

congrats sir!! The lord will continue what he has started!!!

So in this country, the divorce rate is just too much so I think it's really time for us to sit down evaluate and understand what's going on our country, I think a lot of people think marriage is just for the fun of it but it's not, when a guy proposes to you, you have to be ready!! he proposed doesn't mean that you must say yes!! Neither should the relationship be over when u say no!!are you ready? is this guy the right person for you? do you love him? can you endure everything that he comes with?another thing is this, I need you all to understand that a woman is naturally paranoid, a woman is naturally angry we have that stuff in us, we're always angry!! when we are on r period, when we are pregnant, and all that!! so its expected that a man tolerates a woman not a woman tolerating a man if your man doesn't tolerate you then that man doesn't love you!! if he's proposing to you and he's always getting angry at you at every slightest provocation then you should consider not getting married to such a person!! it's not a trophy!! you must not get married!! the most annoying part about everything is that even women are proposing!! on what grounds? I'd rather stay in a relationship forever than he puts a ring on my finger and its over, we divorce!! some women complain:: "we hv been dating for many years he has not proposed" what's the usefulness of proposing if he's really not actually ready!!! if you want to get married so so badly!! dump him but if you still love him! like what's the harm,, just be with him as far you have peace of mind!!! Happiness should be your number one priority, not trying to meet up with people's standards! so what if your 40 years and not married, so what if ur hv been dating for 10 years and he has not proposed!! Are you happy? that's the first thing you should ask yourself!! if you're not happy because your not married or you don't have a man then my darling you have no problem in your life!! We don't plan for anything bad but we should try as much as possible to prevent whats preventable!! Atleast Think abt ur children

Jamariwolff:
you seem to be in the lady's mind and know what she was trying to do.

Tell us, how many guys legs have you 'pulled' like this?

Ashawooo.

u hv joined them!! I see u!! The guy would hv simply given her the D!!

Heavance:
Funny thing we always hear guys say is "this is the girl I plan to marry"......
but they have hardly talked about the future with such lady, we only get to know on social media.

i tell u!!! Smh