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Asin these comments r messed up!!! It's not mandatory, it's not a command or a forceful impression but if a man cares for a lady he would take it upon himself to make her comfortable!!! Simple as abc!!! If a man claims to love you and feels there is no need to appriciate you or make u feel loved!! HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU!! NO ENTITLEMENT, ALL U DO IS OUT OF LOVE!!!

It's obvious alot of guys n ladies r single here n dont know anything abt being in a relationship n so this argument is pointless!!!

prechbills1:
you bought which Samsung?

remember I like disgracing fake people

u would only disgrace urself cause u don't know pin abt me, u can only fool urself!! And I dont care!!

victorioushands:
Sister please stop!
Stop! Stop! Stop!

You are trying to drag women back to the medieval cave when they were nothing but property and a man could only afford according to his wealth - strictly - AND THE WOMEN HAD NO SAY.

By the way, if you are a mother or an aspiring one, do not dare to teach this to your girls else you will raise professional gold-diggers and shameless home prostitutes.

Your analogies are extremely warped.

A question for you though: If a man comes to you and, assuming he's financially comfortable, he sees you as his best option at the time, does he have an automatic right to date you if he starts spending on you? Is that what it will take for you to say 'yes' to a man - whether or not he's physically appealing to you? Don't you have a say, a choice in the man you would like to be romantically involved with?
But, if you think you have a say in who you agree to date, does it not make the person your choice as you are his choice too? If so, where did 'favour' creep in from? Or is money what determines who you say 'yes' and 'no' to?
I'm sure there's a word for people with this line of thought. But I don't think you are one.

u got her wrong!!! But i cant start explaining!!! So happy sunday

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you sis he's a nice person



Thanks girl

DONSTAN RIGHT NOW

u both r crazy

UDUJ:
My day was great. Had some fun outdoors and more fun indoors reading all the e-fights on Nairaland

enjoy ur night dear

I saw this on ig!! But ignored cause this is not the first picture where she won't wear her ring!! I care less,, married or not i love her!!! But this engagement is really strange, i wonder why she isn't proud of it!! Or isn't she sure?? But maybe she is avoiding publicity but this her way gets more attention!! Waiting 4 the wedding bells tho!!

UDUJ:
Shugavee dearie

How has your day been?

lol fine!! quite fun!! The romance section has been drama drama

How abt yours?

UDUJ:
Sorry what's the moral of this story? Or you are trying to let us know you're starting a Diary?

leave this dog alone :

Saintsammurai:
have you ever hold an iPhone 8?

lol!!! No only u hv seen iPhone 8 in this life

Saintsammurai:
you are broke because I'm sure your Samsung is 2001 model..

smh

Lol sorry dear but this is dumb!!! What if the phone was given to the girl by her boyfriend!!! N me that works n gets my Samsung phone myself! Is broke ba!!! How i wish iPhone 8 measures sense!!

Thegeneralqueen:
OK lemme go and beg my boyfriend donstan please I'm sorry it was highpriestess that influenced me biko nnam baharam

after finding trouble abi?? I will find another girlfriend for him!! What nonsense

Safiaa:
Yes and thats the exact reason why a woman should get the best man whilst she can whilst shes young and in her twenties. Not settling for the average joe down the street when she can do much better. If a woman can upgrade herself she should want better. The average young lady in her prime, the sky is her limit in the dating world, all men love young women. Just pick the best, thats all im saying. Not just for now, but for the future.

fact!!!

aynerodcirus:
the hell you talking abt? who born her born she doesn't want to? with how i send her money, and spend on her?..., she even get angry at times cause i don't allow her to do them. I jux do feel she won't do it right, or be clean enof as i want.

really U don't mean it??

donstan18:
I'v noticed you.

Now kindly get lost back to the bottomless pussy that brought you out to this world.

don't mind her ojare!!! Continue!!!

Yhelay:
hmmm.....I get you so well

good!!

donstan18:
Highpriestess is a working class lady on Nland, a girl that's still struggling to buy pant of 80naira.... .... Issorite.

Safia, Safiaa, Safiaaa, Safiaaaa is dating bill gate io Nland, she said her pussy rules the world, yet dem de ban am for Nland.......... Wonderful.

Thegeneralquen's pussy worth 3million on Nland, a lady who lives in one the timid villages at Aba... ....Ahdonbelivit.

Sugavee is also working class lady who owns a car and and a house on Nland......... Udonminit.


You all should keep deceiving yourselves$

It's late for all off you not to be at Shiloh 2099

amen o!!!! I claim it!!! I never said I had a house or car but by the grace of God my mansion n my Benz is on its way

aynerodcirus:
i don't allow my gurl do my chores!!!..., d only laundry i do outsyd is my suit.

yeah because u know she can't do it properly or probably she doesn't want to!! So u hv no choice but to do them urselves!! N it's nice to know u had good home training!!

Yhelay:
Sometimes admitting the fact may seems difficult but it hasn't changed from being the fact.
your mindset (subconscious mind) determines what you do every 8 of 10 times you take any action.
So for a lady with the mindset that guys are meant to foot his bills, the rationale applies.

not men please!! My boyfriend my boo . My swtheart , is meant to do anything within his power to make me happy!! U get??

Yhelay:
such lady may not be able to spend the money on herself because she has wired herself to believe that there should be a guy taking care of her well-being.

thats the ladies u hv met my dear

Ladyhippolyta88:

hey baby! Been a while, how r u

greiboy:
I am the last born in my house and a chore magnet

lol

donstan18:
These social media broke pretentious ladies are loyal and humble in reality, most of them can't even stand before a man without being shy and uncomfortable.

They are humble in reality because they know sex is cheap for a man to get.

Sex is the cheapest overrated thing in Nigeria, with 500 you can't get it, with packaging you can get it, prostitutes are loitering every corner.

A cook isn't a problem to a man, you can eat outside, you can hire a cook, you can cook for yourself.

Truth be told, if marriage are to be abolished, many woman will suffer and perish to death because of hardship, and they know that.

That's why they are so loyal in reality, but social media has given them a medium opportunity to pretend and form working class, even Highpriestess that cannot wash her pant is a working class on Nland, it's alright, they should continue .

i agree that's why I tell men no need to hv a girlfriend!! Just be regular in ashawo joints n eat in mama put 4 the rest of ur life!! While ladies make their own money n get didlios!! What u think?

greiboy:
lol. You and this your house chores

yes naw!!! Men r naturally lazy with chores!!

Safiaa:
and that’s why it’s important to have your own money, to have the strength to leave. You can’t be 100% dependent and stay in cases like that. That’s not very smart at all.

i am 100%% with you on that

Thegeneralqueen:
Domestic violence is common among poor homes not rich homes get your facts right

that's very very wrong ma'am!! Domestic violence is most common in Rich homes n comfortable homes!!! Very rare in poor homes!! Most women married to rich men , are likely not to talk much abt it cause they wont leave the marriage cause of money!!! Poor women talk abt it more cause they feel they got nothing to loose!!

greiboy:
The late Nelson Mandela once said" education is a powerful weapon which can be used to change the world".

It is a tool meant for liberation and self sufficiency.

Therefore, nobody should have a sense of entitlement after the acquisition of education, otherwise Mandela must have been lying when he made that statement.

i agree no one should feel any form of entitlement n not only when it come to money, but sex , ur woman's cooking, doing chores n etc but i put it to u that if u really love someone u would do any thing to make them happy as far its within ur power!!! It's a relationship, like it or not it's a responsibility for both party!!! And If u aint ready 4 that just stay single!!!

IamZod:
Yea the album is real dope.
What are ur favorite?

best life

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RadicallyBlunt:
Your thinking is blurred. Its obvious youre poor too but you have a covering of your daddy's house to hide. In which book of law, bible or quaran is it stated that you can't help him out of that situation if you have d means. You're obviously of the common nigerian women mentality who believe its a man that must be responsible for everything about you from the day u start dating to the day death do you part.

Governor Akeredolu of ondo state. His wife is 2 and half years older than him. She was already working when she met him as a corper. He rose from her financial help.

Until u stop looking up to men as ur financial messiah and start looking up to a good job as d men themselves do, the blessing d bible reserves for givers will never be ur portion since all u know about a man is for you to be at d receiving end rather than giving.

makes no sense!!! Good night