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TheUpsetGirl1:
1. As a man if you want to be successful in life onething you should never think about is "women". If I should start naming the number of successful men that were brought down by women over the years I won't sleep this night. If you want to be successful and at the same time enjoy the benefits never make women your priority in life.

2. Playboys.. I'm not trying to convince anybody not to be a playoboy but I want you to understand that if you're a playboy, keep playing on but there will be a time you gonna play into the wrong lady and you'll regret ever being a playboy when you get accused of rape, sexual harassment or whatever because if you play into wrong hands they'll make sure you get nabbed in anyway possible whether through lies or truths.

3. As man, whether young or old never be alone with a lady who's not your wife because one day you'll regret it when the consequences begin showing.

4.
I'm not trying to persuade anybody from getting married but after getting married, young man or old man stick to your wife, you may be going out successfully but in a particular time when you patronize the wrong person, your hard earned legacy will be erased by mere allegations that can't be proven.

5.
Never have sex with a lady without her consent. I understand that even if some ladies give you consent they might still turn around to accuse you falsely but even so, if a lady says no my brother respect that no! forget about all the money you've spent on her.
The money spent isn't worth your career, reputation and legacy!

6. Travelling to white countries..As a black man if you travel to a white majority country be careful about everything you're doing.

7. Whenever you're alone with a lady ,record your conversation. You may not take this seriously but trust me it'll help if the lady back-turn and decides to accuse you of anything falsely.


A word is enough for the wise.

u r not a lady!!!!! I kinda agree tho

Career!! Cuddle kwa!! Does that put food on my table!!

Please what does u n ur mother's issues hv to do with romance section!! Please take this to the family section!! One thing I know 4 sure, ur mother has a useless son

Ladyhippolyta88:
If you want the presidency work for it God would not come down and give it to you.I wonder why we always play tribal and religious politics in Nigeria.Let the right person that can do the job get it based on merit and not because of sentiments.

so who is right person to you? Sentiments aside

Martin0:
mummy am fine ooo I miss you oo hope you not allowing that job to stress you up?

lol not too much!!! am coping

Martin0:
my tolo tolo ukwulicious mummy

how ur side na

i am good my dear!!how abt you

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It's so pathetic when women create such threads!! Who else? The female assss liiicker on nairaland!!

coluka:
Who gives a damn about that? She can choose to be the queen of African baboons for all I care.

agreed then do as u claim n leave issues that has to do with her!!

crazymommy:
feminists naturally don’t care....

i am happy u know that!!!

coluka:
Lol, I know your type, when they don't have any superior intellectual argument to offer , they resort to silly snide remarks like this. Chimamanda should also accept that people have a right to choose how they describe themselves and deal with it!!

yes i dont know how to argue!!! Chiamanda is queen of africian feminism deal with it!!

coluka:
You make me laugh, the nature of the world makes it a must that there will be people above you and others beneath you. I'm not competing with her, I'm just doing my best in my own lane and who knows where that might lead me tomorrow that doesn't make her any better a person or wiser than me. In fact her recent persistence in espousing foolish ideas have made me know that I'm a lot wiser than she is, what she has is the platform to reach a wider audience and I know I'll get there soon too.

deal with it!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
If in relation to Bill Clinton's bio yeah.I don't know how to define a feminist so if someone claims they are who am I to say otherwise.Feminist would continue to clash with each other because they have different opinions on some issues so they should stop calling each other out especially when it is of different types.Notable feminist supported Hillary while others did not.It is the circle of life everyone would not agree with you.

i agree with you on the opinion part and how it varies but in another angle notable is nothing when it comes to politics in the uS!! The common feminist u don't know are the ones voting!! She was using feminism as her campaign strategy but didn't represent it properly to them!! Ili read an article abt her n comments from feminists wasn't friendly that was b4 the election o!! I just knew trump was the winner already!! Chiamanda was saying the obvious!! It's not her business but when has feminists started minding their businesses when it came to inequality issues!!!!

coluka:
Neither are we Ok, she can talk down on us the much she wants, we ain't going anywhere either

lol funny where r u to say she is going no where!! She way above u!!! Deal with it

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't support what she said but she questioned Hillary's hypocrisy.During the campaigns Clinton did not add wife to her bio just to win votes from some feminist and other remarks concerning women having a life outside the home and not being defined by marriage.Adichie only wanted to remind her of her earlier stance and questioned her on why the sudden change.I agree with you we should still learn to mind our business.There is nothing wrong in adressing yourself as a wife it is a choice after all.Some like it some don't different strokes for different folks.

feminist don't regrad hillary as a feminist thats why they didnt vote for her!!! Little things like these were their reasons!! Ngozi is just pointing it out!!! I know u may not Agree with her but u can see the inequality she was talking abt!! Non feminist n anti feminist will not understand but i know u do

coluka:
Look at this foolish woman, we're also tired of stupid women like you

like it or not she is going no where!!

IamD18:
I'm good dear, how you?

good good!! Thanks

I get the OP but everyone n their way!!! U didn't pay for their education!! funny enough, most parents after paying fees and so on for their female child, prefer their their daughters getting married to a rich men than hving a job with their degree!! That's what patriarchy has done to us!!

donstan18:
Shugavee

yeah what's up

Lol OP we should commit suicide abi , is it ur tow tow?

busky101:
Finally found my twin, happy 24th birthday to us

happy birthday

Safiaa:
Im not just talking about a Dolapo that i met 5 months Ago on adenekan street. Obviously i’m talking about my husband, or possibly fiance leading to my husband. The relationship has to be serious, to be on that level, you get? Even at that if we’re just dating casually i still expect you to pay for dates and minor little stuff.

maybe u like things that way

!!! But even in marriage, saying u want ur husband u take absolute care of u n call urself independent, don't go!! Yes hopefully we want a man that can take charge!! But as a working lady there r some things u do for urself n ur family!! We learn everyday!! Alot of women agree with this same ideology but it's not right!! No offense

lefulefu:
make u leave her alone nau. Na her choice. She prefers a man being financially in charge. Its her choice.

true but that does not make u independent!!! U hv money but want the man to take absolute care of you!! Really?? Is he ur slave??

Anyways Its her way tho n i respect it!

Absolute care?? Lol

CHESTER48:
see you don't have any right to be angry. If u don't want him anymore then quit. Besides he never engaged you, or neither have you guys seen your parents. So I don't see any reason to be mad at him. If he cheats and so, is he engaged to you already? Or had an introduction.

this says alot about you!!! A man like u is everywoman's nightmare!! N am very sure u are very single n i hope u remain that way

blackpanthar:
oh sister, you can inbox me to be a witness o of the gospel of my performance but am never gonna BRAG by saying I can satisfy u beyond your wildest dreams... on a normal day.. my penetration can be 30mins-45mins and pre-intimacy for me takes over 2hrs. so am just a regular guy... but I have seen that MONEY has gotten me more ladies than SEX.

I have also seen women who are married for over 12years reminiscing on how foooolishly they almost chose sexual performance over wealth when they were youths

hmmmm really?? U dont mean it??

blackpanthar:
pls stop posting thread on NL if you are still HIGH from whatever you smoking..

Its so funny that u think its PERFORMANCE that keeps Ladies... unfortunately for you... SATISFY YOUR GIRL SEXUALLY WITH 20000% PERFORMANCE and let me buy her a one way ticket to DUBAI.... she will break up with you with the FAMOUS LINE... :"ITS NOT YOU, ITS ME" and she will dump u.

Sex is OVERATED... its something that only jobless people or those who have spare time RANT about.... when u make hardcore cash.... she will moan like a poorrnstar for you even if na 5minutes you can perform, and she will be loyal to you because.... SEXUAL PERFORMANCE pays no one's bills but MONEY DOES.

Bro, get wealthy and see the difference because one day you may LIVE to see age 70 and more beautiful girls will be around but you won't have the same strength anymore.

lol don't tell me u r lame on bed

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Wish u both the best!!

greiboy:
Good night In Igbo

I thought we are Igbos from Abia state

obi ngwa to be precise

no imo but not too good with igbo especially writing!!

Sleep tight my dear

greiboy:
ka chifoo

u hv to explain that to me o!!