Romance › Re: 'My Future Husband Must Bath In The River For 3 Days'; Nigerian Lady Says.Photos by Shugavee(f): 10:38am On Apr 19, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by Shugavee(f): 10:34am On Apr 19, 2018 |
VLongstrider: But they say when you try to break up with a Nigerian girl, she tells you she's been planning to tell you that too. Coincidentally, my immediate ex told me the same thing. Babe just said she's been thinking of breaking up too. lol we do that but not all the time!! That was my first heartbreak!! So u can imagine!! |
Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by Shugavee(f): 8:45am On Apr 19, 2018 |
VLongstrider: Its OK to let out your anger and frustration but you shoulda been sly and diplomatic na. Imagine if your mom hits you real hard, do you hit her in return? No. Instead, you suddenly realize an innocent 5year old kid is shouting and you smack his head or you miraculously discover a plastic empty bucket is in your way and you kick it away. Similarly, you should have looked for a Nokia torchlight to smash instead of your new bold 5. didn't know what happened to me that day!! From my ear down to the ground!!! Couldn't hold my hurt then!!!  |
Romance › Re: What's The craziest Thing Someone Has Ever Done For You Out Of Love? by Shugavee(f): 8:29am On Apr 19, 2018 |
The craziest thing i hv done is fall my fone on the ground when my ex broke up with me on phone!! My new bb bold 5 !! |
Romance › Re: What If Your Child Is Gay? by Shugavee(f): 6:37am On Apr 19, 2018 |
Tufia!! Can't imagine such! |
Romance › Re: Can A Lady Be In A Relationship Without Asking For Money by Shugavee(f): 6:32am On Apr 19, 2018 |
highpriestess: sweet pop corn. bettermoney to you love. how was the night? fine fine my darling, n urs! |
Romance › Re: Can A Lady Be In A Relationship Without Asking For Money by Shugavee(f): 6:25am On Apr 19, 2018 |
highpriestess: neither do I do molosho with shrinked and crayon dicks. lol  good morning dear |
Romance › Re: Can A Lady Be In A Relationship Without Asking For Money by Shugavee(f): 6:14am On Apr 19, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: Chai... you people should be indicating your age so we can add respect when communicating with you guys..
I don't know if I'm dreaming in Xhosa but I think you'd be more than 29.
xx Bestwishes ignored |
Romance › Re: Can A Lady Be In A Relationship Without Asking For Money by Shugavee(f): 9:40pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
UDUJ: Just saw your profile pic. So why have you been hiding all this long?
You look good  lol thank you!!! How u doing?? |
Romance › Re: Can A Lady Be In A Relationship Without Asking For Money by Shugavee(f): 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Una don start!!! Leave women alone !!! **leaves thread*** |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 10:58am On Apr 18, 2018 |
anochuko01: I love your sincerity. my elder sister who had a PGD never had a job but her whole problem was how to get married. now she's got a kid, husband ,lost his job and she's still jobless.
Only if most women too would choose to understand that there's more to life than getting married. exactly |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 10:47am On Apr 18, 2018 |
prince3009: The problem is not the her body being worn out. The major problem is not having children before the body wears out. And most women believe that having children is more fulfilling within the confines of marriage. u are right!!!that's the socitial pressure I am talking abt! |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:32am On Apr 18, 2018*. Modified: 7:01pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18: As usual with you ladies.
When men argue aggressively, you all will say he's being insulting, hence your dodge.
When we go civil, you'll say we don't want to see what we are suppose to see.
With all due respect madam, how does the society pressurize women into marriage? how? i ask again U said biologically a woman need marriage cause her body would be worn out at some certain age!!! N i asked where in biology is marriage the cure to that? Marriage is societal intitution!!! But puts much pressure on women than men! Emphasis on societal!!! Am sure u did social studies in primary schhol |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:14am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18: You had to pick a line you flawed without carefully reading where I bracketed that I didn't dispute the fact that women need to build their future.
I'm yet to see you buttress a point on how the society pressurize women on marriage. its right there!! I hv Explained enough but u wont see it cause u don't wanna see it!!! Modified * U said biologically a women need marriage cause her body would be worn out at somen certain age!!! N i asked where in biology is marriage the cure to that!! |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 12:07am On Apr 18, 2018 |
IamD18: @1st embolden: Sometimes I laugh when I see ladies on social media hide behind "Societal pressure" as the reason behind their marriage desperation, society isn't the reason behind it, don't blame the society, you ladies are the reason and responsible for your desperation, nature has placed it for women's body to depreciate as they gets older, hence their desperation for marriage, because they no man will want to marry a woman who's her body isn't intact and fresh.
@2nd embolden: According to the mentality of Nigerian women, a man should be the provider in a home in all ramification, so I see no wrong in an early preparation of a man's future ....(I didn't dispute the fact that woman shouldn't set their future)
@3rd embolden, women have random sex more than men. so preparation for a mans future n neglecting female child is okay to you n u expect me not to blame socitial pressure!!! How abt being old with out marriage n being who u wanna be!!! U think women no like better thing  "How will people see me"?? Is the mean reason women run into marriage!! U can hv kids without marriage!! U know! So?? That's what men do!!! Biologically is there anything like marriage?? |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 11:44pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
IamD18: What are the youthful enjoyments you are typing about? just hving fun!! Hving fun like men do!! B4 a lady is 23 the pressure has began!!! While The parent of a male child is setting up his future!!! B4 u get to 300l self as a woman, u r ripe for marriage!!!( U won't get it, u r not a lady) U think ladies won't like hving random sex too n being players!! But we can't cause the society has conditioned us |
Romance › Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Shugavee(f): 11:32pm On Apr 17, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: ...and at the rate at which [s]young[/sh] women are desperate to marry, he would easily find one (25 or younger if he desires to do so at 35, 45 or even 70 (ask Oshiomole). but the fact that you would expect him to do so, right now, even though he clearly doesnt want to, is where the issue lies.
let each and everyone live their lives the way they see fit. those that one to get married, let them get married...and the ones that dont, equally shouldnt get married and be happy i agree with the bolded!! That's the no 1 problem with women!! We all want to get married,But the desperation with women is on another level!! To me I just think men live life the way it's meant to be!! We all are meant to scared of it, living n bonded with someone of no blood relation, Its different for women because of the desperation!! Most women dont care if he is good enough, he makes money n his manhood is functioning that's all they need!! But men think abt it n pick carefully, if they want a foolish woman they get her!! Their own kind!! But women go 4 anything, all because of the fuss of Marriage!! To me we all need to enjoy or youthful age b4 marriage. Not just men!!! Get ready 4 marriage from like 32 but the socitial pressure won't let us!! |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 11:26pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
jaksmillioniar: wen beta girls talk just shut up cos u be tokunbo I pray not to marry such girl DAT sleep around madam tokunbo finished??  continue!!! |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 10:43pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
jaksmillioniar: u can Neva be a virgen again wen u marry on wedding nite ur hubby will know diff guy av enta der how did u feel wen u see 2 guy UV sex togeda. tokunbo is this all  Continue!!! |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 9:47pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
[sup][/sup] jaksmillioniar: see tokunbo dey vex 2nd hand can Neva be new again u hv lost ur virgenty and now u got mad at op done?? |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 9:46pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
greiboy:
I am fine and you ? am doing well!! Just so stressed out!!! But good!! Thanks  |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 9:41pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
greiboy: Well, if you are also a virgin and you have a strong moral perspective about sexual intercourse. I believe you may have a point wanting to marry a virgin. However, if you aren't a virgin, then I guess you are just being hypocritical.
I am not a virgin and I don't really expect to marry one. how u dey o jare!!  |
Romance › Re: Virginity Is Not Overrated by Shugavee(f): 9:40pm On Apr 16, 2018 |
*yawn* |
Romance › Re: Women Please Learn!!! by Shugavee(f): 10:47am On Apr 16, 2018 |
Martin0: Women: It’s not about having an attitude or overly independent mentality. Supporting your man in his endeavors, encouraging him when things are at the lowest, lifting him up whenever he is down and remaining by his side through it all motivating him to continually be a better man doesn’t make you whipped! It makes you a WOMAN THAT CARES!
#letter to single ladies (12:00am ) offcourse as far he does same for me!!! |
Romance › Re: Women Please Learn!!! by Shugavee(f): 10:46am On Apr 16, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:
I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE'S DOING ON THIS PAGE, AS IF HER IMAGE MAKES THE ADVICE CONCRETE.. I DON'T KNOW. LOL  |
TV/Movies › Re: #bbnaija: The Epic Moment Cee-c Returned To The House by Shugavee(f): 9:44am On Apr 16, 2018 |
Jalubarika: JUST Like a Boss, Cheers to the freaking BBN Khloe is a FULL FOOL. CEE C IS BRAINY, SHE USED KLOE. lol thought I was the only person that noticed that's shit, voted for her this last evictions , i was like let this girl reach finals make we see weyti go happen!! Asin I dont get how khole thought ceec cared!! It was very obvious ceec was playing her!!! N madam was busy defending her virginity story!!! Lol story 4 the gods!! |
TV/Movies › Re: #bbnaija: The Epic Moment Cee-c Returned To The House by Shugavee(f): 9:37am On Apr 16, 2018 |
Platony: Miracle 1st,....Cee-C,....2nd. Dats hw its gon be!!. tobi is there too n got fans o!!! Itz between ceec n tobi 4 the second position |
TV/Movies › Re: #bbnaija: The Epic Moment Cee-c Returned To The House by Shugavee(f): 9:29am On Apr 16, 2018 |
EsvNwoye: CeeC... I must confess, I like the gut she got. I have never seen a Nigerian Lady this strong, her mentality is second to none and her grandeur is so majestic.
I don't frequent that show but Nairaland gives me a Lead everyday. i swear down ,at first won't lie ,i was upset with her attitudes even if i liked her a little bit but right now I just admire her strength!! |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Smoker?? by Shugavee(f): 7:53am On Apr 16, 2018 |
Yes as far he isn't addicted to it!! |
Romance › Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Shugavee(f): 7:56pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Really no reply  Please is there anyone veiwing this thread that does not like free money!! Either from a boy or girl  If anyone comes here especially a lady n say no man should spend for me blah blah blah, is a big fat hypocrite!!! I love free money!! I work n hv my own money but i love being spoilt by my man!!! If any lady feminist or not says that I hate men spending on me, she is a liar!!! But don't depend on him, hv ur own money!! And spoil him when u can!!! That's all!! |
Romance › Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Shugavee(f): 7:40pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
IamD18: You shouldn't answer me with questions.
You said a man should take it upon himself to care(financially), and I asked what should a lady take upon herself to do and offer the said man? I can't answer ur question with out knowing that!!! If u start up a relationship with a lady there are some things you expect of her, so what r they?? So u just go into a relationship cause people r into a relationship Lastly u all say finacially like money is a huge problem for u all!!!! Another question!! Don't u like free money?? |
Romance › Re: what's with Nigerian girls & this mentality? including my girlfriend! by Shugavee(f): 7:33pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
IamD18: If the lady loves the man, what will she do to take it upon herself? what would u want ur gf to do for you?? |