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Ladyhippolyta88:
What thread?

that virginity thread

Ladyhippolyta88:
I agree with you on this one.

lol babe she had to see that other girl's thread

lazeal:
this your statement seems like you agree with no 25.

I experienced 25 few days ago and this one has caused a serious friction in how I relate with the lady in question.

It is annoying and irritating at the same time...

we like the begging n the fights, it makes us happy cause it means u really want us!!! But beating a lady is out of it please!! Just beg : that's what she wants

MissWrite:
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after.

Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market.

loud it * handing u a microphone*

TheUpsetGirl1:
a guy must give his lady 3-5k every two weeks for hair

a guy must purchase clothes for his lady every month

a lady isn't obliged to pay for dates but a guy must pay for the dates

- A supposed feminist.

nobody said you should date someone that isn't financially stable, those your friends that you preach to are they financially stable themselves?


self delusion is worse than laziness -Albert Einstein

I'm out, seeing your posts makes me to vomit.

Talking to you is like giving a goat scholarship ---nina's voice

Girl bye!!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
stop being fake because you're deceiving some people in this forum.

be real madam feminist.

u don't need to find me acceptable!! Face ur life!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't know shugavee in person.
I only know one nairalander on this forum.
And who told you she does it for likes?Because if that is the case she must be doing a very bad job.

she is fooling herself!!! Let her say all she wants!!! I won't even advise my enemy to date a man who isn't finacially stable!!! The lady self is a distraction to him!!! That does not mean u as a lady shouldn't hv something doing!! Feminism is not man hating, u can get gifts from men n vise versa!!! Let her say all the trash she wants to say!! My opinion is my opinion n it's not meant to be right or correct to anyone!!! Moreorless someone like this one!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
shugavee only talks about independence in some threads to Garner likes
she preaches independence in some threads and beg for alms in other threads.. who's deceiving who?
the girl is 100% fake.

I think you're supporting her because you too don't practice what you preach offline.

get a hold of urself girl!!! Stop being bitter 4 nothing!!! It's my life right? Stop bothering urself abt it cause i care less abt ur life whether fake or not!!!

Lol n no 25 !!

Only no5 makes sense to me!! The end!

Jeferious:
God, it seems I'm the last of my kind. We are so few on earth- those who don't worship women. I dunno if it is in the food we eat or the drink we gulp, but an obvious process of pu$$ification is going on in our society. Men are becoming weaker day by day.

See, if you are a guy and this thread did not get you thinking, I'm sorry for you. You might still have your p€nis with you, but you've lost your essence of manhood. I don't even know what to say to those who would waste their resources chasing punna. You're finished.

Thank God for myself and guys like me: You can't have an unfair sense of entitlement around us, be you a guy or lady. I for one person would treat you like nothing, and this will continue till you feel worthless around us. Even when your attitude change, I'd continue with the status quo till you get irritated and go away. I don't condone nonsense, and I don't forgive when it has already been committed.

But then, you ladies are very lucky, so you would continue to abuse guys who don't know their rights, as there are very few people like me out there

wow what a beautiful personality!!!

Actuarydeji:
Ok. You mean we should thank God, because he had damage her kpetus. No problem, continue there's God

please don't get me wrong I know he decieves worse but not death!! He has done time let karma do it's part

UDUJ:
I wonder where she was told that women can go for months or a year without needing sex, very funny. My girl literally rips my clothes off me once she is sex starved and all hell will be let loose if I say I'm not in the mood when she is Hot. And this is a soft taciturn pretty lady. So tell me women can stay months without needing sex . The folly

tho i am sexually active atm!! But I know i can do without sex 4 a year if i dont hv a partiner but men r not that way!! Women love sex more than men but men hv more frequent urges!!

CAPSLOCKED:

YOUR SISTER THE OP SAID SOMETHING VERY RETARrDED..
THAT WOMEN CAN GO FOR MANY MONTHS WITHOUT THE URGE, THAT IT'S JUST THE MEN'S THING. SO INTERCOURSE IS JUST LIKE FAVOUR TO YOU, ME AND ALL MEN IN GENERAL.

SO THE PURPOSE OF THIS THREAD IS TO EQUATE SEX WITH MONEY ( ONLY MEN'S MONEY THOUGH). SHE THINKS SEX MUST BE BOUGHT.

I NOW SEE THE REASON WHY SHE WAS DUMPED RECENTLY, AND DIS-ENGAGED. NO LIVING MAN WOULD LIKE TO MARRY SOMEONE WITH THIS TYPE OF REASONING.

i hope this ur comment made u feel good!!

CosmicJames:
The only thing that can frustrate a man is if he didn't have money. Nothing else. Not even women.
You should understand that the frustration of women is most likely due to the fact that they are not expected to remain in their father's house especially in this part of the world.

But for the men, they have no other place to go than to remain in their father's house.
So even if they (men) don't get married, at least they can stay in their father's home without pressure.
This is not the case with women

i get ur point but i dont totally agree, if u r talking abt the pressure 4 marriage for a lady whether in ur fathers house or not, the pressure will stil be there, and i also feel parents r more accommodating with female children than male!!! A lady can hv a good job n her parents will insist she stays in their house so she won't be seen too rich (africian mentality) most times most of them move out when they r old!! Me example!!! left for my parents they wanted me to keep staying in their house till i get married but i said no !!! But if a man is in father's house n he is mature, his parents r even willing to get him an apartment if they r well to do, if u are from a poor home no one would want to feed you n plus the disrespect!!! Inequality shit

Back to base, women feel the pressure to Marry but guys hv no pressure but still feel bad abt their single hood!! Except u r a fuckboy tho, but i mean responsible guys

pcguru1:
Let's put it this way, A lady is successful, beautiful and all, it would be hard for guys to say she's broke because she's not or say she's ugly so they clamour on the available ammo that is present the marital status so they use that. Frankly am surprised people care about that, or maybe it's not the same being ridiculed for being single as a guy, because if anything or word they say doesn't put money in my pocket then it doesn't make cents.

Note: Rarely would you find a guy that is occupied and busy doing such hehehe not saying anything

tho i agree with some of ur points !! I still belive there are men out there with even money but can't keep a woman!! N ! I feel they feel bad abt it than women, family pressure is the main reason alot of women look up to marriage!! But men hv inferiority complex abt the issue more than ladies do!!! E.g ladies out to a party with their boyfriends with a single lady amongst them and guys going out with their girlfriends n u r a single guy among them !! The guy won't even want to go at all but a lady will follow flex n go to her house happy n fulfilled!! But a guy even if he has enough money would still feel very bad!!

seunadeolu:
Guilty as charged

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marvin906:
what to do my dear..
me Marvin becoming restless just because i dont have a chick in my life
huhhhh
that will be the day heaven comes down

marvin906:
the only reason i become desperate and frustrated
is when my konji tank is filled

lol crazy dude

MISEDUCATIONS:
yar late 20s marrying the wrong age-group, the late 20s women. but usually these late 20s guys are not fully ready. its the 35yr olds that are the pure gold to women.

i get!! Bur Why u say they marry the wrong age group!

UDUJ:
lmao. At least the two of you have something in common

tufia!!!!!!

MISEDUCATIONS:
most guys are always single. thats the first thing THE RED PILL teaches. you just acknowledging things we been preaching all along.
thats why we tell guys YOU BEEN SINGLE ALL YOU LIFE AND WOMEN SUDDENLY WANT YOU WHEN YOU TURN 35, THEY JUST WANT YOUR SECURE LIFE OF A STEADY JOB AND YOU ARE JUST LANDING GEAR.

but men get married in their late 20s right?

praiseneofingz:
una don toast una sef finish for my thread Issokay and me no get spouse god dey

lol 4give me

McBrooklyn:

mad man!

lexy070:
Sex and maintenance of the figure I married you with. Nothing like putting on wrapper after marriage

my kinda man

TheUpsetGirl:
useless thread as usual from a frustrated lady that's always creating stupid threads

coming from the chief executive of useless threads!! Lol

since u think so!! Please do well by avoiding my threads, i never created this thread for u to like it!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Ooooooooo God!!!!!!!!!!
Please who can take me to Libya?
I can't stay here again

It is finished.

my friend , me I am running to togo!! Lybia is too far

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Everyone is frustrated since Apc started ruling us

abi o

He said the plain truth!!! Mothers n sisters r just awesome!!

PrimadonnaO:
Of course. No matter what, it's a two-way street. Both individuals are supposed to show care and support. There's always something that can be done.

exactly well said!! Fact is no woman either rich or not wants a man who isn't finacially stable!!

PrimadonnaO:
Now, take no offence my lovelies, but I feel the need to address a matter.

First of all, this was necessitated by @Upsetgirl's post. Hey, girl, I'm sorry for calling you out, but it's either you're such a huge attention-seeker, you're just nuts or you're simply a guy trolling on Nairaland.

Now, to the guys. Honestly, this issue I'm talking about has well been overflogged. It's irksome the way some of you quickly tag a girl a prostitute. I mean, c'mon. You're dating a girl and shagging, she expects you to take care of some of her bills, and you very quickly start calling all girls prostitutes?

The truth is, if you're with a girl, (whether or not you're fvcking is quite irrelevant), and you claim to love her, it's only natural that you'll do certain things for her. It is no obligation, yes, and she doesn't have to be broke first before you do stuff for her. It's just the way these things work...and it darn well won't be changing anytime soon. It's one of the ways you show care. If you'll do stuffs for a friend or a sibling, why not a girl you claim to love? It's being good, for goodness sake.

Allow me also, to explain why some girls begin to feel really entitled when you're sleeping with them. By default, most girls are not sex-freaked. A girl doesn't do the chase, she can go months and years without having sex. But this isn't the case with guys. A lot of guys go women-hunting basically for sexual gratification. Now, you're with a girl who would otherwise not be fvcking if she wasn't with you, and then you want it all so often, every other day if given the chance. The average girl sees it as her pleasing you, making some sort of sacrifice. So, in her head, it's only fair you do stuff for her, too. I mean, there are tons of other guys out there and she isn't paying them any attention. You're the one taking her time, loyalty and the goodies down there...Lol. While this may be wrong on some levels, it doesn't make her a prostitute either. It's not a business transaction, it's supposed to be a relationship. Feelings are involved. She's not doing it with every other person. She doesn't exactly make those demands like it's her right and she'll sue you if you don't meet them. She probably looks for a button to press, and makes entreaties. That's how she gets you to do things for her.

There's also a percentage of girls who feel you won't be with them if sex isn't involved, or that you'll cheat on them. Still yet, there's another percentage who think sex deepens bond and sh*t like that.

Now, what I personally find wrong in this, is a girl being weak and unscrupulous...sleeping with a guy because you think he'd leave you if you don't. Well, let him go! While I might be an advocate of abstinence, I still know that doesn't work for everyone. But you girl, should only do what you want to do. Forget the sentiments. You like him, you've got the hots for him, you wanna screw him, do it just because you want to, not because you expect him to give you money for it. But if you go about having the hots for every Tom, Dick and Harry and feeling like a 21st chick, so indulging yourself, well that's lack of self-control...promiscuity.

So, to the guys that call every girl a prostitute and say they won't spend a dime on a girl, well, you're deceiving yourself, and most likely, you're broke. No apologies. Oh, yes, and there's the consideration that you've only been attracting leeches who don't care two hoots 'bout you. So, check yourself. A real man, not broke, not bitter, and has got what it takes to attract a decent, smart girl won't come online ranting that all girls have a prostitute mentality. Yes, he knows that there are so many girls like that, but he knows also, that there are a good number who aren't like that...and knows not to make the others his priority. And yea, they know how to take care of their women.

So, dear Mr, who calls all girls prostitutes deserving of nothing, ranting online and typing all manner of obscenities, I'm telling you that you probably have a problem. Look for a solution. Bye!.

i agree with you but i also think if the lady is finacially okay aswell, she would reciprocate

mrkunlex:
Sex is not all about making children. You must be a different woman to your husband every time.
Seduce your husband, don't always allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no timetable for sex. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants. If you lose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of your husband plans.
Don't have too many children, you wanna sell them?
Allow your husband to check in and out anytime.
When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally stable. Stop saying, is it food? Yes, sex is food !!!
As a wife, try to invest in yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him.
Build yourself as his prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life. Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money-making machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate.
You are meant to support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through thick and thin. You are a builder....Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need the wisdom to build their homes.
Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when to listen and when to be quiet.
Love your husband with all your heart, never tell him, if not because of my children, remember you've known him before the arrival of those children.
Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and pray for him. Give him the unannounced kiss from the back.... mwahhhhhh, don't be too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake.
Be romantic joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always feel good when you hold him.
Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.

To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make her feel like your woman! God bless you and your marriages.

https://www.topmagazine.tk/2018/04/must-read-sex-is-food.html?m=1
Lalasticlala

only men will say offer more than ur pussy but again u all still saying if a woman don't hv sex with her man when he wants she has lost her womoanhood!! Provide 4 ur woman, u men complain, let's share the bills n do things 50 50!! U men still complain!!
Sincerely men r confused