Romance › Re: Ladies Only: What Salary And Assets Must A Man Have To Propose? by Shugavee(f): 11:57pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
highpriestess: hahah,I just woke up from sleep and decided to log in,and behold I still met this an unending brawl.
lol,good to know you are fine. collect kiss.   |
Romance › Re: Ladies Only: What Salary And Assets Must A Man Have To Propose? by Shugavee(f): 11:54pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies Only: What Salary And Assets Must A Man Have To Propose? by Shugavee(f): 11:52pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies Only: What Salary And Assets Must A Man Have To Propose? by Shugavee(f): 11:48pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 11:24pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
lefulefu: u talking 0f that one.. what of jesus christ our lord and savior no be im papa house im dey? oya na, na for una to dey endorse men to stay 4 their papa house be that na |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 11:23pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
LostMyZeal: Lol...wondering wether youu dey expect ring in less than 5 years ah ah how can someone date a guy for up to 5years n not expect a proposal!! Even if she would be kul abt it, The lady would expect by that time stuffs r set |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 10:24pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
LostMyZeal: He'd surely get through that phase.What matters is his attitude towards the necessary improvement.Though, It saves you some money economic wise; but talk about the aspect of privacy & I'm like
Abii u dey expect his ring in less than half a decade no vex o!! But i no too understand the last part |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 10:09pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
LostMyZeal: Tell your friend or YOU that life is in stages explain please |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:50pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
DeadRat:

Prince Charles Of England Stays In His Fore Fathers' house and so  |
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Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:40pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:32pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
greiboy: I saw a meme today on the front page that really touched me, but I forgot to save it.
The meme touch on an important aspect of life.
The meme in question referred people back to a time when they were kids and made fun of their jobless 25years old relatives for being poor and hopeless, but today at a similar age of 25 years they are probably not faring any better than their jobless cousins back then.
So while I will put a lot of effort into making sure I am not dependent on any of my family members by the age of 30, I am not going insult those still living under their parents at that age now. okay but didn't insult anyone |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:30pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Grayjoy: In a situation where the whole family members are dead is it still a crime? lol  |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:30pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
BluntBoy:

How are you? I hope you are fine? fine darling  |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 9:28pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
SoapQueen: Hello, If he has prospects, why not hang on? See, some persons are late "bloomers". He may not have had an early start but his testimony might be around the corner. I understand you need your privacy for intimacy and all. Just try to manage for now, mbok. If you leave him now, it might make him detest and lose respect for women.
Conclusively, you know why you fell in love with him. We don't really know how long you guys have being together. The moment you bring your personal challenges to nairaland, or any public fora, it might cause you to have meaningless doubts.
Best wishes. okay nice,i let her know!!! But in this case the guy just started toasting her!! And she got to know he stays with his family!! Big turn off for her tho n myself but will show her ur post!! |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:59pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:58pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Bluntboy how r u? |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:57pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
mikejj: swit heart i go with you...but some parents are staying with their son yeah true, but in hthis case he is with his family!! |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:56pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
OgahBohz: it depends on his plans
Now lemme explain ..
In Lagos and Abuja, Acomodation is not even available talk more of even the money to pay for it ..
lemme use my self as example .. I earn 85k a month, and my transportation to work every month is 15k, last year I got an apartment of my own , for 200k a year,(just a room selfkon o), transport for a month reduced to 10k a month , feeding costs me 15k( which was just 5k when I was in my dads house) that's 25k , now 200k rent a year is equal to 16k per month, that's how much all together.. 46k . from a salary of 85k, how do I save , havnt talkd of unexpected expences o. I.e electricity bill, etc plus unnecessary guest (as a single guy living alone) .. I couldnt save more than , 150k at the end of the year, .
Now am back home, and my total expense in a month is just 17k. meaning I can afford to save 50k a month without shaking or begging ..
the plan is by December next year I should be able to start a good production Biznz , and move out ov this house for good . (By Gods Grace) , .. so what's bad if during this period I ask a lady out? ..
see except when a guy is looking for a casual relationship that's when he will be so eager to live alone .. I'll be 30 by may 22, (don't you think I should be thinking of a matured relationship?) and yes am in my fathers house ..
I live responsibly, and I save well.. unlike when I was alone , clubbing and womanising .. (freedom ) if no find woman , woman go find you.
two years from now I won't be staying here anymore and I won't be working ma ass out for a company..
buh if I was staying alone .. trust me in two years i may not even be able to pay rent ..
as far as Lagos is concern o...its not bad
so dear its all boills down to PLANNING! i get tho!!! But then it iisnt comfortable for the lady |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:46pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Talk to me u all |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 8:43pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 8:42pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
CHAVINCI: am so sori,neva meant to be rude it's fine |
Romance › Re: What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:40pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
OgahBohz: it depends on his plans there r somethings a guy should put in place!! At Least a guy of his age!!! At that point I hv to say u hv to grind harder b4 u think of a girlfriend!!! If u sharing an apartment with a friend is better!! Not with ur family |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 8:18pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
CHAVINCI: lets not waste time,lets hook up,i need a gf. sorry boy, i hv a man |
Romance › What Do U Guys Think by Shugavee(op): 8:17pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
How can a guy that's atleast above 30, still living in his family compound, be looking for a relationship with a lady?, asin even if u are a managing guy hv a house of ur own b4 u think of hving a girlfriend, if u are a student that's a different issue. What u all think  |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 8:05pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
prechbills1: so you can't stay in a relationship for 1year without sex  nope I can't |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 7:11pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 4:45pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
OgahBohz: as vital as money is in a relationship is same way sex is in a relationship ...
the two must be given EQUAL ATTENTION...
you can't claim to prepare stew without tomatoes and pepper .. if other ingredients can be ignored ..
the dou CANT BE IGNORED !
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ladies will be forming I don't need your money ..
and guys will be doing I don't need sex from you ...
abeg its high time we stop pretending ...
FOR ME O....
AS I DEY SPEND MA HARD CASH ON YOU ..
YOU MUST SCATTER THAT PUSHY FOR ME ! DAZ ALL!!! lol  |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 3:41pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
OgahBohz: GIRLS ARE HYPOCRITES !!!
IS LIKE SAYING LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY !!!
WHO FIT SURVIVE AM? no body o!!! Lol |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 3:40pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
greiboy: lol. I don't ever condemn such. I have been an advocate of safer sex on this forum rather than total sexual abstinence since forever.  lol |
Romance › Re: . by Shugavee(f): 3:20pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
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