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greiboy:
I made room for that in my argument

goodnight

greiboy:
hahaha



First of all, what gave the impression that jay z is more intellectually gifted than Beyonce. is it based on awards and achievement in their careers? or the versatility of the pair? I hope it's not solely based on money?

Beyonce has won several awards and accolades in her chosen career, She can sing , act and she writes some of her songs. She has a career spanning over three decades amongst other achievements.

Secondly, I gave examples of popular successful and married women and you claimed they are all exceptions without giving any substantial counter claim, like you have always done


Thirdly, your only proof is a thread you created last year to complain about the same thing you have been complaining about through out this thread. I am sure you didn't notice that I also contributed to that topic and I countered you there, just like I am doing here right now in fact, majority of the male remarks on that thread countered your view


Finally, I asked you an important question and you claimed it made no sense to you, perhaps you need to go over the meaning of independent ladies and why domineering men prefer the non independent ladies to understand that question properly.

nice argument , just one simple question, between Beyonce n Jay-Z who is richer?

Anyways u both made sense to me

2buffagain:
Thats great!
Men are generally okay with this no marriage thing too.

It is better that way so that when a girl is marrying, it is for the right reasons, and not just "Ok I need to find an ATM to lock down. Can't be going to work everyday sef". You know the type that want an expensive wedding, yet want the man to pay for everything. Totally disconnected from reality.

Out here in the US, when I talk with most naija girls, I just see a lack of vision. Yes they have their small jobs or whatever, but if you dig deeper you find that a lot of them DON'T want to be working. They keep talking bout missing naija because at the end of the day They'd rather sit at home while hubby slaves for them and brings them money.

i hate this thinking so badly,,,,, seeing men as finacial slaves!! Why should a man be ur major source of income!! That's fuckkked up

Imapearl:
hello everyone
I just need your advice

I was so scared of dating because of my past experience but this one has given me another reason to stay off till further notice

Okay, the first time we met was inside a keke and I didn't care to know who he was because I was late for work and the second time was in my friend's birthday/Engagement party, So he approached me, we danced together...of cause we exchanged digits

To cut it short we have been dating for two months now, never have I asked him for money for upkeep or anything. Sometimes he will just ask me why don't I demand things from him and the rest....seriously I can't demand when I know I can get what I want myself and for that he was fun of sending me money because he knows I won't ask for it....so last week Monday was his birthday and I invited my friends and the birthday was fun but I noticed he was particularly interested in one of my friends but I didn't try to think otherwise or jump in conclusion because i trusted him, but just on Thursday I went to his place to carry the file I forgot at his place to my surprise I saw my friend and him together!!
couldn't say or do anything, I was confused and couldn't believe my eyes an since that Day still date he has been calling but I can't pick his calls
please guy did I do anything wrong

u did nothing wrong!! He would hv provided willingly If he wanted too!! But maybe u should ask sometimes even if u got it all!!! Guys like feeling useful!! But honestly u r good

Michael781:
after my visiting the doctors and being certified healthy and Ok..lemme say like 2days letter I started having this frequent urge to urinate,and frequent urinatio and sharp pains in my down region!! guys I'm not sure I'm OK?




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go for check up my dear!! All u wil get here r speculations!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
no no no.. I mean that article defines dependent ladies.
just as there is Stockholm syndrome.. dependent ladies are scared of being independent

okay that part yes !! U know naw!! We go read am reach end!!

Some ladies r quiet embarrassing!!! U believe u are a helper! Helper ko !! A man that made money with out ur help nko did he die!!! Are u a helper to urself? If u r really a helper date a totally broke guy!! Don't come here n say u are a helper but expecting money n so much more from a man

TheUpsetGirl1:

just did, so that's what u represent? Or like!!
It makes sense but that's saying women need men to be complete n i totally disagree, we all want to hv a man but that should nt define a woman! Depency for feminist is not only money u know?? U are dependent to a man if u belive a man defines u as a lady!! So u would stay in unhealthy relationship just so u hv a man to complete you!! And as a socialist femiNist I disagree but its still a nice ideology tho!! But it kinda supports patriarchy

TheUpsetGirl1:
✌✌

have you read about Cinderella syndrome and Cinderella complex?
do so.. it's very educative for ladies.

okay I would!

henry007:
Yes, men and women are equal. You follow?

yeah I do!!! Loud it!!

LonelyHeart627:
Goodmorning to you all.
Let me go straight to the point, I am a single lady of 25 years old. I am simple, jovial hardworking and very optimistic about life. I have won some awards due to my hardwork and tenacity.

I have not been very lucky with my previous relationships. I am a graduate working in southwest Nigeria with good home training.
I want a man that believes in living the future now, someone that is ready for marriage this year and wish to settle down oversea as husband and wife. A christian, hardworking, honest, simple and disciplined man.
My email is lonelyh627@gmail.com

lol u know u are not a woman

Thegeneralqueen:
When other guys are sucking that of their girlfriends to satisfy them you're here asking questions it's obvious you can't keep a relationship

loud it sis

Makes no sense

greiboy:
Normally everyone is more comfortable with a person they can dominate. However, not everyone enjoys being in their comfort zone all the time.

Some people will rather prefer to be challenged because they understand the old saying that if "it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you"

Now! Upset girl just challenged your statement by asking you to submit a concrete evidence to back your statement, but you dodged the challenge by painting a picture of your experience that cannot be independently verified.

Thus, should I also assume that you will rather be comfortable with a man that will not challenge you intellectually?

only few men r that way.

Safiaa:
men don’t like intelligent women, it’s intimidating and too challenging to their ego. When they say intelligent they mean a woman who can understand the dynamic of a conversation, but not a woman who knows it all. They don’t like women who are more intelligent than them. Men will always be fascinated with beauty more than anything else, it’s just their nature. Never listen to what they say, watch their actions.

100% I agree!!! That's why alot of independent women r single today!! Not their characters like they do say!! Independent women r too exposed n educated to take trash!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
The problem is, some ladies no matter the amount they're earning they still feel it's wrong for them to spend their own money, they're still heavily dependent on the men in their lives to do the spending while they save their own money.

in fact I'm tired of all this depending, dependent and independence talks.

no amount of talks can change these people.

true, but i am still happy they working tho!!! Small small we will get there

TheUpsetGirl1:
yes, this is what I was actually trying to explain to him and he was saying nonsense

yeah but he is making sense too tho!! This is where the feminist ideology comes in, but feminist or not hv something doing

TheUpsetGirl1:
I understand what he meant.
I was only trying to make him understand that most ladies here in Nigeria thinks that any lady that is working and earning is independent.

true because that's an upgrade 4 most of them!!! N yes atleast they can boldly say with or without a man they can fit their bills!!!

freshkik:
you are just exposing your ignorance ma'am , because you obviously don't know the definition of an INDEPENDENT person, & the fact a person works/earn doesn't directly results to the person been independent
.....2 people can be earning 500k a month, and while one is independent, the other may not be....i hope you've learnt something new today dear

infact a lady can even make less and be independent while the other earning way more than lady1 is still dependent!!! I get you but if u really wanted her to learn n not feel offended u would hv been more contructive!!! But basically u hv to be working to be independent!!

getting an independent lady isn't hard but they always hv their rules n policies!!! Get ready for that too

Lifeofpolice1:
stop ✋✋ lying or i slap the hell out of your mouth and also block this thread

How can mini importation shipping company charge $20000 how much profit do you hope to gain.

If you lack basic information on shipping fee or company stop posting what you do know

Assumption in life kills like HIV

why couldn't you add something useful to the thread than insulting the Op! I wonder why grown men behave like kids!!

Thegeneralqueen:
Please leave me alone I'm still a young girl it was hippo that told me

Thegeneralqueen:
You think so ? I leant he's huge and strong

lol don't start

Thegeneralqueen:
He will get all that he ever wish for..... foursom what I'm I saying self

woman go tire am!

Ladyhippolyta88:
I was referring to the one you posted earlier that uduj commented on.I saw it earlier.

okay thanks darling!
How u doing?

Thegeneralqueen:
I tell you we'll be taking him turns

Ladyhippolyta88:
He isn't mine.
He praises ladies for some time very soon I would no longer be his queen.

@your profile pics you are beautiful.

lol i know i am beautiful but that's not me!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
What did I just see so shugavee is now your sweetheart?
Meanwhile thegeneralqueen was telling me to give you a chance.

lol don't mind him!! His all urs
@ bluntboy

Rubbiish:
Nonsense...

ur opinion !! N honestly it's of no importance to me

[quote author=Fidecoo post=66867486][/quote]in this particular situation, he isn't

TheUpsetGirl1:
the funny thing is that the(some) lady(ladies) that usually say things like this can't afford house rent themselves.
you hate guys who still live with their parents but you can't afford to build a house or rent one by yourself..
some people and their standards though

incase u are refering to me!! I stay in my own paid rented apartment miss

greenprince:
Imagining this with an S8 is giving me nighmares.

lol never again

Jhamzy:
Work on your anger honey!

lol i wasn't angry I was sad n shocked not angry