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Amarabae:
About the word "submission "
Many men misunderstand it,
Many abuse it
Many hide under it to show their misogynistic attitude,

But what do you understand by submission?

Let's examine this.

Joy is beautiful
Joy is well educated and very intelligent, she read abroad.
Joy is working and being paid well

Joy gets married to John.

John is handsome
John is also educated,
John is working too


Now they are married,

John wants joy to be submissive to him ,
Joy ask him "sweetheart what do you mean by submitting to you?

John replies (in a typical African man understanding of submission) :
1.Submitting to me means that my word in this house is final,
2. When I am talking, you should be quiet
3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs
4. I can cheat but you dare not cheat
5. I determine the number of babies we can have.
6.Never you raise your voice on me.
Etc

Joy asked him, :ok but why should I be "submissive to you " and not the other way round?
How did you merit it?


John replies : are you mad?
Don't you know that I am a man and bla bla bla.

The typical African man reasoning.

How can you having a dick be the only qualification for a woman to be submissive to you?
What kind of dumb mentality is that?
You expect a woman to lick your asshole because you have a dick?

And when you try to define the word "submission"
It means yielding to a superior authority,
You being under the control of another person or thing.

So in the mind of the misogynists, a woman who they refer as weak vessel should yield to a man who is a strong vessel,
No wonder many women are passing through a lot in marriages today,
Tolerating a lot of nonsense,
Because we are in a man dominated world,

It pains me to see that many girls are still being brainwashed,
You see them accepting the word "submission"
Aunty submission, are you a slave?
Will river Niger dry up if men starts submitting?
You better wake up.
You will see a man whose wife is feeding,
A man whose wife is the breadwinner of the family yet he will be shouting submission!
Funny idiosyncrasies

I am not a slave,
Marriage is not a slave camp,
I will love you as the husband the same way you will love me.
We will argue,
I will not lick your asshole,
I will stand on my right and defend it
My opinion matters.
And lastly
I am NOT and will never be a weak vessel
Feminism rejects that.
We are strong and proud.

Many men need a reorientation about issues like this especially the yet to marry ones.
Many women are waking up,
There is a reason why the divorce rate is high these days because tolerating rubbish has a limit,
Our mothers went through a lot of anti women prejudices in the society and marriage,
We refuse to go through the same,


All thanks to feminism.
A woman should love the husband deeply and the husband should love the wife deeply too.
Respect her, she will respect you,
Care for her, she will care for you.

Stop manipulating women with the word "submission"
I don't believe in it and will never.
I am no slave.
I love my husband and he loves me.
Our marriage is not a slave camp.
And thats how it should be.

#thanks

100% legit!! Submission to them is a lighter word 4 slavery!! I belive if u n ur spouse love each other, non will be fighting 4 superiority!!!

TheUpsetGirl:
na u sabi

na me sabi? how?? U told me i am decieving myself!! So i asked how!! U say na me sabi!!! Me i no sabi that one o!!! I can do 50 50!! Is what i know

Ladyhippolyta88:
Confused entity.
What makes you think miracle would date you?
Your boyfriend seems to not care anymore, sis you played yourself

this girl is foolish sha!! Why dont she stop talking abt relationship stuff n focus on the game!! When she is out she would sort things out!! She is doing this cause she knows her b-f would be hurt!!!

Gofwane:
@op, you look malnourished. Buy a sliced bread, dip it inside your pvssy and eat it so that you be well nourished

lol

It's true so what u expect our comeback to be,Nigeria is a rich country but we do not hv the basic necessities!! Ironic

TheUpsetGirl:
you're just deceiving yourself

lol how

donstan18:
Never needed your care, just told you what you need to know.

know I know what i need to know n that ain't one of them!!! Negativity n bitter takes no space in my life!!!

donstan18:
Why d'fvck did you decide to obstruct this interesting discussion he's having with BossLaifay, why being so dumb, why not stay clear than exposing your level of reasoning to the thread.


*Spit*

i so wish I care!!!

ubunja:
dont blame me. i found the world already like this. direct all grieviences to your ancestors

so i guess u hv choosen not to update urself!! Cause that's trash

Grayjoy:
Ok. Let come and be going.

ubunja:
the world is not forgiving of females' mistakes: non-virgin bride, out of wedlock baby, borehole pvssy, all these are punished. somethings her mother will have to explain them to her.
prosperity was what i was leaning towards. atleast she'll eat. i'll teach her how to use nice guy beta losers like martin0.

tahhhhh is it the girl that disvirgin herself Or did she pregnant herself!!! So the world is forgiven women n not men!! But woman stick with cheating men! Mtcheww

OriakuAmara:
What is wrong with a man that lick honeypot?
Don't you like rice and beans?
Lolx.
No mind me jare

lol

Grayjoy:
Explain? It's self explanatory aunty.

its not I want a guy that Will kiss my feet n give me gifts ,cause i will do same!!! So it makes no sense with what u wrote

Grayjoy:
Thereby defeating the purpose of ur proposed calling.

explain

Grayjoy:
Thereby defeating the purpose of ur proposed calling.

lol explain

Grayjoy:
You can do 50-50? And u still want an Igbo guy dat will kiss ur feet and shower u with gifts abi?

yes ofcourse, i will do same!!! DoH

Heheheheheh kikikikikikkkkmkkk

UDUJ:
Yes, she has arrived

lol

freak33:
but I was only joking with her na

you don't joke with stuffs like that

Yes i can do 50/50

DJHANDSOME:
must you always show your self?

good morning

TheUpsetGirl:
i wonder for them.

lol hey baby girl missed ur drama!!

Some people need exposure!! When I travelled to the US not trying to brag or something!! There are so many foreigners in the U.S. that are americian citizens, so so many!! But there is only discrimination to the black race!!! If u an Italian in the US with citizenship u feel free safe n able to express urself properly!! And That's because of the colour of their skin!! Sane thing almost all over the world!! That's why I said if u talk to a foreigner he would tell u u are either black or white

And what really piss me off abt this "u r not white" nonsense is the fact people who do say it are deeply rooted in neocolonialism, they feel being white is such a big title!!!

ASSSLICKEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Ladyhippolyta88:
The lady is at it again I agree that feminism has its bad side and good sides.Madam before posting a topic please research and be seen to be objective.Everyone would not agree to this while others would.It seems madam doesn't read secular books aside religious ones .It's obvious the age of enlightenment has not gotten to her. .She is still stuck up in 1193.It seems she has not read on christian egalitarianism.

my friend please don't ever comment in a thread of stupidity!!!

afolayan22:
They have been no much addo that girls are oliver twist all the time that is why you need to identify which one you're into a woman or a girl.


1).She isn't trendy

2).Don't care about facebook

3).Woman read, girls don't

4).She just wants love

5).She is independent


Any addition and subtraction
Comment open...

trendy So a celebrity is not a woman

I find people who do too much of social media as jobless, no offence!! So i kinda agree with no 2

A woman wants more than love , she wants a responsible man, no woman wants an irresponsible man just because the guy loves her!! So that one is zero

Everyone should read male n female, but not every one likes reading much, it has nothing to do with being a man or woman!!! That one is zero


All women should be independent, so i agree with the last one!!


Total score 2 over 5!!

highqueen:
no 2,so fb addict like me isn't a woman

lol

CAPSLOCKED:

WHY ARE YOU SERIOUSLY EMPHASISING ON REPRODUCTION, WHEN
ALL THE ONES THAT HAVE BEEN BORN ARE NOT BEING PROPERLY TAKEN CARE OF?

NUNS AND MONKS HAVE BEEN EXISTING FOR CENTURIES. LIKEWISE REVERED SISTERS AND FATHERS... WHO DON'T REPRODUCE.

THERE ARE EVEN HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES WHO MADE A DECISION NOT TO REPRODUCE, AND THERE ARE SOME WHO CANNOT REPRODUCE DUE TO INFERTILITY.

DESPITE ALL THAT THE POPULATION OF THE EARTH KEEPS INCREASING ON A DAILY BASIS.

BUT YET, YOU BELIEVE THAT THE EXISTENCE OF GAYS IS A THREAT TO REPRODUCTION.

WHY DON'T YOU CLAMOUR FOR THE CLOSURE OF MONASTERIES, SEMINARIES AND CONVENTS BECAUSE REPRODUCTION SHOULD BE A MUST?

HOW ABOUT KILLING STERILE & BARREN PEOPLE?

true some people dont want to give birth to children n that's fine but hving sex with the same sex makes no sense!!! Cause the ones who want to can't!!! N please do not compare people who r barren with people who choose to be gay!!

CAPSLOCKED:

I CAN HAVE SEX WITH THE SAME SEX, AND ADOPT ALL THE CHILDREN YOUR HETEROSEXUAL SIBLINGS THROW AWAY ON THE STREETS.

kul but that's not reproduction

CAPSLOCKED:


IT MAKES NO SENSE TO YOU, BUT MAKES SENSE TO A LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE.



DID YOU EVEN SAY SCIENCE? LOL. WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT?

can u hv sex with the same sex n reproduce??

CAPSLOCKED:

THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS OUR CULTURE IS AGAINST. WHY DO WE IGNORE THE ENTIRE LIST AND ONLY TALK ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY?

cause it makes no sense!! I dont hate them neither do I discriminate them i am all for do what makes u happy but it makes no sense still, getting involved with the same sex!! Makes no sense in religion and evenn science!!!

CAPSLOCKED:

SO BECAUSE I SUPPORT ANIMAL RIGHTS I'M AN ANIMAL? OR I'M A WOMAN BECAUSE I SUPPORT WOMEN'S RIGHTS?


WHAT BACTERIA ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
DO YOU KNOW THAT HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES ALSO GET ONE OR TWO OF THESE?

YOU HAVE NO POINTS. YOU HATE GAYS BECAUSE YOU'RE SECRETLY WORRIED THAT joysticks TASTES DELICIOUS.

really

laudate:
You are contradicting yourself outrightly. Sexual confidence and virginity does not go together. Virgins are never sexually confident. You can be confident that no man has touched you, but not 'sexually confident.' Or you do not know the meaning of the phrase, sexually confident?

lol she is obviously a growing girl!!! Don't change her mindset!! Let her keep up with it, we all thought like this at a point of our lives!!!