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Grayjoy:
U sound so Igbotic, are u an igbo?

why u ask?? R u igbo

XVIER:
Nigerians, we are use to phone recording every events that comes our way. Won't judge the policeman for now until I read the full story. Who knows the person (who might have done something wrong) being harrassed by the policeman might be a relative to the lady so she decided to video the event to seek false Justice.

please talk lik a responsible human being

Grayjoy:
the way am looking at ur eye, u dnt wan2 believe.

my eye kwa!! I belive u jor

Grayjoy:
One thing about a write up is to read then undastnd what the writer means. When I said even d married ones wants to be intouch(cause dat is where ur prblm lies) i mean, they want to be in contact as in lets be frnds. I believe there are people u want like dat, abi?

okay now i get!!! There are

Grayjoy:
Lol. U don't agree ryt?

hmmmm some how

Grayjoy:
Lol. U don't agree ryt?

hmmmm

Grayjoy:
I knw some guys like dat 4rm my skol days that girlz will be like dem no reach. But guys like me? D babes still luk 4 me even d married ones, they just wan2 keep in touch. Although at some point they didn't especially those that were serving when I was in year 1. But nogw, they are happy to chat me up or call.

tahh this is the pepper i am talking abt!!

MrMystrO:
Okay, I'm done With this Argument. This is just what i wanted to hear to end this because i can definitely now tell you're a kid totally devoid of reality, Living in a fantasy Land. You can't even look around you and RATIONALLY Observe what you see Lol. Maybe someday when you're mature enough, Your sentimentality will evaporate like the wind and Reality will hit you like a Hard Rock. Have a nice day.

take care

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LOL.

YOU'RE EVEN MORE CONFUSED THAN I WAS INFORMED.

yes o that's how i see things!! Am confused to u but very okay to myself!!! N hey what do u do for me? Nothing

Grayjoy:
those boys were that bad? Can chat her up and get a reply?

lol they were big boys then na but now them no reach!!! Babe is balling

Grayjoy:
I did o, I said that b4.

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MrMystrO:
Answer this question with a simple yes or no. On the Average, Are males Naturally "Physically" Stronger than females?

my answer is NO!!! Pysically they both hv the area where they dominate!! A man can carry 10 bag of rice but can a man carry a man in his stomach No they ain't pysically made that way!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
If you are a christian the bible calls you a weaker vessel both physically,emotionally mentally etc.

i am a Christian but i dont believe in the bible!! Historically the bible makes no sense, a book written solely by men, men who say they were inspired by God how?? U saw when God said let them be light n there was light!! Those guys were high on weed!!!!Espeacially the old testament none of them were there o!! Even Abraham story was Not written by Abraham !! Futher with the fact that the bible is not complete, joining with the fact that the book was written in a time when women were seen as less, women were not even counted!!! So this how it is for me!! I refuse to belive such rubbish!!! Salvation is personal, i belive Jesus came to this world not only the bible agrees with that,i love Christ n i wish to be christ_like!! A good caring n loving man!! HevGave two instructions love God n love ur neighbour as urself!!! He didnt say love a woman differently, he said love ur neighbour as URSELF, TREAT everyone the way u treat urself!!! N thats my salvation , other than that, preach till death , i will keep on telling u salvation is personal!! Do ur own while i do mine!! I was born from a good Christian home, Christianity is part of me already but education has change alot of things!!!

Grayjoy:
d pepper u mean was dat I was denying that I dnt have a date or what?

yeah

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WOLFBURG + PSG LADIES, TWO OF THE TOUGHEST FEMALE FOOTBALL TEAMS ON EARTH WILL LOSE WOEFULLY AGAINST 17 YR OLD SOCCER BOYS IN MY STREET.

PHYSICALLY, YOU CAN NEVER COMPARE.

SHUGA BLAMED THE SOCIETY FOR MAKING THE WOMEN LOOK WEAK, BUT IT HAS BEEN OBSERVED THAT EVEN FROM THE AGES OF 1 OR 2, THERE ARE PHYSICAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE TWO GENDERS.

BOYS LIKE TO KICK AND RUN, AND DISTURB YOUR WORK,
WHILE GIRLS LIKE TO SIT AND CRY, AND DIP THEIR HANDS IN FILTH.

THAT WAS A JOKE BUT SHE LIKES TO ARGUE BLINDLY. EVEN HER FRIENDS ON THIS THREAD KNOW THE TRUTH.

friends really They do their thing while i do mine, !! But i will continuously repeat myself women r not weak it's the society that has made Women belive that!! Yes we hv physical difference but that does not mean women r weak

MrMystrO:
You're the one who has to Stop being Sentimental. Are you trying to say Women are Naturally Stronger than men? A simple yes or No will do. This is why i hardly engage in debates with women.. Always sentimental even when the truth is glaring at them in the Face. Smh

now here is where u get it wrong!!! when we say women r smart
Men: r u trying to say women r smarter than men??
We want equality!! I understand the pysical difference but both gender work together for a productive society!! We cant do witout each other!!!! No gender is superior!!

MariaLavina:
You may be right, if we are talking about the physical aspect of things and of course a small portion of the female population. How many women can engage in physical combat with Men? .Is violence the right way to solve misunderstandings? There is a difference between being feared and being respected.


I believe no one should hit another, female or male. Only animals solve misunderstandings by violence.

i totally agree @bold

Grayjoy:
I wasn't forming o, just minding my business, I had a crush though I was forming for her. The had to write and rewrite letters to me. She is a lady now sha. So wetin come be d pepper?

lol okay I hear u!!

Marshalxv:
Funny thing is that we can't even imagine dating any of those girls we were swagging up for then now.

asin ehn, like one of my friend then in school, no guy even dey look her side, her uniform always unkept, asin we talk tire!! But if u check this girl now , babe is in Turkey now, big girl! I know none of those boys can even chat her up n get a reply!! Her bf is so cute!!!

Marshalxv:
Lol, you're right, I was a constant rule breaker b4 then, but after the post, I had to adjust, plus some of my crew were also prefects.
How I did it? in the face of the teachers and principal, I pretend to be the good headboy but behind their back I connect with my guys and we do our things. plus I gave my guys a line not to cross.

nice job!!

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HAHA..

MEN ARE STRONGER THAN WOMEN, BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY.

I'M SORRY.

am sorry too but that's not true!! What do u mean by strength Can a man carry a child 4 9months n give birth with serious pains!!!
Mentally really where is it scientifically proven that a man is mentally stronger than a woman, try taking care of kids n give them good upbringing n let's see how mentally strong u are!!! Try facing so much oppression n still stand strong enough to fight back, let's see how u would pull through!!! Mentally women r the greatest!!! Due to the efforts of feminism, almost all women r going to school n making exploit even more than men!!


SPEAK AFTER PASSING THROUGH ALL THE HARDSHIP WOMEN HV GONE TRU!! BECAUSE U MEN FEEL U HV THE PRIVILLAGE TO DEGRADE WOMEN DUE TO PIATRIACHY DOES NOT ILLTRATE U GUYS R RIGHT!!! IT'S ALL SENTIMENTAL N MYTHS

newslifeop:
hmmm

drop urs

Grayjoy:
It does actually but on rare occassions. So how did I add pepper in my previous post?

saying girls were tripping but u still had no crush or date!!! N ur plenty forming in that post!!

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MANY WOMEN HAVE EQUALLY MISUSED THIS TERM "EQUALITY".

THEY BLAME MEN FOR THE MISTAKES THEY MAKE THEMSELVES AND THINK FEMINISM IS ALL ABOUT HATING AND RIDICULING MEN EVERYWHERE.


MEN AND WOMEN CAN NEVER BE EQUAL IN THIS SOCIETY. THEY CANNOT TAKE UP THE SAME JOBS.

YOU CANNOT WIN A WAR WITH ALL THE TROOPS BEING FEMALES.
YOU CANNOT COMPLETE AN ENGINEERING OR TECHNOLOGICAL TASK WITH THE TECHNICIANS BEING WOMEN ALL THROUGH.
YOU CAN'T HAVE WOMEN MOULDING BLOCKS AND LIFTING HEADPANS AT BUILDING SITES.

YOU CAN'T HAVE BARCELONA MALE TEAM PLAY AGAINST ARSENAL LADIES.

ONE SIDE IS ALWAYS SUPERIOR, NATURALLY. YOU WILL ALSO FIND THIS IN MOST ANIMALS AND ALSO FISHES.


WHAT WE SHOULD FOCUS ON IS EQUAL TREATMENT, OPPORTUNITIES AND RESPECT.
BUT THE WHOLE ATTENTION HAS LONG BEEN DIVERTED INTO STUPID BIASED OPINIONS AND AGENDAS OF IMMATURED WOMEN ON FACEBOOK AND TWITTER.

patriarchy is the problem here!! The fact u think it's impossible for women do all these!!! Male football teams r superior because u think they r ,not because the actually are!!!the system hv opressed women to belive this, so they quit!! Patriarch thinking is what has brought u to this conclusion!! Not because they r true!!!

MariaLavina:
just kidding, smile

seriously? Cause i totally agree!! Any woman that hits a man is super strong, based on men's physical attribute n all!! I wont try it but i carry hand for women who do!! Funny enough those kinda women r respected by men more!! I know one lady in my bf street she is married but she dey handle her husband, no one is beating each other, they r fighting serious fight!!! The man is always respecting himself cause he knows his wife, both of them r mad!! to the extent when I am qurrelling with my bf , i will be like """ na because na me u see na, go n try it with mama touyo na"""" then he quits talking!! N she n her husband love each other!!

So yes any woman that can stand ground with a man physically is super strong!!!

Grayjoy:
It seems u are avoiding my question.

i am not, I just don't find him attractive anymore!! Don't it happen to u?

Marshalxv:
Lol, it was fun filled good old days.
Mine was from grass to grace, I joined ss1 from another school, east precisely, had no friends, extremely stubborn,average swag, but then this particular girl was the only one close to me, I'll always give her my notes to write for me even though her writing was awful. At the end of first term, I came out 7 out of 60something students in class.Next term took a total dimension for be, got extra two uniforms which I always make sure I leave a nice iron design o, became assistant class captain and the newest member of the big boys crew, lol I miraculously became the center of attention for the ladies both junior and seniors. ss2 became headboy, coded headboy and automatically the chairman of the big boys gang.To get any babe you have to go through me lol.Some girls will come to my house to help me take my kid sis to school while I walk majestically behind. lol. it was really fun back then, we did lot of touching and kissing but no sex cuz somehow we maintained our innocence.

How did u do ur headboy duties n still be a big boy in school!!cus bigboys r confirmed rule breakers

Grayjoy:
Ur pace? As in swag? Well-to-do or handsomeness?

swag kwa, he had So much swag back in school but right now he doesn't qualify as the man I want at this stage

Sctests:
We know you are you are yoruba muslim, Eru abooki as the yoruba christians call you.

The reason for Igbo defending themselves is because you guys are very good at revising history, painting everyone black while pontificating and claiming to be saints. Igbos have decided that enough is enough of your lies.

nigeria has no way to go but towards disintegration you can continue to be a beast of burden to the gambaris. The contraption will be shattered and Emir of Ibadan, Emir of Ogun will rise like the Emir of Osun that we have today as the foresighted Igbo rightly predicted here on NL.

well said

KOPT33:
I'm not shocked you didn't agree. People who take offense are teases are high maintenance people that you would need to walk around eggshells around. Have you considered the fact that perhaps being so forthright with her would have led to the same issue?

It is better for the one with the fragile ego to move on and look for another victim.

Besides, I think you're a stupid bitch.

teasing a lady with such a sensitive issue is totally wrong!! Is like ur girlfriend making jokes of ur small prick n weak sex game!! [img][/img]

prechbills1:
I'm not the owner of the story below, my friend who's married had some problems with his wife which led to the story below, he posted it on tweeter but couldn't get any reasonable advice, that's why I decided to help him post the story here maybe we can get some matured advice from here. he's not a nairaland member but he'd be viewing the thread as a guest so please don't derail the thread if you don't have any reasonable thing to say. I know that there are many kids here but at least there are still some matured and reasonable people.

see the story and question below;





It all started when I heard noise in the sitting room, I rushed out from my bedroom to the sitting room, getting there I saw my wife about to trash our kid with a cane, and I told her to drop the cane and leave the boy alone. My wife started shouting at me, I tried explaining the implications of flogging a child, I told her that this is a civilized world, I even reminded her that she could go to jail for that crime in America or Europe and she told me that we're living in Africa. She wanted to trash the kid, then I told her that if she must punish the kid she should slap him instead that no matter what offense he committed she shouldn't trash him with a cane. I immediately told my boy to run to his room and he went to his room, then I left my wife in the sitting room and went back to the room. My wife came into my room without even knocking and started shouting at me, I regretted marrying an independent lady that day because she's always shouting on me. When she realized she I'm not looking at her neither am I going to respond, she walked toward my bed(she was initially standing at the door post) when she stood beside my bed, I decided to get up and sit on the bed.She started shouting on me again and I told her to leave my room ,my brother I received the ultimate shock of my life, my wife slapped me very heavily thrice, after she slapped me two times it was like there was a bell ringing in my head, I could no longer see very well, I developed headache immediately. In my entire life even my parents never raised their hands on me, I shouted in pain and our house help and gateman ran into the house, they heard the sound coming from my room and they rushed to my room on getting to my room and seeing my situation they took me to a nearby clinic. I stayed in the clinic for 4days, I spent 19k for the 4days I spent in the clinic. During the four days I spent in the clinic my wife never came visiting despite the fact that she was the one who put me in that situation. I've gotten over that, things are getting better now. is it right for a lady to raise her hand on a man? it's wrong for a man to raise his hand on his wife, when then should my wife raise her hands on me? my question now is the next time she tries that and I raise my hands on her, is it domestic abuse? because I can't tolerate this nonsense, the next time she dares raise her hands on me, if I've recovered I'm going to slap her very bad in a way that she'll spend 7days in an hospital, I spent just 4days but I'll make sure I slap her heavily that she'll stay there for 7days. I won't beat her but I'll slap her heavily.

u need to leave that marriage! As far u ain't happy, that's bondage not marriage

The man tried, the woman is very wrong!!!