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It all boils down to choice, if being a virgin makes u happy n pure ,continue!! If hving sex makes u happy!! Continue as well, salvation they say is personal.. don't impose ur decision on others to discriminate n feel some sort of superiority, come back to reality, no one cares, they might act like they do but they don't!!!

To the Op this kinda threads r not good for u if u indeed want to keep ur virginity till marriage, u would just let people change ur thinking, cause i know u know not everyone will agree with you!!

N do u think guys feel pleasure disvirgining ladies?? My dear they dont, u think after marriage ur man, especially the one who isn't a virgin will feel so happy disvirgining a girl on his wedding night We r in the 21 century!! So don't drown on that

Respect is earned darling, no man will respect u because u r a virgin, yeah he would be like wow!! But it brings no respect!!! be a good woman, kind, ambitious and hardworking n watch how men will buzz around you!!!!

Not up for argument!!! My opinion!!!

Back to work, hv a nice day every one

prechbills1:
this mentality have to change.. I read some post were some guys ,even ladies where saying Virginity is the greatest gift a lady can offer her husband, by saying such nonsense they're simply reimplying the belief that African ladies have nothing to offer than sex.


when it comes to matters like this Guys tend to comment the most saying trash, you won't be surprised that many of them commenting aren't attending church programs.

Christianity started in Europe, they taught us Christianity when they colonized Africa, yet you don't hear them saying such nonsense..

so are Africans now more religious than Europeans?

even bishops and clergy men, and the Pope himself don't say all these trash.. say things like these in America or Europe and get into trouble, during my 9months stay in Texas I never heard any American guy talking about virginity trash.


I don't blame trump for calling Africa a shithole like seriously.

sorry i know u were trying to make sense, but i disagree,Africa is no shithole, we r progressing, America n Europe once passed through this stage, i hope u hv read abt the medival period!!! Knowledge will eradicate these ideologies soon, so please Africa is great n progressing!!!

prechbills1:
lol, are you just recognizing there are many kids on NL? can't wait to quit this shít

virgin this virgin that, and the modafvckers are not virgins themselves.

as a civilized guy all I want in a lady are;
good character
intelligence
honesty
humbleness
creative ideas

and she must be independent.
we run the home 65%35.

all these primitive beings shouting virgins this virgin this... just ignore them, you're giving them unnecessary attention

hmmmm u don't mean it, *cleaning my eyes*
Preshbills na u write this thing!! God is good o

1Sharon:
Lol you are naive.

Does being a virgin mean a person hasn't engaged in any sexual activity before?

ask me o , my dear

Duru009:
I will dream of only you. I think you have some elements of sweetness in you. Unlike.......

are u a virgin If not she is not interested

fuckpro:
...u just had to come and spoil the fun...nobody is taking exam on anthropology gash

hope u read that I was replying someone!

Good night/ morning all, i think i n my man are abt to something
Sleep well

ibrahimdoc:
you are just bitter that you have lost your virginity to street urchins. I met my girl at the age of 29 and i.met her a virgin. that you couldn't keep yours doesn't mean that other women should lose theirs. I hate your type.

ok as she kept it!! Is it the virginity u r marrying

Ladyhippolyta88:
They countered you with facts.And who is the lady you are referring to there I hope it is one of your friends?Because I didn't see where anyone tried to correct me ooo shugavee did you see?

no o! what's he talking abt

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bemejr:
Am Not A Time Traveller Nor God to give you the description of what you are requesting for. But what i can tell you is This! At That Time, there was nothing like marriage. They just gave birth to childrens and the children gave birth to other being down to this timeline. Adam And Eve where like a new born baby living in peace untill they ate the fruit and things changed from then. Marriage Was Found At A Point Of Time By We Humans.

good

Duru009:
Did you read my first comment before you jump in.
Never say virginity makes a perfect marriage but I said I repeat again.
A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband.
Whether you like it or not this sooooooo true.
You are not a man you wouldn't understand at all!

So keep your senseless comments to yourself.

I know how your likes lost your virginity, it's a pity...

Am sorry

my darling it's not true!!!
U r a guy so yeah u can say such n think it makes sense,
I am a woman n i interact with women ,
virginity brings no respect what's so ever,
If u like be a virgin n be jobless, no man will respect u o
Virginity does not bring any respect!!

bemejr:
Mehn! I come pity the Poster with all the batered and catered Insults From Fellow Beings. To The Poster! The people of this generation are so advanced, that they forget the Nature Of Who There Are, The Thing Is This. We are the blood line of Adam and Eve. And for them to eat forbidden fruit has made them think Good And Evil Like Their Creator. They forget that The Foolishness Of God Is Wiser Than Human Wisdom And The Weakness Of God Is Stronger Than Human Straight. No Much Talks, Continue To Advertise Your Products To The Unborn Ones. I Support You 101%. Even tho the life is a temporary one because of our SIN. Let Them Talk, It Is Only A Fool That Becomes Successful And Makes His/Her Ways To God!

please sir good evening,,, just a simple question, the Adam n eve u just talked abt!

When did they get married??

Duru009:
You gonna be 40yr, soo bitter, without a husband. By the time you realise your stupid self, it will be toooooooooooooooooooooo late. By that time all your friends are thru with having kids.
Money without happiness, is that one money. Nonsense!!

You better be saving money for the gigolo boys that will be coming to service your old rotten 40yrs pusssy. Because that is what your type is good at. Use n dump your sorry mannerless ass!

lol is marriage happiness?? Kikikikik, children r not hard o!! I will go the US,, go to a sperm bank n give birth to a halfcast child, if giving money to gigolo boys makes me happy( that's if indeed i am not involved with anyone)) how doesthat affect ur life

Duru009:
Once it comes to marriage, I dump your ass and marry wife material. Marriage is for life!. I cannot com n kill myself!

It's sooooooo simple,

good!! make virginity ur no1 agenda for marriage!! But i am sure u can see not all men think the way u do!!

Duru009:
You sound soooooooo freaking bitter, hope you are okay. By the time you are 40yr without a husband you will certainly remember me. You better save this page.
Because one day de one day, you will remember me!

lol bitter kwa!! I am here hving fun n u talking abt bitter!! Ok whatever

When I am 40 years i will be a boss, that's my dream, marriage I guess is ur no1 priority for ur sisters, but not me!!

BluntBoy:
Fine, fine. I hope you are fine too? I thought I should say "hello" to you.

that's really nice of you!! I am fine too dear!! God bless

BluntBoy:
Good evening.

hello good evening how r u

Jochabed:
It takes Discipline and Character to keep yourself.

tahhh discipline not to hv sex, is it discipline to be a good human being?!! Abi u will be a virgin n hv bad character n be wicked to people n u say i am a virgin n a percious daughter of God!!! Don't just deceive urself o!!! If u wanna be a virgin good!! If not please hv enough sex, no one know when we will die!!

Jochabed:
God is no fool,he can't give his precious daughter to an irresponsible man. The have to be compatable.

precious because of virginity?? What if they steal n kill!!! Premarital sex has nothing to do with Christianity!! There are enough women who married as virgins n are unhappy.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I repeat virginity is a personal conviction and not because one man would take a lady to space let Duru009 come and slap me.If you are advocating for virginity please let us teach our men and women.

asin the useless men talking abt virginity ain't virgins o!! Who hv they been f***king i guess a tree!!!

U see a girl wanting to hv sex with you, instead of u to say No!! Keep ur virginity!! They will carry their small prick n start sexing the girl, but will come on social media n be advocating virginity!!! Hypocrites

Ladyhippolyta88:
I agree because of the African society and double standards and because it is easier to know if a woman is a virgin or not.I thank God for the men in my life sexual purity is good but it is no guarantee.

lol my sister u get time o!!! Me i will hv sex when ever I want!! If na by that one them dey marry, i won't marry, i will keep on fuckingggggg n enjoying my life!!!

I know someone who married as a virgin., but her husband maltreats her alot lik a slave!!! She left him She got remarried n she is happy


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MissRaine69:
I feel the deepest level of pity that’s humanely possible
Pity and shame that you sat there and formulated all that and then posted it . Read it again for a minute, if you can’t see how flawed it is no one can help you.
No one!

i really wanted to ignore u but here, u think u know too much cause ur are always surfing the net!!! Get more exposure then i would continue this discussion with you!!

Kimcutie:
No. It's like I don't care about people around me.

hmmm okay u better learn

MissRaine69:
I feel the deepest level of pity that’s humanely possible
Pity and shame that you sat there and formulated all that and then posted it . Read it again for a minute, if you can’t see how flawed it is no one can help you.
No one!

really?? Lol okay

Kimcutie:
Yeah am trying. On the internet, am cool, reality... Something else.

arrogant abt things like Anger issues??

Kimcutie:
Yeah am trying. On the internet, am cool, reality... Something else.

arrogant any things like Anger issues??

Ladyhippolyta88:
Pity yourself first you don't know me outside this forum or my personality either.And I repeat no man can marry me because of virginity but because of my person and qualities that is what defines my person and not an hymen.My future hubby is not finished I would complete him and we would be happy focus on your life let me focus on mine.

loud it girl

Kimcutie:
God forbid. I don't have it, because I don't dream about females, the truth is that am a arrogant person.

why na!!! It's not good o

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Kimcutie:
Yes.

maybe u hv spirit wife o

greiboy:
Most people like to refer to them as brown skin.

He is a Persian/ bucharian descendant

it's only africians that go with that!!! Are Italians not white? How abt Chinese, China an Asian country are they not white ,, must u be from Europe to be white, some even belive u hv to be British n an americian to be white!!! Just because we were colonized by them(British)! White is abt the colour of ur skin!! Talk to a foreigner n u will realize that u are either white or black when it comes to race!!!