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Ladyhippolyta88:

*grabs his collar and slaps him*

savage!!! *tougue out*

Actuarydeji:
What about the damage he has done to her kpetus?

yeah i know that but lets be happy he got time!!

Honestly they r!!! Men shame single ladies alot,some even behave like they dont need women, that's cause they are single n frustrated too!! Women put too much pressure on themselves, thinking we r the only ones in search n men are all taken!!!! Nope they ain't they are as well desperate n frustrated too!! Even tho they dont admit it!!!

UDUJ:
marvin906 the ball is in your court bro

TheUpsetGirl:
that means @shugavee isn't a feminist because she said her bf must provide money for her hair, her gown ,Jean and should be the one spending on dates.

thanks for your comments, my respect for you keep growing sis

i see u place me of high importance in ur life, for you to post my name in every thread possible!!! I scream women independence in all my thread!! Even the one u r nagging abt!!! when u done mentioning me on every thread, u can get back to ur life!!! I remember u n ur friends came up with a thread tryingq to identify broke girls but today here u are!! Another shit subject!! Now does that hv anything to do with me No !!! Apparently u r less than useless, u simply don't exist to me!!! Whether u take me as a feminist or not,, it's non of my business!! This is the last time I reply u on this forum!! N please respect urself n stop mentioning me!!!

Didn't finish*tired face * but we'll said

TheUpsetGirl:
what's her business with his financial status

ask urself that question!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
He has a point
But stipulating a particular amount is not it.
Our wants and needs are different
A lady may be earning 20k and she is comfortable and independent and another who may be earning 50k may not.

fact

Tessyama1:
Relationship expert, Joro Olumofin has advised single ladies who don't earn at least N150k a month to forget about marriage for now.

He wrote on Instagram;

"If you’re a single lady and you’re not earning at least N150,000 a month you shouldn’t be thinking about marriage yet. This is for your own security & sanity in marriage. Based on hundreds of mails I receive daily from posters. I’ve noticed a trend in behavior : Commitment before finances. Most ladies go into marriage with the hopes that the man will take care of everything . Some even see marriage as their way out of responsibilities such as paying bills, etc. A lot of married women are unhappy in their homes but can’t leave because they are not independent, some don’t even have transport money to go back to their parents house. Secure the bag first"

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/lady-earning-n150k-month-shouldnt-marriage-joro-olumofin.html

Cc; Lalasticlala

i agree but not in all context cause all fingers r not equal!!!

Joro is sha using her name for publicity

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
It's fantastic to be financially independent as a lady. You wouldn't have to beg for everything from your man. You could go to the spa, salon and swipe that card. Unless your husband decides to be paying you monthly... Men do that especially igbo men.

the feeling when u see something u like and u being able to afford it on ur own!! Such a swt feeling

Atleast u got justice!

placeofallure:
Well said! Sis as you urge our brothers to go out and go make money. Sisterly advice for you too. Go and improve on your grammar.
We say:
*Well fed, not well feed.
*Love, money and sex go not 'goes' together.
*Don't know, but the word 'allusion' as used by you doesn't suffice. Look up the meaning in the dictionary.
*You kept typing 'atleast' No, It is 'at least'
Always pay attention to these things, they define you as a person and at times, determine who asks you out or not. This can put off some good guy you know.

Now to the issue at hand, there's no rule that says a guy must be responsible to you and provide those things you listed. He may do it if he so wish but he's NOT under any obligation to do them. I love for ladies to be independent. You can treat the fvck up of any guy when you are.

No offense intended Sis.

non taken!! I am a working lady!! Seen the errors already but decided to leave it that way! Thanks 4 the correction but it's staying that way!! I still stand by my opinion!!! Good day!!

donstan18:
A self acclaimed e-goat feminist who should correct and confront OP on the fact that women should be self-dependent did nothing but to laugh.

u guys made me laugh with the other comments n more so this babe knows that already!! She has been on my threads typing all sort of things!!! So all i can do right now is laugh!!! She is just making threads for attention,and i can't give her such attention!!!

donstan18:
Coming from a self-acclaimed e-goat feminist.

Lmao

TheUpsetGirl:
you're not a feminist, please stop abusing that word

i am my dear!! Good night

pcguru1:
lol be honest if you were given the same condition would you adhere knowing it's something beyond your power. anyway it's OP wahala

What's wrong abt it

lefulefu:
total crap. @ op... Since she's issuing threats of dumping him then he should take the initiative and break up with her. That's what a real man does.anything other than this will have an effect on his self esteem.he does not need such a woman in his life.

DJHANDSOME:
The Bible writers should have used the word "Respect" Instead of "submission" .

God bless you

Lol they have started!! Give him advice jor

Lol they has started!! Give him advice jor

Ladyhippolyta88:
This is different from what I was told.
I hated biology economics was manageable but because I needed a science and social science subject to complete my 9 papers.I was actually an art student.

me too!! Like me I wrote economics, commerce history biology as well, with the other 5, 3 were social science subjects!! Just so i could write the 9 papers as well, but when trying to get into the university, they only looked at those 5 plus the fact i did history too!!

pcguru1:
Or you mean the other way around ? it's the lady threatening to break up with the guy. Does she have a job if she does she can breakup and move on, if that's what she wants.

but she didn't say she was breaking up with him now naw!!! If she has lost hope she would hv broken up with him immediately!! I dont know if she has a job , but if she doesn't she should!

This is so fake!!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
As at then biology was compulsory.

then?? Like how many years agolol i dont think so!! U will study biology n economics o!! But thats not ur compulsory subjects to pass in waec!! Even people doing engineering don't need biology!! But they would still study it!!

Ladyhippolyta88:
There is no way she did not repeat that exam.You cannot fail biology and economics and not repeat WAEC.This is fake.

lol not true!! It depends on ur focus!! If u r an art student u don't need both of them! N she did law so she is an art student!! The 5 main subjects in art r maths,English, lit,crs,govt

Will breaking up with her guarantee him a job??

Like hello!! She has been dating the guy 4 more than 2years n he is still jobless?? For her to give him time,that means she still believes in him! Tell ur friend to be patient, things ain't easy for her either!!!

I get ur frustration.., but its still Very wrong to hit ur mum!!! Please don't do it again!! Be tolerant okay!! 4get abt these nairaland people!! Just ask 4 forgiveness n move on!!

Lol

Amarabae:
Feminism don't want any gender to submit,
We want the word submitting to be eradicated.
That's all.

i hate the word submission