Politics › Re: Jafaru Mohammed Steals ₦10.9 Billion From NIA Ikoyi N13 Billion Loot - Gazette by Sijo01(f): 8:43pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
|
|
|
Events › Re: Friends Show Up With Mountains Of N20 Notes For Their Guy’s Event (Photo, Video) by Sijo01(f): 8:39pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Excess work for those that picked the money. |
Romance › Re: She Surprised Me With This As A Pre- Valentine Treat by Sijo01(f): 11:41am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Waris this biko  |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating Girls In Their 20s And 30years by Sijo01(f): 9:11am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Arkmanbuddy: You only date women for sex. There's no way you would have written this nonsense if you dated those ladies for reasons other than just sex. Coming from a guy, may wisdom never depart from you. As for you op, continue with your sexual exploration. And pray that money you're beating your chest over saves you one day when the repercussion of your actions hugs you tight. |
|
Family › Re: My Mother’s Behaviour Is Unbearable by Sijo01(f): 12:13pm On Feb 11, 2022 |
Too much toxicness in one person.
Op, your best plug is to avoid her completely as you've already started.... Look for a way to be part of your siblings life without involving her. |
Science/Technology › Re: Black 555.55-carat Formed 2 Billion Years Ago Sells For $4.28 Million At Auction by Sijo01(f): 9:19pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Too much money |
Education › Re: Final Year UNILORIN Student Expelled For Writing Exam For His Girlfriend by Sijo01(f): 6:42pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Mumu man! Na you love pass. |
Family › Re: ‘I Be Nobody’s Ex’, Olori Naomi Breaks Social Media Silence by Sijo01(f): 5:42am On Feb 10, 2022 |
|
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kakwenza: Ugandan Journalist & Govt Critic Flees Country after torture (Graphic) by Sijo01(f): 8:44pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
 Africa my Africa |
Romance › Re: Why Do I Get Tired Of Relationship? by Sijo01(f): 4:54pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Spirit wives haf sit down on top your matter  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Impregnating Your Wife Is A Sin, Ask God For Forgiveness — Preacher Says by Sijo01(f): 4:33pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
Mumu man  |
Family › Re: My Neighbor Na Woman Beater by Sijo01(f): 1:30pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Arrange with your neighbours and some street men; you guys should tie him to a pole and give him a little of what he's been dishing to his wife..... Yeye man like am. |
Politics › Re: Angiama Community Residents Happy As Automobiles Arrive For The First Time by Sijo01(f): 1:25pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
Small state with big natural resources yet lacks development.
Thief politicians everywhere |
Family › Re: Lost My Girlfriend To Death by Sijo01(f): 4:47pm On Feb 06, 2022*. Modified: 4:37pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
My condolences op.
Avoid being alone for the time being. Hangout with your friends in their spaces for the main time.
May God console you. |
Family › Re: How Do I Apologize To My Wife? by Sijo01(f): 5:47am On Feb 04, 2022 |
gazeup1: I created this new handle to hide my identity.
I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.
I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.
After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.
Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.
I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.
I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.
She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.
Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there. You wanted her to braze up by insulting and talking down on her  foolish men everywhere. You think you're the alpha and omega. See the way God humbled you. You're lucky you have a good wife. God sees her heart that's why He blessed her over you. You're such an arrogant jerk. |
Politics › Re: Suspected Cultists, Drug Users Arrested In Delta (Photos) by Sijo01(f): 5:37am On Feb 04, 2022 |
This is one of many in our society |
Politics › Re: Okorocha: Buhari Has Promised To Take Up My EFCC Case by Sijo01(f): 5:28am On Feb 04, 2022 |
Nonsense people |
Politics › Re: FG Uncovers 123 Companies, 96 Boko Haram, ISWAP Financiers by Sijo01(f): 1:17pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Uncover? When will their names/organisations be published? |
Family › Re: Nigerian Man Serving In US Army Surprises Wife At Work After 11 Months (video) by Sijo01(f): 1:12pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
So sweet  |
Fashion › Re: Why You Should Not Keep Dreadlocks If You're Not Ready: The Dos And Don'ts. by Sijo01(f): 8:55pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Rocked this hair for 6 good years  |
Crime › Re: Benin-Auchi Expressway: Troops Neutralise 3 Kidnappers, Recover Arms by Sijo01(f): 8:52pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
See this one belle!
They cannot afford to feed well from the blood money they make. Only hard drugs, nothing else matters to them.
Kudos to the NA
|
Crime › Re: Benin-Auchi Expressway: Troops Neutralise 3 Kidnappers, Recover Arms by Sijo01(f): 8:49pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Why won't kidnnapers and other elements turned Benin-Auchi high way to their safe haven when a federal High way is like a road that leads to a local farm settlement
|
TV/Movies › Re: Pete Edochie To Feature In 'The Pledge', A Prince UC Ingawa Movie (Photos) by Sijo01(f): 9:49pm On Jan 28, 2022 |
 Dude respectfully went to hand over the script to the veteran in the comfort of his home  |
Business › Re: What Business Can You Do With ₦400k In Nigeria Today? by Sijo01(f): 5:28am On Jan 23, 2022 |
WHITELIGHTER: a family friend is into it...and its profitable Mind if I send you a pm? |
Business › Re: What Business Can You Do With ₦400k In Nigeria Today? by Sijo01(f): 4:26pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
WHITELIGHTER: Get plantain from South(Edo State) and supply to PH and Bayelsa Are you into it? |
Fashion › Re: My Dressing For Work Today With Possible Undies by Sijo01(f): 11:00am On Jan 21, 2022 |
Can someone please explain the meaning of this thread |
Crime › Re: Suspected Vandal Electrocuted While Stealing Transformer Cables In Kano (Graphic by Sijo01(f): 9:50am On Jan 20, 2022 |
Instant judgement. Good radinace. |
Politics › Re: List Of Politicians And Media Organizations That Defied The Twitter Ban by Sijo01(f): 9:26pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Commendable! |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Last Did You Attend House Fellowship? by Sijo01(f): 9:34am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Hmmmm |