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@ mcube.
You should know that I've got loads of stuffs to say to you . But believe me, people will peep in. Let's just keep the conversation strictly between you and I.  

How come we are doing the same thing (fasting). mcube, sincerely, I saw you in my dreams yesternight For the dream, you carry stick they pursue me, u come dey shout say "I must marry you". Me self just dey shout say "I no dey do, unless you pay me money"

@ mcube. Se you no say you use insult abuse me? I'll not insult you sa. But I never said I wanted to marry you . I was just guessing your plan could work. Infact e go work by god's grace shouting amen severally

Luxoire. Why do you feel I shouldn't think hard Do you know something I don't know?

@ Luxoire

thinking hard

LAI LAI!!!!!!! I love myself too much to take a bullet for anyone o. Why should I die for someone (even my parents and sisters). I can't o . Everybody should carry their own cross and die their own death a beg

@ Luxoire.

You know what, I respect her so much, and the respect has been there since University days. And it's not that I don't care for her, I really do. I get to drive some miles from my office to take her home from work a times. She's the only woman I've ever cooked for. Whenever I know she'll be around me, I make sure none of my "salala" girls dissappear.

It's just that I really can't believe in love. And am of the opinion that she should just come out. Believe me ,we run things and we are very close and intimate. She should just admit. (she always say am unpredictable). I could change for real if she will just open up

@ Hazel eyed and mcube.
Na wa for you oo. Who told you am old enough to get bothered? I'm not bothered one bit. I'm just wondering why mcube go dey wish say make person dump me . And believe me, the way you are talking, it seems you wish me the same thing mcube is wishing me. Well, I know your plan both (mcube and hazel eyed). You pray she leaves me, so that two of you can(_) . I really don't mind you plan you know?

@ Luxoire.

Why are you dancing now? . Believe me, I am 98% sure of what she feels for me. She wants me badly (am not "feeling", but she's scared. If you ask me, I think she's got every reason to be scared. I could be non-chalant about somethings. I don't think I love her(but I definately care about her), I am just "tripped" about her sturborness and intelligence. I just want her to open up the feelings she's bottling up inside her to me. I want her to just admit the fact that she's in love.

Please don't dance this time around

@ mcube.
Why would you wish me that? And what makes you think I don't need a girl? My parents are on my neck you know?

It's possible. I had once been in "love" with about 4 ladies.

@ Luxoire.
Pal, believe me you be witch (joking). There's this babe I've been running her programme for almost a year now, but wouldn't just compromise her stands. The annoying thing is that we do "stuffs" together (if you know what I mean?) but still wouldn't "jell". If you ask me, I know she cares so much about me(perhaps love),and I care for her too but not love her(don't really believe in that). We are so close that she comes to my office everyday after closing from her office too. she calls everyday and night. I guess her problem is just that she knew me as a naughty boy while we were in the University (we went to tha same university), but am a changed person now (se bi you know?). In addition, we work in the same sector (guess she must have been hearing stories too).

Walahi, that chick fit make me marry earlier than I planned o. I just love her sturborness.

@ All. I beg you no shook mouth oo. Na Luxoire I dey follow yan oo

@ hazel eyed

na wa 4 ur laser eye ooo. Ijust dey do research  

Ye. your pops's "babalawo" . No mind ur pops, na so "babalawos" dey behave

Bebe2007. no mind them "gbeboruns".  The who knows himself jare. You've not really answered the post. Please do.

No one can tell if they are trully their father's child or not. All of us could be products of drivers ,gardeners, househelps and the likes . Don't you thinks so pal

My hands are clean oooo. I no dey ontop of you oooo. I can't be on top of you via the net now.

@ poster. They want money , care and good sex.

@hazel
Am not selfish

@ mcube.
Please mention.

@ poster.
My guy, you can still put things back the way they should be. You'll only have to follow the theory of "iron sharpenth iron". This is what you do. Start to cheat her all over again, my guess is that, when she realises you are cheating her again, she'll be knocked off. She'll feel hurt and not justified like she's feeling right now. When you are sure she's now hurt again, you now try as much as possible to be caring.

WARNING. In as much as this could work, it could destroy whatever little thing she must feel for you right now. So you must be ready to take the worst. If you ask,I think you should try, afterall you are already loosing her.

No, that just increased my curiousity! Why are you not ready now? If you ask me I don't think you are under-aged. Perhaps, you are just taking a break after a not too good experience. That's what most ladies do

@mcube
Sorry if I struck the wrong cord. I wasn't being funny with you, I was only trying to analice things with my silly brain. Please and please don't be offended. but if I may ask, why are you not interested? Just curious you know

@ mcube.

So when they told you they were only kidding, how do you feel? As in, were you dissapointed they were kidding with you? If you ask me, I'll believe they were kiding with you. Because I feel you've provided them with a better platform by telling the truth that you are single. So if they are realy interested, they should start firing on all cylinders now that the coast is clear. Or what do you think?

about you, if it's true that you are married with kids, then my guess is that you still desire some more fun. Perhaps you are not getting enough from your marriage. Please don't think am getting insultive o. I will never insult you. I'm only trying to analize your painting. And if you are not married yet, my guess is that you desire someone seriously.

what do you think?

Best way to deal with a lady is to act non-chalant towards her a times. Makes them wanna prove themselves. It worked for me so it should work for others too. You don't have to always act like you care for her too much even if you really do. Gbam.

@ mcube

What actually did you tell the three guys? Am beginning to get confused. Just explain better and let me try to get into their psychy, and perhaps yours too

@ breeolan.
Got your perception and I quite believe in the law of karma, but definately not scared of karma. I really believe that I don't do what I can't take. Like you painted, if the lady falls for another man, that simply means she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. And believe me life must go on. But in all sincerity, I will do whatever will make me happy and fufilled, as much as my partner is in agreement and happy.

@ mcube.
I really don't think the three guys that want to date you has done anything wrong. Everyone should have the right to express the he or she feels. It's left for you to accept them or turn them down. What if they are gonna pep your life up? Am not encoureging you to indulge in infidelity, but just trying to see life from another angle.

To be honest, I guess I'll go out with the young married woman. If I trully care about her and I feel she feels the same way about me too, then I believe we should give it a try. Really, I believe this life is too short to deny oneself loads of happiness. If we are both happy about it then, nothing should stop us. not even the supposed husband.

Mellow what are you talking about here. Can't you read the topic? It's written in plain and simple english now!