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rasxx:
I don't need a good cook, anyone can be hired for that, I need companionship, a friend. If she spends all the time cooking how do we bond? Knowing also that you need to hustle ,Plus children wahala.

You're not speaking from experience.

One of the things that qualifies a woman to be called a wife and not just a woman is in her ability to cook properly well and take care of her household.
Even if your arrogance and pride won't make you submit to your husband as a woman, at least you should submit to your stomach and children.
If as a woman you have to be visiting Park N shop every now and then to buy soup, that will be a shame to you on the long run!
Once a woman can't cook properly it simply means she had an incomplete parenting while growing up, and no matter how you try to cover it up one day you'll run out of excuse.
Read the profile of Kamala Harris and you will see that one of the things she's proud of, is in her ability to cook very well and fill her chicken,
that's every woman's hope, joy, aspiration, fulfillment and pride. To be able to fill her chicken and fill it well!
Cooking is not a man's duty, a sensible woman won't even want a man choking her kitchen space, she wants to have all her freedom and do all her experiment in there. That's why some kitchen are better equipped and more comfortable than the living room.
Not saying the man can't help out as situation may warrant, that's common sense. But the kitchen belong to the woman!

Actually this is suppose to have been done long ago, service chiefs should not stay too long on that seat.
When you are a ruler and you rule well you are not doing your subjects any favour but yourself.
knowing the right thing to do and not doing it because of personal considerations is not the characteristics of a good leader.
A good leader will always listen to the yearnings of his people and act appropriately, not wait till situations are out of control
I know Femi will want us to rejoice about this and see it as the best thing ever to come our way, but what is there to be impressed about this announcement or celebrate when so many lives that could have been saved have been lost.

2 Tim 3:1-4

1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, [color=#000000]unholy[/color],
3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God

This will characterize the last days before Christ return.

Good to know. But int'l mall without escalator or moving walks, can't seems to see any there!

MelesZenawi:
MURIC should rise and Condemn this act of profiling their fellow Muslims..

These are dane guns used mostly by hunters and not Ak-47.

What if they came to SW for hunting and maybe the species of animals they specialises in hunting and killing all lives there.

He will never do that.

You can't be involved in what she's involved in and still be okay..She spew and spitted on God using the bible as ashtray while smoking, that's indirectly telling God to get out of here. Life lived on the fast lane is usually pathetic, such people are the most undesirable to live or company with.

Good decision. Probably to correct the ills, don't just sit down and complain do something. I only hope they won't add to the bad eggs eventually.

LMS1:
I Have Never Heard Any News Of This People (who are non-muslim)Giving Thanks Service In The Church abi them and pastor the beef?
Aliko Dangote
Mike Adenuga
Jeff Stefflon
Warren Buffet
Qatar Crown Prince
Tony Elemelu
Ned Nwoko
Bill Gates
Bezos Djovik
Hushpuppy
Forte Otedola
Alhaji Dantata
Mohammed RANO.

It Seems Religion And Poor People Do Blood Covenant!

They know how to connect with the deities to whom they owe allegiance without letting you know. .

Freestainworld:
Trump is now a Saint, they should just name him Saint something, so he can be worshipped.

He doesn't have to be to be used of God. Look at the scripture below, God can use anyone, once he sees the desire in you that align with his purpose.


Isaiah 45:1
"This is what the LORD says to his anointed, to Cyrus, whose right hand I take hold of to subdue nations before him and to strip kings of their armor, to open doors before him so that gates will not be shut:

Yet Cyrus was an heathen king, but has the heart to do what is right.

Igbochief001:
Homosexuality in the roman and greek empire was as high as it can get

But not in Israel.

Flamemignon1:
My God..... I can't stop laughing at your illiteracy. No, it's really alarming.... You still think this way in 2021 like really? Homosexuality is present in all animal species, next time do your research before you sound ignorant and baseless

Even if there are, are we animal?
Animal possess no eternal soul like we do.
They are not as rational and intelligent like we human do.
They lack sense of discerning between right and wrong like we do.
And if to enjoy gay lifestyle or status will you agree to trade places with any animal of your choice?

Zooposki:
Then leave Doyin Okupe to sit on his “fathers” bosom.

LGBT is a recent disease, during the time of Christ such things were relatively non-existent or else you get immediate death sentence. If Jesus were gay pharisees and many haters of his uncompromising lifestyle of righteousness( secret & open) would have exposed him. Rather they surrender their life to him even after his death, knowing fully well his righteous life to be way beyond ordinary, in other-word his testimony must be true. Judas Iscariot wouldn't have confessed to betraying an innocent blood if he was a hypocrite. Nathaniel another astute disciple who abhors guile and hypocrisy would have publicly renounce his follower-ship, with obvious reason. John was the disciple who lay at Jesus bosom(lap)-(a show of affection and appreciation to his maker having recognize that earlier), moreover James the elder brother to John would have called Jesus out if such thing ever happened. Infact in Israel sodomy and gay like pre-marital sex before marriage receives capital punishment. Human being weren't close to living like animal like we have it today, there was sanity then.

What a loss!
Give your life to Jesus many will think we are disturbing their peace in the cyberspace.
The world is a creepy place Jesus is the only answer to the world's ailment but whether humanity will listen before it's too late is another thing.

I pray she found grace to make her ways right with the Lord before her demise, only few people do at the time of death!

Heb 3:15
As it is said: "Today if you should hear His voice, do not harden your hearts, as in the rebellion."

2 Corinthians 6:2
(For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

People are yet to know that sin against the Holy spirit has no forgiveness.
A criminal eulogizing himself and reveling in his ungodly act instead of repenting of them, how then can they obtain mercy and forgiveness from the ever loving God?

alexvic12:
'Church wedding' isn't a part of our culture. The pastors can be called to add their own blessings during the traditional wedding, and then a marriage certificate Issued. Simple.

Is court marriage part of your culture? Was the first marriage in the garden of Eden traditional, court or ecclesiastic? It was ecclesiastic and by extension Churchy. This is because everything that was done is just a shadow of the main substance which is Christ. God said this is my beloved son in whom I am well pleased hear ye him. Ordinarily only Christ teachings should be binding on all, most of this other teachings are unnecessary deviations. Once parental consent is sought a joining in a holy wedlock in the presence of witnesses and prayer by spirit filled ministers of God should be enough. Our desire to stick to unnecessary traditions other than those expressed and approved by Christ in name of tradition by many communities and nations of the world, is the reason why occultic practices are common place. Just look at the traditional marriage requirements in every community and see all the nonsense included in their list and you'll know they are not serving God's intended purpose for marriage. God invented marriage not traditional people, and the true Church is the only body representing God on earth and recognized by him.

BusinessCity:
. Smiles. You will look back to my last counsel. Continue going to your ayeye and say it's church you're attending. When the time comes, you'll remember someone told you what you were attending was just a social gathering not a church


Spiritually malnourished believers. Tueh

Don't mind gullible religionist blinded by scripturally unfounded man-made teachings who deserve pity, unfortunately they think rational and enlightened believers are the ones in bondage. it's a real pity!

dancewith:
We have 3 types of marriages recognised in Nogeria

1. Traditional

2. Court

3. Church

Each is a valid form of marriage. What the church seeks to achieve is simply a blessing of the union. They cannot claim this wasnt already done at the traditional level or that God wasnt at the traditional marriage

The insistence that until the white wedding a marriage cannot be consummated is baseless and just a culture, rather than validity

I believe the young man can't claim to be ignorant of what's at stake, so why the surprise or unnecessary noise?
Biblically no church should join two people in a holy wedlock who are already living together prior or where the wife is already pregnant. So the man is doing them a favor by not letting one night enjoyment spoil their day of glory. There is no wedding ceremony that's as glorious as that of the church, the young man will thank God somebody helped him to tame his hormone after the d-day.

Humanoid01:
Oh you have no idea.

Don't mind children on this forum who are bereaved of any useful idea on marriage making bogus assertions everywhere!

The father has done the right thing. Is it not the right decision of the father that gave him the impetus to go for such a damsel? If the father had raised a carefree sex hawk would he have find her virtuous enough to want for a wife?
This is a generation that have been degraded to animal instinct because of uncontrolled sexual appetite, whats the essence of rushing to eat a food you will eventually eat and be tired of? If they both have agreed to have a church wedding then he should wait patiently until everything is culminated except he wants to stop at the traditional level which am sure is not the case here.

She loves you and you are not likely with the wrong person. You have refused to recognize your change of status, marriage is not for kids if you are not ready to be elastic, be called out of your comfort zone, be ready to sacrifice, be willing to accommodate and go the extra mile to increase your income. Take this seriously, at the early stage of marriage some unexpected painful adjustment will beckon on you to make which if you are not very careful may lead you to sum up marriage as a burden and a bondage, and may lead you to seeking a quick exit route which you may forever regret as there is no royal road to success.

My advise TO YOU:
Henceforth refuse to be pushed to air all that comes to your mind, you may regret it later and even if you don't your wife may forever find it difficult to forget such utterances.
Rome was not built in a day, don't regret your wife decision to live in a better apartment it may be a spring board needed to liberate you from your extreme conservative past. Live in your flat while you plan on your future bungalow, after all you have an understanding a supportive partner.
Even if she's not your perfect picture work on her with love, life is too short to live it in self pity and regret be a man.

What is the problem with Nigeria police? Are they so unrefined to the point they can't device better ways of tackling the menace of internet fraudsters without resorting to this kind of primitive way of chasing young boys around with vans and guns. Two precious life have been lost owing to their lack of tact, what if the relatives of this woman take laws into their hands as a result of this painful avoidable death of their loved ones. This is simply unacceptable as we yet to become an animal Kingdom. Also since Nigeria police now have evil ones outnumbering the good ones it is time to completely reform their mode of operation and review personnel mental fitness, otherwise the last Endsars protest may fizzle into nothingness compare to what any other protest may hold if the youth should be encouraged to take to the street again, so I hope the authorities are watching this persitent lawlessness. In the morning it was the case of two police officers trying to plant marijuana in someones car during their stop and search exercise with the intent to implicate them of a crime for which they are oblivious. How can it be well with people like this who have sold out their souls to do evil, the govt need to reform or disband this current crop of Nigeria police and come up with a better way of policing the nation that will be acceptable to all.

wink2015:
Your point is correct.

But Shehu Sani one of their northern ex-senator together with Buhari are having a different interpretation.

They both see Akeredolu order to the herdsmen to quit Ondo state forest as an order that they should leave Ondo state and move to the north.

Like I said earlier on in my previous post, Buhari will not be at the presidency to pamper and spoonfed his fulani kinsmen forever.

He will quit public office in three years time having exhausted his last and final term as allowed by the constitution.

Has Buhari thought about what will happen next to the herdsmen when he leave the political office in 2023?

Will he abandon his cattles in Daura and be fighting for his kinsmen whenever they are in a crisis situation?

The right thing should be done irrespective of whose ox is gored. Are Igbos and Yorubas involved in illegal or criminal activities home and abroad not handed
a deserving punishment when caught, So why should criminal Fulanis be treated differently? Hope senator Sanni and Mr Garba shehu will be ready to harbor them after the expiration of this tenure.

SeriouslySense:
Are you sure, God who created all things, know what happens to the spirit of these animals, its possible that God will restore these animals if he recreated the earth.

I would like to see my Dogs in heaven or the new earth, i loved those animals like a parent.

Everything in eternity is better than you can ever imagine. Just make sure you are there, that's what's most important!


1 cor 2:29
However, as it is written: "What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived" -- the things God has prepared for those who love him--

Rgade:
They are praying to the same man that is going to cast them in hell. Shebi Bible said that hell is meant for dogs.
What a god.

Don't be a renegade. Where did the bible mention that?

geoworldedu:

This is funny Sha.

In other news

Reality
Friend: Come and follow me to somewhere.
Johny: My daddy died and I will be going for his burial tomorrow.
Friend: Let the dead people bury your daddy. Just come and follow me.
Johny: (shoots friend in the head in anger).

Story
Jesus: Come and follow me.
Anthony: My daddy died and I will be attending his burial tomorrow
Jesus: Let the dead bury themselves, but just come and follow me.
Johny: Wow, what a great philosophical reply from Jesus Christ my Lord.

So what exactly is your point?

All creature acknowledge and reverence God and also obey him expressly.
It is only we human who disobeys and doubt the existence of God.


Psalm 150:6
Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord

Seems some of are our so called elite are way behind news update.
It has been made crystal clear by Ondo state govt. in today's news that the order was not for them to vacate the state but for the sole purpose of having all the herders in their forest reserve properly registered. This will enable the govt to identify the genuine herders from criminal elements hiding under the cover of cattle rearing to perpetrate evil. If they refuse this exercise it means they are all criminal element masquerading as herdsmen.

bukatyne:
@bold:

I tried to understand this, I couldn't.

A husband asks his wife: 'who should come for omugwo' and wifey said 'her mother'


Let's assume the husband wanted his mother to come over because he is the man/it is her right/or whatever:

Was the husband not supposed to state he wants his mother to come because of X, Y Z?

How can you ask your wife a question, she gives a 'wrong' answer and you start to fight and ruin things?

Does it make sense to you?

You are talking as if it's a journey from East to West or North, It's not so applicable if it has to do with travelling abroad. Moreover the wife would have sorted out with her husband the best option for keeping their baby once she resumes back to work, the decision to bringing her mum abroad as the only feasible option was her personal resolve. Since she already concluded by herself that taken the child to daycare will be too expensive, will bringing her mum over be anyway less? Moreover the bible admonish us to learn to listen more and talk less, if she hadn't been a talkative as rightly agreed by her, she would have understand the question to be a trap, but over familiarity made her to forget there is something called rhetorical question?

Your marriage was happy, exemplary and a roller coaster until 5th of May 2020. So what went wrong?
This is a big lesson to many ladies, and that is why God said submit to your own husband as unto the Lord it solves a lot of problem.
To the OP, since you are abroad based the issue of bringing someone over to help out with child's care ought to have been discussed amicably with your spouse with the man having the final say as to who to bring over.
Wisdom is profitable to direct, when the man asked which of the mothers you wanted over you would have simply ask him to decide that.
Telling him your mum with grinding audacity, was of course a big slap on his face, and that's the reason for the name calling.
Moreover since the cost of bringing her over will most likely rest on his shoulder, giving him the right to decide if not on who to bring but at least express his preferences will not be too much to ask for. Women should learn to seek their husbands input on important family matter and also await their decision, this will solve a lot of problem in the home!

Great feat!
Good to ascribe all success to God, she's wise doing so by holding the word of God publicly & unashamedly!!
But mission accomplished? NO!
One phase ended, many phases to follow!!!

On a serious note NEPA is the worst and most corrupt institution in Nigerian who can hold you hostage and deman compulsory payment whether or not you consume their power, else they put you in perpetual darkness and either way you loose. They are more stinkingly corrupt than police, despite police ranking extremely high in public corruption perception.