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VeeVeeMyLuv:
even University sef,

Who do u think are those people who used to carry matrass upandan?

I am not talking of during the period of the beginning of a new session o....

But right in the middle of the semester especially during weekends. These ones must be Advanced level bedwetters, or stoolers as the case may be.

But that does not absolves the alleged perpetrators of this dastardly act of wrongdoing.

All these are looking like lies to cover-up wrong doing.

The accused senior students must be investigated thoroughly and brought to book to serve as a detterent to other nasty deviants.

They probably beat and ridicule the boy on several occasion due to his dirtiness which may not have sit well with him, haven been used to over pampering. But if the doctor report claimed his anus was not broken, why does the mum want it broken by force, or is it to claim charges?
If it was a case of normal regular discipline devoid of sexual molestation, no matter the punishment meted out to them such attitude can never cease in a boarding house, senior students will always want to prove their superiority over the junior ones. Even yourself can tell how much of those power you exerted while in school, it's one of those juvenile exuberance that can hardly be wished away anywhere in the world. Bullying a junior one is what I don't subscribe to but disciplining with the intention to correct to me is perfectly in order. I was a House captain during my days so all this things are not new at all to me, they are normal bh lifestyle that can't be wished away anywhere.

shallomtr:
her own doctor report is out, no broken Anus

She refused the doctors report. How can you go to a boarding house where you attend prep till late in the night, and must be up latest by 6 a.m in preparation for the days activity and still be expected to look like a low budget yokozuna baffles me. Probably the mum thought bh is a playground where children are dumped, feed all through the day, bathed and diaper changed, lullabied to bed to wake up whenever the child chooses. Those who have gone to command day boarding school can tell you what real discipline is all about, if she takes the boy there by the end of the year her mouth will be shut forever.

otokx:
It would have been better he kept quiet; which one is bend nyash?

It sound strange to you but it's not so strange in a bh btw a senior and a junior where there is a denial of wrong doing that involves physical confirmation. If not because the world has turned upside down, in most boarding house of those days male students take their bath openly and sometimes together without a single string attached, I mean when no body even knew what is called gay or feel any attraction to each other. Moreover the guy asking the other to bend down are all children, 13 or 14 to 11 are all still children who may not know how to utilize their authority appropriately.

StagethemTVee:
Any straight child of 13 years old without gay influence and exposure will not ask another male of 11 years old to bend over to inspect his anus feel normal doing such. When a child poos, even a younger child, the parents will not ask him/her to bend over to inspect the anus. Only co-gays will not see the absurdity of such an act. That information from the accused mouth aone is enough for a good lawyer to nail the accussed.

Have you attended a boarding school before?

If you've been to a boarding school before you'll know how disgusting it is for an underage student who still wee-wee to be annexed to your bunk area, not to even talk of sharing same bunk with such a person. It is usually an irritating and disgusting situation that result in the intake of foul odor and when it becomes persistent can't but lead to erratic display of anger against such bunk mate. I heard that the test conducted by the family doctor showed that the boy was not sexually molested, but the mum summarily dismissed the result, as it doesn't suit or tailor toward her narrative or expected outcome.
I think the solution is for her to withdraw the child and take him to Regent School or NTI Abuja for a quick check. A child that has not stopped defecating or wee-weeing has no business going to a boarding house, for even if the school can cope with such what about other student who might not be so disposed.
Boarding house unlike day care is not a dumping ground where busy parent dump their ward without checking on them knowing fully well their state of mental development. This is how some parent transfer their child's moral obligation to the church believing the church should help train their child while they do nothing at home to encourage such change, and when things go wrong they heap a load of blame on the church and the pastor without apportioning a single blame to themselves.

Raalsalghul:
Blood of Jesus!

Stop screaming the blood of Jesus on irrelevant news, if you take it for granted it won't work for you when you need it. Do have a discerning mind when it comes to spiritual matter.

Righteousness2:
Foolishness abounds In The Heart of a Child but the rod of Correction will drive it far from her.

This Sister needs to be Beaten with many stripes.

Not Everyone you see looking Normal is Normal.

Righteousness, this is funny!
But on a serious note some of this girls needs the old testament whip to reset their brain so they wouldn't perish. Only few understand the agony of hell, they act woke until they are lost forever. May God have mercy on this untoward generation.

SavageMaster:
Well...the rent increase is expected, bearing in mind the times we're in. However, he should have given notice of the proposed increase around September/October last year, instead of waiting till January.

You may not succeed in getting him cancel the increment.

Two options I see here:
1) Ask him for more time to pay up the balance. Since you've been paying your rent on time, I guess he'll oblige.

2) You can calculate the number of months the amount you've already paid will cover, based on the new rent. Once it elapses, you pack out. However, you should discuss this with him, to be sure both of you are on the same page.

3) Well, you may still ask go ahead and ask him to hold off with the increment, but I guess he also increased the rent for everybody, not just for you. Whether he'll grant your request or not, I can't tell. But you have to discuss maturely with him

The increment is to take effect from 2022.

Golan007:
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It is always Africans that bear untold curses.

Read below, God is no respecter of any man.

2 peter 2:9-13

9 The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished:
10 But chiefly them that walk after the flesh in the lust of uncleanness, and despise government. Presumptuous are they, selfwilled, they are not afraid to speak evil of dignities.
11 Whereas angels, which are greater in power and might, bring not railing accusation against them before the Lord.
12 But these, as natural brute beasts, made to be taken and destroyed, speak evil of the things that they understand not; and shall utterly perish in their own corruption;
13 And shall receive the reward of unrighteousness, as they that count it pleasure to riot in the day time. Spots they are and blemishes, sporting themselves with their own deceivings while they feast with you;

Goldbw122:
Don't mind my error sentence am very angry......one of my friend make big promises on December 7th and we where talking and gisting, by dec 24 he was dead, he sleep e nor wake up, so let me ask you are question for all these prophesies, that pastor in that church, did he know the bad things that will happen to his member of his church? the negative things and prevent the situation from happening, I don't just understand all this prophesies that are talking about oooo, the coronavirus virus that is killing here are there did any pastor prophesy about it that it will happen ? and my beloved friend make your soul rest in perfect peace did any pastor prophesier that he will die that watch night of Christmas? abeg e make people just they live their life jor, and forget who nor prophesier and who nor prophesier...

That you didn't know something exist does not mean it doesn't exist.
Sometimes God does not reveal anything to us , but rather admonish us to live right. If you heed this admonition prophecy will be a plus.
God already warn you to desist from idolatry, adultery, fornication, taking what belong to others, all uncleanliness (pornography and masturbation), drunkenness, homosexuality and lying. If you refuse to do this basics he will tell you nothing more. Sorry for the sudden of your friend, but it's not the pastor's fault for everyone is a priest before God. Pastors are only there to guide, provide leadership, administer control and spelt out in clear terms the mind of God. You are responsible for the kind of life you live and your eternity eventually. There are young people in some Churches who are not interested in living clean, all they want is join the choir and sing, seduce one or two people, commit fornication at random, some even do it right into the new year and you think God will lower his standard. My friend, Live clean and watch over your life and you'll be safe fromn the wrath to come.

This same will rant if the govt refuse to reel out their budget plan for a year. Where there is no vision the people perish.
The Bible admonish us not to despise prophecy, but it must be weighed in the light of the scripture.
Even in the old testament people do go to true prophet like Jeremiah to know the mind of God.
However if they have idolatry in their mind God will answer them according to their idol.
As it has always been there are true and false prophecy, but once you have the spirit of God in you this can be easily discern.
Prophecy help to guide a nation, individual and family if its coming from a true servant of God, where sin prevails repentance is required in a specific term.
With false prophets there are usually countless deviation from the truth of the scripture and concentration on irrelevances.
And where the life of a certain prophet contradict the word of God, like one who just divorce his wife or wearing a Jerry curl or a prophetess on bum shot you can be sure of the spirit at work.

For those running their mouth around against ministers of God, not discerning between the holy and the profane, you just might be inviting some untold curses and pain on yourself this year. So learn to look well this year before you leap, so that things will not be unnecessarily hard for you while you run from pillar to post without knowing the genesis of your problem.

slimghost:
FB can disable your account if repeated complaints are made on certain issues. Leant that today.
All assumptions. Why is it taking the church so long to investigate and make public their findings on same issue?
Why please?. Have you read the boy’s hospital test report?. The doctors just stated that there was no infection but conveniently left out the sodomy part.
When you support evil, evil will visit your doorstep!

Even when she'd circumvented the whole process by escalating to the state govt instead of allow the school authority conduct their investigation and take appropriate action where necessary. Her impatience also led her to jump pedal by boycotting the state effort and running to social media. How do you expect the school who themselves are operating under govt approval overide the police and the state govt, thourough investigation entails a lengthy process and so requires patience. Once your case is in public domain and undergoing investigation you will have to wait for as long as it takes to conclude the investigation. Even in advance countries like US, some investigation can last a decade.

neonly:
Lawyers can be compromised hope you know dat
But social media goes a long way and it never forget
See d way population go reduce for the whole deeper life school

Fatal assumption!

The man that has been facing fierce opposition of various kind since time immemorial, he doesn't even keep offence against anyone but weep for those going to hell. You can be sure he sees far from a different perspective than what this woman is seeing. Instead of seeking audience with the man of God explaining her ordeals and seeking for justice which will be accorded her if her claim are found to be legitimate, she prefers going on social media to make more and more incoherent allegations. How does a kumuyi in lagos know what is happening in Uyo? Unfortunately even Blessing who did worse than this during the lockdown never had her account deactivated, is it this one that will now make kumuyi to instigate the deactivation of her account?
If she is been sponsored by enemy of the gospel and righteousness, then she should know that even one million demons already know kumuyi wont bow down for the devil and their human allies, whatever means they may try to exploit, woefully they will fail in Jesus name.

Look at the way people are commenting nicely about this unfortunate incident where skin will be touching skin freely and the same will be circulated through the flowing waters. But let it be a religious gathering where all rules are strictly adhere to, even with that the abuse and name calling would have filled up to 5 pages or more within a short period, some will even be asking some blasphemous question. This is the spirit of Antichrist at work in many lifes,

When somebody does this kind of thing you know there is nothing up-stair, if it is done by same person often you know there is an underlying ailment in need of urgent attention. But when it is done by a particular group of people with same identity too often it means there is a source to their common problem beyond the ordinary, and usually if you can see through the eye of the spirit you will notice the devil behind all this. He has bought majority of our women to his side and clinically wipe off their conscience to feel no guilt, senses to feel no shame and mind darkened to eternal judgement against their present misdeed. Literally speaking ,majority of women are no longer in control of their lives, and seldom will they come to Jesus who alone can deliver them from the grip of Satan.

Romans 1:22

Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools,

No wonder God said some people are like brute beast meant to be cut and destroy, this is one of the reasons why many will spend their eternity in the lake of fire. Claiming woke, when they are nothing but misguided entity.

Modified: And to think that the whites themselves have regard for God and are wise is no doubt, but whenever there is anyone to spearhead rebellion such as this, they always find willing tools in the black who have proven themselves times and again to be inferior creatures and eternal slave to the whites. Whether in politics (Obama), entertainment( a whole lot), LGBTQ etc, they are always willing tools.

BigDawsNet:
Definitely bro....

We should pray for might success

There are lot of white American living permanently in lagos

The location is not the problem

Right connects is the main deal

And God's favor

Well, may be true. But at what ratio?
And remember most of those white you mentioned are not poor in the first place, they just want to explore, exploit and expand their frontiers.
unfortunately the same cannot be said of those migrating from here to yonder places.

BigDawsNet:
Omg

Nigerian are the same

Can't u read carefully

This story is not mine
But a random fact story


And getting a loan in the first world country is as normal as get a table water

In nigeria we see it as a big deal

Achieving those things as an average american without loans is impossible...

You can choose not to apply... No one will hold you

I'm sincerely not against your explanations, but my concern is that you guys over there have nothing to complain about knowing fully well your home country won't provide you a single of those opportunity offered you there.
If you have a friend who could help out of a difficult situation through lending, wouldn't it be better than an unwilling friend who would stand by and watch you swim in an ocean of hopelessly?
Two system, one offers hope on credit while you enjoy everything and pay back later. The other stands aloof showing less or no concern to your plight, I hope you understand?

BigDawsNet:
All you wishes to relocate will
come to pass

But I will like to share you a secret no one will tell you, until you arrive in a first world country...



”I just graduated college with $100,000+ in debt”! People clap,
celebrate, and even hug you.

”I just got married and spent $30,000+ for one day”! People
clap, celebrate, and even hug you.

“I just got a loan for $400,000 to buy my first home”! People
clap, celebrate, and even hug you.

“I just got a loan for $40,000+ for a new car”! People clap,
celebrate, and even hug you.

That’s $570,000+ in total DEBT that most people are drowning
in but they are feeling GOOD about it because they are
being CELEBRATED for it!!!


Goodluck

But were those debt forced on you or anyone else in the first instance?

How about not going to school and staying debt free in ignorance?
How about not marrying and staying debt free while maintaining your single status?
What about staying homeless and debt free?

Human want is insatiable, unfortunately no system world over is perfect.

Just thank God you live in a clime where there is available platform to actualize your dream.
If a system provides you with an opportunity to add value to yourself, increase your earning and live a better life, there is no reason to complain against such system.

She's gone overboard already and the man must be so unfortunate to have this as a wife.

This is what God says concerning end time people.

2 Timothy 3:13 But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived.

Instead of finding a way to help this young lad regain his self esteem asap, the mum seems bent on destroying whatever is left of it. Why not allow conclusive investigation where all culprit will be made to face the music, instead of pushing this innocent boy unnecessarily to the camera and further slow down his healing process. I went to the boarding house all through my secondary school life even when bh was bh, if the mother had played her role well in this age, this won't happen as everything would have been knit in the bud from the beginning through the boys uncooperative behavior, to give in to sexual molestation in such an environment means he lack home support to some extent, for if the threat from his abusers are overwhelming why not send and sos back home?

orookomama:
This story am about to tell you is personally about my life and I hope people will get some messages from it.

It all began 2014 during my school days, I was in a class reading for an exam when my friend offered me a drink. That day that drink was the beginning of my downfall. He offered me lacacera having no knowledge of the content I drank it bit by bit till halfway, OMG I felt like a stallion, my mood changed immediately, it was magical to the point that I smile and laugh for no reason.

I read my book from back to back I totally become free to the point that I couldn't sleep out of joy and excitement for no reason. Fast forward till the next morning I went for my exam and I wrote it well. I remembered everything I read and I am a kind of an introvert but that day I was very active I have no idea what am going to be.

Around 2 o'clock in the afternoon, my mood changed. I started feeling like am going to be sick so I went and take paracetamol which calm my body temperature and I went to look for him. I called him he said he was in the student center that I should meet him there so I met him and I told him I dont understand myself. He asked what happened. I told him common lacacera I took from him yesterday I felt like I was flying in the sky. I even told him how I remembered everything I read etc.

Then he told me are you stupid? How can you not know the difference between normal drink and a mixed one?
That question shocked me I became confused and I asked him please what do you mean. He told me that I used to criticize those that smoke, do drugs but I don't know anything about it so he wanted to tell me it's nothing bad that it helps him cope some challenges that he easily remember things he read when he take it. I was speechless, I told him am not happy that I promised myself not to join cultist activities drugs etc, he convinced me by telling me exactly how I feel when he gave me the drink. Fast forward i stop taking things from him until one day at the hostel we had a small birthday party and i collected a drink from him on my own due to what I felt when he gave me the first one I took it and it began to work. I became slow and very happy that I enjoyed my day very well.

From that day, I began to feel like to get high and feel good mood that was when he finally gave me tramadol 200mg. God I felt good very good and high from that point I started taking everything unserious even my school activities.

Finally, I became addicted to tramadol and it become hard to quit, I continued taking it everyday till 2015 that was when I decided to quit my God the first day I decided to quit cold turkey I nearly died I started vomiting felling cold hullecination and all sorts of sickness came all over me. I hard to go and take it again and instantly all my sickness stopped like magic happened. it become serious that I couldn't go a day without taking it twice or more I was expelled from school along side a guy that used to sell the drug to us. that was when my eye opened and I said I will do whatever it takes to leave it.

I started smoking cigarettes gradually just to be able to calm the urge of taking it. I know it was hell but I just wanted to stop I continued till I graduated to weed that was when I later started having mental issues I lost myself I lost focus and finally 2017 I totally ran made I didn't know what happened afterwards till ending of 2019 I started regaining bit by bit until I started becoming clean I started feeling shy and I changed untill am able to be here today to write this story.

Right now I know between good and bad but I know my life will never be the same again.

Please do away from drugs especially the cheap ones.

Thank God for your gradual recovery, God is not done with you yet so stay close to him and your initial resolve, it pays to stay true to your conviction especially against drug and its allies.
Your last remarks seems funny though, whether cheap or expensive, none is advisable to take, the end result is usually more colossal than the initial flying high in the sky. Drug whether cheap or expensive destroys, OP is a testament to this and many others, say NO to drug!

seborrhic:
Unless it's a borehole from outer space,but a borehole including tank installation doesn't cost more than ₦350,000;₦500,000 at most,if it's a place with low water table.
Is that what Ngige couldn't afford and didn't have in his house before MTN came into the picture?

Proposed to be built near his house not in his house. Probably for proper monitoring and control, you know they understand the terrain and must have weighed in on the safety of the project. Unfortunately If this is their fear,it is now justified.

Devil and his agents looking for how to get at the Man of God at all cost, this is just a cover-up, it definitely would fail just like it failed with blessing during the lockdown. How will sinners not rejoice at such news since he's always a thorn in their flesh and will not join any of their local or international secret societies like many preachers have secretly sold their souls to the devil. They can always plant their mole and instigate anything directly or indirectly to silence the voice of righteousness in the land it will fail woefully. Even during the great tribulation God will still send Elijah and Moses, the two preachers of righteousness to preach against their immorality, they will do all to kill them and will send gift when this eventually happens. No wonder why the nations of the world will be turned into hell eventually and the righteous will take over at last. They abhor anything righteousness and would rather prefer to beg for pardon in hell than make their way right here by embracing the truth.

StrikeBack:
Just Another Friday..


As una no go church this midnight, Shey una die

But people went to church, maybe the question should be to all those who choose not to go to church what have gained sitting at home.Have a change of attitude toward God this year, you need him more than he needs you.

Titus 1:15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.

Misterdhee1:
Lol, dates are man-made. God no send you o. It's just another sunset and sunrise.

Lies. Read your bible in the book of Genesis, it is clearly stated there that the moon and star and sun, night and day are for signs and seasons.


Genesis 1:14 And God said, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide the day from the night; and let them be for signs, and for seasons, and for days, and years:

pocohantas:
Awesome

If I had my way, I would ban all the churches constituting noise pollution in Nigeria.

I’m in my room, eating leftover rice with goat meat stew.

Name them.

thesicilian:
I hope the governor also informed the covid 19 virus to please wait first for them to finish their 'crossover celebrations' before it starts spreading again.

When the spiritual atmosphere surrounding an individual,family or a nation is polluted, it brings calamity and continual unrest. America and most of advance countries of the world have forsaken God and follow after Satan. America as it were are worst hit because as light bearer they are suppose to shine the light for other gentile nations to follow, but like israel they too have missed out of God's will for their lives. This pandemic like several other plague is the direct consequences of rebellion and disobedient, remember Egypt and when humanity turn to God in total repentance he will always forgive us and heal our land.

Hallabee1:
this has always been happening in boarding school...but i never expected it from deeper life school...

It can actually happen anywhere especially under a boarding house system like this, the rate and magnitude of occurrence is what may differ. Most of this ills lies with the children of nowadays, no matter what you tell them to do for their own good they'll still find a way around it. Look at Covenant university how strict they made their rule to prevent any form of lawlessness, unfortunately they labelled it a glorified secondary school. I hope the truth will be unravel and the culprits whoever they are are brought to book, this will help to deter any misguided senior who think they can go on maltreating the younger ones under them without a consequence.

Both are okay but one provides pure service while the other requires intense capital as a product market. If you are comfortable with driving why not give it a shot, driving school is a very lucrative business if it is well located. Accessory on the other hand can be a little creepy if you don't have the requisite knowledge and frequent supply.

Oizatobad:
CROSSING BRIDGE OR WHATEVER YOU CALL IT_ __PLS MY QUESTION IS THAT WHEN NIGERIA PEOPLE WILL CHANGE FROM THEIR WICKED WAY OF LIFE UNDER FOREIGN RELIGIOUS

Which of the religion do subscribe?