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How do you exclude religion from your affairs when the most important part of you that will remain for all eternity is your soul and spirit not the flesh you want to satisfy with fornication or premarital sex. Even without adding religious angle to your request, the moral implications of involving in premarital sex speaks volume. Come to think of it, will you be happy to have a daughter later in life that a man from the blue will be using her body to experiment with at will in the name of marriage which most times dont work out as a result of see finish.
Another is that during this premarital sexcapade the tendency for abortion is rife some of which may end up being badly handled thereby resulting in serious damage to some of the vital reproductve organs, with attendant future complications and unwarranted tears. Also the shame and guilt of not being able to keep yourself till your d-day is also a factor to consider before undertaken such inglorious journey.
Finally, your partner may forever be unable to trust you again to be a faithful partner since according to him if you can allow him to keep experimenting with your body even when you are not yet married he believes you can do it with any other person while keeping a sealed lip, in essence he sees you as a glorified LovePeddler, so your value diminishes greatly.

My advice:

Keep off premarital sex at all cost and earn your partners respect forever, even if he or she pester you your ability to hold your ground and not yield will make your partner hold you in high esteem, he will even be proud to talk about your uniqueness among his friend.
You don't have to know all this to do what God has already instructed you do. Flee from fornication whether with random men or future partner!
The best and most trusted antidote to premarital sex with the one with whom you're going to spend the rest of your life with is prayers, the more you pray before meeting him the less the desire to pull towards the flesh. And most importantly, ensure you avoid private visit to his house or frequent meetings at odd hours this may be a recipe for rape!

When we refuse to read our bible we easily fall prey in the hands of wolves in sheep clothing.
They may even take their deception further by adding the name or tittle of Christ, be careful!
Christianity is not a scam, you are the scam who refuse sound teaching of God's word!

Matt 24:4-5
And Jesus answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you.

For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many.

You should be more concern about where your never dying soul will spend it's eternity than a sin partner that will turn her back on you at the point of death. If you die in this current state you end up in hell for ordinary fornication. You can't find true love in lust, I don't know how breaking God's law make a man/lady feel woke. What you need is repentance not a relationship or relationship advice!

That type of alliance won't stand over Nigeria. A muslim muslim ticket is the height of notoriety and insensitivity I've seen so far by those who clamour for it.

DropsMic:
Which of the heaven

However many they are, there is always the truth and acceptable side, and this is through Jesus Christ alone. Come to think of it how many of the religious founder we have down through history are free from sin themselves? None except Jesus. How many of them died and rose again and still effectual like Jesus, none I suppose?
Following Jesus is going through the right embassy to obtain the passport that will safe land you in heaven, playing around is taking a risk that could land your soul in the hand of racketeer s. If there are more than one desired destination in the afterlife other than heaven, then we may decide to place a gamble on Hare Krishna,or budda,or shinto, or Hindu or even Islam. But here there is only one heaven, one God,one savior, one Holy spirit, in essence one destination which Jesus represent. So why will anyone be opened to such veracity of truth and still willingly involve himself or herself in the spiritual game of uncertainty. Seek the truth and don't allow yourself to be shortchange in eternity!

hopefulLandlord:
What if God actually exists but only atheists would be allowed into heaven? I find it bizarre how theists never thought about that possibility. like we die and God goes "HopefulLandlord, I exist but the test is to weed out those that would believe something on no evidence, you passed. you may pass"

I guess they would find the thought highly disturbing lol

You guys know the truth but just like deceiving yourselves, continue reality will dawn on you some day and every idle word you said here will be played back to your watchful and astonished eye. Just that by then your faith would have been sealed.

post=98141344:
Live your life babe.
You only live once.

This one na anywhere belle face.

Yaya Bello will be like is it my Kogi they are talking about or another? How long Will I have to tell this people there is no Covid-19 in my state. They should give me the address of the five people let me see.

ALL FOR NOTHING- BY EVOM

People that are feeding fat from the scheme won't let it be, even when it's glaring the scheme has outlived it's usefulness. While there are now better ways to engage the youths productively and still achieve the re-integration objective without loss of life or mass disorientation.

omojesu202:
hmnnn...
it is not easy jor

Is it any easier then to take sniper or die from suicide?!

How I wish this guys will know the eternal consequence of their actions and decisions. Seems once they attain some level of success they totally turn their back against God and his word. Unfortunately even if you are worth $100b at death this will avail you nothing in eternity, so better live right now and make your eternity worth the while.

If your boss refuse to assign you a portfolio, whats the big deal about that?
Provided no frosty relationship exist between both of you; then just sit back, enjoy your entitlements and stay loyal.
After all most political deputy positions in Nigeria don't really count, as they are mostly next to been idle!

Cashio:
all I see is a pretty 50 year old woman who still looks stunning and fit.
her personal life, past life and sense of irresponsibility is none of my business.

Her drunk and drive lifestyle actually lead to the death of a doctor, turning both mother and child a widow and an orphan. A road user who drive irresponsibly beside you on the high way should concern you as such irresponsible act of recklessness could have a spiral effect on your gentle self.
It's not every time you act unconcern, hence your own safety might be put in jeopardy!

Okoroawusa:
So you are God or his spokeswoman?

So you have to ask your biology teacher the shape of amoeba in the exam hall?

Psalm 7:11
God judgeth the righteous, and God is angry with the wicked every day.

That's what happens when you allow your child to train you in the way you should go instead of the other way round.
That cartoon to be plain with you is demonic and addictive, how I wish parents can have spiritual eye of discernment.
Take the heck from him, anoint him and cast out those spirit from him in the name of Jesus, see him change within two three days.
You need the power of God to do this so if you are not saved, get on your knee right there confess to Jesus and let him into your heart and family.
What you see is the spirit of addiction and rebellion coming to play gradually, even psychology can't help you get rid of such cos every deposit of unwanted spiritual matter can only be dealt with by the spirit of the Lord, if you fail to curtail this now he may drop it by himself after a while but the seed would have been fitly rooted for future manifestation.

It's like sowing a wind to reap a wild wind, don't allow that to happen get rid of it right away. Bless your heart of concern!

Celebrities so called adding God's name to their stupidity always get me bemused. Is it that they don't read the bible at all to know the God they are talking about does not approve of their lifestyle. How can you be scantily dressed with your vital parts exposed and still be mentioning God when he's actually angry with you.

Better than lying.

OLULAW:
Shut the fvck up. Preach that nonsense to the uneducated yet certificated folks in your neck of the wood. Calling me a naive atheist when I’m neither of those things demonstrates your cluelessness. By way of analogy, Donald Trump - the master pathological liar of the 21st century - has a followership greater than all Christians in the first 3 centuries of the Christian church. Does it make him and his stupid followers champions of the “truth”? No. Listen, all metaphysical truth claims (e.g. hell, heaven, God, etc., exists) are empirically unverifiable and unfalsifiable and therefore meaningless. To that extent, I am an agnostic. Finally, with a DPhil in philosophy from the second oldest university in the world, I need no tutoring or book recommendations from you. Reserve those for your indoctrinated folks.

Does an omniscient fellow like you need to go to school? So you were taught by so many learned people some of which are Christians and you come here to spew thrash. Poor you who know it all but can't tell the day you'll die!
Whatever your learning or exposure, the word of God said only a fool claim there is no God and since Jesus and God are one whatever you hold against him resonate to God, and that makes you nothing but a naive atheist!

Don't extend this virus to your family to evade your God given responsibility.
Help those with genuine need as much as you can, but your family first.
How does this even bother or concern me when I have no business with prostitute or desire a sinful partner to warrant such frivolous spending.
Jesus saves from all this kind of headache if you commit your life to him.
If everybody commit to God and mind their business like I do; sure there won't be a single prostitute joint or beer parlor anywhere, no company will be producing cigarette as there'll be no one to buy even a stick.

OLULAW:
Shut the fvck up, and stop being naive. This is 2021. The historical Jesus died a long time ago. Resurrection is nothing but a myth. Man created God (an imaginary entity) in his own image and not the other way round.

Hope your 10th generation will deny your existence and take it for a myth. If you are intelligent enough you'll seek out the veracity of such an historical figure whose life affects every generation past and present, in a most definite way, whereby most who were hitherto a drunk, addict, dye hard sinners had their life change completely. Josh MC Dowell was a naive atheist like you are, who was set out to discredit every fact about Christianity and Christ, but along the line of his research he discovered the available evidence were too weighty than can be discarded, he gave his life to Christ. If you continue this way and end up in hell, just a day there will open your eye to the infallibility of God's word, his eternal love, sovereign power and everlasting existence; Unfortunately it will be too late for you to repent and make amend.

I recommend this book for you-EVIDENCE THAT DEMANDS A VERDICT-By Josh MC Dowell

Perfect natural beauty and brain combine. No make up, no anklet, no jewelry, no undue exposure, yet charming and noteworthy.
This is simplicity at it's best!
Who said you can't be the best in your field while standing for God and raising his banner.
Righteousness exalt a nation, sin brings reproach ultimately!

OP this is God's counsel for you, once God reveals his express will on a particular subject no need to beat around the bush just do it.

Ephesians 5:11-12
Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret.

1peter 3:13
If you are trying hard to do good, no one can really hurt you

Don't be afraid of what her reactions will be, if you don't help her now if she ends up in the cell or in hell you will end up as an accomplice who will share in the blame of turning the other way when you saw her doing something wrong. Moreover if you help her now she may hate you just for a while, but mark my word she will later love and appreciate you much more when she recovers herself and learn to live right. For the innocent baby don't bother yourself much, God who feeds the sparrow will take care of her, it's better to stop her now cos sooner than later she will transfer same pilfering or thieving spirit to the innocent child and that will be worse.

NwaAmaikpe:



The problems you listed are actually your answers.

Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her.

Problem 2. Forgive yourself.
Because

Problem 3.
She is a single mom who is vulnerable.
It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution.
If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access..will you be able to forgive yourself?

She is young and attractive....you could as well start a relationship with her so that you can cater to her.
That way, what she steals is still within the family.

So in summary;
Mind your business and don't tell your brother. Forgive yourself for not telling your brother because the culprit is a single mother who needs to do what she is doing if she and her baby will survive.

Isaiah 5:20
Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.

The story doesn't add up to conclude a DNA test request orchestrated this whole collapse as insinuated. There seems to be critical and lingering issues that have even made the man absond from home. They both seems to be trying hard to garner public sympathy by being economical with the truth, for if your house is already on fire how do you tie that to your request for a DNA test on your own son, something no one can actually stop you from carrying out if you so desire? So what if at the end the result turn negative? He would have been justified showing the public the result proving the baby isn't his, that alone would have won the much needed sympathy. I think the truth side will be unfolded once the issue assume a full legal dimension.

Somebody was telling me a nasty thing like this today though not exactly,but all buck down to the effect of wanting to get rich and make it at all cost, unfortunately when the money has arrived the nonsense sacrifices for appeasement that accompany the do's and dont's is never something a sane human being can cope with. And this they must do and keep at it for the rest of their life.
Don't sell your soul for earthly success and possession its usually not worth it at the end, cos your cry will start right from this world till eternity, whether secretly cried or openly admitted.

Don't let the devil destroy your home further.
I don't think she meant a bit of those words, she only probably did that to get your attention when she'd exhausted all she thinks she could to do so.
She will go on her knee to beg you or do more when you're back, kindly forgive her and don't keep malice or grudge it will bring you low and down the pedestal of honor.
As a man when issues arises in your home be firm in your decisions, but walking away from your home when there is no major crisis that endangers your life is a no, no!
A man is the gate keeper of the home and on no occasion should you leave your duty post for the devil to gain control.
In conclusion a man must be known for something, your wife probably know you as someone who trust God and will never go the traditional way, but you betrayed that trust and standard when you introduced or recommended a medium of healing that is a log way from what she knew you for,
that act simply registered you in her heart as someone who lives a double standard life. Next time stick out your neck on what you believe and let the world and those around you recognize you for that. A real child of God could have taken those with such challenge to a real minister of God for prayers, in that you betrayed her spiritual trust.

As you make your bed so you shall lie on it. Marriage is not a scam, if you read a biology text to answer a physics question you shall fail woefully and must so do. Marriage is honorable in all things but when one or both party refuse to follow the owner's manual, it won't work for you. You start dating from secondary or uni while committing fornication all along, after 2 years the joy is off marriage because of see finish and trust issue that surely must set in everything collapses. Instead of diagnosing yourselves as the root cause of your problem you start shifting the goal post, blaming a time tested institution for your failure instead of repenting and work on yourself. Marriage is not a scam, the scammers are those who refuse to follow due process as highlighted by the one who from the beginning, said 'it is not good for a man to be alone' and that marriage is honorable in all things because two are better than one.
So, if your marriage is sinking because it was built on the sand, you need to turn around and seek for the rock AGES that never fails. In conclusion, instead of opting out and calling it a scam try to look inward and understand where things began to drift, prayerfully seek for divine wisdom and assistance to make it work again.

MadamExcellency:
But the devil wanted to make Jesus Christ rich. Have you forgotten?

Devil got money in quantums.

Remember, whoever loves silver will never be satisfied with silver, same with money.

Isn't that what he's trying to point at, that although money is good but should be made the right way.

GofuckYourself:
You are very wrong
God has done all he can do for you by giving you free will, a body , and good health

Is it him that will connect you again,? Are you crippled ?

Is it him that will leave billions of other creatures in creation and come and teach you how to help yourself?

Haba this religion people ehn

He said the obvious, and after all your drift you still end up validating his assertions.
if I may ask, with the good health, free will and body you have, did you single-handedly train yourself through higher institution?
And after your graduation, how did you manage to get the Job you are currently engaged in?
FYI, God is omnipresent he can attend to everybody's request at the same time if they all fulfill the condition, billions to you may look like a big figure but not to God.
You err with your last statement and need to ask God to forgive you for acting like the rich farmer in the bible. Go and read that parable it's there in the bible!

Why na? You guys make bachelors/spinsters fear marriage and abuse married people. Even though I believe in miracles, but this thing demands wisdom na!
If you don't have the means, pls don't tempt God by calling forth children you currently don't have the blessing of God enough to take care of, I suppose this is a normal delivery, what if it was through CS.
Judging by the woman's physical appearance, I think wisdom would have thought them to seek out a way of giving those other five children the best with the help of God.

Don't quote me to abuse them, am just stating the obvious fact!

heniford2:
if the are guilty the court should have dismissed the case the pleaded that the case is a bail case so the case is still invoke till 20th and with what am seeing deeper life will see paper if the case is not settled out of court

Normal legal language and procedure in Nigeria. You will say the same thing if your neighbor take you to court on a trump up charges of defiling her daughter who frolic your apartment. And since evidence will be required to nail you, till then will you want to be remanded and attend court session from behind bar or from the comfort of your home, while investigation is being carried out? Same scenario playing out here, evidence will be required to nail the accused but since it is a bailable offence that is why they solicited for a bail until investigation is concluded. If at the end of the day the accusations are found to be libelous and lacking in substance the accuser will be fined.