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TooNoisy:
Thank you and I like the fact that you mentioned "every single detail". So when the man was in prison for a week, what was her relationship with her boss like? She will go into the office, smile at the man and it will be business and usual? Like seriously? And then she will go into that office the next day smiling at the boss knowing fully well the boss sent soldiers to beat her husband and put him in jail?

To make matters worse, she claims the boss is now acting cold because "she didn't allow him to go beyond kissing". So the kissing continued even when the husband was still in prison and after he came out, because the boss continued to give her money - she offered to pay for a new house. And in her own words, kissing and smooching is not cheating? I wonder what is cheating then.

This woman is a very poor liar, even her own side of the story has so many holes in it. I wonder what we will say if we hear the husband's side of the story. It is very easy for a women to turn a man into the devil - just say that he beat me and the man's reputation is finished. It is even worse in developed countries. But I can tell you, this woman is certainly evil and if I knew the man, I will tell him to run for his life.

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I hp u r married,cos ur comments r so full of condemnation 4 dis woman. U seem 2 b so much in d knw of her actions dan she does! . For all I kia her marriage has issues n it is only normal 4 women who want to mak peace 2 accept responsiblity 4 all d 'misdeeds' in d home, hweva,it is obvious dat THEY both av dia faults. Ordinarily, if it were a man we'd say d woman pushed him out but now cos it's d woman den she is 'evil' 'wicked' etc.plsssssss,lets b more objective wen commenting, if he wasn't cheating on his wife wen he was buoyant why will he suddenly bliev buoyancy will mak d woman cheat? both of dem av falling short n it's now up 2 THEM 2 pick up d pieces n start all ova( dats if dey r willing). D woman shud not force things,its enuf dat he is abusive n she doesn't av 2 bliev dat she must mak sum1 happy @ d expense of her own happiness. It's gud 2 stay married but not 2 die while trying 2 stay married

ndudichukwumah:
Is not true..I have Skool mate that we are 34 years now and she is not married but with the make up and a good paid job u will still see wrinkles on her face ..infact u will think that she is older than me with 5years.
What I think is too much of make up is contributing to why women are looking older than their age

Dis woman u av jst describd is carrying a burden,weda she admits or not, she is unhappy n dat is enuf 2 mak her luk older dan she is. Let her get married n she'll luk younger compared 2 a woman of her age who has bn thru childbirth

sonofananimal:
shut your God damn mouth!

selfish thing you are! where is the money coming from

Who put roof ontop your head!


Who is taking care of the children school fees

Who is providing for the the food you eat everyday

Who is working his ass off just to see you don't lack


But yet you WOMEN claim busy! Busy by what

Selfish creature you are!



If it is stressful! Go ask your father how he see you through your school and even put you to the university where you and your gang practice all manner of RUBBISH but yet complain.



Eeediot

Ur moniker says it all .

schumastic:
i had a strong feeling it will lead to this after you Adler her out and she refused...mean while i poker the fact you made her know your still the boss and you'r in control..don't sack her cus she might use the fact that you asked her out and she refused that's why you sacked her.

instead keep being the good boss you are and this time show more seriousness and less laughter, try not to joke or give her face at all..be strict with the job and put her in her place when ever she mess up.

It's already obvious dat she still juvenile n it will b difficult 2 put her in her place without making her feel she is been victimised 4 saying no,lay her off subtly n ensure u pay all her entitlements.

Thirdly, are u saying girls should marry young? And if so, what's ur definition of young. Cause under age 23/24, most gehs are still in school..... It would be difficult and kinda irresponsible to marry while in school. Just know that education is the biggest thing that keeps females from marrying "young" or whatever....
Still a student @ 23/24

Is dat haus supposed 2 b her personal abode or a tourist centre?

petkruz:
No no no, not sad at all. When u were selling asoebi for 15k and trying to spite all your friends u didn't think u were marrying a monster? U didn't see these signs in courtship? Ok let's say the man hid all these characteristics, why did u allow it get to this? Why filing for divorce now? Or u call that love? You must be a joker madam. You lucky u still have fingers to type, better be wise!

U sound lyk a single OLD lady. No offense please

ssoftapple:
BRO ure a man 4 wanting to make her keep the pregnancy, as 4 her tell her the story of GENEVIEVE and omotola when they both had their first child, that did not stop them from been an acheiver, the child should b a motivation 4 her, after delivery she should go back to school and work hard just to give her child A better life and help d child attain his or her greatness, she should 4get abt what others might say, "she should act like a woman and think like a man.

. U can't place Omotola n Genevive on d same pedestal; Omotola got married while Genevive got pregnant

I dnt knw but I feel dis jst politics. If any1 want Jona dead 4rm d APC camp even if d assailants dnt succeed dey can't get caught! My opinion thou.

SPDAZZY:
True, 98% of yoruba boys are cheats and liars

For all the idiots quoting me and saying trash, I can not stoop so low as to date a stinking Yoruba man. And for your info, I am happily married with a daughter. So I have got no time for nonsense.

I never dated any Yoruba before marriage. I have just witnessed a lot of their trash.

Young woman I may not be sure of d tribe u belong to, but I can authoritatively tell u dat wen it comes to cheating in marriage IGBOS r d worst. They virtually throw caution to d wind. They go as far as bringing d mistress(es) into d home while d wife dare not talk! I leave in an ibo dominated neigbhud n most of dia wives cry on my shoulders. Attitude is an individual thing not tribal, so stop being parochial!

SAMBARRY:
That is a quote from Tony gaskins




For the records, if you have to quote me, make sure you do it with common sense. Thank you


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GBAM! God bless u

Hmmn,politicians!

managermahmud:
May the soul of the 'innocent' girl rest in peace anyway.

Meanwhile some girls now, even after reading this, lesson won't be learnt. Some girls are currently having abortion thoughts now. Note that every soul has the right to live!

INNOCENT?

I can c dat d OP is more concerned abt money rather than d kind of home he wants. Dis jobless lady can not remain so 4lyf n bsides wat happened setting up a biz 4 her sinc u r financially capabl. If she doin her own biz,den u'll always av sum1 2 tak kia of ur home - bt wen u r a 'career man' n wifey a career woman...

Av bn followin dis topic sinc inceptn n I really admired it. I Jst cudn't comment cos even though am in ma mid 30's am married so nt qualified.
I mst affirm dat d chat began very well n it was very captivating until d lead 'artistes' fell out! Am surprisd no one took note of d initial cold war b4 d eventual outburst. Anoda idea i'll nt tak down well is dat Toks2008 delve d 1st blow NO! d 1st came 4rm Siamia,yt I applaud her diplomacy n cautious dictn.
Well I hp Toks did nt gt into troble simply cos he refused 2 settle 4 a lady older dan he is
I dnt blame him though MOST men prefer younger women bt 4 few unusual 'ishes.
Dat bn said,its quite normal 4 gals dat attend single sex schls 2 b vry independent minded n strongly decisive(team FGGC oyo),it doesn't wrk lyk dat in marriage. U mst lower ur bars 'if u r willing 2 remain married' -marriage is nt compulsory though cos it's overrated bt av u tried 2 ask ursef y u r still tryin 2 hook up wit a man @ wateva age? And as much I knw dat it's only d victim dat knows wia d shoe hurts i'll still opine dat ladies r more @ d recievin end cos bliev or not an unmarried lady bcums vulnerabl 4rm age 30.while d men av a beta advantage cos dey can marry younger women!
Finally,dis is not 2 say dat marriage answereth evrything.Yet it's d beta way 2 go in youthfulness - u make all d mistakes 2geda n correct dem 2geda. I don't agree dat older gals r beta,rather @ 30 or 30+ a lady's choice is limited n dat rough guy she outrightly rejectd @ 21 will b considered against all odds!Am saying it as it is! A neighbor of mine jst did dat.Married pple also av dia pains,it isn't perfect anywia,lets Jst live lyf,lyf is intrestin...

We attended a private schl so we dint use it bt mom used it 2 groom us @ home cos she wantd us 2 av a gud command of d language

Dis is very true 2 humans. People av a way of dishing out theories dey can't put into practice in dia own lifes

Literacy n civility @ it's peak...Soyinka d seasoned literarist!

Wch one is inversn n Wch is dipping?pls bail us out!

How do we dip plss?

Shortyy:
Do you need a shrink to tell you that your bobo (i mean baba) is sick? mtcheew. You are the one who's daydreaming. wishing that a mere weak old man will save your already messed up country.

Dia must be Sumthing sick n utterly pessimistic about ur existence. U are definitely bitter about Sumthing probably ur lyf!

May dat plan neva c d lyt of d day! AMEN! #team FEGGO- FGGC Oyo

coldHeat:
The man is the problem.

Its that simple.

A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard.

Only an animal would beat up his wife.
If he loved the mistress so much why not marry her?

I have always said as well that "women may be the source of all the problems of the world, but it is we men that are the problems of the world".

Do your research, any woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman.
We men are the architects of the misfortune that is come upon this world. If we all can act mature for just 5 hours every day I am sure the world will be a much better place.

Imagine if every father was always at home (and not outside chasing another man's daughter in a bid to treat his male organ to a temporary, sensual venture only possible by the laws of oscillatory motion and lubrication found in physics) raising their daughters well to feel and know they are princesses and their sons to always cherish, respect women and treat them like queens, imagine how our society will evolve morally in a few years...

But no, all we have are children who think they are men (because they have large male copulatory organs or academic titles {MD, Phd, Msc, Bsc, MON, HIV,} ) and the world belongs to them living in sheer stupidity, fathering sons and daughters who will obviously out-do their own calculated acts of foolishness.

As men, the future of this world, this eternity, though spotless like a virgin awaiting her first sign of bleeding, is very much in our own hands.

Dis is indeed an epistle,i jst wish we can all view it 4rm dis perspective. If only men can devote tym 2 raising dia own children...we av so many single modas,while some av fadas dat visit weekly or monthly cos it's a polygamous home. It shud b a two way thing,not only d mum nor dad but a balanced setting wia evry1 av a role 2 play!

No matter hw well u try 2 explain,sum ppl av jst blocked dia mind,dey will neva comprehend!

I appreciate d comment above,cos rilly until we let go off sentiments n bigotry we ain't goin no wia! If only we can glance back n try 2 rememba d numba of tyms NOI quarelld wit technocrats jst cos dey were tryin 2 intimate d populace abt d true state of d country's economy. she insisted dat all ws well.den all of a sudden wen she realisd d game ws over - she admittd dat d country is broke! D handwriting is clear enuf,we dnt av 2 insult any1.PMB may av bn slow,however he hasn't lied abt d state of economy;NIGERIA IS BROKE! We dnt nid a soothsayer...

Alhamdulilah, Allah has bn faithful..its a privilege 2 b alive. May d mercy n grace of dis Holy month nt pass us by..amiin

NDPVF:
A shameless he goat that slept with his sons wife.

Na ur sista?

Nikyluv:
The truth remains dat as he wished GEJ unsuccessful tenor so shall his be..

No peace for the wicked....


the truth coming out one by one

Some pple n d way dey think sef. So if d country knows no peace WHO bears d brunt? SMH

Tecnonews24:
This is what u get when elect an illiterate as a president. I guess the baba one chance guy doesn't know the difference between president elect and the president. is unfortunate he surround himself with amajiris. who is gonna remind him?

No matter how ignorant or unlettered GMB is,i bliev he is more learned n better enlightened than ur folks

biafransoul:
You mean Buhari captives have been freed? Hallelujah. I know the God of Gej no dey sleep.

Do u mean his 'god' dat av bn snoring 4 d past six yrs? Well defeat has woken him up finally,HURRAY!