Deathisfree: Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.
I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.
When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.
I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.
December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.
To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.
A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.
Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside
With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street. I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.
my brother ,kindlly and boldly comfront that woman with everything you have. Tell her that if this continues,her hubby must hear this. However,the dont let the guy know for now to save the young mans from hypertension
Because they see it as the only opportunity to get it big from their graduates besides, they assume they are using it to further pursue the academics abroad.
If you had wanted him to speak the truth, you would have threatened him with fuel, trye and matches and watch him start singing like canary. That guy is a menace to the society and he can only learn the hard way. Immediately, I saw that face, I knew for sure that that this boy is a ticking time bomb! May God help him.
jideflash: Lagos state govt and market associations should stop this habit of disrupting commercial activities, starving its citizens and causing loss of daily livelihood to show they honour a person. I wonder why the Malls arent closed, WHILE THE POOR SUFFER THE SACRIFICE.
They should also close multinational businesses not only market. Infact let them add curfew join am sef
UncommonLogic: Why not go back to your evil jungle and spew that rubbish. If you don't like the directive, you can pack and go back to the SADEAST like the Fulanis are moving back to the North. No man's land my @ss. Rubbish talk.
Anna who turned 26 had on February 2 spoke on the challenges she had faced and how her birthday this her will be a reminder of how she has been able to pull through.
21 secondary students were abducted in Kagara,Niger state and 7 Nigerian Combatant soldiers were killed by insurgents and here we are looking at this bunch of disgraceful set of nonentities discussing about bleaching and cosmetics. How did we get here...
Guys, leave this people to their fate! Their politicians that had kept them impoverished did it deliberately. I can tell you for free that they will be seriously upset seeing your selfless humanity to them. It is only when you see them at upper chamber that they talk aggressively especially when they are defending their oga, Mr. Jibril but issues affecting their respective constituences are been swept under the carpet. Guys, kindly finish your youth service and leave that God-forsaking corner and come and develop South where thing dey happen!
Gang90: I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,
It is not her responsibility to wash the sheet.The complain should be channellled to your brother. If your brother didn't tell his gf to wash the bedsheet, I don't see any reason why she should be blamed.
The next thing we will hear from her is how she bought a brand new (tear-rubber) G-wagon.... how she bought/builds an edifice in VGC or Banana island etc.... Our female celebrities always start making it big the moment they leave their matrimonial home and that makes me wonder maybe they were caged when they were in marriage. Watch out for this space.....
@Hottbuff, my dear pray that God will never allow a situation that is complicated befall you in your marriage. Do you think some of those ladies that had gone through broken homes wished for it. My sister, things dey for this life sha
Goco: Just N10K as monthly feeding allowance for 2 kids If u know how much Divorcee's with kids pay in US as Alimony, you head will bend. No wonder Divorce is the order of the day in Nigeria.
Maybe the court also considers the fact that the estranged hubby also set up a multi million naira super market for the woman.
But I feel our justice system ain't even addressing matters regarding family issues to the best of my knowledge. There should be a grace period for any marital issues of which a a professional councillor should be administered to the parties involved to know whether it will foster a reconciliation. Then, if after that process and it is down on the court that it will not work, the system can now temporarily separate them for some months followed by outright separation. We need to review our justice system as regards to family issues. We shouldn't follow everything the westerners do- hook, line and sinker. We are Africans and we have culture and tradition!