Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 2:08pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
KingDash: sure client... you for try mention the site, you wicked. So that all you Yahoo boys will go and take over shebi? |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 2:07pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
josh123: ur husband to be get dog??  Yes he has a pet dog, how did you know? |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 2:06pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
phemmyfour: Dem go soon use this one It is your sisters and female relatives they will use. |
Health › Re: Share Your Experience With A Therapist. by siofra(op): 11:37am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: You don't have mental issues beg...na inferiority complex with a dose of westernized stupidity dey worry you . Go and see a pastor for proper deliverance if not you'll be selling yourself into the hands of Beta-blockers and the likes Mitrazapine ,and amitriptyline. A word is enough for the wise The one who wears the shoes, knows where it pinches. And by the way inferiority complex requires therapy too in case in your narrow mindedness you didn't know that. |
Phones › Re: Whatsapp Introduces 'view Once,' Which Deletes Media After It Has Been Viewed by siofra(f): 11:23am On Aug 04, 2021 |
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Health › Share Your Experience With A Therapist. by siofra(op): 11:12am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Hey guys,
I'm finally seeing a therapist, I realize I have a lot of mental issues I have to look into especially anxiety and I really need to talk to a professional about it, I come from a household where things like this are not taken seriously.
My parents are vaguely aware I'm dealing with these mental issues but they only refer to it when they want to ridicule me or insult me *sigh This has affected my social life seriously, honestly, I don't know how I went from having a bubbly happy personality to this adult who gets irritated by people. I know people suck but mine is so petty my friends point it out.
I just need my positivity back, I'm tired of all the emotional and verbal abuse. 80% of Nigerian parents are very toxic but I don't know why most young Nigerians ignore it and shrug it off as nothing when in reality it affects them so much they grow up and start having all these mental issues and then they start blaming their village people and the government.
Please if you can, see a therapist today if you suspect that you have depression, anxiety, autism, etc if you don't know about them please educate yourself and see your doctor.
Anyway tomorrow will be my first session and I don't know how to act or behave, the mere thought of having to talk about my mental issues with a stranger makes me very uncomfortable but at the same time excited.
So how has your experience been with therapists? Please kindly share. |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 10:54am On Aug 04, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek: Ochuko in Sapele will be laughing now.

Very soon, he will need N50,000 to access $1,000,000 retirement funds. And before I forget he already sent me 500 dollars for my birthday. |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 10:52am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Nonexisting1: With Rozz, she made use of about 20 percent common sense. With Zzor, the already depleted common sense dropped further in value but with this new username, she is now a total stranger to common sense that they can never cohabitate. It's well. What are you even talking about  |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 10:34am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Ishilove: The hustle is real Love is not a hustle  |
Romance › Re: How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 10:33am On Aug 04, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek: Ochuko in Sapele will be laughing now.

Very soon, he will need N50,000 to access $1,000,000 retirement funds. Nah... We video call all the time. |
Romance › How I Met My American Navy Boyfriend, A Nigerian Girl Speaks by siofra(op): 10:28am On Aug 04, 2021 |
 Before you come here and drag me, I know I'm a troll but online trolls actually have lives they live and I'm here to share mine with you guys  You guys, I think I'm finally in ❤️  I just met this navy man online (sorry but I'm not mentioning the site) and he's everything I thing I want in a man, he's kind, considerate, a feminist ally, rich. But he's 20 years older than me but fúck it I don't mind, love is blind  So by next year I'll be going to join the love of my life in the US. Please be happy for me nairalanders, it's not easy. He's not foul mouthed or broke and angry like 80% of the Nigerian male population. Serious wahala for who go date Nigerian "red pille alpha mails" Happy married life to me in advance  |
Romance › Re: Nairaland, The Most Toxic Platform To Be On by siofra(f): 10:15am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Shortyyy: Honestly, This platform needs reform. Like a total reformation. The level of toxicity here can turn a good person into a monster.
I thought Twitter was toxic, but this platform carries the cup honestly.
From tribalism to a gender war, and the worst of it is the display of toxic masculinity from men here. So disgusting. Who raised you all? No respect for the female gender whatsoever. Don't y'all have mothers and sisters at home? Gosh!
I left here because of this nonsense, and I thought by now It might have toned down, but it's become worse.
Please everyone has their cross they're carrying, just cuz a random girl broke your heart doesn't mean you should be bitter. Grow some balls and act right, maybe if you weren't acting like a kid, your heart wouldn't have been broken in the first place.
For now, I drop my pen. Don't forget to patronize me for your handmade footwears.  Have you visited 4chan  |
Romance › Re: I Gets Hard Whenever My Girlfriend Hugs Me For Sometime by siofra(f): 10:14am On Aug 04, 2021 |
O normal nau  |
Romance › Re: How I Was Scammed By A Romanian Lady And The Police Refused To Act by siofra(f): 10:11am On Aug 04, 2021 |
After they will say it's only Nigerian women that like money too much. Rubbish!!! |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 10:33pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
andrew444: Because she is black Because Maria is yellow |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 10:18pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
My Saskay 
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 2:01pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Eyah Beatrice stop crying  you'll still go home. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:33pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Broobembem: I still stand that Love has no manual and script.
Bold of you to think some us will be foolish enough to believe in scientific explanations of love when the best scientists in the world have one way or the other, wrongly falling in love or messed up because of love.
Love has no manual, script, formula, method and guidelines. This is, if atall, it exist.
Face reality and stop trying to act like a deep thinker, stop forcing it.  Love has no manual or script does not mean that when people try to logically explain it you should wave it aside and in your close mindedness dismiss it. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:29pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
 Yes Erica, continue kicking the asses of simps and Laycons |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:24pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
crazymommy: Whatever makes you wet at night...you are welcomed... Rich, handsome, well-built Kiddwaya's dick. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:22pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
crazymommy: Only a daft and low life person will be trolling someone better than him or her...that is not fun...that is stu*pidity.....I am crazymommy...a woman that is allergic to fools... Ehm no, that's not how the internet works. Laycon is an mgbeke and there's nothing you can do about it except insult me, deal with it however you can. Laycon is boring and overrated. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:20pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Broobembem: Love has no manual and script.
Stop thinking you are smart by supporting Yerins, you aren’t.  No wonder they said Nigerians aren't deep, Yerins is just trying to explain how love works scientifically. You say "love has no manual or script" well science is never absolute, it can always be improved on. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:13pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
crazymommy: Laycon has won and he is a millionaire already...he is getting the fame and getting the money.....his life is getting better day by day....you call him a village mgbeke yet he is one hundred times better than you and relevant than you......now the question is we all know laycon,but who are you??JUST A FACELESS MOSQUITO.....move on already...this is 2021...u still carry 2020 matter put for head....anuofia.. Do I have to be something before I troll a celebrity all the people on twitter and instagram that drag and bring down celebrities are they famous or rich?? are you that daft  You sef who are you?? |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:06pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Me I heard Nini o |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:06pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Broobembem: The question is: What is meaningful about it? It helps you understand how love works  |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:04pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Broobembem: Keep quiet, he’s not saying anything meaningful.
I can’t imagine him saying all these rubbish to Sir Dee, Seyi, Esther, Elozolam, Jackie, Anto or Lolu.
Make them use question finish am. How is Serotonin and dopamine the hormones involved in love not meaningful? |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 1:02pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
See intelligent Yerins spitting sense but no they will not see that one, they will go and be hyping that village mgbeke called Laycon  |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by siofra(f): 12:57pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Broobembem: Yerin isn’t saying anything meaningful, but let’s keep pretending like he is. Because you no understand no mean say na nonsense |
Romance › Re: British, American Or Canadian Men Who Are Hotter by siofra(f): 8:03am On Aug 03, 2021 |
Wahala for anybody wey dey date Nigerian he-boons  French-Canadian American men  |
Romance › Re: Ladies Which Of These Men would You Prefer by siofra(f): 9:57pm On Aug 02, 2021 |
The one with the most money  |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men now rank lowest in world's most romantic men statistics by siofra(op): 9:49pm On Aug 02, 2021 |
Jman06: Ehn, but he did a great job here enlightening us on how not to simp to your gender anymore. Kudos to Ubunja. No worry, when it comes back and bite una for nyash...una brain go reset. This alpha life no be for everybody. |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Men now rank lowest in world's most romantic men statistics by siofra(op): 9:30pm On Aug 02, 2021 |
Jman06: We don't care oo. Thanks to the Zimbabwean man Ubunja who started this red pill movement on nairaland. Many of us are now enlightened.
In fact, Ubunja deserves an award! So that one is Zimbabwean, no wonder, Zimbabwean men are very ugly. |