Bro that exactly is a mind boggler: do you know the Reporter was just playing to the gallery with his devil- advocate role. You will ask how I know? Tune to that station and hear illogical praise singing of the same man you think he is grilling . Anyway, we deserve the kind of leaders we get because if you give Abians another opportunity, they'll still vote ikpeazu including the reporter. The black man is almost cursed or should I say blessed with bad leadership.
2007 Abians voted for Onyema Ugochukwu 2015 Abians voted en masse for Alex Otti. Ochendo and Son use Obingwa to rig the election. 2019 there was absolutely no election in Abia.
I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..
Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.
I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.
The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.
She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary.. I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.
I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.
I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..
I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.
I don't think there's more to see. The biggest weakling of the century.
I deal with lots of ladies, non has ever had the guts to shout at me talk more of raising her filthy hands on me. People treat you exactly how you present yourself. I've never laid hands on any lady and no lady can ever think of laying her hands on me because I make it clear to them that in as much as I love and cherish you, I can't take excesses from you. You've given yourself away that you've lost every value you had in her eye. SIMPle man
Metrix147: Political Scientist and philanthropist, Hon. Mkpa Oju Uka has expressed disappointment with the decision of the Senator representing Abia South, Sen. Enyinnaya Abaribe to join the governorship race in 2023, saying it runs contrary to an existing Charter of Equity in the state which allows rotational governorship position.
Speaking on ABN TV's Political Perspective on Tuesday, Hon. Mkpa Oju Uka said Sen. Abaribe, a former Deputy governor in Abia cannot be clamouring for the South-East to be allowed to rule the country in 2023 and at the same time undermine an existing arrangement that allows power to rotate around the three geopolitical zones in the state.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XTBnWHXRpM He said Sen. Abaribe has remained a diehard supporter and advocate of rotational leadership in the state and national level, wondering why he decided to join the race when his Abia South Senatorial District at the moment holds the governorship position.
"He can always express his mind as a politician and as an individual but he knows it's a wrong step to take, otherwise you take Abia back and that will create a crisis.
"For me it's a disappointment. You are clamouring for a zoning system for the South-East to be given an opportunity and it can be you.
"In the other way, even if they don't, you may be the Vice President and you have the capacity to be one.
"Then you're coming back to your state and you are now abandoning the zoning system, the equity system which you have spoken many times passionately about as a Senator.
"That is unbelievable, that you can be advocating for one thing at the national level and going contrary to the same thing at the state level. So it's a joke" he said.
Wealthinwealth1: It has been working for me and IT WILL NEVER STOPPED WORKING FOR ME. Mattew 6:33 seek ye "first" the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and every other thing shall be added unto you. It is a covenant with God, God has never been unfaithful in honoring His own side of the agreement, therefore I am the one that needs to do my own part. Look at those that gave (even though it wasn't easy on them) to God and what happened to them afterwards. 1) Abraham 2) widow of Zarapheth
Simple analogy of why it is good to show your first fruit to God
When growing up and we collect money from uncles, family friends and all (everything might not amount to 1k) our parents tells us to bring it to keep for us, some children will choose to spend theirs saying oooin! it's my money, they squander it in the end WHILE a WISE child will drop his or hers and tell his/her parents I want to use it to buy...most times what we choose to buy with the money is x5 of what was given as gifts, a good parent will add money and get those things cos such child was wise. If an earthly parent can do that, trust me OUR HEAVENLY FATHER WILL GO FAR IN THE SPEED OF HIS POWER TO BLESS US BOUNTIFULLY.
N.B: GOD IS NOT LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLESS HIM, GOD IS LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLESS. whether you pay or you no pay, God is blessed already.
Ask them any of their governor that performed like Obiano.
95% of all these insults against ikpeazu in this thread are all by Yorubas... They will insult any igbo leader that make move for 2023 presidency because they want Tinubu to be there.
Tomorrow they will be shouting southern unity.
I live in Abia and I can confidently tell you that Ikpeazu is a failure not just a failure but an embarrassment to Abia state and his family.
shigishege: Though I'm Yoruba but Hushpuppy own go reach 2035 I don't side criminals unlike my red muddy cannibalistic Igbo brothers from the AfghanEASTERN bush
Must you comment Learn to talk only when you have what to say, making a fool of yourself isn't necessary.
I have a problem and it is paining me. I am a matured guy who know what it feels like to be single and maried .
Most People mock me, but I got married.
We had a baby last year, a corona baby.
I am not ashamed to say that at my age, I am still a mummy's boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife.
When I wanted to marry, my wife Never agreed to having a house close to my mum's place.
I felt very bad but I want to make her happy so we moved far. My mom was angry as she knew my wife forced me.
When my wife delivered, her mum came for omugo instead of my mum, and that made her so sad, that she cried and ask if i am a bastard to let them steal her right.
I begged her. She came for naming and left the same day I noticed way my wife was acting rude too because her mum was pushing her.
I told my wife that mum is angry, let us visit her buy her a gift because her place is now far.
She kept saying that her body is not strong for 5 months after delivery and I thought she took me and my family as fools.
I got angry and slapped her twice. When she saw that I was really angry she begged me.
So we went and saw her we are all happy and settled all.
As my child reached 10 month, I told her to tell her mum to go because she's now strong almost to walk.
Her mum left but my mum wanted to come and spend the holiday as she had never done that since she delivered .
When I told my wife, her facial expression changed. When my mum came i travelled but she didnt cook for her but heat soup that was in the freezer to give her.
My mum hated that and she called me crying that what she did to her she won't do to her own mum .
I pretended nothing happened as I got back I bought things from a eatry for family so my mum left after 2 weeks.
I brought up the issue and she said nothing wrong in giving her food kept in the freezer that she gave same to her mum too .
I got angry and beat her up. I didnt injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all the time she promise to change yet nothing. Because of bad character I refuse to take her to eatry.
Newyorkitis: Go and check your records very well... North Korea is far better than Nigeria in terms of standard of living. At least they have electricity 24/7, they have water and good roads. Life expectancy is higher in North Korea than in Nigeria. In Nigeria we don't have the basic things of life, life expectancy is low and plus all these, you can't complain otherwise, you die.
And we are practicing Democracy. SMH.
Is there a better way to tell us you're stupid than this.
LeslieChow: Though I may not have the full gist but I would not doubt the story. I transferred 100k at once to some someone using the bank and they reversed it. The person later sent me the message Kuda sent saying that they rejected the money coming into his account. That the sender should send the money in bits. Imagine a bank rejecting inflow and asking to receive the money in bits. I ended up transferring the money in 2 tranche of 50k. So imagine I was now sending 500k in tranches, that is enough to flag the account as suspicious even though it is Kuda's fault. Kuda should get their acts together unless they will bite the dust. I kuku don cancel the bank.
CampussNews: A 22-Year Old Indigene of Akwa Ibom state named Moses Ubi who dresses in corporate wears to sell 'agidi' has gone viral on the internet after an interview with BBC News Pidgin.
Moses Ubi is a hawker who plies his trade with a ‘corporate’ style and his strategy has earned him some worthy spotlight. His story went viral weeks ago for dressing like a bank official while hawking food on the streets.
The native of Akwa Ibom state said that he is the only qualified, recognised, and educated person selling educated agidi.
According to Moses, he offers a balanced diet with his food, as it has numerous nutrients in it.
The 22-year-old explained that he dresses well as a part of a grand strategy to attract customers. He added that once you like his dressing, you would want to taste what he is hawking.
Interestingly, he revealed that when he started speaking English as a strategy, his use of the spoken language was not good until he perfected it.
The young man said that the first time he started dressing corporately, he was laughed out by his neighbour but he kept at it because he thought to himself; why should he shy away from something that gives him money.
Originalsly: There is more to this story that OP is not telling us. How long have you lost your job?... and more importantly ... what have you been doing to earn money? (applying/searching for jobs does not put money in your pocket.) As a husband you need to provide for your family. If it is you lost your good paying job .... and was dipping out of your savings to give monthly food allowance .... didn't you expect savings to dry up? I can bet my life your wife been advising you to find another means of livelihood... but you weren't listening because of pride. You know why she left ... and you were warned so why the surprise? You're lucky she didn't leave for another man's house. Personally ... as a man ... you should be ashamed to bring this issue to the public .... and to even consider discussing it with family members ... or even consider begging your wife. You have failed as a husband period. Your children are watching you ... will you blame their mother for not having food on the table? Bro.... man up ... get up and get .... swallow your pride ... sell water or whatever to put money in your pocket and food on the table..... that's the only way your wife will return. You are the one destroying your family. Man up.
I guess you didn't read where he said he has a skill that yields him some money, just that it doesn't come in bulk as it used to. We all know the situation of this country, getting any good paying isn't easy or Do you expect him to rob? Talk is cheap that shouldn't mean you should talk without properly understanding the situation.
Kzinne: This culture is disgusting. This is why out of six female Bank MDs in Nigeria at the moment- 5 are Yoruba women. In the yeast women are clearly relegated to the background while the men do whatever it takes to make money including dubious dealings to make noise and take care of the sit at home trophy dumb wife and children. Disgusting people
richmond500: If she dies nko, is she the first murderer dying in custody? I noticed those who always attack me on NL are Igbos, I must really be a pain to NK piglets
Bring ya head lemme slap sense into it
Must you be stupid Can't you hide your stupidity even if it were for a second.
Oga give her if she’s worth it, she’s gonna be ur wife let her enjoy ur money. It’s better than giving all this crayfish gals especially if she stuck with u when u didn’t have enough. I give my fiancée 25k weekly for meals and sub etc, sometimes more when she needs to make her hair. So u telling her to use last 2 weeks 20k for food sounds somehow boss. My wife will even be coming over on friday for the weekend and still ask me to send money for the week and I’m like but you’re coming already won’t u eat here. That’s just how long time women are especially if they know u can afford it, if u can’t afford it they will know and won’t bother you for that period. Don’t mind all this ones telling u to cancel, see no better woman outside again o I’m telling u don’t start over, chances you will jam Devil with boobs is very high. God will continue providing so u will take care of her cus b4 u decide to marry her she must have shown qualities u like.
Meanwhile my fiancée has a job and earns about 100k Naira monthly, so she can take care of herself when I can’t.
Ok I know all these are lies. You just want to feel good but the good news is that nobody is feeling you.
•‘We are not paid; they said we are freedom fighter’.
“Mazi Nnamdi Kanu also directed us to bury Ikonso with 2,000 human heads but we have killed only 30 so far. I then relocated to Temple’s camp and Mazi Nnamdi Kanu ordered us to attack Orlu Police Division and free our fighters who were arrested and detained there.
Charmingrascal: I keep saying this their oath of secrecy is not really strong. Their covers are easily blown, some of their members they arrested are talking like parrot.
What happened to "Biafra or death"
Those arrested are told what to say. They're not IPOB members.
Politics / Re: T.A Orji Handing Over Key Of A Sienna To Ikpeazu (Throwback Photo) by sirjoe1124(m): 6:02pm On Jan 16, 2022 
Learn to talk only when you have what to say, making a fool of yourself isn't necessary.
I don't side criminals unlike my red muddy cannibalistic Igbo brothers from the AfghanEASTERN bush