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aigjoey:
For this same nasty behavior I just left my girl last week. She has the same attributes and nature of your baby mama. She argues too much.. Nags more than buharis government,,, always right,, talk too much... In fact u can never correct her. The only time we are friends is during sex. In fact we even quarreled at times during sex. She is so some how. Ahhh.. God forbid.. My brother, I warned her, advice her, begged her to change but at d end she refused. Next for me was to walk out before I die young. If I mistakenly married her, I will be beating her everyday and u know the implications. My brother am out of her life for good and already have a girlfriend now who listen to voice of reasoning and homely. Pls run away.. U just cannot cope with her if eventually u two are married. Run o... Run oo

Beey:
You left your gf last week and you already found a replacement? Na wa oh

^^^^ You go fear that kain thing

@aigjoey...this your own get k-leg too. one can't just get a girl to accept within a week except u've bn nursing her before you broke up a.k.a. cheating

Handsomecutepie:
I don't believe this...

It seems she is taking me for a fool

Apply wisdom in understanding the situation. I know some ladies can be tricky, yes ....but the sincere ones would have a hard time sharing that sort of information with you especially if it was more than once. worse case...it might even have been the same person or different risky scenarios

One of Nigeria's top Players, Obafemi Martinz has caused stir online as he posted a picture of himself holding a gun, about shooting it with his team mates. He captioned it 'Always On target, Laser tag with my Teammates'

frinx:
Even with the "laser tag" on his caption people still thinking otherwise.
its a toy gun with laser tag that works with the vest, like paintball guns.

^^^your head is in there

It's called Laser Tag

Laser tag is a tag game played with lasers. Infrared-sensitive targets are commonly worn by each player and are sometimes integrated within the arena in which the game is played.

Laser tag has evolved into both indoor and outdoor styles of play, and may include simulations of combat, role play-style games, or competitive sporting events including tactical configurations and precise game goals.

Laser tag is popular with a wide range of ages. When compared to paintball, laser tag is painless because it uses no physical projectiles, and indoor versions may be considered less physically demanding because most indoor venues prohibit running or roughhousing.

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laser_tag

klassykute:
leaser target

fogunloto:
PaintBall.....

Jaynom:
Paintball

dogice:
The name of the game is called Paintball. The bullets are made of shells filled with paints. So when you get shot by your opponent, the bullet hit you, the shell breaks and the paint splashes on you.

Following the recent attacks that killed at least 36 persons at a market in Madagali, the Adamawa State government is considering a ban on hijab in ‘flashpoint areas’ as part of measures to prevent attacks by female suicide bombers.

Briefing newsmen shortly after an emergency security meeting yesterday in Yola, the Commissioner of Information, Ahmad Sajoh, said government would work with Muslim leaders to take a position that would not infringe on religious rights, saying the fact that the Friday attack was carried out by two female attackers wearing Hijab called for some form of restriction.

He said the meeting which was attended by the military, the police and paramilitary agencies looked at the security situation in the state with a view to taking decisions that would ensure security of lives and property especially as the festive period approaches.

Daily Trust, December 12

henrydadon:


i know this may sound harsh..but maybe it a good thing they did not survive..imagine the challenge they would go through if they survive and tried living in a country like Nigeria they would probably call them posses evil spirit and dump them in a forest ..not to talk of the hospital bills and the stigmatization that will eventually follow their life..this remind me of the case of Abby and Brittany Hensel..who were born in the USA..they never came out into public untill they were 12 year old..they were locked up in a remote area.. two people with different mindset and different brain had to share one body and share one vagina..do you know the horror and frustration living with a condition like that ..it not a life worth living especially in a country like Nigeria ..

Nigeria is a place that shows no mercy especially when one is perceived as different... But I really admire the courage of Abby and Brittany, as they achieved a whole lot so far in the midst of challenges.

Perpetual459:
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driversng is also an option

Let him know that...to apply as a driver, visit www.driversng.com and apply as a driver or send a picture of yourself, your driver's licence as well as ur c.v to recruitment@driversng.com

Ifeshyne:
This is a geometric progression (g.p) with ratio = 2, a = 1 (first number) and n = 64.
we use formula for sum of a geometric progression which is s = a(1-r^n)/1-r


After substituting the values, Final answer has to be in standard form if calculators are not allowed
Something like 2^64 - 1 or even just 2^64

Your head is soo in there.

OP...give her the job sharperly

Genea:
See, I am not against hawking even those marketing on the road are doing corporate hawking. What I am saying is I will not hawk and God won't make me do so. When God gave her breakthrough through dah, i was happy for her and I'm also happy for the lady in dis story, I am not contesting wah they must have gone through, this is just me, I can't hawk or do anything I feel would make me less human, its me and I dunno what works for others but I just can't do it.

Less human...that particular line struck me cz you talk about God yet I see no humility in your words.

Are you saying those that hawk are less human?...or are you talking about just how you would feel.

Either way, we shouldn't look at ourselves as being too big for anything in life. There are people born without a silver spoon that fend for themselves through one means or the other, but in whatever you do, place your work in God's hands and see him elevate you beyonds human understanding.

I know you are entitled to your words and I do understand your point of view, but I would appreciate it better being words of encouragement and advice to her and others in this forum reading this thread to pick up hope and inspiration.

Antina:
What type of proposal is that?

The story is still incomplete, but to answer you...

Deadly proposal...after the lady vexed cz she was already happy that she can now date her side boo, only for old things that are supposed to have passed away to ressurect again...na so she use her car clear the guy to his final destination

Gene Pana They say you like cassava. I get big cassava. Gene Pana My love for you will never die, never die

The guy dey sing his lyrics give am. Take it! Genevieve

Iffa iffa oh baby iffa iffa
Baby you too sweet fajaba
My baby dance to the lagbaja
I go take you to gwagwalada (as she don build house for Abuja)

cao:
SirusX, you should have posted your ad earlier...3 days is rather insufficient.

My apologies that you didn't get to see it in time...it's not my add per say. When I saw it online twas really close to the deadline...so I had to post it in the gaming section, not job/vacancies

@dacblogger
The world works in a very weird way...when you decide to live life in a way that's good, that's when you face the toughest of challenges that try to pull you down or discourage you.

There are those that always put others first, while there are those who feel that until they are okay before they can think about others.

It all comes down to recognizing God's law in showing love to others around you...treating them as you would want to treat yourself.

Good, bad or even in-betweeen...just live life the way it makes you happy recognizing that what you do is based on your own philosophy and principle about how you live your life.

In whatever you do each day, make sure you have no regret for your actions, and don't dwell on expectations of people reciprocating.

Hmmmm....a whole lot of "yes"

It really takes a bad experience to make one regret an action.

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Beamborla:
Linda is rich and can't marry a poor guy, she has the right. It's way different from rich ladies shouldn't marry a poor guy.

The lady counsellor is rich and is okay with a poor guy, it's her choice and she's entiltted to it

Wizkid is rich and can't marry a poor girl, he shouldn't.

That simple

I am not against your opinion on a lady having her choice in a partner, cz I understood what you meant.
What others have been trying to make you understand is more about humility in a woman looking to become a wife.

What got me a little bit worried was the bolded statement you made...that mindset of you forcing your view on someone who hasn't said such would leave someone with the impression that this is how you think.

When you look down on others as less fortunate, that doesn't make you better than them.

Poor is not attractive to even the poor not to talk of the rich.

I'M NOT OUT FOR A RICH GUY. I PREFER STARTING OUT FROM THE SCRATCH WITH WHOSOEVER I WOULD BE GETTING MARRIED TO.

@ bolded...I dunno why you keep saying this.
I am trying to get ur idea on this, but is that a general thought you have when it comes to marriage?

In a person, one should be looking out for the personality/character and how the person builds and complements you.
Rich or poor, no one knows who God has destined to be their partner. We just have to open our eyes and heart to see that diamond in the rough. That poor person might be the one that lifts you up beyond your imagination...it might not be the person's billion dollar idea, but maybe the peace the person brings to the home.

Weird enough, I have heard ladies make your last statement over and over, and many opting out cz they want a life of comfort...but only few good ones see the grace behind a hardworking man trying to make things better for his family.

I have no problem with Linda setting standards...it's her choice in life & one has to be careful about marriage issues.

My wahala is where she says;

''He must be successful, he must be a good man, in the sense that he must be supportive of me, if he tries to stifle me then I’m out. Lastly, he has to be a man that likes sex and must be very good at it.”

How would she know that the person is that good in bed if she doesn't have sex before marriage? Cz this goes beyond looking at the size of sum1's cassava or just plain talking about sex.
What if she marries sum1 that doesn't meet up to her expectation? The issue remains that she needs to understand that no one is perfect.

Marriage takes a whole lot, and it takes a humble lady to know it's not easy being a Hebrew woman. She needs to put everything to God in prayers, cz it takes two to make a marriage work.

Raine80:
Then you are not happy. If I am starting to re-construct my partners attribute with what I view as ideal then I am to some extent not happy with what I already have. But the issue is people are not honest with each other. This is when admiration turns to persuit.

Don't mind my many questions, I just wanted to hear your view on things

So, what if??...one is liberal in communication such that he/she tells the partner a habit/character they admire in another person

As no one is perfect, does one try to change for the partner (saying it's out of love) or just be indifferent (being yourself)?

Raine80:
I can admire another female or a man but that does not mean I have any vested interests (emotional)nor is it sexual. I could admire someone's sense of style, intelligence. Its aspects of that person that i feel I could benefit from.
A crush is is fantasy. You can have a crush and not be in a relationship. The problem is when crushes become obsessions. And that starts to impeded on your actual "real" relationship.

Okay, that's understandable.....but what if that admiration comes with a comparison to your partner. That would sure bring up some other feelings

Raine80:
When you become emotionally invested in someone that you are not in a relationship with you have already started cheating. The moment you start making comparisons,wishing and imagining what could be with the other person. The moment you allow yourself to be tempted and physically react to that temptation you have set your foot on the road called cheating .Being emotionally unavailable to the one you are meant to love because you are preoccupied with someone else ...is cheating. Cheating is is not just sleeping with someone.

I love the thought to your words....but how do you justify admiration?

& secondly, in a case where you're in a relationship with sum1 but have a crush on another based on certain attributes/qualities

After sex....your love for her grew

I'm curious, how do you define love? @StupidYorubaFool

My only problem with the whole situation from the start is why she let herself be in a compromising position?

If the video was the criteria for winning the crown, she ought to have maintained her decency and left...after all, first things first is that she is in school to develop herself to become greater than that crown in future, so why throw it away?

I believe that the parents are the ones sending her to school, so it's a problem when something else gets you kicked out of school before graduation.

This is a welcome development

Brain drain!....well depends on how you look at it

For those that have schooled in naija & abroad you can definitely see the difference. Evrytime there is always news about Nigerians excelling abroad & making a difference, but here in our home country we are not given the proper platform to show our worth and break boundaries/limits.

I know a lot of people that can be more than they are in different fields, but I guess it's all the 9ja mentality. Weird

It's not the people that have a long way to go...rather the system we operate over here

dedons:
Thanks guys.

I can now comfortably go ahead with the wedding plans.

Bia...match brake first.

I wonder what were your issues from the get go...what were the major things that bothered you & got u here in the first place?
Is it just about the age difference...or is there sumthing more to it?

Marriage is for a lifetime & for couples willing to get into it, they should know what they are up against.

It comes with a whole lot of commitment, sacrifice and responsibility.

How much do you know about each other & how willing are you both to live with your differences.
As life might not be so rosey everyday, how do you both handle communication in conflict?
What are your plans for the future? Do you both discuss about goals you want to achieve
Is she the type that you can trust when in school, or are you the type that gets jealous with every friend you see around her?

I could go on with the questions, but be mindful that people change with time...and we all spend a lifetime learning about each other. So, in the end it's not a question people answer for you cz no one knows her like you do... are you both ready for marriage?

Naijatalktalk:
The 33-year-old commercial service manager has maintained her purity for the last 3 decades and is still going on strong. While speaking to The Standard, Rahab said she has kept her virginity because of her religious belief and desire ot please her God.

"I am a born again Christian and I do not want to offend God with sexual sin, sex outside the marriage bond is sin. I want to have s*x, just like the next person, but because I haven't before, it is not a distraction."

She said her eagerness to please her mother and not disappoint her by getting pregnant out of wedlock has made her to continue strong. She revealed that even though she was involved in two serious long term relationship which unfortunately ended badly, she has remained a virgin.

I do admire a lady with principles and values, especially not using her tools to keep a man down in her age, but I believe her reason should transcend her pleasing her mother...more like a spiritual commitment to honor the sanctity of marriage as a bride.

He na BABA FOR THE GIRLS
Make una no make that kain mistake again

@ OP, hope you won't be the type to let loose on your wedding day?

Don't mind me joking, I do appreciate your principle

But as regards marriage, what if you don't see what you want in that virgin you met? Having a life with sum1 goes beyond virginity, it's building a home with some1 who complements you & brings out the best in you

Hmmm....I wonder what his reaction would be if you shock him with false news of a pregnancy.

Seriously though, I wonder if he considers a future with you...or you are just a means of release for the moment. Try talking to him about how you feel about his libido & yours. Love takes understanding & sacrifice...let's see how much of that he has?

LifestyleTonite:
@OP

You've asked a very vital question that over 70% of Nigerian Christians and Muslims can't answer cos they don't have none for it.

Satan rebelled in heaven. He was able to deceive one third of the angels in heaven to follow him. That's about several billions of angels. He questioned God's authority and lied to the angels that they were better of on their own than with Yahweh. He led a revolution against God and wanted to usurp God and mount the throne. He wanted to rule.

Isaiah 14:13-14

For thou hast said in thine heart, I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God: I will sit also upon the mount of the congregation, in the sides of the north:
I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will be like the most High."


Many angels believed in his words as he promised them better than what God gave them. That was how he was able to pull some of them to his side.

Revelations 12:3-4
Then another sign appeared in heaven: an enormous red dragon with seven heads and ten horns and seven crowns on its heads. Its tail swept a third of the stars out of the sky and flung them to the earth.

After he succeeded in pulling those stars to his side, he launched his rebellion.

Revelations 12:7-9

"Then war broke out in heaven. Michael and his angels fought against the dragon, and the dragon and his angels fought back.
But he was not strong enough, and they lost their place in heaven. The great dragon was hurled down—that ancient serpent called the devil, or Satan, who leads the whole world astray. He was hurled to the earth, and his angels with him."

Hmmm....this brings another question to mind
"If angels had their freedom in heaven, does it mean there can still be sin in heaven?"

I'm just asking for the fun of it

Wait...is it the same northern bokoharam that salivate for young young things? For over 2yrs
This is really a change government

Emeonyerichard:
Since Having sex has being justified in the eye of God by the tie of marriage,my question now is, does it seem right for married Christians to watch porn as a means of spicing up there sexual life.?or its a practice which shouldn't be adopted by them..?

Weird enough, couples need a platform to learn a thing or two...& I dunno how best to classify the act of watching porn or even kamasutra as married couples cz from christian teachings...the act of watching is in itself sinful

The issue is that the Bible doesn't have any guidelines on sex, & the most obvious position still remains the missionary.

I guess majority in some way had exposure to explicit actions sometime b4 marriage & that's why @ the mention of a position, people are quite familiar with it.

As Greatzeus pointed out, one of the spouse might become less content with what they are getting in the bedroom (unmet expectation) as they yearn for the feeling of what they saw on tv