It is me that told my boyfie Imoke to do something about it. Anyway you are welcome

























I hope his wife is not a Nairalander o hehehe

eazisky:
Ah... God wan give u cow, then he first give u chicken to manage b4 the cow go arrive, then u vex strangle the chicken, how God go take give u the cow now? patience matters in our lives, perhaps ladies these days are doing better than guys

I wonder where went his concience when strangling a new born baby

this is the most sexist thing i have ever read in my life. Whats so inferior about a female?

bravo269:
thank you. So to enter Lithuania I need a student Visa and not working visa? Anyone in the forum with useful info bout student visa?

you have to apply to a school to study and get acceptance before you can even consider getting the visa. Why dont you take one step at a time?

Emaprince:
You evaded my question. You are preaching karma and I'm asking you if karma is the reason why many women end up with bad husbands. Btw, what respect do you expect me to give to a who.re? Are you mad @sistercaro. So I should refer to a woman that marries and still sleeps around as a good woman? I can see you are even supporting the hoe that your cousin married. Smh.

i did not evade anything. You just showed lack of understanding and i decided not to tackle the issue any further. Any man that marries a good woman and misbehaves will surely have his own consequences to face. Any woman who mistreats a good man will have her own consequences to face.
How you came about me supporting his wife only God knows who you made up that calculation and came up with that conclusion. I made it clear why i told that story but if you so wish to misinterpret it as far as your imagination can take you, thats all on you.

Emaprince:
Crappy story. He impregnated two cheap hoes and ended up marrying one. He thaught he could make a hoe a house wife, but it never works. Btw, the girl must have been dating the colleague before him. A hoe is always a hoe. Forget all the cheap excuses.ven if she marries a gentle man, she will be bored oneday and that hoe in her will be let loose.

So, @ sistercaro, are you saying that the reason why many Nigerian women end up with bad and promiscous husbands is because of what they did in their past. I think this is the msg your post is passing.

How did the other woman become a who.re? With the level of respect you have for women, which in my opinion sounds like its close to none, it would be very shocking to know that you were raised by one.

To be honest i feel like its recklessness on the part of the residents they wil be the ones who fall sick if any disease breaks out because on this.

Why cant people come up together and looks for a more hazard-free way of desposing of their refuse?
Yes the govt may not be doing its job but this is no way to live.

I never reply to any bank email without calling or visiting the bank to clarify the email i got.
Always go to the bank to resolve bank queries

These comments got me laughing. Reminds me of a cousin that i work with.
He used to like forming Mr Hardcore acting like he knew women inside out and no woman can fool him. All manner of things like that. Long story short he got his 2 women pregnant at the same time. The one the whole family knew had a miscarriage and the other girl no one knew of was introduced as his wife to be. Turns out wifey was double-dating him with another colleague but i never bothered telling him because i felt since he thought he was so smart he should have figured it out. Anyway now they are on kid number 2 and i still question the partenity of his first child.
Matter of the story is what goes around comes around. Be careful of how you treat others because you will surely face consequences for it.
God is not blind, he sees your heart and when its dark and poisoned and he gives to you according to what you have.

PDPwayoo:


igbo girl is after illiterate hausa man's money not love........ Dangote is so f00lish to think igbo girl loves him..... and the igbo girl is so stu.pid to think she has chop Dangote's money.... Dangote economy is stronger than Biafra economy.

what did you smoke?

illiad:
Yorubas!


They can bed anything from goats to daughter-in-law.

and your people can kill their own daughters for money

Wetin dey happen?

kilokeys:
maybe he was studying her privates

to give her a nice haircut down there
pubic punk i suppose

let your sister or daughter be the one who is harrassed like that and we will see if it will be as funny again.

SeverusSnape:
Good for her!...Instead of the lady to keep it discreet, She decided to blow it, not considering the kind of person Dangote is( a conservative man).

Let the man marry another lady if possible, This one is a obviously a diamond digger. She's now wearing buqha and hijab, Just because she wants to become Mrs. Dangote.

Go and become second wife to Oshiomole

Dangote being conservative is no excuse she was meant to remain a secret until he was tired of her He just used it to his own advantage

Maxcollins042:
You all know the season that we are in,incase you don't know we are in the farming season and as a Nigerian who understands the significance of the green colour(which stands for Agriculture) in our national flag i had to practice it lol. Was at my farm yesterday, Saturday evening doing some work when this fresh young dude (a bush rat) jumped out from it's hole and believe me,i didn't give it a second thought giving it a chase of its life(lol) and finally he met his demise at the expense of my cutlass,a super Sunday it is really going to be you all are called to table to join me do justice to it. Pictures of it are below (Pls bear with the quality of the image cos a farmer no go carry im big phone enter farm na,haha)#Ambassador_of_Agriculture.

if you roast it for me i will be your gf

henrychubayo:
Please I wish to know, is this Air peace company owed by peace mass transit?

no papa nkechi

guttentag:



Sorry, what sort of complication and what is the cost for over stay

i have no idea but u can always go back to the embassy and ask whats wrong with just renewing your visa instead of overstaying?

What is wrong with this woman, that baby is still too fragile to be dragged along like that. If the baby falls sick she will blame witches in her village.

Another US vs USA fight? Chai

guttentag:
I was given two weeks visa to SA but I intend to stay for a month, please how should I go about it?

dont overstay if you dont want any complications in the future.

justwise:
Stop talking nonsense, i have been to SA more than once, i lived in Zimbabwe for more 3yrs and we do our shopping in SA when Zim starting going down and shops are empty

was this in 2015 after the xenophobia incident? So because have been in SA years back you can tell what the current situation is?

comparing 9/11 to what happened in SA is pure ignorant, in SA a community was attacking foreigners encouraged by their king and Zuma's son while in 9/11 was one-of terrorist attack that killed both foreigners and Americans

it was on news that South African national died too correct me if im wrong. How is it ignorance when in both incident innocent people both foreign and citizens were injured and some died. Did people not move on since the 9/11 attack? Why should we not encourage people to move on since the xenophobia attacks were stabilised? now you know where the pure ignorance is coming from and its definitely not from my end

saying that people are living from pay cheque to pay cheque shows how little you know about jack, who told you that everybody in the west lives like that?

we are not blind to the fact that a good number of you live from paycheck to paycheck for decades and decades but you will come here and paint an African country black

This is the same people who were born as slaves, brought up by their slave masters and still largely been supported by their slave masters.

correct me if im wrong but it is the same slavery that many Nigerians have been subjected to by their government run by black people that made you leave Nigeria to look for greener pastures in a white man's land? Its rather unfortunate that Nigerians in Nigeria until the present day have been subejected to porverty and slavery by fellow black men. Paying taxes for results you never see and going for months and some cases years without pay looks pretty much like slavery to me is that liberty in your eyes?

justwise:
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This is not derailing, things you need to know before going to SA should include area not to visit else you be attacked by some uneducated animals.

it has been declared that the situation has been stabilised. Do u forbid people to go to the world trade centre because it was bombed on 9/11? You are nowhere near SA and you dont know the current situation is it not showing the utmost ignorance to keep talking about something u know nothing of on your behalf? Honestly!

Seriously majority of your live from paycheck to paycheck until Jesus Christ comes reach 30yrs living abroad and still live under someone else's roof. Die have people back home pay for your body to be sent back home.

While those fortunate enough to get mortgages live to pay up that debt and have nothing else to show for after years over slavery in the West. But tell me has any of these hardships your face daily as African men in Western countries stopped you from encouraging others to come over and suffer the way you do? No!

Stop acting like the credit agreements many of you live on but barely can afford are anything better. The racial discrimination your face on the streets and work place.

Yes SA has its challenges but at least most foreign nations who make it out here , still have something to show off for their hard labour. But are you guys in a better situation simply because u live in Western countries where no one on NL can see your enormous unpaid debts you have to keep up with on you average salaries until Christ comes? really doubt that

samtol4:
ah meaning everyone staying in sandton is legal?and everyone staying in township likely to b ilegal?

When you saw the words "majority" and "most" you automatically traslated it to mean everyone abi? You cant really blame your misinterpretation me

his assertion is baseless and ridiculous . "Most attacked were illegal"
ah please don't say what you don't know .

this is exaxtly what happened so i don know what you are on about

justwise:


They attacked Africans living in those areas...illegal or not... they are the easy target

whatever makes you sleep at night. As a mod can we stop derailing the thread and go back to discussing the intial purpose of the thread?
An if you need anymore help with that i will refer to the first 3 posts made my the OP

justwise:


Bear with me SisterCaro, i went to night school, not as clever as you are.

I guess the point i'm trying to make is that the attackers targeted foreigners in general who they claimed was taking their jobs, it got nothing to do with their immigration status.

the areas attacked where those were majority had an illegal status and thats the point i have put across. It was never directed at foreigners in Sandton or Centurion( where most of them would have legal status) it was in areas were you will mostly find those living illegally in SA.

justwise:
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Yes but how do you know if i'm an illegal immigration if you saw me on the street?

i really dont know which point you are drivin at with this...? i already some said who were not illegal immigrants including South Africans fell victim. So i dont see why you want to go over and over again just not to reach a sensible conclusion at the end of it.

Simple English. Aim was attacking illegal immigrants but the end result was even those who do not belong to that category were adversely affected

justwise:


So are you suggesting that those who got killed, injured or shops looted are engaged in illegal activities?

Living in a country without proper papers is illegal and most of the attacks happened to be targeted at most of those in that catergory. That is not to say others who are not part of that category did not fall victim.
And yes some where engaging in unlawful activities including trading without appropriate licences and residing in the Republic with expired visas.

morpheus24:


I hope you are referring to the so called semi skilled who troop to South Africa in search of green pastures and not me directly.

If you follow this thread you will notice that most of the Nigerians looking for information about how to survive in South Africa are of the semi skilled type. They will usually overstay their invites and try to melt into the informal sector congregating in areas popularly inhabited by Nigerians in South Africa but will face Xenophobia and discrimination a lot more because even though they try to etch out a living they will be lumped together and refered to as "drug dealers" where ever they go.

Your so called doctors, accountants, engineers e.t.c are either transferred to SA from their companies, are well to do and can afford to finish their studies in SA universities as professional graduates and secure jobs or have enough money they brought over to invest in good start ups. These ones are not so likely to encounter your Xenos though they will experience some form of Xeno during their stay in the country.

Please no sugar coating.

and thats pretty much what i said lets not spoil it for those for actually want to come to SA with proper papers.

Anyone illegal immigrant will always face a harsh life whether in SA or in Sweden. Those who always enrol in school before looking for a decent job in foreign lands are not idi.ots. People shouldnt try cut corners to making it in life if they are not ready to endure the hardships.

And about being called a drug dealer, like i said Nigerians are labelled everywhere else in the world its something you have to learn to deal with and not be a pussssy about it. Stereotypes are everywhere and thats something u cant hide away from unless you actually stay back in your home country to protect your delicate little ears.

morpheus24:


I have told all of them to come back home. The violent tendencies and Xenphobia of your people will catch up with them one day.


Please stop sugar coating South Africa for us here in trying to deceive unsuspecting Nigerians who are bent on traveling to your country that is a rainbow nation. They would be better of in China, Malaysia, even other African countries cept South Africa.

We need to make them aware of the situation down there so they are fully aware when they do get down there.

if you didnt make it while staying in SA without proper papers it doesnt mean that those who use legit means wont make it.
There are many foreign doctors, entreprenuers, engineers, accountants etc. that have made it without much hustle.

Happy little fellow

Its like asking if a wife takes her husband's money without his consent is it still theft

morpheus24:


You people in South Africa should share the realities on ground for these semi skilled and unskilled people who want to go to that country so they are aware of both the good and the bad side of South Africa. You might be shielded away from these realities because you are able to live middle class and in the suburbs but for them this will be their reality. Thats the advice i can give

Thanks!

unskilled or semi-skilled dont have hopes of overstaying in SA and making it big, life is always hard for an illegal immigrant. Try using the correct channels and save yourself unnecessary headache

MRBrownJ:
@Sister caro
thanks for clarifying that the problem in SA is still there and will take a few yrs to solve.... therefore confirming what i have been saying all along.

the problem with people like you is that you have the audacity to compare any crime around the world with these xenophobic attacks on Africans.i have rarely seen or heard of places where they burned africans alive for no damn plausible reasons, but if you do let me know, i will be glad to denounce these places too. i couldnt care less if they killed Chinese people in Tibet, because i aint Chinese, i couldnt care less if they killed criminals in Malaysia because i aint a criminal, and i couldnt care less if Muslim extremists are bombing everywhere because they kill EVERYBODY regardless if they are whites blacks arabs asians green Christians Muslims Atheists igbos yorubas hausas yankee Nigerians Togolese French Americans Russians women men etc... however i do care when my people (aka Nigerians/Africans only) are targeted for NO REASON WHATSOEVER, and possibly burned alive.

and you even had the audacity to bring slavery lynching to this discussion, as if we should now look at what happened back in slavery days, and use that to justify what is happening today in 2015. where do they find people like you?! well i guess, if i should lower myself and think like you do, African people were sold back in slavery days, so it should be ok for people to be sold today (in 2015), and we shouldnt look at it as abominable atrocities whatsoever, and we should instead travel to these places with a big smile on our faces, pretending nothing is happening? NONSENSE!!!!

we are on a website about Nigeria and Nigerians, therefore if there is any country out there where Nigerians are "possibly" burned alive, SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRICANS, then we have a right to talk about it and possibly denounce these places. you can try your best to make it look like it is nothing, or that it happens everywhere, but i beg to differ.

you clearly have nothing to say on the subject (or dont understand English) when bringing poor points such as serial killers, as if there aint any in SA? (go educate yourself on the +150 SA serial killers); husbands killing their wives for financial gain (as if this crimes only happens in the US?); or people being wrongly convicted for crimes they did not commit (as if this only happens to blacks or in the US?). but hey, if you open a thread on any of the above subjects, i will be glad to school you on that too....but let us not shift the focus away from what is important here: the ONGOING discrimination and killing of innocent Africans in SA, just because they are foreigners in SA. ......... maybe we should accept such act today because lynching of innocent people was acceptable in Tennessee back in slavery days.

i can see the SA brigade has arrived, lol!

you clearly are the one who lacks comprehension because the whole purpose of making those points is to prove that even with the chaos that goes in US people like you would still stay even if it means your salary being neck to neck with debts until you die. Killings based on race and ethnic group exist in the present day in USA is that enough reason for you to denounce US? People like you have been dying poor because you live to pay up your debts, does it make you denounce US? Despite the number of times you have been treated like a secondary citizen in the US by Americans did it ever make you denounce US?

Im just about done having this senseless discussion with you. Going back to the purpose of the thread