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Family / Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by SisterCaro(m): 10:32am On Jul 05, 2015 |
TheYoungRebel:this is what happens when you take advice from people who can hardly keep a relationship. They will want you to be as misreable as they are instead of working things with someone you love. Beware of NL witches 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by SisterCaro(m): 10:28am On Jul 05, 2015 |
charlezok:telling this to your wife instead of asking people who dont know her for help is a much better solution. Don't whine about it, just communicate it to her nicely and see if she will not change her. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: South Africa Or Stay Back In Nigeria, Which Is Better by SisterCaro(m): 10:16am On Jul 05, 2015 |
martyns303:i understand where you are coming from but i dont think thats mecessarily the case. Even people from average families are making it. All you need to do is get further your studies in SA and it may be easier to get employment that way. I know of someone who wanted to use his Nigerian qualifications to get a job in SA. It was quite hard for him. He ended up going back home and came back after about 3years for school and things are better for him now. He is not from a well-to-do family. |
Romance / Re: She Calls Herself The Sexiest And Curviest, Is It True? (pixs) by SisterCaro(m): 9:45am On Jun 25, 2015 |
lovelygurl:a baby develops in her lower abdomen area not her stomach |
Romance / Re: She Calls Herself The Sexiest And Curviest, Is It True? (pixs) by SisterCaro(m): 9:43am On Jun 25, 2015 |
firstEVA:but there are many skinny shapeless and fat shapeless prostitutes that men still patronise |
Romance / Re: She Calls Herself The Sexiest And Curviest, Is It True? (pixs) by SisterCaro(m): 9:41am On Jun 25, 2015 |
I see at least 10 women in SA that look like that on a daily basis, no bleaching and no cosmetic surgeries. Really nothing out of the ordinary about her. |
Family / Re: Wives: Little Or Wholesome Faith by SisterCaro(m): 4:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
ArchEnemy:lol at pastor of your home. 1 Like |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 4:03pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
pickabeau1:it has and thank you 1 Like |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 3:41pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
pickabeau1:i already answered when the 2 become one they head the family as one. |
Family / Re: Kick For Jesus: Ghanaian Pastor Kicks Pregnant Woman In Her Belly (Video) by SisterCaro(m): 3:39pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
thorpido:true |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 3:37pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
pickabeau1:you sit down and talk it out, here the other persons reasons and concerns first. If you still can't agree you can always have a third party who is impartial help you come up with a decision, if there is need to compromise he or she has to compromise for the sake of peace in the home. |
Family / Re: Disrespectful husbands bringing their trash home by SisterCaro(m): 3:34pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Maybe there are his relatives why is the OP so quick to judge. Some people simply have a Spirit of Gossip disturbing their lives. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Kick For Jesus: Ghanaian Pastor Kicks Pregnant Woman In Her Belly (Video) by SisterCaro(m): 3:29pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
thorpido:i have the same annointing on me as well, he will be tapping into it. |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
pickabeau1:A family has a wife and a husband who become one, meaning they both head the family. Decisions are made jointly. You dont take action without consulting or informing your spouse. The little you have you share it with your other half, the problems you face you face them with your other half. |
Family / Re: Kick For Jesus: Ghanaian Pastor Kicks Pregnant Woman In Her Belly (Video) by SisterCaro(m): 3:23pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
If I were her i was probably going to kick him back |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 3:18pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
pickabeau1:explain what pastors mean by "you two have become one" when you get married? Unless you are telling me that marriage is even a union between 2 people where they promise to love and respect each other until death separates them? 1 Like |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 2:28pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
If you look at the number of Nigerian guys that can barely afford to feed themselves 3times a day but can afford spending 24hrs on NL cursing feminists, you will surely weep for them. You cant make a difference in your own life or community but you still expect a woman to be surbodinate to you. Too many jokers out there i tell you 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 2:11pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
lezz: 1.Really explain the dozens of women killed by Nigerian men for ritual purposes? 2.The millions of foreign women married by Nigerian men for papers. 3. The thousands of women scammed by Nigerian men. Romance scams and false misrepresentation cases. 4. The RNs in the USA killed by their Nigerian husbands just to collect their life insurance policy? 5. The number of wives abused and neglected by their Nigerian husbands on NL alone is alarming. This is what they taught you? You definition of respect and adoration is clearly redundant. Lets talk about whats really happening in society not fairy-tales. Or better yet explain why Nigeria was taken of the US Lottery Competition? Do come back and tell me it wasnt because of the fraduluent behaviour of Nigerian men. now get a pen and a pad let me teach you what you never learnt in school:please dont bring God into this because he already said that everyone is equal in his eyes. all of human history is rift in women who used her feminine grace to liberate her community. the bible has Esther, Ruth, etc who used their inherent feminine grace to achieve remarkable deed without pretending to be men.before you school me please note that femininity and feminism are 2 different things with different meanings. Chimamanda is feminine and she is still a feminist. feminism says the female has no difference with the male and wishes to usurp all authority.thank you for this. End of discussion. are women equal to men? they are not. complementing each other doesn't mean equality. men are designed by millions of years of evolution to take higher and tougher responsibilities in societies. A woman's ultimate happiness is to have children and be with them.i dont know which century you are living in but some of us are in 2015. There are female wrestlers, female constrution workers, female doctors, female engineers, female everything. You still want to talk about taking tougher responsibilities. Mind you child-labour pain is at intense and breaking 5 bones in the body at the same time. How many man do you know that are willing to go through such intense pain over and over again? Every other goal of career, intellectualism are secondary to her nature.really and when her husband dies or becomes disabled, holy ghost will come down pay the bills and take care of the children? Why do you think with the African mentality of most black African men, is the reason why Africa is still behind in terms of economy development? You fail to focus on whats most important and you put so much significance in trivial things. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 9:34am On Jun 23, 2015 |
lezz:oh gosh now you are confusing femininity for feminism. Please look up the difference between the 2? Ignorancd is the father of all evil. Beyonce Knowles and Chimamanda Adichies are sucessful married women and they believe in equality for women. Both possess feminine characters, now you why you need to revisit your dictionary to get things straight. If feminism was for the weak i doubt the influence they have in world would be what it is today. It is only to average Nigerian men that being treated equally with a woman amounts to disobdience. If you are secure with yourself you would see it as 2 people complimenting each other. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 9:25am On Jun 23, 2015 |
dinachi: Any reasonable person who read my post can see i never cursed or wished bad on the orginal person i quoted. You on the other hand who does not even know my damn first name just came to attack me because i spoke about whats really happening in real marriages in Nigeria today and for what ever reason unknown to human existence im the foolish one? This is stupid on all levels. Or are you the so called good husbands that curse every woman for speaking the mere truth? Society is better off without you if you ask me. Your own Pastor Chris Oyakhilome was in the process of going through a divorce on the grounds of neglect and adultery. You want to tell me Anita was not practising God's word when all of this was happening? Or she wasnt decent woman? A Ugandan pastor divorced his own wife to marry a girl they adopted and until now people go to his Sunday services every day. Tell me his wife wasn't following the will of God when this happened? You people are funny. There is nothing wrong with seeing the world for what it is, but its quite delusional to see for what ought to be and ignoring what it really is. Take about living in your own artificial world 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 5:59am On Jun 23, 2015 |
lolaredvelvet:i already made it clear that im not wishing you anything bad, dont know why you still made that last point The Word of God is the truth and life i agree, but it has never posted married men from going against it even when he has a God-fearing submissive woman at home, thats the point i made. What is happening in real everyday marriages and what God expects marriage to be like are different things. Which is why i said you still have a lot to learn about life. |
Family / Re: Be Honest!!!. Who's Afraid Of Having An Ugly Baby. by SisterCaro(m): 5:53am On Jun 23, 2015 |
seedord247:eewww never mind. Is that what you do with people pictures? I'm a normal person who want to see if you are telling the truth or simply exaggerating, but you took it to a whole new level |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 5:48am On Jun 23, 2015 |
lezz:call me a pessimist and a coward but in reality we all see the number of distressed wives who do everything in the good book but still have a cheating or abusive or negligent husband. I speak from what i see, i dont talk simply to make myself appear "like a strong character" and avoid whats really happening out there. Unless you want to delude us with the idea that these things are really not happening in real marriages? I have made my point, however you see me for it will not make me lose sleep at night. |
Family / Re: Be Honest!!!. Who's Afraid Of Having An Ugly Baby. by SisterCaro(m): 5:42am On Jun 23, 2015 |
seedord247:i never claimed looking like sunset in the middle east did i? You are shy again? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Build Confidence When Going For An Interview by SisterCaro(m): 10:42pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Do you own Q and A at home, so you can prepare yourself at home. Sleep properly the night before Dress nice and simple for the interview Get there at least 15minutes earlier |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 10:38pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Darkrebel666:marriage should be based on mutual understanding, love, honesty, patience and respect. Age shouldnt be made a priority. Young or older which one ever makes you happy. |
Celebrities / Re: Karen Igho-rakos Shows Off Her Baby Bump (photos) by SisterCaro(m): 10:31pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Wow she is looking good. Its good she settled down. |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 10:27pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
lolaredvelvet: Dont think like im saying this will happen to you. But i have come across women who gloat over their marriage like its their best achievement but things take a wrong turn down the lane. I have a friend married to a good christian brother who follows the Lord. She is a good christian as well. My only problem was he was asking out other women before they even clocked 1year. These women include myself and my cousin. I dont date married men and i have never made myself appear easy to approach. Its not all women who act like women that let their men be a man that get a good husband. You still have a lot to learn about life. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
misssclassy:on point |
Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by SisterCaro(m): 10:17pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Another one again? |
Family / Re: Be Honest!!!. Who's Afraid Of Having An Ugly Baby. by SisterCaro(m): 10:12pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
seedord247:pics or you are lying |
Family / Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by SisterCaro(m): 9:02pm On Jun 21, 2015 |
No its probably a medical condition |
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