eddiebruk:


Yup

where in SA are you?

odobe007:


I dunno... maybe like six month visa,wen I get there I will renew it. Or is that not possible??

if you are using a visitor's visa you cannot renew that one within SA you will have to leave the Republic after a certain number of days.

Usually visas like study, work and business visas will allow you to be in the country for as long as six months without renewing your permit. Normally these can also be renewed in SA when they are about to expire

Please do not depend on friends some people might be stranded and looking for fresh meat to maga.Really do research and plan your trip properly so you wont regret it

odobe007:



at least 5yrs..... just wanna hustle

what kind of a visa are you gonna use?

MPSA:
Nothing special about all the pictures, everything is normal, but nigerians are crazy about normal pictures

there is nothing wrong in seeing normal pic either

NighttWalker:
^^
Just wanna ask of a 'safe' and less violent state in the states where guns and 'airsoft' are very much legal, where you can goto a gun shop pay and have some fun in there, I know I kinda contradicted myself by asking a safe place with guns available to the public. Just want a place to have some military simulation while studying and oh it snows there too

are you an armed robber?

odobe007:
only view no comment ....... una no try ooo

your friends might play you. i have heard of many cases where people are promised to be helped by "friends and relatives" only to get played when the get here. Make sure you have a solid plan you have planned out by yourself.

Your money is just enough but do make sure you spend it wisely otherwise you might just blow off your budget. But how long do you intend on staying in SA for?

What your budget?

A colleague told me about this on Sunday Its so disheartening because Nigerian guy was staying with the guy killed because he didnt have accommodation and he is even a DJ at his school on their radio station. So it has already reached the public?

I will not accuse anyone of anything but word on the streets is that Free State is becoming big in drug trafficking, i could never have imagined this because i have passed through it a couple of times and it seems so peaceful. I I guess you can never know whats happening behind closed doors.

I will not be shocked if the whole thing was to eliminate competition on the streets because there have been several cases of this happneing in that city recently. May the dead rest his soul in peace.

chris4gold:


Are you saying landlord can aswell rob his house?

you can steal something that doesnt belong to you in your own house

Elegantdiva:
Please i need help/ideas on how to handle my boss and Job!

I have been working With him for the past 5-6 months now. Whenever its month end he acts funny (looking for faults, though he has not seen any) he pays me every 13 of each month (He pays 10-14 days after 13) Which has not been a problem.

Recently he said i have not been useful to his company. His company is going down because of me. Now he doesnt want to pay me off or pay me. My people i have prayed and fasted for an improvement, yet nothing. U know why? the services we are into, he is not good at it (people are complaining). Our price is twice higher than others around us. He is not always around. Lastly , He is very rude to clients . The worst of it all, he doesnt want to change rather he thinks am not working hard.

Now my fears, i dont want to stay idle at home( even though my duties are not useful to my career) secondly, He has not givne me my appointment letter.

Pls advice me on what to do. I have lost my peace of mind. i feel less of myself.

Before i forget, The post was for Computer operator but i saw another duty when i came in.

He is simply using you.

These kind of ignorant posts are probably the reason why Nigerian men are the most ridiculed people anywhere you go in this world.

Please don't blame us when we call some of you stupidd because you manage to display it very well everywhere you go. Its not our fault if we ridicule you because you make it easy for the rest of us.

I have been to a few countries and i have been around different people from different countries, races and cultures. i will admit Nigerian men are probably the most self-hating human beings that exist in our time.

I have never seen quite a high level of ignorance anywhere else in the world. I have seen women of all shapes, sizes and facial features in all catergories of workplaces and they usually got there because of their qualifications and ability to do the job and never because of their physical appearances.

This posts is funny but has some form of truth to it.

HungerBAD:


So you are FAT?

im not fat. Im just stating the obvious. Guys want to criticise but they feel they should under no circumstances be criticised, its rather hypocritical.

I say sue him don't hit back harrassment or abuse of any sort in a workplace should never be tolerated.

HungerBAD:
Pastors and women?

What is it about women that brings out the weaknesses in pastors?pastors are not medical doctors, but in Nigeria we have elevated them to a near god status. I hate blaming the victims, but sometimes these women have a blame too in whatever misfortune that befalls them.

There are medical explanations for everything.

let it happen to your sister or daughter and we will see if you will still stick around to pay her medical bills until the solution she already said wasnt found to be found.

Some people are very fond of talking all manner of nonsense until they have been put in the same situation. You cannot even help a beggar you see by the street every day but you always have solutions for everyone else's problem.im sure if you are asked to assist her with your finances until she finds the medical solution to her problem is found, you will disappear from the face of this earth

In the medical field and you know sometimes doctors just give patients certain diagnosis even if its not entirely the case, which only gives people hope that things will change and never do?

While BH is having a party in the North, he dey enjoy yankee summer breeze ni?

Cant wait to see the baby

wagazala:


Suo, why are you so vexed over this issue , are you by chance OP's wife?

im not vexed just decided to expose who you really are insecurity is not cute. Treese is the OP's wife

wagazala:


Imaginary 10 years or not, my wife cooks and confides in men up and down, she will be waking up the next day in her father's house. I didn't marry a wife to watch her service other men.

i wont blame you, it will only be because you are too scared that they are better than you and they can snatch her with ease. You are the only man on earth that suffers with first degree insecurity syndrome

Lol

wagazala:


PS: Been married 10years and I've had my fair share of issues, and I know more will come. I don't put my ish out in public if I'm not ready for different opinions.

welcome to nairaland where people in imaginary 10year marriages encourage other people to break they homes while they keep their own take nairaland advice at your own risk. At the end of the day when you take their wrong advice, it will be your life that will be scattered while they carry on with theirs.

davimiles:
Was only advising a friend

i know for a fact you are the type that will call for World War 3 is someone makes a racist comment about you but you have the guts to go around talking anyhow all in the name of "giving advice". When they start calling you bush monkey you will take out the race card. I feel you deserved the response you got. Seek and ye shall find. Clap for yourself.

Molebs:
Keep your home. If your man isnt cheating on you, breakup isn't an option.
He feels more at home with his friends, discover why and spice up your home to make him look forward to bn home more.
Every couple goes through their share of challenges, manage yours.
All the best.

when he should be the one growing the hell up and being more supportive of the pregnant wife, she is the one meant to keep pushing everything despite the pressure of first preganancy and crazy hormones she already has to deal with? Why do some men get married when they are not ready for the commitment?

Treese i have heard of people who use lemon juice to make it tighter.... Right after sex you pour in a little and it will tighten, but it will be painful.
You could do a little research on it

ladygogo:
How is this the business of the average Nigerian? You people be bringing all these akata problems to nairaland.

because an average Nigerian is still part of the black community

fr3do:
The same black community look down on Africans.

what are you talking about? Are Africans not black people?

MisterLongman:
I Thought niggies says tall slim girls always have the backview of a door........
Tall girls over shorties anyday

so long you can afford a brazilian butt lift or butt implants you can change that door into curvy

tunnamania11:
Watch out for mine with my private jet with the caption " Unsettling NY" .

do you even have bicycle?

I know the girl who prepared this meal is probably called Amaka or Adaobi. I just sense it

TheYoungRebel:

Don't get me wrong. I never said that the op should do anything that would jeopardize his relationship with his wife. And how sure of you if I had been in a relationship or not. You didn't give any reasonable suggestion to the thread being discussed instead you jumped in and started throwing tantrums at me.
You are very rude and disrespectful! Pls learn to be civilized. Its necessary if you must co-habit well with others.

dont mistaken speaking the truth with being rude and disrespectful.

TheYoungRebel:

Hey, halt there. What's your point?

my point being you have never had a solid relationship hence you think its always wiser to throw something away instead of fixing it.