Benblaq:
put cameroun pepper for ha private part wen she is slipin...i bet u..u sef go fear d kind speed she go use run

Thnk me lter

lol you are very wicked

cococandy:
No.

Because she's a maid doesn't mean she's less human than you.
Fine she's bad mannered but you're no better.
I bet if someone of a higher standing offends you, you wouldn't be thinking of nincompoop or thing as a descriptive term for them.
But it's a maid. So How dare the 'thing'?.

You can get her sacked, reprimanded or whatever punishment is befitting for her ill behavior without the less than human adjectives.

i do not ever remember Buhari's status stopping me for calling him a "stupid thing" for his lack of competence. If you think i called her a thing because she is a maid and therefore less of a human being, well thats your own interpretation and I cannot be blamed for it.

crackhaus:
Wait, I need to understand something.

You mean your mother has a maid, and you went visiting...then some incident occured by happenstance regarding where to put the sewing-machine/newspapers, and this MAID in your PARENT'S HOUSE told you to move the sewing-machine (like literally) because she wants to place the newspapers on that very spot.

HOW?

Ever since i left home for varsity my bedroon was sort of turned into a guest bedroom since i only used it like once a year after that. Thing is she started stocking up old news papers on top of my stuff in the room, so when i returned i took the newspapers to her room instead since she already knows that she has to take them to the garage at the end of every week (this pile looked like it was for 4-5months) She was keeping them on my work desk and she was expecting me to remove my stuff im working on off my desk so she could put old newspapers there instead. This really pissed me off and thats why i ended up snapping at her.

cococandy:
But you're calling her a thing. Which means that your attitude is no better than hers.

Looking at her bad behavior, you've no choose than to convince your mother to let her go. She's your mom's maid and you can't send her packing without mama's approval. Just do your best to convince her.
You can't also punish your mom by refusing to send things for her just so the maid won't destroy or misuse them.
Your only option is to get your mom on your side.

Should i have used nincompoop instead?

donbenedict:
I guess u must have talked to your mum severally about her behavior yet she doesn't want to look into the matter right?


Have you ever made a place a living hell for someone before?


One of my wicked aunts came to live with us so many years back, she was just acting like a tyrant.. chei.. my younger brother showed her pepper.

She had no option Dan to leave.

Lol to be honest I do not have time to be plotting evil against her. I am busy trying to plan a wedding and a graduation party in this short time I am home.

I have just figured that I will let her learn from her mistakes and not give myself a nose bleed over it. Even my dad has complained about her continued presence but my mother still wants to hold on because the woman has 3kids to take care of.

My father has been renovating some of his rental property and I have decided to just help out with that instead. It would be great to know that i am helping with something that won't be wasted by some stranger.

donbenedict:
Odiegwu



Dis one don turn fuji house of commotion sotey maid go dey challenge person weh join get house.



Op between two of una abeg who "senior" each oda?

she is a decade older than me but she acts like she has no sense

I recently travelled home for a few weeks and I have been living at my parent's house. My mum has had this maid for 5yrs now but i do not quite understand why. My sister has complained that she uses up the home phone then lies to my parents that my sister used up the credit behind her back. I also figured this out because i have caught her receiving calls on the phone and she forgot to delete her outgoing calls from that phone.

She steals keys to the pantry to take stuff when everyone is not around. My parents buy things in bulk and keep it in the pantry and storeroom and my sister also said that these things vanish mysteriously, from soap, washing powder, toilet paper, cooking oil...almost everything!

Thing is my mum seems too reluctant to replace but we all know that greed has no limits, one day she might actually end emptying the house because my mother does nothing about it. The reason why its really irritating me is because I contribute to my parent's groceries and other house appliances.

Last year i got my mum nice set of stainless steel pots, some with glass lids and the other set with steel lids, most of the glass lids are broken and some of the knobs on the steel lids are loose and some have fallen off. I got myself similar pots and mine are still intact, but my mother's looks like they were bought 15yrs ago. I am at a point where i just want to stop sending stuff if they are just going to allow the maid to do whatever she wants with the stuff.

To top it off this woman is rude, this morning she asked me why I moved the newspapers she was stocking up in the house, and I told her i wanted to put my sewing machine where she was keeping those old newspapers because i was making use of it. This thing had the guts to tell me to move my sewing machine elsewhere because thats where she wants to put the newspapers ( because she is too lazy to tie them up and put them in the garage where we keep the rest) I had to tell her if she had a problem with where i keep my stuff in my parents house, then maybe she needs to move in the rabbit cages outside where she can boss them around instead!

I did not even know this was possible but the fridge door has mould on it and the kitchen cabinets are never properly cleaned unless my sister takes everything out in order for her to actually keep them up once a month. If you do not switch the TV off she will spend the whole day on Telemundo.

This maid keeps contact with one of my dad's sisters that doesn't get along with my mother and I am not comfortable with this at all because everyone in the family knows that this aunt of mine is a busybody. Once she went around telling every relative who cared to listen that my father stole her building material to build his house (what really happened was that her and her husband went broke and couldnt afford building the mansion they were bragging about, so she obviously had to make up a story.) She has also accused my mum of being violent and hostile towards my half brother, funny thing was my mum was the one who actually took my half brother to school and helped him pay for his wedding and honeymoon. And of all the people, this is the person this maid decides to "buddy up" with.

Since telling my mum to get someone else doesnt help, i just figured i should stop sending her stuff, because I am getting fed up of buying stuff for someone else to steal or use recklessly. Honestly i feel like my mum takes this whole "compassionate christian" thing too far, because this woman is clearly dancing azonto on top of her head. Am I being too harsh?

mhizeva:
You are one of those people rubbishing this world.....

So many women will translate that meaning that they have authority even when they cheat... They will start giving excuses and claiming equality instead of being sorry for their actions.

Review your post it lacks any vital form of message

you cannot blame the OP for your interpretation or misinterpretation of what she posted.

Resurgence:


I am emphatic about the health implications.
Not all in life is about just saying I love you I love you. If you truly love someone you will Try make them better than they are and not want to see them hurt. That's what love is. He should make it his duty to ensure she is fit and healthy, for her own sake.

Don't quote people to give dull and foolish response next time. If you can't read inbetween lines just pass.

i don't think it was dull, reason why you avoided answering it confidently

Lol here is something new

Who baby epp?

Resurgence:
If you truly love her then you will buy her sneakers and register her to a gym.

I can only imagine how uncomfortable she feels about her weight.

After all is said and done, how many men have left you and cheated on despite you being slim?

vague:
Sharrap dia! Check ur phone, its not funny anymore I will send you a cake mix u can bake it for urself for me Its late and I will be going to bed soon, check your phone now or forever hold your peace
Why am I being nice sef? Make i report u for derailing this nice thread

Now I am angry I thought you were still in the area. So you have left left? Now you owe me hair products! Forget the cake, I do not know what your friends put in your cake mixtures there hahaha. For all i know I could end up with powdered human intestines

vague:
do not pour sand for my garri I'm a good girl I am sorry I did not say anything, that deep fridge you call u home was not for me I ran away as fast as I could. I know what u are talking about but I was only there for business, I returned to Victoria soon after that. Right now I am back to enjoying weather suitable for human beings I promise to text you as soon as I am back. Lets take it off nl before u blow my cover

Let me blow it small maybe you will behave hahaha. I may be in Sask by the time you want to make it up to me, its too late to apologise. If you want to make it up to me you will have to bake me a cake.

vague:
please show use the number of liposuction, brachioplasty and fat transfer surgeries your mama went for after child birth? you that will make noise over a rubbish phone being stolen from a car, will make noise about women not undergoing surgery that costs over $20,000? You are probably still stuck in 2005 but everyone else know that Kim K is all plastic surgery from head to toe.

Little Miss Born Again you not repented like you promised. What put you off the path of righteousness? I hope what I saw on IG was not true otherwise I am reconsidering being you mate hahaha

Greed can leave you 6feet under, but RIP to him anyway

Single and handsome doesn't pay the bills

UIA04:
How do ladies do it that they exercise still remaining fat but their waist gets slimmer

pear-shaped women naturally lose weight on their mid-section and it usually takes a miracle for them to lose all that junk in the trunk. Some claim flat tummy tea and waist trainers help too, but i think it only works when you are naturally smaller at the waist.

yellowbeauty:
this woman is getting fatter all day.....see her *christian mother*hand

must everyone be skinny and shapeless simply because you cannot be a pear shape?

Sagamite:


You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So your job cannot sustain you and provide you with the life you want?

Then live according to your means. Don't start asking to be given money others made.

You sound like another Lisa Bonder Kerkorian.

A woman who married a billionaire and wants to increase the monthly child support from $100K a month to $500K a month.

For a child she conceived from another man she cheated with.

Shameless women that can't make their own money but think they are entitled to others' money.

well you are the one living off other people's credit cards, you should be the one who is ashamed

Gone are the days when white people used to mock people with big butts, they have started embracing it instead.

BBL and butt implants have also been popular amongst latino and black women as well but the game has reached a whole new level since the Kardashians set the trend amongst white women.

Other celebrities like Amber Rose and even Taylor Swift have joined in. What is your take on this?

Im not trying to be rude or anything but i think people might not be willing to trust you with their money for results if you wear torn tops and you do not have a proportional shape. Thats why you find that most male trainers are usually muscular not anorexic and disproportional. Same applies to female trainers. You need to have a body shape your clients will envy but long to have.

Its also important to look the part, you need to present yourself like someone who can actually afford opening up a gym.

People are motivated by what they say, unless you are willing to get a more curvy woman as a trainer it could be of great benefit to prospective clients. Preferably someone who looks like this.

Sagamite:


You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Don't develop yourself and go and make your own money, be looking for a man to leech on and get his money.

Useless woman.

thank you very much sir I have a job. I do not live off other people's credit cards like you

daretodiffer:


cc Topccy007

What do you mean by used?

I think the word you are looking for is ‘starved'

The excess skin on her abdominal area after she was rescued looks abnormal, from the first pic you can tell she didn't have excess fat in that area. This is something that goes beyond starvation.

tollytexy:
All bkuz of money.. Lord hav mercy.. and thank God this news ain't from Nigeria or else wailers go dey shout yahoo boys or yahoo plus

kpele o shebi they always like blaming people in your profession

DonChippy:
Right now I'm in a position where I'm supposed to be married with a woman and at least a child in my household.
Sadly, that is not the case for me this moment.
I'm fully grown, reached and passed marriageable age yet the idea of keeping a relationship talk less of getting married is such a burden for me.

I'm content with a sort of solitary lifestyle and sometimes make time out to socialize by hanging out with friends or in a bar.

My problem now is I don't know how long I can keep up with this type of life and I'm yet to find a reason to seek a serious relationship that would lead to marriage.

I just don't feel the need for it.
Don't even let me get started with the sex part.
Am I even normal

marriage is not by force if you feel its not for you then maybe you need to stop stressing about it and accept your fate. The last thing we want if for you to marry a woman you are not ready to commit to and continue to live a single man's lifestyle.

You can get a reliable person to take care of your baby while you are at work or you could look for a small business you can start doing from home that could help you bring in some income.

Replace the wife with husband. i will still save my mother, plenty of dees everywhere

souleymon:
where on Nigeria are you op.

move to a better state and don't try to struggle in a struggling country

i do not know what gave you the delusional idea that Namibia is worse off.

Sagamite:


What joint estate?

Do you mean HIS estate?

Or what did she contribute to the estate?

So because women in Nigeria know before marriage what will happen in case they ever have to divorce makes it okay to just accept it?

Typical selfish woman.

i will not argue with you over a matter you have little or no knowledge of anymore.

Sagamite:


You continue with your utter nonsense crap chat.

What is "civilised" about taking someone's money and giving it to another person?

Or you think I amd the type you would use terms like "civilised" because it is done by "whites" and then I would assume it must make sense?

Where is the sense in the nonsense you followed it up with?

Why should the crap you put up there be the choices?

my apologies i had forgotten that you can take a person out of the village but you cannot take the village mentality out of them.

Sagamite:


Me?

She would get what she put in plus compensation for any loss as a result of sacrifice that mutually benefits us. This is minimum and a guarantee.

Then I would add extra's based on how good a wife she was, the goodwill I still have towards her and she has not tried any mess of getting more than she is entitled to. I doubt number of kids would be a factor as long as she has at least one for me.

If all is good, I WOULD be extremely generous giving her my money. It should just be my choice, not the fcking choice of some moronic Family Court Judge.

it doesnt require a high school certificate to know that if you want to do as you please you simply go back to where you came from where rules in society are close to non-existent. I do not know why people relocate to civilised countries and expect them to operate in an uncivilised manner they have always been used to.

Its as simple as this;

1. If you are not the type to be loyal, stay away from marriage. The world will not stop because you are unmarried.

2. When you get married you have a choice to marry in community of property or out of community of property. You also have a choice to have a post-nuptial contract. Its by choice not by force.

3. You can stick to being single, have bastards and only stick to child support if you feel spousal support will be a nightmare. No one will die because you do not have a wife.

Stop acting like people do not have choices. These choices will have consequences favourable and unfavourable. Its as simple as that.