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Some youths somewhere seeing this at the moment are planning to go ritualistic just to get this money.

May we stay safe from desperate people this year!

LegendaryLover:
develop urself and money will be nothing to u. cos it'll be pouring in like crazy.


i lur reading and watching movies. i've 6,000+ ebooks on my laptop (about 49gb worth of books and magazines).

and over 150 movies. not just watching, but watching and learning things.


my hardcopy books library is just crazy.

i attend conferences and seminars. learn skills.

i've several businesses.


But i still learn from people on NL, of cos
after sieving thru toxic post like the silly boy i've quoted up there.


we learn every day. my initial submission was just my little contribution.

My kinda nigga!

Savagethe21st:
Spent it cooking up a beat


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uE0DM2WXazk Hello guys i'm a producer from Lagos in my teens chasing my dreams.It would be a huge blessing if someone checked out my beats and comment what you think or critique subscribe to support me and .Thanks and Godbless.

It's catchy.

Good one son!

Digmygold:
And how obsessive is Ubunja constantly and consistently spreading hate for women? How obsessive is it that he recycles the same dumb write ups with five crap words women, hoe,pvssy, gold digger and redpiller? Thats all.be says.

If Ubunja had kept on mentioning mentioning, Digmygold in all of his posts and Miseducations, I won't bother a bit but you keep mentioning him.

You are the one obsessed with him obviously.

You can also add me to your list of obsessions. Someone would already be taken out of the unemployment market.

ubunja:
here comes another money guy.

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Beta providers are never short, in supply

ubunja:
this is one of my favourite topics. And that Miseducation on green lights is indeed loading...

It would be classic. Looking forward to it.

I visited the thread to see the responses of the pusssy cartel. Not like I was expecting the direct truth from them. I just wanted to see the indirect truth in their lies. As usual, they were silent and the few that dropped comment, deflected.

It was just male comment that littered the place. Nothing to be learnt here.

ubunja:
only if you're not subtle enough.

The trick is to give a green light so subtly it's almost inception. You Give the hint in such a way you implant it in his head and make him think he is in the driver's seat. Instead of approaching him or even talking to him first, you put yourself in his path. If you know his routine and he stays in your hood you are always where he passes. But never alone. And never looking at him. He will soon notice you and if he likes you make the moves. And to remove any idea in his head that you are chasing him you play hard to get. He won't know what hit him.

The master whorè himself

This north no get sense, walahi!

Unfortunately, other regions of Nigeria share in this same type of stupidity, but on different level.

Common law or decree for Nigeria to have 24 hours electricity, dem no go enforce. Na foolish, outdated law with no relevance to life or modern civilization na im dem go dey carry for head!!

oglalasioux:
Yeah. That's 99% of the fraud called marriage. The groom just happen to belong to the 1% that know. He's now free forever.

Stay away from marriage (if you are a guy). You can have any woman you want and as many baby mamas as you want. The only thing you need is money. If you doubt me ask whizkid and Flavour.

Spot on, brotherly!

Funny enough, this is the reality of those romantic fools called Nigerian men. They romanticize and marry hoes, most of the time.

A research in 2017, done by a fertility specialist in Nigeria opined that about 60% of married men are fathering children that are not theirs. That's should send a message to one with sense. But no, these fools won't hear!

MillerJnr:
nice piece bro, it affected Rick Ross too, once you do collaboration with African artist, you loose relevance in the American music industry, #FACT

Nwamaikpe dey wyne everybodi with im typical off-the-grid, sarcastic comments and dis one call am "nice piece" sef!

Ur mumu strong oooo and your brain need hypo.

No carry dis ya stupidity enter 2020, biko!

ericadianas:
Yes, my last name was always my dad's. My mum solely made sure of that.

No, i never stayed with him but we keep communication and visitation.

Then your case isn't as pathetic as the OP's.

My female friend denounced her dead beat father and took her foster father's name, even after she met her at the age of 14. She took the name of her foster father.

She forgave the man but told me that she feels regret having the DNA of a man who rejected her and her mother at birth. She told me she'll go for deliverance to purge herself of any spiritual contact she may have with her dead-beat father by blood. She's Igbo also.

I'm just laughing at the idiots talking about Igbo culture bla bla bla.

If you are a sperm donor to me and you and your family rejected I and my mum for whatever excuse only for you to show up later (not keeping any form of contact or communication the whole time), I'll beat the shît out of you if you ever come in contact with me.

I'm not one to reward bad behaviours like a lot of Nigerians do.

mvem:
Klopp was a household name in Germany from the time of Mainz. I am not taking away anything from Pep but if I need a coach to come and improve an average team and make them winners in the future I will opt for Klopp. Their skill set is different. Pep still remains the most successful and Klopp says it to that Pep is the best manager in Europe..so are you okay now

Klopp, household name in Germany?

D way some of una dey reason ehnnnn...

Where do you put the legend, Jupp Heynckes?

D Klopp that you have all been yapping about won his first trophy for the club 3 years after becoming their coach.

Guardiola, in his second year almost turned your overhyped premier league into a farmers league and exposed their donkey style of football for what it was.

That Manchester City is experiencing a dip in form at the moment is no excuse for you to ever compare Klopp with Guardiola. Klopp knows this and has admitted severally that Guardiola is a coach in a league of its own.

Xda59:
pep had the best players in the world during his time at Barcelona from defence to attack. He only chickened out when jose's madrid caught up with him. Next he went to bayern (where the best players all over germany are harvested) still he couldn't win the champions league. Now it is man city's open checkbook but still pep the fraud could not win the champions league and everything is beginning to fall apart and he wants to chicken and we all know where he has his eyes set on; PSG! yet another open checkbook. jurgen klop is the real deal while pep is a fraud.

This bunch of nonsense can only come from a sewer! God.

I hope you are not a brother to lai Mohammed?

Lies and trash everywhere

eodavids:
I am excessively angry now


How can people be this wicked?

God will punish all evil doers, most especially, the ritualists who have taken over news. Government must work out the possible means to eradicate this wickedness from our societies

Government na the number 1 ritual killers na!

Expecting them to eradicate it is like trusting your money in the hands of a thief!

Louisboy22:
This is what you get when the society is telling you to hustle oh hustle oh imagine if he was not cult in act tomorrow he will go and buy Benz and the society will be celebrating him

U dey mind Nigerians? I'm not even moved by the news. Generally, Nigerians reward evil and bad behaviours and shame good.

If you read through the comments, you'll see some disparage "poor people" with their silly comments, forgetting that it's this disparaging comments that drive some weak-willed fellows into ritual killing

Digmygold:
Poor girl.Rip

This should happen to Ubunja daughter. Only in her case she wont be used for rituals because her destiny of poverty is epic. She will just be murdered and thrown into the sea.

Your obsession with Ubunja is becoming a pathetic one. Seeing that your moniker was created some days ago, says a lot.

It's unhealthy!

Amiteye:
how old was he when he denied the baby he might have been a teen-ager scared for his future, not thinking straight....now he is older, more secure and wiser..you know sometimes with age comes wisdom....... Talking from experience

One can excuse the dead beat dad's behaviour at the time but the way his family supported it, shows that they are all useless.

I don't trust that guy a bit. He should be allowed to meet with his daughter but the daughter should never be allowed to live with him. A guy who disappeared for 16 years would never be as committed to taking care of her daughter as a foster father who cared all these years.

Nigerians reward deliberate wickedness a lot and it's bad.

KIkiofure:
They said since he denied me that they have no reason to accept me.. So I am on my own

Wow!

Trashy family.

It would be a tough one for you, but you'll pull through. You have to take legal steps in keeping that baby as only your own and if you marry a responsible man who is nice to your kid, get him to legally adopt your child as his. Family and customary courts would be sympathetic to you.

Don't let any idiot here deceive you. That he-goat and his useless family will show up some time later to reap where they did not sow. Don't reward the deliberate bad behaviours of people.

Nigerians are manipulative that way.

lozanni:
Very reasonable response.
The irresponsible guy might have been scared stiff as a young man when the pregnancy occured and so was coerced by his family into denying that he owned the pregnancy. As an adult now, he wants to take full responsibility for his past action.
Please meet and discuss with him.

Dude, they really have nothing to be discussed. I'm not pissed at the irresponsible father because he may be scared and naive but to be supported by his family shows that the dead beat father and his family are useless and should never be associated with.

My advice to Biafrareform is to tell his sister to reveal the truth to girl child, let her father meet her and expose the truth how she was rejected by her Father's family. The girl child can make a decision to see her father or completely ignore him (it happens in a lot of cases).

Under no condition should the girl child be allowed to live with her biological father. A sperm-donor father from a useless family that can abandon mother and child for 16 years is not one to be trusted. She's better staying with the people who have shown her love all her life than some random stranger who is relationship with her is spraying cum everywhere.

She may be abused by the new family of her biological father. I've seen this happen a lot. She better stick to her mother and foster father.

Graxie:
Story, he will still have access to the child. Better look for a way to get him involve in raising the child. Once you birth the child, look for child support.

You talk ignorantly and you seem not to understand men.

Do you think you can force a dead beat father to be involved with the child especially when the family of the dead beat father are as useless as the sperm-donating he-goat they call a son?

Kikiofure, if the family of the dad is willing to be supportive in helping you raise the child, it's a good one and if they are not willing, you are practically on your own to raise the child, or give it up for adoption.

Forcing a man who is clearly not interested is a waste of time whether he is financially capable of being supportive or not, is a sheer waste of time.

If you are raising it on your own, perfect the legal requirements to have him bound with your family' s name or the name of your new husband (if he is supportive).

ericadianas:
I actually am a very similar case. When my dad came back I was about 17 and my mum actually told me the whole story and gave me the option to deciding what I wanted. It wasn't easy, it was a lot of emotional trauma but I had to forgive and accept my dad because honestly, life is too short to keep carrying over mistakes.

I honestly feel loads better by letting all the negative energy melt away.

Did you go to stay with dad after you met m?

Also, Is your last name your dad's?

Abudu2000:
Guys are doing wire wire and cc top-up, cashing out billions then some broke idiots come online and say girls and JuJu, I still believe Buhari will win come 2019. Nigerians are the most stupid and gullible humans, worst of all they think more smarter of themselves...

Oohhhh boyyyyy, they never disappoint.

The idiot was voted back in as you predicted

philip0906:
Ma n1gga!!

There are over 4 million beautiful women in Lagos alone. With that in hand and the confidence I have in bedding or dating atleast 20% of these 4 million beauties...NO WOMAN, fit make guyman fidget.

If I cheat on you, I beg you and you don't bulge, I move on immediately to the next beauty. The irony is most times, these women will gladly take you back...but your self esteem, confidence and masculinity has to be over the roof to pull this off. But these pvssy men don't know the trick.

Aswear!

These pûssy men know nothing. You can see how most of them are beginning to "condemn" enshi (the OP) as useless for sleeping with another woman. No wonder the romance section is filled with single, married, rich and broke guys/men, all seeking for relationship advice.

Women seem to handle cheating cases better than men and you'll be surprised that enshi 's babe may not take it to heart the way these stupid men take it when you consider that she has once cheated on the OP before.

ubunja:
the nerve of her to attempt to rile me up is unbelievable.

Lol. What happened brotherman? Share.

I was in a public transport bus and a female passenger started to "bîtch" on other passengers, acting irritable and insulting everyone who tried to confront her. Clearly observing her rude and reckless, nasty disposition, I could sense that she wasn't that tough and may actually be "cheaper" than she thought. I was quiet the whole time.

At some point, she got very irritating, but I did the opposite of what my simping self (back then), would normally do (trying to calm the situation, which would also mean that I was rewarding her bad behaviour.

I gave her a long, piercing stare and she responded immediately with a frown (typical with hookers when they are trying to gauge a guy's confidence). I ended it with a flirty wink (all without saying a word). After the wink, she smiled in awkward way and asked me "Who are you?" And I replied her (in the native language of the region) that "I want to fûck you". I also told her that she was also coming from a sex trip to her fûck buddies that wasn't good and was taking her sexual frustration on everyone around her, all to the loud hearing of other passengers. She smiled and asked me if I could do better than the men she knew.

I told her that I wasn't interested at the moment, then, other male passengers, started to pressure her to give me her number. I was just laughing, seeing her so calm after our conversation (which was what I wanted, as she was so loud and irritating).

We dropped at the same bus stop, and she asked for my number which I gave her. I have no interest in her but it boosted my knowledge of women which I already knew. Never reward the bad behaviour of women, respond to her shît test by ignoring it quietly, or replying with sarcasm or shît test her immediately (women respond terribly, and are usually, confused, when shît-tested too) lol.

Your ability to quickly bed that random lady within a short time after meeting her, is remarkable.

As a man, never feel guilty for your high sex drive. It's a sign of manliness.

You'll do well to apologize but don't over do it. Women react differently to being cheated on if the girl has better looks than them or the guy cheating, has a good game.

Let her go if she decided to hang on the issue and move on.

Toscarel:
Must the Nigerian army be involved in the smallest domestic affairs, nawa ooo when the real gbege come who do we now call ?

can't the government train the police to fully take responsibility for any domestic occurrences like other countries. The only time you see soldiers in a sane country would be during extreme natural disasters, and national threats but in Nigeria the pettiest issues and they would bring the Nigerian army , thats disrespect

I do agree with you but for this robbery, the army had a stake too.

About 4 barracks are not very far from mpape and with Boko Haram suicide bombers always striking at around this time, the alert level around these barracks are very high. Anything from firecrackers to the sound of a gun is bound to trigger attention from the military.

Stupid robbers who chose the wrong location to strike.

uninspired07:
This is a lie. I have all your teaching but it won’t work on any Lagos based Nigerian girl. They don’t give a fvck about all the mind games. They just want to see you doing good. Then, you can apply all the red pill principles.

Women hate losers who are doing bad financially. Ubunja, you’re not a Nigerian so you can never know our women more than we do.

Get off your High Horse is SA & come down here to see that our women are beasts when it comes to money issues. Money is all they care about & not some rubbish red pill strategies!!!

Nigerian girls are not South African or Zimbabwean girls. Our girls are the most materialistic in the Africa nay the world. Get off your high horse!!!

You come off like you have a personal issue with ubunja. I've seen your back and forth banters with him and his responses and his quips laced with dismissive sarcasms to you, is enough to make a respectable man hold his own.

BUT NO, the mangina that you truly are never fails to show up as you are triggered and your emotional rants show that you are just another opinionated loser out there.

Ubunja spelt it to you in clear terms to stick to what you believe in as he isn't forcing his ideas on others. Just suck it up and walk away. You have nothing to prove here.

Ubunja's MISEDUCATIONS were written to inform men on the guise and manipulations that women use on men out there and these manipulations are very familiar to all women across the globe with scenario relatable to African women. So, they are not useless. He gives advice on how to go around it and help men get back their Frame of Masculinity. What you decide to do with the knowledge as a man is left to you.

Back to what you said about Nigerian girls being more money-hungry than other girls on the planet shows that you know nothing about Nigerian ladies (or Lagos girls as you specified), gold digging modus operandi of women worldwide and even, materialism.

He even mentioned year 1 and below girls being the only ones easy to get around and even saying that some are already on In message and Codedruns Guy, get your head out of your narrow minded ass to learn more about the nature of women. You know nothing about these women, walahi. Do you think all the males who come to complain here of their girlfriends and wives are all poor and struggling guys/men? A good number of them have resources (the so called money that you have been yapping about) and still get treated like dirt. Shouldn't that tell you something that money (though, very necessary) doesn't shield you from being manipulated. From your church girl to the high-class gold digger, down to the dirty cheap street hooker, all operate in the same game of manipulations but on different frequency and have ways of being related with, without "buying them" like more than 95% of men these days do when they have no frame, no game and generally, no sense of identity/self worth (Just carrying pènises and money around, calling themselves, men).

Don't be another slave waiting to make money to serve the entitled and undeserving cunts of the sisterhood.

Las las, everybody go dey alright

ubunja:
actually deadbeat baby daddies is also nature at its most ideal. In nature only the females do the baby rearing as the male screws around. Sweet.

Ubunja, your response to her shit test is way beyond classic! Lol.

It reminded me of an experience I had yesterday. I did something as an asshole that I wouldn't do when I was a simping nice guy. It was funny!

fkj950ax:
@seun

Please let's get this okada man's details and celebrate him.

And get it to the relevant authorities.

It should go beyond the usual rhetorics of " God bless you" "God punish the robbers, hospital" etc.

Events surrounding the whole scenarios shows that Nigeria and Nigerians on average, barely celebrate good and selfless people.

We celebrate and encourage evil directly and indirectly. This should stop

osaskywire:
....
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but she never told me point blank that she has a boyfriend not everybody can read meaning into things you know...
right now I don't want to be a 2nd choice ..
already asked her to choose between 2 of us coz I don't want to be string along ..

You and the other dude are both getting played. The babe has more options outside the two of you. Be the man and walk away. No need of telling her about a break up. Just go ghost. If she cares to drop her panties for you, pump and still dump her.

24kmagic:
Just a question oga, you don chop her kpormor? If yes, bravo! But if no, just stick around a little bit, try to chop and then free her.

The problem with most guys is that they don't accept rejection. I'm very, very sure that if that girl had told you she was in a relationship, you still wouldn't let her be. So it's better for her to just give you one fake hope.

I don't care how beautiful or classy a bitch girl is, once you tell me you have a boyfriend, I swear I'm never having anything to do with you as regards relationship.

I no fit chook my preek for toto weh another guy de chook at the same time, except I no know.

You're asking if you should break up with her. The question is, is there a relationship in the first place?

Just fvck that girl commot for there.

We have so many weak/puss! niggas parading themselves around.

Aswear!

The mass media and our women-pleasing culture has turned our boys into soft potatoes. Weak, low self - esteemed wussies. It's sickening.

When I read as a "sharp guy", I always know say na dem: the typical conceited loser who wallows in his mud of ignorance and feels proud about it.

Osaskywire, why force yourself on another human being who has clearly stated that he/she is less interested in you? For ladies, it's worse because women know if they want to Bleep a man, almost within 30 seconds of assessing him on their first meeting. If a woman doesn't give you that mating signal at first sight, and only tolerates you by asking to be friends, you are already in her friend zone. Forcing yourself on her means you have low self esteemed, poor masculine frame and she may tolerate you by using you as her emotional tampon with the Friendzoned boyfriend , President in Chief of her friend zone. Once she gets tired of you, you'll be disposed off and another "sharp loser" would be there as replacement.

Your friend, even said, "Fight for love" - Mumu advising mumu.

There are a lot of things to fight for, as a man - For Pride, For resources (money, career, space, etc), For blood (your family). Love is delusional. Stop letting Disney, Hollywood and Bollywood mess with your head.

Channel your energy into something to improve yourself as a man. Be proud to walk away from someone who sees you as a "spare" and is just tolerating you and learn to make amends in later relationships.

Women are highly incapable of loving men the way men love and expect to be loved.

The truth is harsh.

Y'all should accept the fact that the "system" considers the life of a cow valuable than that man.

Infact, there would have been more lives lost if the cow was shot!

Fûck this country