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ubunja:
That's not how the game goes unfortunately,, If this was the case then Broke women will deal with Broke men. But broke women want rich men cause we're all looking for a partner who brings to the table what we don't have.

Women marry up financially. Men marry up morally.

A broke woman and a rich man works (Cinderella)
A morally pure woman and an evil man works (Beauty and the Beast)

Its easy for men to save a woman from her financial defects but next to impossible for men to save a woman from her CHARACTER defects. No amount of love and money can change a hoe into a housewife.
But it's easy for women to change a man's character defects. With enough love and fidelity from a woman,, even the most brutal barbarian can be domesticated. What's very hard for women to do, is save a man from his FINANCIAL defects. Its an uphill battle against a man's own ego and a woman's own utter disinterest in using her own money to uplift a man.

Exkandayee:
Play frat with ya head,e deh sweet die

heartofcity12:
Hmmn, so true

Safyqueen:
So only Muslims can say ALLAHU AKBAR? Is that what you are saying?

No Muslim is at war with anybody in Nigeria. What you are seeing happening is a western mafians design to scatter the country.

Their target is your enormouse mineral resources. They don't care about your ethno-religio-tribal issues.

If you know you know.

ubunja:
checked the bolded. On point. Many times we mention something but the thread is not ready for it. And we don't talk about it. Then boom one day the topic trends!

This actually reminds me of something....

Back in the day my widowed mother used to rent out one room to people for extra money and we got a varied assortment of individuals live in our house, one of which was a "prophet" who ended up running a healing operation right at our home. People would queue around the house to see him. He called himself a healer. I now specifically remember that most of his clients were women! And I remember he had a younger brother who was his assistant of sorts who used to take those ladies to the bush for cleansing ceremonies. And I definitely remember the young man died of Aids. The understanding was that a lot of these women were sick and came for help and dude couldn't resist asking for the goodies. He hit and got infected.

ubunja:
lol this side we say "Water will stop where it once stopped". female nature is definitely universal.

Can you repost that text on preachers you're referring to.

Skepticus:
It's a reason I don't envy half of these dude "saving" hoes every Saturday.

Make I "burst"people head here, "small". It may sound controversial to the religious folks around here but if you have an open mind, you'll get the crux of my point.

Some, who run to their religious leaders who they greatly admire to pick girls for them (in marriage) would likely be given girls that these religious leaders are tired of banging. The same girls get rewarded for spreading their legs for these religious leaders under the guise of "prophecies " "miraculous anointing" or "working for God". The man who is the admirer of this religious leader is the fool who is being played. These religious leaders would often sponsor the marriage while continuing with his banging escapades.

#InsideLife

Skepticus:
... If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of....

Skepticus:
...Make I offend "lover boys" wey go read dis comment small. Some of the men wey go attend dat ur big lavish wedding with d love of ur life don bang ya fiancee taya and might still bang it after u are wedded (They may even be sponsoring your wedding disguised as gifts or donations from fiancee's friends or family). They are just there to see the loser "LAWMA" guy packing their trash (Not discouraging anyone from marrying though). Just making you see the reality on ground). #InsideLife

ubunja:
On this thing of women not associating their morality with their sexuality here's Instagrammer @kingdreism take on the issue:

" Women don't associate their morality with their sexuality. So a woman in her mind her being a good person has nothing to do with whether she has sex with one dude or fifty dudes. This is the key. They know that YOU associate THEIR morality with THEIR sexuality. Right! And so they play on that. "

If you're on Instagram watch the clip:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cd9AR1jliyt/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

blinking001:
How are you doing bro? Long time man

Dizzyyish:
https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#up

Dizzyyish:
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" - interesting saying, no doubt originating from a woman..

A host can survive without parasite; a parasite cannot survive without host.
A man can live without woman; a woman cannot live without man.
The host might think it can live 'healthily' with parasite, but in actuality, the host would be better off without parasite.
The parasite might think it can live without host---a self destructive thought---interestingly, its very means of survival involves slowly stripping the host of its life force (its 'life' comes at the cost of host's).
A parasite cannot feed off another parasite. It may share a host but that is unlikely because that means less 'nutrients' for it.

To emphasise on this, here's an old saying about women:
"Women understand women, and they can't stand each other." To further emphasise this, here's a guest appearance from MNDY:
For you to know how terrible they are, they don't like themselves because they know and understand their own ways. Hence they want to avoid suffering problems and troubles they can cause for each other. So they hate each other and would rather make friends with men.

Very mischievous and in recent times, they have become very shameless too. They are adult-children. The Bible groups them with children so the best way to be dealing with them is to play with them and be stern with them respectively.

Martinez39s:
ME: why can't a man hit a woman when she is physically assaulting him?
BLUE PILL FOLKS AND CLOWNS: a man is stronger. The strength difference is large.
ME: based on that logic, prime Mike Tyson shouldn't hit me if I hit him?
BLUE PILL FOLKS AND CLOWNS: erm, erm... erm... error404.

asogo1:
Interesting days ahead. I'm enjoying this. Who game 4 dis 2023 movie 'The Nigerian elections'

Martinez39s:
SMH.

Miracood2:
Hahaha

All this talk about the rage stage got me reminiscing about when I was about 12yrs old.

For real I hated women at that very age and I kept telling my cousin brother that I'll never get married in this life.

Growing up and getting more knowledge on how the female nature works, my mind set is gradually changing and I think I'm going to get married but the intending bride is going to undergo a whole lot of strict scrutiny.

Afrobasic:
True, I must have mixed the redpill with Blackpill unknowingly, as my attraction to women is overshadowed by my disdain towards them.

Regex:
Long time brother.

PrinceOfLagos:
2023 is surely gonna be an interesting year

Truvelisback:
If una dey find front Page, na so una go dey compose funny story. How did both of u got to the same place to write Wae and got into the same room together? Since u claimed that u have been resisting her sex. All these lies are unnecessary just to get Front page.

posty56:
plus, there's was a boy in the background pointing that the girl is 13 while the the boy she was riding is 10, how the media tagged this a rape case is marvelling ,

Zabiboy:
Anyone following this alleged Rape case
Nigerians never disappoint, them don rush call am Rape.. Some even saying you shouldn't watch or share the video because they know if you do, you'll not see anything related to rape..
Let me not talk much, be the judge yourself

https://twitter.com/uchedark/status/1515998656243159043?t=HRRq8408IX-L44EG5fMoiA&s=19

It might be taken down soon tho

Astoria:
If the government refused to develop the region
And continue, the marginalization and injustice
The youth that's what coming after us
And it will be more brutal, than what we have done
Calling me a monster, calling us fake
No way, no way, no way

Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
We're from the block where it rains
Where we create barricades
Keep opposition away
That's why we are strapped with the K's
Don't get kidnapped from your place
'Cause it could happen today
Not knowing how to behave
That is a sign that you make
Just lose your life what a waste
Your body found in a lake
You bleeped around
And the fisherman found you drowning for days
You know we come from a place
Where people smile but it's fake
How could they smile?
If you look around they are surrounded by pain
I've seen the sky turn to grey
It took the light from the day
It's like the heads of the state
Ain't comprehending the hate
That the oppressed generate
When they've been working like slaves
To get some minimum wage
You turn around and you blame
Them for their anger and rage
Put them in shackles and chains
Because of what they became
We are the monsters you made
Calling me a monster, calling us fake
You make the Minotaur, the dinosaur wake

Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
No way, no way, no way
Calling me a monster, make no mistake
That there's only so much that you can take
La-di-da, doo-di-da-di-doo-day
We are the monsters you made
I bet they thought it was cool
Probably thought we was fools
When we would break all the rules
And skip them classes in school
Because the teacher dem teaching
What the white man dem teaching
dem European teachings in my African school
So Bleep dem classes in school
Bleep Mungo Park and the fools
That said they found river Niger
They've been lying to you
Ain't no denying the truth
See what I'm tryin' to do
Is draw the line for the mothers cryin'
we're dying as youths
Come walk a mile in my shoes
See if you smile at the truth
See if you digest your food
That's when you might have a clue
Of what the Bleep we go through
Your fucking lucky if you
Live through the day, better pray
that God always staying with you
Ain't fucking safe any day
the reaper'll be coming for you
We need a change and it ain't no way
I'ma take an excuse
My niggas finding a way
Or fucking smile in the grave
This is the price that you pay
We are the monsters you made

Calling me a monster, calling us fake
You make the Minotaur, the dinosaur wake
Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
No way, no way, no way
Calling me a monster, make no mistake
That there's only so much that you can take
La-di-da, doo-di-da-di-doo-day
We are the monsters you made
Since we met your people five hundred years ago
Look at us, we have given everything
You are still taking
In exchange for that, we have got nothing, nothing
And you know it
But you just think that this is over now?
Over where? Is it over?

ubunja:
It better not be true....

Hotspotbro:

Dannnn:
When it comes to issues of marriage, I keep hearing people say "choose your poison(woman) wisely".
My question now is; why do you want to even poison yourself at all? Abi poison don dey sweet now?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
The bolt driver should calm down first

She might call back to apologise....at that moment you called her maybe she just want feel like a big girl, feel Cool, Sexy, Smart or Stylish or feel fly in the presence of those boys..or if possible to show to those boys that she is loyal to them
Nobody knows....
just wait she will call back..

She will call back and apologise..and you will be surprised bolt driver and the baby girl will become friends

kingthreat:
At this times in Nigeria, we need strong leadership. People of strong character to make strong decisions to move the country forward. To me, Osinbajo is just like Jonathan. A good man with some good principles, but his willpower cannot stop the security challenges of the country. El-Rufai once said, you do not expect that a bandit who makes 1 million naira from a kidnapping deal to actually settle for a monthly stipend of 40k. We have to get to the root of the problems and take some strong decisions like "No to payment of ransom" no matter how harsh it may sound.
Now with the corruption going round in Nigeria, do you think Osinbajo can thwart the cabal to favour the people? You need a leader with some strong mind like Trump to do that and to hell with consequences. My idea of a good leader for Nigeria in this trying times are:
People-focused
Strong will (No negotiation with terrorists or separatists)
Economy
Charisma
Strong character
Non-partisan
Sorry, Osinbajo is just an intelligent man. But to make things work in a frustrating Nigeria, I doubt so. I will take Peter Obi over Osinbajo. He has more action. But Obi needs to show his no-tolerance for Biafra amongst other things.
Nigeria is at the verge of a frustrated youth population, ineffective security architecture, food insecurity, economic downturn, etc. We need someone who can improve on all these.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram u be real Gee!



although some people just grow up to because MUMU men AKA the SIMple guys...


most of those guys did not grow up the hard way or them no Underground STREET levels..


because na AKAMU and MILK Dem drink till Dem grow UP..


some men na AKA big babies.. those once don grow up but Dem still be MUMU, na only der body grow but brain no grow!



but waiting I know b say, if I Facebook or JAM any nigga and the nigga wear beads for fashion, Na to use my old KALA take BLAST BLAST em INTESTINE pure for ground b4 people go begin ask waiting happen!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!